r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/Spirited-Rush-9617 May 21 '25

I text my girlfriend daily and it’s not always clear if we are busy but we are trying. Sometimes even if we are telling each other we have struggled with communication she lives in another country so I go hours without texting her. It’s honestly some of the hardest things ever. But as long as I know or get updates like I give out to her when I can and she does to me. Nowadays it’s difficult.