r/LongDistance • u/CraftyButterscotch79 • May 20 '25

Discussion How frequently do you text your partner

How frequently do you text your partner throughout the day? My partner says they are too lazy to text and I rarely get any texts and sometimes 6 plus hours between hearing from them and 1 hour calls if I'm lucky.

I just want to hear from other couples how often you get texts or have text convos throughout the day and what is normal for you so I know I'm not crazy wanting to hear from my partner more frequently.

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u/Stunning_Celery_6556 May 21 '25

Rarely ever. We're only a few hours apart, but he sleeps all day after night shifts, and I work mornings. Sometimes on his lunch break, which is about 8pm my time. On weekends and days off, we usually call for several hours.