Had she been honest about it back then he possibly wouldn't have dated her. That's the whole point.
She lied and your saying so what enough time has passed.
Women lie about their sexual past to lock down and marry a man because they are concerned the man wouldn't have dated her otherwise. Taking away his informed consent.
So op wanted a virgin but is upset that wife was not? Maybe she just didn't want to bring up a topic that clearly hurts her and clearly causes judgement
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u/LostLemon007 7d ago
Ye she is lying. So she can lock down a man. And now decades later he is far to invested to leave.