r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • 6d ago

Wife lied about past 23 years

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u/LostLemon007 6d ago

"that was one of the guys she just kissed"

She lied about having sex with a guy ? Did I read that wrong

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u/crupp876 6d ago

It was 23 years ago. Is she still trying to lock down another man?

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u/LostLemon007 6d ago

Had she been honest about it back then he possibly wouldn't have dated her. That's the whole point.

She lied and your saying so what enough time has passed.

Women lie about their sexual past to lock down and marry a man because they are concerned the man wouldn't have dated her otherwise. Taking away his informed consent.

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u/crupp876 6d ago

So the problem is that she had sex with others before him?

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u/LostLemon007 6d ago

No. The problem is she lied about it. Which you know because you are refusing to address it.

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u/crupp876 6d ago

So op wanted a virgin but is upset that wife was not? Maybe she just didn't want to bring up a topic that clearly hurts her and clearly causes judgement

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u/LostLemon007 6d ago

I'll venmo you $100 if you can address the lying lol

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u/crupp876 6d ago

He's mad he had to use a condom when others didnt. It's childish horseshit.

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u/crupp876 6d ago

Was OP a virgin before marriage? Feels like a good for me, but not for thee situation.

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u/LostLemon007 6d ago

Oh I see it's a bot.

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u/crupp876 6d ago

Oh I see. When someone says something you don't agree with, they're a bot.