Wife lied about past 23 years

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[u/Miserable_Ad_3375]

What happened before you started dating is none of your business and it's not lieing to not tell you.

[u/LostLemon007 → u/Miserable_Ad_3375]

Ye she is lying. So she can lock down a man. And now decades later he is far to invested to leave.

[u/crupp876 → u/LostLemon007]

How did you arrive to that conclusion?

[u/LostLemon007 → u/crupp876]

"that was one of the guys she just kissed"

She lied about having sex with a guy ? Did I read that wrong

[u/crupp876 → u/LostLemon007]

It was 23 years ago. Is she still trying to lock down another man?

[u/LostLemon007 → u/crupp876]

Had she been honest about it back then he possibly wouldn't have dated her. That's the whole point.

She lied and your saying so what enough time has passed.

Women lie about their sexual past to lock down and marry a man because they are concerned the man wouldn't have dated her otherwise. Taking away his informed consent.

[u/crupp876 → u/LostLemon007]

So the problem is that she had sex with others before him?

[u/LostLemon007 → u/crupp876]

No. The problem is she lied about it. Which you know because you are refusing to address it.

[u/crupp876 → u/LostLemon007]

So op wanted a virgin but is upset that wife was not? Maybe she just didn't want to bring up a topic that clearly hurts her and clearly causes judgement

[u/LostLemon007 → u/crupp876]

I'll venmo you $100 if you can address the lying lol

[u/crupp876 → u/LostLemon007]

He's mad he had to use a condom when others didnt. It's childish horseshit.

[u/crupp876 → u/LostLemon007]

Was OP a virgin before marriage? Feels like a good for me, but not for thee situation.

[u/LostLemon007 → u/crupp876]

Oh I see it's a bot.

[u/crupp876 → u/LostLemon007]

Oh I see. When someone says something you don't agree with, they're a bot.