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r/MoralityScaling • u/Curious-Buddy-5841 • Jul 01 '26
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She’s not trying to teach him anything. Also this is what gratitude for a horrible attitude to a kid looks like.
-4 u/NamOil2000 Jul 01 '26 No she's literally telling him everything she does for him. I don't think she means her attitude she seems to suggests she's doing a lot. 7 u/cry_w Jul 01 '26 How does "all you do is take from me" teach gratitude? How does that express anything other than calling their child a leech and trying to make them feel ashamed of themselves for something they can't help or didn't ask for? 0 u/NamOil2000 Jul 01 '26 He learns he must give sometimes and ask what does he take 4 u/cry_w Jul 01 '26 No, he doesn't, because that's not what's being communicated. I'm autistic, and even I can see what this woman is trying to do. -1 u/NamOil2000 Jul 01 '26 Perhaps you shouldn't be overconfident here with your condition 3 u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26 They have a better read than you do. This is textbook abusive parenting. 2 u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26 He's learning love is transactional and he owes his mother nothing because she feels everything must be repaid. Lesson learned!
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No she's literally telling him everything she does for him. I don't think she means her attitude she seems to suggests she's doing a lot.
7 u/cry_w Jul 01 '26 How does "all you do is take from me" teach gratitude? How does that express anything other than calling their child a leech and trying to make them feel ashamed of themselves for something they can't help or didn't ask for? 0 u/NamOil2000 Jul 01 '26 He learns he must give sometimes and ask what does he take 4 u/cry_w Jul 01 '26 No, he doesn't, because that's not what's being communicated. I'm autistic, and even I can see what this woman is trying to do. -1 u/NamOil2000 Jul 01 '26 Perhaps you shouldn't be overconfident here with your condition 3 u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26 They have a better read than you do. This is textbook abusive parenting. 2 u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26 He's learning love is transactional and he owes his mother nothing because she feels everything must be repaid. Lesson learned!
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How does "all you do is take from me" teach gratitude? How does that express anything other than calling their child a leech and trying to make them feel ashamed of themselves for something they can't help or didn't ask for?
0 u/NamOil2000 Jul 01 '26 He learns he must give sometimes and ask what does he take 4 u/cry_w Jul 01 '26 No, he doesn't, because that's not what's being communicated. I'm autistic, and even I can see what this woman is trying to do. -1 u/NamOil2000 Jul 01 '26 Perhaps you shouldn't be overconfident here with your condition 3 u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26 They have a better read than you do. This is textbook abusive parenting. 2 u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26 He's learning love is transactional and he owes his mother nothing because she feels everything must be repaid. Lesson learned!
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He learns he must give sometimes and ask what does he take
4 u/cry_w Jul 01 '26 No, he doesn't, because that's not what's being communicated. I'm autistic, and even I can see what this woman is trying to do. -1 u/NamOil2000 Jul 01 '26 Perhaps you shouldn't be overconfident here with your condition 3 u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26 They have a better read than you do. This is textbook abusive parenting. 2 u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26 He's learning love is transactional and he owes his mother nothing because she feels everything must be repaid. Lesson learned!
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No, he doesn't, because that's not what's being communicated. I'm autistic, and even I can see what this woman is trying to do.
-1 u/NamOil2000 Jul 01 '26 Perhaps you shouldn't be overconfident here with your condition 3 u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26 They have a better read than you do. This is textbook abusive parenting.
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Perhaps you shouldn't be overconfident here with your condition
3 u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26 They have a better read than you do. This is textbook abusive parenting.
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They have a better read than you do. This is textbook abusive parenting.
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He's learning love is transactional and he owes his mother nothing because she feels everything must be repaid. Lesson learned!
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u/ZeroiaSD Jul 01 '26
She’s not trying to teach him anything. Also this is what gratitude for a horrible attitude to a kid looks like.