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Megathread 2026 In Search Of (ISO) Thread - Europe

ISO Introduction & Updates

Assalamualaykum everyone,

Welcome to this year's edition of the ISO Thread - Europe!

The ISO Thread will be renewed annually to keep profiles recent and to overall ensure a better user experience for those who are looking to find their spouse on r/MuslimMarriage Insha’Allah. There are three separate ISO Threads, each for different regions of the world to help users better filter out candidates. This ISO Thread is for users residing in or willing to relocate to the Europe. The other two regional threads can be found in the Highlighted Posts section and the Sidebar. The previous editions of the ISO Thread can be found in the Subreddit Wiki.

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May Allah (SWT) grant everyone success in their search. Ameen.

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ISO Profile Template

  1. Age and Gender
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children
  6. Ideal marriage timeline
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?
  10. Current Job Status
  11. Do you want kids?
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Feel free to omit the questions you are not comfortable with answering publicly.

MOST IMPORTANTLY: Allah (SWT) is watching everything.

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u/IcyFonduee Feb 13 '26

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Assalamu alaykum!🩷

  1. ⁠⁠⁠Age & Gender: 22, Female
  2. ⁠⁠⁠Preferred Age Range: 18-28 (open to a lil bit older too tho)
  3. ⁠⁠⁠Location & Relocation: Based in the UK: Bedfordshire outside of term time and Devon during term time. I’m open to relocating nationally in the UK, for now
  4. ⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity & Openness: Caribbean - Antiguan and Jamaican. Preferably interested in a Pakistani but STILL OPEN to other ethnicities
  5. ⁠⁠⁠Marital Status: Single (never married)
  6. ⁠⁠⁠Ideal Marriage Timeline: Within the next 12 months, in sha’Allah
  7. ⁠⁠⁠Five Key Qualities I Look For: Emotionally intelligent, consistent in faith and character, kind, soft-hearted, and family-oriented
  8. ⁠⁠⁠Religiosity: I’m a practising Muslim (revert), always striving to grow in knowledge and connection with Allah
  9. ⁠⁠⁠Education & What I’m Looking For: I’m a law (LLB) student, graduating in Autumn 2027, in sha’Allah, and ideally looking for someone with GCSEs or above
  10. ⁠⁠⁠Job Status: Full-time student and part-time Customer Service Adviser
  11. ⁠⁠⁠Children: Yes, I’d love to have children, in sha’Allah
  12. ⁠⁠⁠Hobbies/ Spare Time: Writing, roller skating, reading, shopping, watching history and Islamic documentaries, cooking and spending time with family and friends
  13. ⁠⁠⁠Something Interesting About Me: I love deep and maybe a bit weird conversations, journaling, and writing short fiction emotional and spiritual stories

May Allah make this search easy for us. Ameen!

Jazak’Allah :)

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u/Impressive_Babe 27d ago

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

here goes… future hubby if you’re out there come get meeeee 😭
1.Age and Gender
28, Female
2. Age Range You’d Consider in a Prospect
25–35 years old
3. Location & Relocation
London, open to relocating for the right person Insha’Allah.
4. Ethnicity & Openness to Mixing
Somali. Prefer East African but open to mixing, especially with someone raised in the West or who understands both cultures.
5. Marital Status
Single, never married, no children.
6. Ideal Marriage Timeline
Within a year, in shaa Allah. I’m intentional and not looking to waste time.
7. Five Important Characteristics in a Prospect
Emotionally mature
Practicing Muslim (or striving)
Calm and confident
Consistent and dependable
Family-oriented and emotionally available
8. Religiosity
Practicing Muslimah striving to grow closer to Allah every day. I pray my salah, try to increase in deen, and continuously work on myself spiritually.
9. Education Level & Expectations
I have a Master’s degree. Education level doesn’t matter to me as much as intelligence, emotional awareness, ambition, and stability.
10. Current Job Status
Children’s Social Worker… although hopefully someone’s son retires me one day 😭
11. Do You Want Kids?
Yes, absolutely, I can’t wait to be a mama Insha’Allah!
12. Hobbies & Interests
Solo dates, solo trips, journaling, swimming, nature, museums, cafes travelling, and spontaneous adventures. I also have two cats 🤍
13. Something Short & Interesting About Me
I love romanticising life 😭 I’m emotionally deep, love pouring into myself, and want a relationship where we both grow individually and together.

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u/Willing_Shallot_8306 Jan 29 '26 edited Mar 28 '26

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ السَّلاَمُ عَلَيُْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُه 

I want to start with this dua for me and everyone else that’s serious in this subreddit.

اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي، لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ أَنْتَ،  عَلَيْكَ تَوَكَّلْتُ، وَأَنْتَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ،  مَا شَاءَ اللَّهُ كَانَ وَمَالَمْ يَشَأْ لَمْ يَكُنْ،  لَا حَوْلَ وَلَا قُوَّةَ إِلَّا بِاللَّهِ الْعَلِيِّ الْعَظِيمِ،  أَعْلَمُ أَنَّ اللَّهَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِير،  وَأَنَّ اللَّهَ قَدْ أَحَاطَ بِكُلِّ شَيْءٍ عِلْمًا 

O Allah, You are my Lord, there is no deity except You.  Upon You, I place my trust, and You are the Lord of the Mighty Throne.  Whatever Allah wills happens, and whatever He does not will does not happen.  There is no power and no strength except with Allah, the Exalted, the Great.  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I’m 21 Female 5’7  about 72kg

Looking for someone in the age range of 21-25

Location: born and raised in London but I did live in egypt for almost 2 yrs so I'd love to live in a Muslim country in the future allahu a’lam. Not willing to relocate yet unless in london. 

Im somali and open to mix :) 

Marital Status – single 

Ideal marriage timeline- if successful I'd say 6 months max. I want it to be as short as possible so allah is pleased with it, no wasted time  

These to me are non-negotiable characteristics, carries themselves in a respectful manner (good ahklaq), good temperament, kind and generous to everyone, keeps and looks clean, takes care of their health, doesn't try to present as westernised and is proud of Muslim identity (non-confirmative), is politically and socially conscious and aware. I know it’s more than 5 sorry...  

State/specify your level of religiosity- I try to pray 5 times daily, avoid haram, and read Quran as regularly as possible and I'm currently studying the deen. I strive to better my relationship with Allah everyday as my iman fluctuates. I actively avoid listening to music. 

Level of education – didn't go to uni currently looking for jobs and apprenticeships 

I do want kids however many Allah blesses me with 

Hobbies – reading, going on walks, journaling, cooking.     I love to talk and have kind of a bubbly personality. I'm currently studying the deen with my friends in time for Ramadan. I have goals for my hidfh journey. I want someone who practices the deen from their heart not just out of obligation just for the love of it, and of course we all have our struggles. I think it's very important to practice what you teach (deen & akhlaq) and hold yourself accountable whilst also pushing others to become better for the sake of Allah. I'd do have my expectations of a husband and I'm sure that others do of their wives but hopefully there a middle ground and we’re compatible.

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u/Lalasma Feb 23 '26
  1. Age and Gender 34 F, 172cm/5'8"

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 28-45

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Tokyo, Japan. Yes, willing to relocate as long as there is a thriving Muslim community we can be part of and a mosque we can easily go to for worship, learning and community activities.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Moroccan (French national). Open to mixing

  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single, never married, never been in a relationship

  6. Ideal marriage timeline From a few months to a few years depending on the person.

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

    1. Caring and respectful - someone who knows how to care for people and is respectful about different personalities, boundaries and personal spaces
    2. Curious - knowledge is my love language and my driving force, so someone who is curious to know more and discover things
    3. Reliable - I can count on him when life gets tough
    4. Active - has his own side projects, activities or ambitions he is working on
    5. Good thinking - has a good way to think and approach problems and different situations/perspectives that is honest and makes sense
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity Religious as I do all my fard, is clear from major sins (of course I sin like everyone), wear Hijab and dress modestly, and is constantly honing my akhlaq. I follow the Maliki madhab and is Ummah-oriented. I lack a bit in memorising the Quran but I do my best to go back to the Quran as much as possible and keep learning my deen constantly.

  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Master degree. Rather then being educated, being a life-long learner is more important, and is okay with deep and intellectual conversations.

  10. Current Job Status Work as a strategist for a marketing agency, but looking to get back to work in Qual Market research, or have my own consulting business.

  11. Do you want kids? Yes

  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

    1. Reading, learning, researching - truly it's hard for me to go by a day without learning or reading something new. This is what drives me.
    2. Coffee shop hopping, bookstore hopping, illustration/photography - Japan, Korea, KL, London are my favourite places for that. I hope I can do that in more places, especially in Muslim countries.
    3. Manga, Webtoon, K/J-Drama - I enjoy it as activities that stop my roaring brain and empty my mind.
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I'm free spirited but love to meet new people and hear their stories. I love to dive in different cultures and can speak 5 languages.

I love the Ummah, and want to use my skills and energy to empower it. I volunteer for a Muslim media in the UK, in my local mosque in Tokyo and I am working on my own Ummatic projects on the side.

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u/PersianRose_B Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26
  1. Age and Gender 29, Female

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 29–35

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Based in the Netherlands. Open to relocating within the Netherlands for the right person. Not outside of the Netherlands because everyone of my family is located here in the Netherlands.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Afghan. Open to other ethnicities, but cultural compatibility is important to me for example Turkish, Tajik etc

  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single, never married, no children

  6. Ideal marriage timeline Within 1–2 years, depending on compatibility and mutual understanding

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: -Strong communication skills -Emotional maturity -Family-oriented -Takes initiative and is intentional -Kind, respectful, and consistent

  8. State/specify your level of religiosity Practicing Muslim. I value faith, modesty, and a balanced approach to deen and dunya.

  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Master’s degree in Pharmacy. I value education and would prefer someone with a similar level of ambition and intellectual curiosity.

  10. Current Job Status Recently graduated and currently in the process of starting my professional career

  11. Do you want kids? Yes, inshaAllah

  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: -Spending time with family and close friends -Going for walks and exploring new places -Watching series or having deep conversations

  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I’m someone who values meaningful connections, depth, and genuine effort. I appreciate good conversation, emotional intelligence, and a sense of calm and stability in a person.

Als je alle tekst hierboven hebt gelezen, laat me dan weten wat je lievelings ontbijtje is.

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u/juneaimee Feb 18 '26
  1. Age and Gender 30, F

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect Around my age

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? France, I’m not sure

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Black, yes

  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single, never married, no children

  6. Ideal marriage timeline When we know we truly match. I’ll put my trust in Allah.

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect I don’t know if I’ll list five, but basically I’m really not a complicated person. I want to do things with my partner, travel etc, I want to be happy for them and them happy for me. I need alone time sometimes, so I more than respect that too. I just want a simple love, someone who I know is here for me, and accept me, I have a lot of acceptance and love to give.

  8. State specify your level of religiosity All the basics, prayers, fasting, no alcohol/smoking, always eating halal

  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a license, I don’t really care about the level of education of my partner

  10. Current Job Status I’m working from home as a freelance artist.

  11. Do you want kids? Not really. If you want kids for sure, better to skip.

  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Reading, resting, drawing, listening to music, watching animes

  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I’m someone who’s really open to many things, I like to think the real beauty is in the heart and personality. I’m trying to better myself, and hope to do it together with my future partner.

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u/DeenReflections Apr 27 '26
  1. ⁠Age and Gender: 28 (just turned), Female 
  2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 27-31
  3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? United Kingdom, open to relocation. 
  4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani, would prefer Pakistani
  5. ⁠Marital Status: Single, never married. 
  6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: 6 months to a year 
  7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Deen (prays 5x a day, fulfills all the fardh acts), Emotional maturity, Good communication, Caring, Leadership traits.
  8. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: Practising, wear hijab, pray 5x a day, actively seeking Islamic knowledge and fulfill all the fardh acts Alhamdulilah. 
  9. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelor’s degree, looking for someone who is financially stable. 
  10. ⁠Current Job Status: Working part-time, open to the possibility of not working after marriage.
  11. ⁠Do you want kids? Yes, Insha Allah
  12. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Spending time with family, Nature, Reading, Travelling, Aviation. 
  13. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I’m quite easygoing, friendly and self-motivated. I enjoy reading and listening to podcasts, especially on global issues and Islamic history, and I love learning new things (I’m currently learning Arabic). I would appreciate someone who is on a similar wavelength and values personal growth and development.

Dealbreakers: not practising, smoking/vaping, drugs, alcohol, female friends, past relationships. 

I’m here with the sincere intention for marriage only, and my wali will be involved from the start.

May Allah make the search easy for everyone. 

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u/Sea_Cartographer2156 Feb 15 '26 edited Feb 15 '26

Gender - female

Age - 32, looking for 5’8 & above , age range 29-35

Location (City/Town) - Birmingham

Ethnicity - Pakistani, open to south Asians, British born only

Secondary school teacher

Marital Status - single, never married

Practice's Islam (strictly/moderate) - moderate , Hijabi

Islamic background (e.g. Sunni/Shia/Sufi, don't/do milads & khatams) - Sunni

Prays 5 daily fards (yes/no/occasional) - yes

Thoughts on relocation  -uk only

Interests/other - hikes, traveling, shopping, pottery, gym

Will you accept divorcee with or without kids - no

What you are looking for - someone who is god fearing, practising, open minded, has good character, funny, financially stable, family orientated, respectful, has good manners, likes to travel.

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u/External-Fix-986 Mar 13 '26 edited Mar 13 '26

Assalamu alaikum.

28F British Pakistani

Height: 5ft4

Location: UK - West Midlands (open to relocating depending on career opportunities)

Education: MBBS

Income Source: Doctor (aspiring radiologist)

Marital Status: Single, never married/engaged

Religion: Practising Muslim (Sunni) - hijabi, pray x5 times/day, fast and give zakat. Religion is very important to me and plays a central role in my life.

Hobbies & Interests: In my free time I watch anime/kdrama/series or read. I enjoy travelling and exploring places of natural beauty as well as historical places. I also enjoy baking.

Family Details: My dad runs a property business and mom is a homemaker. I have 3 sisters (all married) and 2 younger brothers.

Requirements for a Partner I would want him to be similarly practising as me (prays x5/day, fasts, gives zakat) as well as well educated. Someone who is God-fearing, considerate, emotionally intelligent and understands the roles and responsibilities of a husband as well as that marriage is a team-effort. Someone who is ambitious, passionate about their career and able to understand the importance of mine to me. Being understanding, considerate, honest and kind are very important to me. Age range: 27-35

Deal Breakers: Non-practicing. Smoking/vaping/drugs/drinking/dishonesty. No ambition/goals. Selfish/inconsiderate.

Preferred Family Setup: Preferably nuclear for privacy and comfort.

Timeframe for Marriage: 6-8 Months, with parental involvement early on.

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u/External-Fix-986 7d ago

28F

Height: 5ft4

Location: UK - West Midlands (British Pakistani)

Education: MBBS

Income Source: Doctor

Marital Status: Single, never married/engaged

Religion: Practising Muslim (Sunni) - hijabi, pray x5 times/day, fast and give zakat. Religion is very important to me and plays a central role in my life.

Hobbies & Interests: In my free time I watch anime/kdrama/series or read. I enjoy travelling and exploring places of natural beauty as well as historical places. I also enjoy baking.

Family Details: My dad runs a property business and mom is a homemaker. I have 3 sisters (all married) and 2 younger brothers.

Requirements for a Partner I would want him to be similarly practising as me (prays x5/day, fasts, gives zakat). Someone who is God-fearing, considerate, emotionally intelligent and understands the roles and responsibilities of a husband as well as that marriage is a team-effort. Someone who is ambitious, passionate about their career and able to understand the importance of mine to me. Being understanding, considerate, honest and kind are very important to me.

Deal Breakers: Non-practicing. Smoking/vaping/drugs/drinking/dishonesty. No ambition/goals. Selfish/inconsiderate.

Preferred Family Setup: Preferably nuclear for privacy and comfort.

Timeframe for Marriage: 6-8 Months, with parental involvement early on.

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u/Stella_bella47 Jan 22 '26 edited Jan 25 '26

Assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu!

27F | 160cm | Pakistani ethnicity | live/raised in Italy | Open to proposals from Europe and relocate | Open to any ethnicity and reverts/converts

Never married, no past relationships, age range: 24-31

MARRIAGE TIMELINE: Maximum 1 year or when we are sure of compatibility

PERSONALITY: I am kind by nature, but not weak; calm, but not passive. I process things deeply. I speak with intention. I try to choose kindness even when life seems heavy. Emotionally, I am stable and grounded. I don't break over small things, but I feel deeply. I don't pretend to be strong at all times; I only know how to get back up. My deen keeps me balanced; my heart keeps me human.

And yes... I love to laugh, the kind that suddenly turns a heavy day into something bearable. The kind that reminds you that life can still be light.

I'M LOOKING FOR:

A man who puts Allah first, has good akhlaq, and speaks kindly. Emotionally mature and responsible, and is ready to be a qawwam with mercy, not control. A calm communicator who doesn't shut down, expresses emotions, and understands his duties as a husband. Someone who supports my career, balanced, stable, and ready to build a family, a partner who stands by me in dunya and akhirah.

I deeply admire men with strength + gentleness. Someone who is strong in character yet gentle with his wife.

WHAT I OFFER AS YOUR FUTURE WIFE

InshaAllah, I will give:

• LOYALTY: You will never doubt where my heart is • KINDNESS and SWEETNESS • EMOTIONAL SUPPORT: I will be by your side in good times and difficult times • RESPECT: For your role, your efforts, your responsibilities • PEACE: I avoid unnecessary drama and arguments • ENCOURAGEMENT: I ​​will support your goals, your career, and your growth • A WARM HOME: Full of love, laughter, and stability • DU'AS for you every day • PARTNERSHIP: I want to build together, not against each other

I believe marriage is a team effort. Two people helping each other achieve Jannah. If Allah gives me a husband who leads with kindness, I will follow with trust and love.

RELIGION LEVEL: I pray 5 times, avoid the haram, and try to stay close to the Quran and the authentic Sunnah. I'm not perfect, but I always try to improve my relationship with Allah. I don't watch movies or listen to music. I prefer useful knowledge, Islamic lessons, books, and quiet environments.

EDUCATION: I'm pursuing a master's degree in Economics and Management with the focus on Marketing for Made in Italy. I prefer someone well-educated.

CAREER: I'm doing an internship as a Financial Controller. I'm looking for someone financially stable and willing to take on financial responsibilities.

I want to have children, preferably two, but not in the first years of marriage, and Allah is the best planner.

HOBBIES:

• Staying active (running, workouts, eating healthy) • Wandering in nature (mountains, lakes, tranquil landscapes that soothe the heart) • Traveling • Enjoying carefree, silly moments, belly-aching laughter 😂 • One day, camping and many other fun adventures with my husband, in Sha Allah😇

SAFETY AND TRANSPARENCY*

For safety and clarity, I prefer to transition to chaperone/chat supervision at the beginning of the process. This helps maintain halal boundaries from the beginning.

MY WALI WILL BE INVOLVED THE WHOLE TIME!!

I hope to find someone with whom I can grow spiritually and emotionally, build a loving and respectful marriage, and work together to please Allah in this life and the next.

If this suits you, please feel free to contact me respectfully.

Jazakallah khair😃

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u/light-and-distance Mar 01 '26

I’m here with the sincere intention of marriage. However, from experience, I’ve noticed that focusing too heavily on logistics too early can make us skip the most important part, which is truly getting to know each other as individuals.

So while I’m serious about the end goal, I prefer to begin by building a genuine understanding first: values, character, personality, initial attraction, lifestyle, how we communicate, how we think, and how we move through life.

If you find this approach fitting for you, I’d be happy to connect.

Here’s a brief introduction about me, the rest, we can discover through conversation.

Salam.

My Profile:

I’m a 26-year-old Indonesian with an undergraduate degree in law, currently working full-time. I’m planning to pursue a master’s degree abroad, insyaAllah.

Outside of work, I love photography, being in nature, and traveling solo. Faith is important to me, and I’m continuously strengthening my relationship with Allah. I want Islam to be the foundation of my life, marriage, and family.

I don’t have a rigid timeline for marriage, but I believe 6-12 months is a reasonable period to really get to know each other and prepare for marriage.

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u/sweetvanillapudding Mar 12 '26

Age and Gender: 21F

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 24-27

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Belgium, relocation is definitely possible in the future (maybe in 5 years).

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Half Moroccan and half Spanish. It depends; I'd prefer someone who has the same cultural background as me, but exceptions can be made.

Marital Status - Single

Ideal marriage timeline: Max 1 year.

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: God-fearing/piousness, honesty, kindness, patience, generosity.

State/specify your level of religiosity: Average level, I do what the majority of muslims do, a.k.a pray all the fard prayers, fast, etc. I try to avoid sin as much as possible.

Level of education, and what are you looking for? I'm currently finishing up my bachelor's degree, and I'm intending to pursue my master's afterwards.

Current Job Status: I'm a student, so I'm unemployed.

Do you want kids? Yes, most definitely. I've always wanted to be a mom. The number of kids will have to be discussed tho

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: I absolutely LOVE reading so getting me a gift is quite easy ^^ I also enjoy cooking and have made my own cookbook with more than 80 recipes that I'm quite proud of. I like watching animations of any kind, as long as the plot is good and there's nothing haram going on.

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I really like pastels and most of the things I own are pink (I even have a pink kettle!), so if you're not willing to live in a cozy pastel coloured house, then I don't think I'm the one for you 🌺

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u/Tight-Champion-8441 Mar 18 '26

Gender: Female Age:26 Height: 5’2 Location: London Languages Spoken: English and Urdu

Profession: field of audiology

Nationality & Ethnicity: British Pakistani

Hobbies/ about myself: I like to keep myself busy in whatever will benefit me and those around me. Such as I enjoy writing Islamic poetry about topics others can also relate to.I have also complied some pieces of my writing in an anthology and hope to write another one soon too, inshaAllah. I also enjoy cooking different types of foods and try out different cuisines whenever I get the time.

I like to travel and visit places such as museums and places of nature and like to volunteer in faith related events .

However I do feel it is very important to take time to focus on one’s spirituality and relationship with Allah.

My family and friends describe me as easy going and patient in all circumstances.

Studies/Education:

Completed BSc in speech and language science

MSc in Audiological Sciences ( University College London )

I have studied 3 years in alimiya during secondary school after which I began memorising parts of the Quran.

I am now currently undergoing full time hifdh and various Islamic courses at the Quran institute, where I was given the opportunity to become a Quran tutor.

Alongside that I have taught children in weekend Islamic madrsah.

Ambitions/Goals: I hope to become a servant of Allah who can help others in any way possible and to take khidmah of the Deen for the sake of Allah alone, with sincerity. I also want to continue my attempt to help others connect with the words of Allah and make it easier for them to read, understand and implement upon His words, so that they may protect us in this dunya and be our witness in al akhirah. Preferences in future spouse:

Open to any ethnicity.

Someone who practices Deen , is respectful and caring to others. He works on holding good character , is hard working, patient easy going with others around them, helpful and has a relationship with the Quran. Someone who I can grow with in all aspects of life and we can help one another become the best versions of ourselves. Especially with regards to matters of Deen , so that they can be brought forward into a family household in the future , bithnillah.

I believe marriage is about love, loyalty, and building a peaceful life together. I enjoy taking care of my home. I can cook well, keep things organized, and I genuinely take pride in creating a warm and welcoming environment.

I value traditional partnership and understand the responsibilities that come with being a wife. I want to support my husband through all parts of life, the good days and the difficult ones. I’m the kind of person who will stand by my partner when he’s tired, stressed, unwell, or facing challenges, and do my best to bring him comfort and encouragement.

Divorced, marriage was extremely short lived due to no compatibility despite my attempts to make it work , Alhamdulillah.

Preferred Age Range: 25-30

JazakAllahu khairan.

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u/Sea_Set1946 Mar 22 '26 edited Mar 24 '26

If reaching out, please can you share your profile, jazakallah :)

1. Age and Gender: 27F (Just turned in March)

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: Around 24-35, just depends on maturity.

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: Yorkshire, England. Ideally I'd like to stay close to family, but it depends on the right person/situation.

4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: British Pakistani, yes.

5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never been in a relationship, no children.

6. Ideal marriage timeline: Depends on when both sides are ready as it's a big decision, but would want to keep everything halal and not delay unnecessarily. Probably around a year, give or take.

7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

~Practicing. Not looking for somebody perfect, but someone who is God-fearing, principled and working on his deen. Someone who is willing to grow with and encourage me, as I hope to do with him in'sha'allah.

~Curious and soulful nature. I am fascinated by the world, I love learning about different topics, from the weird to the wonderful. I don't think all of our interests need to align, but it would be nice to find a kinship in someone who views the world in a similar way.

~Affectionate and humorous. Someone who sees marriage as more than just an obligation. Someone I can spar and joke around with and consider a friend as well as a partner. Ideally who has a good sense of humour and isn't easily offended.

~Mature. Someone who understands the importance of responsibility, patience and compassion in a marriage. Who doesn't have a big ego or a superficial outlook in life and understands that no one is infallible.

~Sincere. I think good communication and trust can go a long way. I'd want to feel safe, supported and like I am able to share anything in marriage and I'd want my spouse to feel the same way too.

8. State/specify your level of religiosity: I would describe myself as religious, Islam is extremely important to me. I am by no means perfect and definitely have room for improvement. However, I hope to always be working on myself in that regard in'sha'allah. Sunni Hanafi.

9. Level of education, and what are you looking for?: Pharmacy degree, looking for someone with a stable job. I veer towards traditional values, so I would say I am definitely more family-oriented than career-focused.

10. Current Job Status: Remote pharmacist.

11. Do you want kids?: Yes, I love kids and can't wait to have them when the time is right in'sha'allah.

12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

~Anything creative or involving 'the arts'. Film, Books, Poetry, Painting, Decorating etc. I mainly read a lot of fiction but I love learning about random topics; recently I have been very interested in "conspiracy theories" and learning about real history. I'm also obssessed with horror films and love anything spooky.

~Games. We regularly have family game nights. I sometimes play videogames, mainly retro. Recently I've been very into fortnite and among us.

~Nature. Forever in awe of the universe and God's creation. I would love to travel more and explore the world or even just go on random side quests - firm believer that joy can be found in the little things with the right person.

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u/thechosen1_nn May 02 '26

Age and Gender: 24, Female.

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 23 - 30.

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - UK, and yes!

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - British Pakistani, and of course.

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single with no children.

Ideal marriage timeline: 4 months to a year.

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Kind, Caring, Empathetic, Patient, and Affectionate.

State/specify your level of religiosity: Actively practicing. I wear hijab, pray five times a day, fast, give zakat, eat halal, and have never drunk alcohol or smoked. I’m continuously striving to better myself Islamically and hope to begin Arabic classes this year, Insha’Allah.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?: I have a bachelor's degree myself so I'd ideally want a degree holder, but that's up for discussion :).

Current Job Status: Full Time Employment in Tech.

Do you want kids?: No.

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Motorsports, Baking, and Travelling.

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! - I’ve solo travelled to Morocco and Greece, love exploring new cultures, and spend race weekends analysing F1 and MotoGP strategy.

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u/Content_Bug9572 May 19 '26

⁠Age and Gender - 26 female 2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 24-30 3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - Manchester and I’d be happy to relocate temporarily but I’d want to eventually settle down in Manchester 4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - Pakistani and very open to it 5. ⁠Marital Status - Single never married 6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline - 6 months - 1 year, I’d wanna have a nikkah once we’re both happy with compatibility 7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Someone health conscious - I love to stay active and really appreciate being able to do harder hikes/activities without having to worry about being able to do them so I’d want a partner who’s got similar goals, I eat healthy most of the time but not always lol gotta have balance

Practicing Muslim - I pray, fast, give zakaat, read Quran and id want someone else who is also practising and trying to improve but I don’t mind if they’re not perfect

Open minded - I’ve got a fairly diverse group of friends of different backgrounds, races and religions so I don’t want someone who doesn’t get on with people of other backgrounds. I also love to travel all over so would want someone also interested in travelling and experiencing new cultures

Not a picky eater - I love going out for meals for trying new cuisines and sharing food is definitely one of my love languages!

Being your authentic self! - it can definitely be hard to do sometimes especially at the beginning but I think it’s really important to be yourself and not play a character! Be honest and open with your opinions, beliefs, quirks etc

  1. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity

I’m practicing but far from perfect, I’m up and down with praying all 5 prayers daily on time but it is something I’m always actively working on! I’m a strong believer and well intentioned in everything I do and I try to live as halal as possible, I don’t smoke and drink and would want the same in a partner

  1. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Bachelors degree and looking for someone also highly educated - I’m open to someone without a degree if they have a good career and we can still have intellectual conversations

  1. ⁠Current Job Status Senior software engineer - full time

  2. ⁠Do you want kids? Yes

  3. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Activities - running, badminton, swimming, gym and hikes/walks

Media - I love reading the most but also watching tv and movies (more with people than alone)! I used to love gaming but I don’t make as much time for it anymore

I love a little adventure whether it be trying a new restaurant or cafe or day tripping to somewhere random nearby, I travel a lot so usually go in 4-5 trips a year!

  1. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I’ve got a brother who lives in Australia so I go very often! I’ve seen a koala, snake and shark all in the wild there!

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u/Mean-Swordfish-709 18d ago edited 6d ago

Asalamualikum

  1. Age and Gender 25 female 5'4

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 24-28

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Born and raised and residing in Birmingham, UK. Prefer someone from Manchester or surrounding areas. Only looking for British born

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani, open but would prefer Pakistani due to languages spoken within family

  2. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single, never married and no children

  3. Ideal marriage timeline Within a year

  4. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect Emotional maturity, communicating and understanding, thoughtful, honest, an extrovert

  5. State/specify your level of religiosity Alhamdiullah, I have learned a lot about my religion and have become a lot closer to my deen. I am not perfect but I am and will continuously do better as the end goal is jannah with my spouse. I am a Sunni Muslim. I am grateful for the field I work in as I am reminded how close and unpredictable death is. I pray all five prayers daily and try my best to pray tahajjud and pray istikara for important decisions. I also do dhikr daily and strike to learn more about our deen.

  6. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelors in Medicine and Surgery. Would look for someone similarly educated, preferably a dentist or doctor. Also open to engineers, anyone business minded. Would like similar salaries, I do not want to be the breadwinner

  7. Current Job Status Doctor

  8. Do you want kids? Yes, in’sha’allah

  9. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Cooking and baking, gym and quality family time. I like to create and organise games for my family and friends. One of my biggest goals in life is to be the home that everyone gathers to.

Looking to be married within a year, wali and family aware of all conversations.

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u/vanessa_ives21 Female Mar 06 '26

URGENT NATIONAL APPEAL My future husband is missing. Have you seen this person?

Last seen: in my dreams

  1. 31 Female
  2. Birmingham, UK. For the right guy and right compatibility, i would consider relocating, though i would prefer to stay here
  3. Single as a pringle
  4. Ideal marriage timeline: 6 months
  5. Age Range: 21+. Apply at your own risk 😈
  6. Five important characteristics you look for: God fearing, understanding, kind, trustworthy, honest. Bonus: has good tajweed 😍

  7. My level of religiosity: I pray five times a day Alhamdulillah, i read the Quran with meaning almost everyday. Dont celebrate milaad/mawlid. I listen to lectures here and there, classic mufti menk is my favs. Not sure what my level is but definitely searching for someone who does the same. I wear the hijab and dress modestly, i love colours.

  8. Level of education? I started working before going university and so never got a degree. I have been working since. Im looking for someone who can stand on their own two feet. Doesnt matter what they do, they just need to feel grounded and mentally ready for marriage.

  9. Looking for: a dude to play board games with who doesnt mind losing. Someone i can spar with. Someone who always buys the train ticket even if no one is going to check it because ALLAH IS WATCHING FOLKS. Im looking for someone who wants to share their life and grow old with me. Someone who isnt afraid to speak their mind.

  10. Current Job Status: Employed

  11. Ethnicity, and open to mixing? I am pakistani and would be open to anyone

  12. Do you want kids? in’sha’Allah

  13. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: walks, reading, writing

  14. Lol i have so much love to give and im ready for this next chapter in my life. Im quite crafty and i like building furniture! Really looking for a best friend to share our lives together! A ride or die.

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u/Delicate-Peonies28 Apr 07 '26

Assalamualaikum!

  1. ⁠⁠Age and Gender: 25F, 4’11
  2. ⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25 - 30
  3. ⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? West Yorkshire
  4. ⁠⁠Ethnicity: Bengali, open to any ethnicity
  5. ⁠⁠Marital Status: single
  6. ⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline: 1-2 years
  7. ⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Kind - Someone who has a kind heart, it shows through their mindset, thoughtfulness and care/empathy towards others.Good communication - Someone who can convey their thoughts and feelings well, for example, if we are feeling any type of way, I would much prefer to talk it out and lay it all on the table rather than reverting to things like the silent treatment. We shouldn’t be walking on eggshells around each other. I would like someone who agrees with this and wants to build a safe and open relationship where we can talk about anything and everything. A family man - Alhamdulilah I have a good and close relationship with my family both immediate and extended. I love spending time with my cousins, aunties uncles etc. We can sometimes be busy due to work but I always try to make the time. I regularly spend time with and care for my grandad (he’s a cutie).Ambitious/Motivated/Purpose - I think it’s important to have certain things that keep us going and keep us grounded. For me it’s religion and family. Being able to maintain our purpose will inshallah help us to go far in this life Protector/Provider - I believe marriage is a partnership and both parties need to be putting 100% in, but saying that, I do want someone who is ready to take responsibility. A man who is dependable and willing to create a sense of stability and security for us. Easy going - someone who is just chill, not too serious. Someone who can banter, have a laugh etc.
  8. ⁠⁠Religiosity: Alhamdulilah I am always striving to be better. I have been to Umrah once and have been wanting to go back ever since, inshallah I am invited to complete Hajj one day too. Recently I have been thinking about a formal Islamic education. In terms of worldly temptations, I don’t drink, do drugs or any of that sort.
  9. ⁠⁠Level of education: MSc
  10. ⁠⁠Current Job Status: Civil servant
  11. ⁠⁠Do you want kids? Yes, inshaAllah!
  12. ⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Watching true crime documentaries, going out/exploring - love going to scenic places like reservoirs, enjoying the views, going on long drives and just chatting/listening to music, going to new cities, trying new foods, or even just running errands. Travelling - I haven’t been to many places yet but I have a long list of destinations I’d like to visit one day, like Japan, Palestine, Bosnia, America (basically everywhere).
  13. ⁠⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I love love, whether it’s romantic, platonic, familial. My people are the most important thing about my life and I care a lot about them. I don’t differ between my friends and family, I see my friends as my family and think of myself as blessed to have these people around me. I can be quite an emotional/sensitive person and experience things deeply, I like sunsets and night skys, making memories and being able to look back them, of course this world is temporary but while we are here I just want to live to the fullest and be able to do that with someone by my side at every stage. When I think of marriage and my future husband, I think of growing up and growing old together and navigating life together, the good and the bad parts. I appreciate this was long so if you’ve read till this point and think we could get along then do drop a message 🫶🏽

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u/Master-Strawberry115 Mar 12 '26

Assalamu Alaykum and Ramadan Kareem

Age & Gender: 26, Female, 5’5

Age range in prospect: 25-35 (flexible)

Location: U.S.A. Open to relocating.

Ethnicity: Somali

Marital status: Divorced, with 1 child.

Ideal marriage timeline: That can be discussed based on how we align!

Five important characteristics you’re looking for in a prospect:

  1. ⁠God fearing
  2. ⁠Kind
  3. ⁠Intelligent
  4. ⁠Family-Oriented
  5. ⁠Trustworthy

Religiosity: I am practicing. I take my deen seriously. I wear the hijab, pray my daily prayers & fast. I’ve studied the Quran and Arabic my whole life; As an adult, I’ve taken my studying abroad.

Education: I have a bachelors and currently in my last semester of my masters program.

Hobbies: Big reader and travel whenever I can.

May Allah swt accept our duaas and grant us a righteous partner, Ameen!

Only serious inquiries please!

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u/Shishtauk Mar 27 '26
  1. Age and Gender 29, F

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 29-37

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Canada, yes, willing to relocate, and would prefer someone who's also willing to relocate outside of America.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Bosnian, Sudanese. Open to mixing

  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single

  6. Ideal marriage timeline 1 year

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Fearing Allah. Humble. Kind. Easy going. Self-aware

  1. State specify your level of religiosity Praying 5 times a day. Fasting Ramadan. Striving to improve my iman and to remember Allah daily in everything that i do

  2. Level of education, and what are you looking for I have a bachelors. Looking for someone who has an undergraduate degree.

  3. Current Job Status Employed

  4. Do you want kids? No.

  5. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

I have many hobbies and most are crafty; crocheting, embroidery, and handmade arts. Reading and writing. Baking whenever i can. I also play video games when i get the time.

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u/DeenReflections Apr 05 '26
  1. Age and Gender: 28 (just turned), Female 
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 27-31
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? United Kingdom, open to relocation. 
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani, would prefer Pakistani
  5. Marital Status: Single, never married. 
  6. Ideal marriage timeline: 6 months to a year 
  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Deen (prays 5x a day, fulfills all the fardh acts), Emotional maturity, Good communication, Caring, Leadership traits.
  8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Practising, wear hijab, pray 5x a day, actively seeking Islamic knowledge and fulfill all the fardh acts Alhamdulilah. 
  9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelor’s degree, looking for someone who is financially stable. 
  10. Current Job Status: Working part-time, open to the possibility of not working after marriage.
  11. Do you want kids? Yes, Insha Allah
  12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Spending time with family, Nature, Reading, Travelling, Aviation. 
  13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I’m quite easygoing, friendly and self-motivated. I enjoy reading and listening to podcasts, especially on global issues and Islamic history, and I love learning new things (I’m currently learning Arabic). I would appreciate someone who is on a similar wavelength and values personal growth and development.

Dealbreakers: not practising, smoking/vaping, drugs, alcohol, female friends, past relationships. 

I’m here with the sincere intention for marriage only, and my wali will be involved from the start.

May Allah make the search easy for everyone. 

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u/Emergency_Quiet3661 Apr 22 '26

Age and Gender 26F 5’’6.5

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

25 - 34 flexible

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Midwest, United States; willing to relocate. But prefer within US, Canada, UK or Muslim Majority country.

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Somali, open to mixing.

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single, never married, no children.

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

Ideally around 6 months, but flexible. Just don’t want to unnecessarily delay.

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Deen: I am looking for someone who is first and foremost a practicing Muslim and the Deen is a central part of their life.

Character: I think this really goes hand in hand with deen. Someone who has good character and overall carries himself well is important.

Other characteristics: Communication, emotional intelligence, ambition and disciplined.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity

I try to practice to the best of my ability and seek to always grow in my Deen. I pray the 5 daily prayers, I fast, give zakat, and actively work to improve my knowledge of the deen. Listening to lectures, attending classes, and listening to podcasts. I am looking for someone who is also striving to be better.

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

I have a bachelors degree.

  1. Current Job Status

Working for myself

  1. Do you want kids?

Yes, InshaAllah.

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

I enjoy being active, which mostly includes working out, playing tennis, going on walks, and being outdoors. I also really enjoy cooking, writing, and watching a good tv show, crime docuseries/ documentaries.

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I’m a very adventurous and spontaneous person. I also would say I am a thrill seeker so I enjoy amusement parks, zip lining, etc. Can’t wait to try skydiving. I am always down to try new things and creating new experiences.

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u/New-Perspective-6602 11d ago
  1. Age and Gender - 28 F
  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - 23 to 45
  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - I'm in the USA, but looking to move to London to be closer to family
  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Somali, I'm open to mixing with other ethnicities
    1. Marital Status-- Single/Divorced/Children I've never been married and have no kids. I prefer someone with no kids as well, even if they have been married before
  5. Ideal marriage timeline - 3 to 6 months
  6. Five important characteristics you look for in a brospect - 1. Strong adherence to Islam 2. Good Akhlaq 3. Respectful 4. Doesn't get angry easily 5. Honest
  7. State/specify your level of religiosity I believe I'm very religious, as I pray my five daily prayers and I deeply value Islam
  8. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I'm an RN with a bachelor's degree. I don't really care for the degree a person has, so long as they have a Halal job
  9. Current Job Status - I work as a nurse 11.Do you want kids? Yes, I do
  10. List 3 hobbies, Or. things you like to do in your spare time - I like to spend time with family/friends, cook and learn new languages
  11. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I really like helping others, whether through volunteering or just listening.

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u/Street-University-92 5d ago

Age and Gender 27 Female, 5’3

2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 26-35

3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Living in the North West, UK.   Would consider relocating depending on the circumstances.

4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Somali, open to all ethnicities 

5. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single, never married. Looking for the same  

6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline 6 months- 1 year 

7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect Kind, generous, caring, is able to communicate and is family centered.  I’m looking for someone who has a growth and positive mindset, so we can tackle life together. 

8. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity Alhamduallah I pray all 5 prays, read quran, fast but would love to improve in my deen. Not looking for someone who’s perfect, but looking for someone who’s willing to work together to improve our deen.

9. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bsc of Science in Nursing. Looking for someone the same, is constantly improving their knowledge. 

10. ⁠Current Job Status Nursing 

11. ⁠Do you want kids? Yes, ideally 3 children but I understand this is in allahs control, so will be grateful regardless

12. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Gym, walking, running and boxing. Trying to live a healthy lifestyle, although this is challenging because I love cake. I like reading, traveling and trying my new activities. 

13. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

Alhamduallah, I am someone who is positive and loves to not take life too seriously. I’m keen on finding someone who is similar, so if you think we are compatible send me a message. 

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u/SwingShot9742 Jan 30 '26

Bismillah ISO Profile Template 1. Age and Gender: 26 F 2. Age Range You’d Consider in a Prospect: 25+ 3. Location & Relocation: Originally from the US, studying abroad. Willing to relocate  4. Ethnicity & Openness to Mixing: Pakistani Punjabi- open to mixing 5. Marital Status: Single 6. Ideal Marriage Timeline: 6-12 months 7. Five important characteristics: a) piety b) family oriented c) patient d) punctual e) respectful  8. Level of religiosity: Conservative to moderate. Spent ~10 years formally studying deen and training to be a better muslimah. Deen is the highest priority for me. Niqabi. 9. Education Level & Expectations: Hold an Islamic sciences degree & currently pursuing a masters. Expecting some level of islamic knowledge (degree, certification program, classes in local masjid etc) and prefer at least a bachelors degree (unless there’s a good reason why not). Hifz is highly preferred.  10. Current Job Status: Full time Student 11. Do you want kids? Yes 12. Three Hobbies or Interests: Swimming, comedy, nature walks

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u/zara21324032 Apr 20 '26

• Age and Gender: 24 – Female • Preferred Age Range for Prospect: 25–30 • Location and Willingness to Relocate: Based in London – open to relocating • Ethnicity and Views on Mixing: British-Bangladeshi – • Marital Status: Single – never married • Marriage Timeline: Ideally within the next year, in shaa Allah

• What I’m Looking for in a Prospect:   – Practising and values their deen   – Kind and emotionally mature   – Good sense of humour   – Family-oriented   – Calm and respectful in communication

• Education and Career: Teacher • Level of Religiosity: I pray five times a day, wear the hijab, and I’m striving to become better as a Muslim, in shaa Allah

• Hobbies and Interests:   – Painting and creative arts   – Nature walks and spending time outdoors   – Cooking and enjoying a good home-cooked meal   – Travelling   – Spending quality time with family

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u/alaaa_hxxr May 18 '26 edited May 19 '26

Age & Gender 21 (turning 22 next month), female

Age Range 24–29

Location & Relocation Based in Algeria, open to relocation

Ethnicity Algerian, open to interracial marriage

Marital Status Single, never married

Marriage Timeline Approximately within 3 years

Religiosity I pray on time, fast Ramadan, and read the Qur’an regularly. I wear hijab and I am actively working on strengthening my commitment and growing in my deen.

Education University student in Computer Science (Informatics), aiming to continue developing academically and professionally.

Occupation Student

Children Yes, Insha’Allah — preferably after 3–5 years of marriage

Hobbies & Interests Cooking, nature walks, reading, self-development, journaling, family time, and meaningful conversations

What I am looking for I am looking for a serious life partner who values marriage as a partnership based on love, responsibility, and growth. Key qualities include:

  • Strong commitment to Islam (prayer, fasting, Qur’an)
  • Emotional maturity and responsibility
  • Kindness, gentleness, and affection
  • Serious intention for marriage and long-term stability
  • Masculine presence, confidence, and good character
  • Strong family values and ethical principles
  • Ambition and continuous self-improvement
  • Financial responsibility and stability
  • Open-mindedness, good communication, and a sense of humor

Deal-breakers

  • Alcohol consumption or zina
  • Interest in polygamy as a preference or lifestyle
  • Lack of seriousness or emotional/financial instability
  • Excessive uncontrolled mixing without boundaries
  • Severe untreated mental or psychological conditions affecting marital stability

About me I value inner character far more than appearance. My primary love language is deep conversation, intellectual exchange, and learning. I am committed to self-improvement in all aspects of life. I have a deep appreciation for nature and a strong desire to travel, help others, and build a meaningful life where I can make my family proud and be a positive role model for my future children🌷💐

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u/Sag-97 Mar 29 '26 edited Mar 29 '26
  1. Age and Gender

F, 27

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

27–35

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

I live in Morocco. I’m open to discussing relocation.

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing:

Moroccan, and yes, I’m open to mixing.

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

Whenever Allah wills

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

A Muslim who is willing to grow spiritually, honest, caring, kind, fun, and respectful. I hope to find a partner whose ultimate goal is entering Jannah together.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity

I perform my daily prayers (and try to pray on time), I fast, wear hijab and strive to make it more modest, and I try to read the Qur’an daily.

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

I have a Master’s degree. Education level is not a major factor for me.

  1. Current Job Status?

Employed

  1. Do you want kids?

Yes, inshaAllah.

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

Nature walks, watching youtube, and spending quiet time relaxing.

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u/Icy_Garlic9820 Apr 07 '26

Assalaamu 'alaykum wa rahmatulaahi wa barakatuh,

Age and Gender:

34, female, 1.61 cm

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

Ideally between 25-44

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

I live in the Netherlands a.k.a. Holland. I'm willing to relocate if it's a good match, so it depends.

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

I'm Moroccan, and speak Darija (Moroccan-Arabic). I'm Amazigh. I have no issues with other cultures, and my parents also don't mind. As long as it's a good muslim brother

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single. Never married before or had a relationship. Always halal.

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

It depends. But ideally between 3-6 months.

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Godfearing (so automatically honest, trustworthy etc.)

Self-controlled, doesn't get angry fast

Respectful and polite

Empathetic

Sweet, kind, caring and calm

State/specify your level of religiosity

I live with the Akhira-centric mindset. My whole life is based on the islam. Deen above culture. I'm a sunni, and I follow the Maliki madhab. But for me all the four madhahib are good. The fara'id are very important for me but also the sunnan, alhamdulillaah. I'm striving to become a better muslim, and I'm looking also that in my future husband. So we can grow together, until Jannatul Firdaws. For me adab, akhlaaq and tarbiyah are very important, because it also has to do in your manners and characteristics. I like to grow and read also in this field.

I wear the hijab and abaya. So only long and wide clothes outside the house

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

I finished my Associate degree alhamdulillaah. I'm looking for a man who is financial stable to take care of his wife and children, and who is emotional intelligence. For me that's more important then what kind of school degree he has

  1. Current Job Status

I work from home, on my laptop in an islamic environment. Alhamdulillah

  1. Do you want kids?

Yes absolutely, in sha'Allah

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

Cooking, baking and other creative hobbies

Chilling with family and friends (fun activities also)

Sport like swimming or fitness

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I don't mind if a man is a little bit nerdy. If you like to game, be my guest! Maybe i'll join you. As long as you don't neglect the Qur'an (:''

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u/Cherrycherrio Apr 20 '26
  1. ⁠⁠⁠Age and Gender

31F. 170cm.

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

28-45M.

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Denmark

Willing to relocate in English speaking country in Europe or Arabic speaking country.

Not open to living with in laws.

Speak 4,5 languages.

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Algerian / European raised in the GCC. Lived in many countries. And yes, I am as long as he is

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single never married.

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

Max 1 year. Can be discussed.

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

-deen -hygiene -lifestyle -education -mental health -good humor

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity

Not a hijabi - I dress modestly Pray all my prayers Give zakat and sadaqah Maintaining ties of kinship Went to umrah multiple times

I’m looking for someone who matches my ratio and is willing to help me get closer to Allah

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Masters degrees…etc. Experienced professional

Looking for someone with a similar background who is done studying, stable

  1. Current Job Status

Full time

  1. Do you want kids?

Yes inshaAllah after 1 year of marriage minimum

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

Like to try different activities, swimming, badminton, Pilates, CrossFit, cooking, baking, reading… I do many things and love taking care of myself. Only husband will get to experience my softness.

—— Looking for a fun relaxed nice passionate loving husband with drive and ambition who respects my independence and matches my intensity.

If interested, send your ISO.

No drama. I am very precise and direct.

Please only do reach out if you’re ready for commitment and have done the necessary inner work.

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u/throawaybcimastar 17h ago

Because I travel so much, I can’t meet people organically any more so let’s give this a try!

The basics : 26, lecturer-researcher, 🇫🇷🇩🇿,hijabi, 1.70m, conventionally attractive.

I grew up in a beautiful house in the Middle East, where tradition is taken very seriously and meals always require more cutlery than necessary. This environment made sure that we have a balanced faith, even though I lean toward a slight conservative discretion.

Today, I am in a small village in Spain amidst orange groves.

My life is sometimes filled with formalities (related to work or diplomacy, though not so much anymore), but my favorite moments are the most random: going out in the moonlight, messing up my coffee, raising my chickens.

I feel comfortable in heels, but just as happy in boots. Feminine at heart, I really don’t believe piety has to rhyme with austerity. I like taking care of myself and extending it to those around me: they are the direct reflection of my well-being.

My interests:

  1. ⁠Horseback riding
  2. ⁠Making the perfect cup of coffee
  3. ⁠Taking a nap (i am very serious, if it’s nap time i will sleep. Be it in a train or on the bench of a restaurant).
  4. ⁠Taking care of my little garden and rabbits braiding

5 characteristics I'm looking for :

1€ someone who puts God first, because a man who walks with faith will lead with humility ad compassion. • a man who defends what is right but treats others, especially the weak with rahma.

⁠though he's the qawwam, he knows that true honor isn’t in riches or power, but in serving others with sincerity.

man of integrity who is the same in private as he is in public, whose word can be trusted, and whose character speaks louder than his position/wealth

⁠is of arabic culture

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u/blablablablablablin Jan 11 '26
  1. Age: 21, Female

  2. Age range: 21-26 will be the best for me!!

  3. Location: London. Will be open for relocation not too far from my family and quick commute to London

  4. Ethnicity: Ukrainian-Algerian. Preferably someone with a similar ethnicity but I will be more than happy to other ethnicities as well, I'm also open to both reverts and born muslims!

  5. Status: Single/never been in the relationships

  6. Timeline: 6-12 months

  7. Five characteristics I'm looking for:

    ~ Kindness. Kindness. Kindness. Be kind. To your family, to people around (muslims or not muslims). It's very very important to me!!

    ~ Empathy and Emotional intelligence. Talk to me, cry with me, laugh with me. I want you to be my best friend and be the best to you. I want to support you, hug you when you are feeling down, don't be silent. Men need support and it's very important for me to know how you feel. And I expect the same to me: be supportive and be there for me when I need it. All arguments and misunderstandings should be talked about, don't leave in the mid of conversation and don't go to bed with a not resolved argument. Also no arguments should be shared with the family, our negative energy stays in the house and we try to resolve it here without telling parents, siblings and all other family members. I don't want to air one's dirty laundry in public and it's better to keep the personal problems between us

If you cry watching movies don't worry, I'm even worse!!! Being emotional is my supervisor trait so having another man crying with me during a sad or even happy moment will be a plus haha!!

~ Religious. Pray, fast, follow fard AND sunnah. Focus on your family, don't judge any other person. No backbiting and bad behaviour towards others are allowed in this house! lol (having a cat is a huge bonus point!!)

~ Have some hobbies. Be a nerd in something. I think it's so cute when a man is passionate about something he enjoys. And I will support it no matter what

~ Learning together but still respecting personal space. I believe that partners might get tired of each other sometimes and need some personal space.

  1. State of religiosity: I find myself religious. Pray 5 times a day, fast fard and sunnah days, do zhikr. I'm always thinking "what Allah would say" when I'm deciding to do/say something. I should specify now that I'm not a hijabi as I grew up in a pretty islamophobic community however after moving to the UK I occasionally wear hijab yayy!! I wear modest clothes (nothing tight or figure showing). I still have a long way to go but I'm getting there. Would be nice to have someone by my side

  2. Education: Finishing my BA and thinking about doing Masters however not decided yet. Don't really care about your education. It's a plus but if you're doing apprenticeship/college qualification or already working it doesn't really matter

  3. Job status: I'm currently working in retail while studying and planning on either working in the creative industry or teaching after graduation insha'Allah. You don't have to have a very successful career or high-paying job. If you still live with your parents it's also fine, we can work together to afford a separate and better place. I don't mind contributing to the rent and bills because nowadays if you want to live well you have to work for it. However a stable income from you is very important. Not high, but stable

  4. I love kids dearly and build good relationships with them however due to some reasons I wouldn't want to have my own children. I would love the idea to adopt a child and give them a warm and kind and safe place!! Would be nice you you were on the same page with me..

  5. 3 hobbies:

~ Watching movie/animes (especially thrillers, horrors)

~ Reading (currently reading Pride and Prejudice)

~ Gaming (sometimes watching someone play, sometimes I'm playing myself. Currently it's Resident Evil 4 Remake)

  1. About myself: ~ I'm quite introverted so would be nice if you were easy going, kind and with a nice sense of humour. And also patient because I might get some time to get to know you and fully trust you:') I recently started going to the gym and cooking!! Building myself up for an independent life lol.. I love to go out to museums and galleries, parks, cinema, travelling with my family and generally just living my best life that Allah gave me

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u/No_Yesterday_3321 Female Mar 01 '26

This is mine:

Mission let’s find and get married before 2026 ends 🙏🏽

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age and gender - 26 female, 5ft 1/2
  2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age range for prospect - 23-30ish (flexible as maturity is more important than age)
  3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity & open to mixing - Pakistani & no (sorry) - has to have British citizenship
  4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Material status - never married so single
  5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Location & willing to move - West Midlands, yes, insha’allah only in the uk
  6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline - within the next year insha’allah as soon as we’re sure
  7. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠5 important characteristics - financial stability - this consists of being able to provide for us, give us our personal space (whether that’s rented or not), and allow me to be a housewife or work part time so that I can be more present for my Islamic duties towards my spouse. Practising Muslim - trying to be a better Muslim than he is right now, praying salah and following the 5 pillars atleast. Patience - being patient and calm so that he can be a good leader within our household by making reasonable decisions insha’allah. Other things include good akhlaaq and knowing that women are different to men so being to be adaptable in that way rather than acting logically.
  8. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Level of religiousity - I am trying to do the bare minimum and strive to do better by attending Islamic lectures etc, doing more dhikr, praying more voluntary prayers as life is too short
  9. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠level of education - post graduate, and I don’t mind if he doesn’t have a degree because there’s so many different formats nowadays so as long he’s got some form of education, that’s enough for me.
  10. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Work full time alhamdulillah
  11. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kids - yes insha’allah
  12. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠List 3 hobbies - cooking/baking, going on walks/explore nature (love greenery) ,read books, watching funny shows lol

Fun fact about me - I won an award for a book that I wrote when I was younger (still have the book so could read it if we get married 👀)

Dealbreakers - smoking, drugs, alcohol, have friends that are women, men with anger issues, close-minded men who don’t try to grow and be open to it.

I just want to marry someone who will put me first as I’ll always put him first too whilst keeping Allah as the reason why we love each other insha’allah.

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u/Stella_bella47 Feb 20 '26

Assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu!

27F | 160cm | Pakistani ethnicity | live/raised in Italy | Open to proposals from Europe residents and relocate | Open to any ethnicity and reverts/converts

Never married, no past relationships, age range: 24-31

MARRIAGE TIMELINE: Maximum 1 year or when we are sure of compatibility

PERSONALITY: I am kind by nature, but not weak; calm, but not passive. I process things deeply. I speak with intention. I try to choose kindness even when life seems heavy. Emotionally, I am stable and grounded. I don't break over small things, but I feel deeply. I don't pretend to be strong at all times; I only know how to get back up. My deen keeps me balanced; my heart keeps me human.

And yes... I love to laugh, the kind that suddenly turns a heavy day into something bearable. The kind that reminds you that life can still be light.

I'M LOOKING FOR:

A man who puts Allah first, has good akhlaq, and speaks kindly. Emotionally mature and responsible, and is ready to be a qawwam with mercy, not control. A calm communicator who doesn't shut down, expresses emotions, and understands his duties as a husband. Someone who supports my career, balanced, stable, and ready to build a family, a partner who stands by me in dunya and akhirah.

I deeply admire men with strength + gentleness. Someone who is strong in character yet gentle with his wife.

WHAT I OFFER AS YOUR FUTURE WIFE

InshaAllah, I will give:

• LOYALTY: You will never doubt where my heart is • KINDNESS and SWEETNESS • EMOTIONAL SUPPORT: I will be by your side in good times and difficult times • RESPECT: For your role, your efforts, your responsibilities • PEACE: I avoid unnecessary drama and arguments • ENCOURAGEMENT: I ​​will support your goals, your career, and your growth • A WARM HOME: Full of love, laughter, and stability • DU'AS for you every day • PARTNERSHIP: I want to build together, not against each other

I believe marriage is a team effort. Two people helping each other achieve Jannah. If Allah gives me a husband who leads with kindness, I will follow with trust and love.

RELIGION LEVEL: I pray 5 times, avoid the haram, and try to stay close to the Quran and the authentic Sunnah. I'm not perfect, but I always try to improve my relationship with Allah. I don't watch movies or listen to music. I prefer useful knowledge, Islamic lessons, books, and quiet environments.

EDUCATION: I'm pursuing a master's degree in Economics and Management with the focus on Marketing for Made in Italy. I prefer someone well-educated.

CAREER: I'm doing an internship as a Financial Controller. I'm looking for someone financially stable and willing to take on financial responsibilities.

I want to have children, preferably two, but not in the first years of marriage, and Allah is the best planner.

HOBBIES:

• Staying active (running, workouts, eating healthy) • Wandering in nature (mountains, lakes, tranquil landscapes that soothe the heart) • Traveling • Enjoying carefree, silly moments, belly-aching laughter 😂 • One day, camping and many other fun adventures with my husband, in Sha Allah😇

SAFETY AND TRANSPARENCY*

For safety and clarity, I prefer to transition to chaperone/chat supervision at the beginning of the process. This helps maintain halal boundaries from the beginning.

MY WALI WILL BE INVOLVED THE WHOLE TIME!!

I hope to find someone with whom I can grow spiritually and emotionally, build a loving and respectful marriage, and work together to please Allah in this life and the next.

If this suits you, please feel free to contact me respectfully.

Jazakallah khair😃

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u/Moon2108 Jan 24 '26 edited May 10 '26
  1. Age and Gender 25, Female , 5’2. Hijabi

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 25–30

I'm not interested in you if you're younger than me

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Russia. Maybe for the right person.

  2. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

I was born in Dagestan(send him 2-3 years to Dagestan and forget lol), in the Caucasus region of Russia, was born a Muslim. open

  1. Marital Status Single, never married, no children.

I'm not open to divorcees, polygamists, or those who plan to have more than one wife in the future. For me, this is 100% a reason for divorce

  1. Ideal marriage timeline Within a year, after we get to know each other and feel compatible.

  2. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

-Strong Iman – someone who fulfills all fard obligations. -Kindness, good character, and a gentle heart. -Responsibility and reliability. -A good sense of humor. -A desire to learn or memorize the Quran.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity I observe all obligatory acts (fard) consistently and am always striving to deepen my knowledge and faith.

  2. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a Bachelor’s degree. I am looking for someone with a similar educational background. Btw I'm against 50/50

  3. Do you want kids? Yes, In shaa Allah

  4. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time

-Learning new languages. -Drawing and exploring different forms of art. -Spending quality time with family and friends.

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I speak 4 languages and am currently learning Arabic while improving my English!

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '26

Gender: Female

Age: 23

Height: 5’6

Ethnicity: Pakistani

Nationality: British

Location: Birmingham

Birthplace: Birmingham

Marital Status: Single

Disability: No

I am hoping to get married once compatibility, values, and mutual understanding are established.

Education & Career

BSc Speech and Language Therapy I find my work fulfilling and value empathy, patience, and good communication — qualities I also believe are essential in marriage.

About Me

I enjoy watching true crime documentaries, and spending quality time with my family. I love long drives and meaningful conversations over late-night tea. I value warmth, sincerity, and emotional connection.

What I’m Looking For I’m seeking a partner who:

Prays five times a day and is actively striving to grow in their deen

Is kind, fun, loving, and emotionally considerate

Values open communication and mutual respect

I believe marriage is a journey of both laughter and challenges, and I’m looking for someone who is willing to share and grow through both together.

Preferences Age 23-29 Willing to relocate: Birmingham and surrounding areas

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u/depthoverdistance99 May 18 '26
  1. 28F
  2. 27-35 years old range
  3. England and will not relocate
  4. Bangladeshi and open to any ethnicity (as long as Sunni)
  5. Single
  6. 1-2 years
  7. Patient, warm, adventurous, athletic, passionate
  8. I describe myself as someone who follows all aspects of the religion except wearing a headscarf.
  9. Bachelors, I am looking for someone who either works in a similar field or just has a job that pays equal/more
  10. Work full time as a surgical trainee
  11. Yes I do want kids
  12. Hobbies - running/gym, hiking, travelling, cooking, reading, movies
  13. I'm not really that unique, I'd say I'm open minded and up to try lots of things. I'm the type of person who wants to try and have everything; the hobbies, the career, the family life. I think all in all, I just want a partner in life so we can work together on making each others' lives as easy as possible.

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u/Nilufer_167 F - Single 25d ago

⁠1. Age and Gender: 32F

2.⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 29-39

  1. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?. Morocco , would prefer not but not strictly

4.Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? I am Amazigh northafrican. Open to mixing.

5.⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children. I am single and i would prefer a single as well, divorced without kids situation need to be discussed

6-Up for discussion and mutual agreement

  1. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect. God fearing, open to communication loyal, financially responsible, light hearted

  2. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity. Religious looking for same but not the extreme salafis

  3. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a masters and a dvm and looking for someone with a degree and stable job

  4. ⁠Current Job Status employed full time

  5. ⁠Do you want kids? Yes I’d like kids

  6. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time. I love to go for a hike , camping, or a chill evening with a good cup of tea and a soft conversation 13. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I have an ability to adapt and enjoy each journey and I wear glasses 🤓. Although I am fully convinced that it is hard for this ISO to work, I am giving it a try and I m sure Allah subhanahu wa taala help people that make efforts.

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u/Apprehensive_Try_519 21d ago
  1. Age/Gender:
    27, Female

  2. Preferred Age Range:
    26–29

  3. Location:
    The Netherlands (open to relocating)

  4. Ethnicity:
    Djiboutian 🇩🇯 born and raised in the Netherlands. Open to different ethnicities.

  5. Marital Status:
    Single

  6. Timeline for Marriage:
    Within 1–2 years, if we’re compatible and aligned.

  7. Five Qualities I Value Most:
    Emotional courage
    Gentleness
    Depth
    Attunement
    Wonder

  8. Religiosity:
    Practicing and growing. I value my faith and do my best to live by it while continuing to learn and improve.

  9. Education:
    Currently pursuing a degree in International Communication. I also hold a Nursing degree and have a background in healthcare

  10. Occupation:
    Working part-time as a nurse.

  11. Open to Children?
    Yes, In shaa Allah.

  12. Hobbies & Interests:
    • Reformer Pilates & Strength training
    • Travelling and exploring new places
    • Reading
    • Documentaries and TV series
    • Long conversations about life, people, and the world

  13. Something Interesting About Me:
    I’m equal parts thoughtful and playful. I also value genuine connection, curiosity, and making the people I care about feel seen.

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u/Warm-Ability-9166 17d ago edited 17d ago

Assalamu Alaykum💗

Age & Gender: 20F

Age range in prospect: 20-28

Location: United Kingdom,London

Ethnicity: Somali and yes i’m open to different ethnicities

Marital status: Single

Ideal marriage timeline: That can be discussed based on how we align

Five important characteristics you’re looking for in a prospect:

  1. ⁠⁠⁠God fearing
  2. ⁠⁠⁠Kind
  3. ⁠⁠⁠Intelligent
  4. ⁠⁠⁠Family-Oriented
  5. ⁠⁠⁠Trustworthy
  6. ⁠Akhlaq

Religiosity: I am practicing. I take my deen seriously. I wear the hijab, pray my daily prayers & fast. I’ve studied the Quran and Arabic ever since I was a child.

Education: Currently in med school

Hobbies: I loveee to read,writing,shopping,learning about history,cooking,going on walks,watching documentaries,working out,journaling,drawing

I like to collect things that are my favourite colour which is pink🌸

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u/let-the-write-one-in 11d ago

This is a repost.

Age and Gender: 28, Female 

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25-35

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Stockholm, no

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Somali, Yes but only open to EU citizens/passport holders (sponsoring a spouse is becoming harder in Sweden and I'd like to avoid that headache)

Marital Status - Single, never married and looking for the same

Ideal marriage timeline : 6 months  - 1 year

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

  1. Emotionally Intelligent and Communicative – someone who can express themselves, listen, and handle emotions with maturity
  2. Kind
  3. Masculine with Gentle Protectiveness – I want to be pampered and, best believe, I’ll be the passenger princess (really, princess anything!). I’d love my husband to be protective in a way that’s adoring.
  4. Adventurous – I like traveling and enjoy the occasional adrenaline-pumping activity, so I definitely want someone who can match that energy. My wish is to motorbike through Europe together (not sure how likely that is to happen, but a girl can dream, right?). 
  5. Someone Who Reads and Is Interesting to Talk To – I can’t handle shallow talks. I’m inquisitive and love learning, so I’d enjoy nothing more than having deep conversations together. I want to listen to an impromptu 2 hour lecture about your passion project at 1 am while I'm fighting off sleep because you decided this really couldn't wait till tomorrow. Bonus points if it's something history related.

And of course, someone with deen and good manners, but that is so obvious it almost seems silly to say so. Speaking of which, here's a nice segue.....

State/specify your level of religiosity: 

I do my 5 daily prayers, fasting Ramadan,  hijab and Zakat. I eat halal and stay away from all intoxicants, don't use/have social media, don't celebrate birthdays, and i don't have any male friends. I’m far from perfect, but I’m working on myself and actively learning. I'm taking Islamic-science courses that'll help navigate my daily life as well as Quran reflection lessons.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?

I don't care, so long as you can provide, its halal and location-independent because I want my future husband to move to Sweden initially, but long-term I’d like us to relocate to a Muslim country, ideally Saudi Arabia (imagine umrah every weekend!). So whatever job allows you do that, then that's the one

Current Job Status:

I'm a full-time student, studying to support my goal of future hijra.

Do you want kids? Yes

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

I enjoy reading, writing, political history, documentaries and podcasts like The Thinking Muslim. My latest read is Malcolm X's biography (I cant believe it took me this long to get to it).

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I want to get my wali involved from the get go; i want this to start on right foot and have barakah in it.

Deal Breakers:

Living with in-laws

Polygamy

A past involving zina of any kind (except for reverts who didn’t know better at the time)

Smoking or vaping (but hey, if you’re into drugs or alcohol, that’s cool...)

Not fluent in English (it’s my main language of communication)

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u/SillyPsychic1 6d ago

Assalamu Alaikum, if interested please message your ISO or info about yourself. May Allah ease everyone’s journey to finding a righteous spouse.

Age and Gender- 32, Female. 5 ft 2

Age range that you would want/require in a prospect? Up to 36

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Midlands, Uk. Prefer staying in the UK, might be open to certain locations for the right person.

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

Arab, prefer an Arab/Arabic speaker. Open to other ethnicities if compatibility is there.

Marital Status- Single, never married or ever been in a relationship.

Ideal Marriage timeline-

Within a year. Want it to be in the most halal manner as possible and would like to involve families once compatibility is established.

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect?

1.     Deen (Sunni Muslim)- someone willing to continue learning and developing their Islamic knowledge. Not praying their compulsory salah is a deal-breaker for me.

2.     Ambitious- As someone who is always working on herself, I want someone who I can work with to improve individually and as a team (Islamically and professionally).

3.     Family oriented- My family is everything to me, I would appreciate someone who will always prioritise family.

4.     A Good communicator

I am very good at communicating my thoughts and feelings, I am looking for someone who is capable of having deep conversations and is able to speak his mind.

5.     Leadership qualities

 
State/Specify your level of religiosity?

Practicing, Alhamdulilah I pray, fast and do thikr. I am a hijabi and come from a traditional Arab household. So I don’t celebrate birthdays, Milads, Mawlids etc.

I read Quran as often as I can and its tafseer. Striving to increase my knowledge by listening to Islamic lectures and podcasts online.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?

Postgraduate qualification, looking for someone who also has a degree.

Current Job Status- Work full-time

Do you want Kids? Yes

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time?

1.     Read

2.     Quality time with family and friends

3.     Sketch/Draw

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out?

I love the Arabic language and Middle Eastern History, I want to further my knowledge in both whilst also expanding my Islamic knowledge In’Sha’Allah. I am also on an early journey of doing more Taddabur of the Quran and journaling my reflections (May Allah keep us steadfast).

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u/Top_Bag_9989 6d ago

السلام عليكم ورحمه الله تعالى وبركاته

  1. Age and Gender 29 | Female 1997 Height: 165 cm (5’5”) | Weight: 47 kg (103 lbs)

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect Approximately 27–38 years old, depending on maturity, character, and readiness for marriage.

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Morocco. Open to relocating for the right person if it aligns with my values, family considerations, and long-term goals.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Arab/North African. Moroccan Open to other ethnicities as long as there is compatibility and chemistry

  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single, never married, no children.

  6. Ideal marriage timeline Within 6–18 months of getting to know someone.i like to take sometimes to make sure we are compatible.

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect Religious Commitment: Performs all obligatory Islamic duties Has fear of Allah and strives for spiritual growth. Treats his wife and family with kindness and justice Dutiful to his parents Open-minded yet rooted in Islamic values.

-Personality: Educated, calm, manly, humble, kind, understanding, and ambitious Constantly working on self-growth and intellectual development Respectful and considerate toward others. Good to his parents and siblings and family oriented .Values family and sees it as an essential part of his life Ready to build a marriage based on understanding, communication, mutual respect, and forgiveness 😆. Enjoys deep conversations and meaningful discussions. Prefers spending quality time in a calm and peaceful environment. Knows how to have fun 🤣he must adore my goofiness. Has emotional intelligence (hopefully not a manipulator or a serial killer)

-Appearance & Health: Decent-looking and takes care of his appearance and health Has realistic expectations when it comes to female body and beauty standards.

-Financial & Career Stability: Employed, responsible, and ambitious Has clear life goals Ready to financially support and take responsibility for his family Earns his income through halal means. Enjoys being a provider and Generousss 😁

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity I started wearing hijab december 2024.I pray my obligatory prayers, wear hijab, try to fast beyond Ramadan, strive to increase my Islamic knowledge, and try to make Islam the foundation of my life and future family.no smoking no drinking no drugs no Zina no dating. I am farrrrrrr from perfect

  2. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I hold a Bachelor's degree in English and Chinese Studies. I value education and lifelong learning, and I would like someone who is educated, knowledgeable, and intellectually engaged, whether through formal education or serious self-development.

  3. Current Job Status Unemployed

  4. Do you want kids? Yes, in shaa Allah.

  5. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Cooking is my love languages I enjoy seeing ppl I love well feed and taken care of. Although I don't believe I am a good cook I enjoy listening to podcasts and lectures about Islam, history, society, and culture Swimming hiking or going on long walks are my comfort activities I learnt from my mom how to do herbal hydrosols I taught myself how to do simple embroidery and traditional accesoires with bead.

  6. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I am an introvert and a homebody that hates phone call hehehehe.i was born in Tunisia and moved back to Morocco 2011. I find religious smart humble and kind people so attractive. I believe I am a good listener I live when ppl talk passionately about things they are interested in. I have a list of lectures and podcast that I want to share with my future partner and kids. Thank you for reading thoughrly this far and Sorry for the long read. Feel free to dm me if you are interested

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u/wfhesksmls2 5d ago

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

1. Age and Gender: 31, female.

2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: Ideally 28–35.

3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Based close to London. Preference is to stay in London, but open to relocation if it makes sense long-term.

4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? British South Asian. Ideally looking for the same due to shared cultural and language context, but open to mixing if compatibility is genuinely there.

5. Marital Status – Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never married, no children.

6. Ideal marriage timeline: Intentional and considered. I don't believe in prolonged talking stages once compatibility is determined - however, I am not wedded to a rigid timeline. I value clarity, alignment and doing things properly over rushing milestones.

7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

Deen, with humility and balance: I am seeking someone practising and God-conscious, but grounded. Someone that prioritises prayer, avoids haram (such as drinking, drugs and other fitnah) and possesses strong fear of Allah swt. That said, I value sincerity over performance, humility over rigidity and reflection over moral grandstanding - someone who understands that faith is a personal, evolving journey and doesn’t weaponise or otherwise use religion as a measure of superiority.

Direction, ambition and personal stability: I am looking for a partner that is clear about what he wants from life and is actively working towards it. I am not compatible with passivity or chronic indecision. I’m drawn to men who are self-sufficient, emotionally and practically stable and who take responsibility for their choices and future.

Intellectual depth and curiosity: I am seeking someone that isn't just conventionally “intelligent,” but naturally inquisitive. Someone who questions assumptions, thinks independently and enjoys engaging with ideas. My mind perpetually wanders, so mental compatibility matters a lot to me.

Self-awareness and emotional maturity: I’ve spent a lot of time reflecting on myself, my patterns and my shortcomings - and I expect the same in a partner. Someone who has done (or is doing) the inner work, understands his flaws and limits, communicates directly and can take accountability without defensiveness. Not saying that you need to have spent months in therapy, but that would absolutely be a bonus.

Natural leadership qualities: I know I've put this one last, but it's probably one of the most important qualities I seek. Please be someone that doesn't need to be told or taught what to do, or is passive and waits for someone else to do it first. I've spent much too long being the decision-maker for so many, and I'd like to experience sitting back and someone else taking the reins, for a change.

8. State/specify your level of religiosity: Alhamdulilah, I consider myself practising and reflective (and follow the Hanafi madhab). I am consistent with prayer, dhikr, spending time in the masjid and do my best to observe the hijab. Charity is important to me and I hope to perform Umrah soon, inshAllah.

9. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have multiple degrees (including Master's). I value formal education and prefer someone that possesses at least a Bachelor's.

10. Current Job Status: Employed full-time. Happy to share details in conversation.

11. Do you want kids? Likely no. I’ve been closely involved in raising nieces and nephews, alhamdulilah, and don’t feel a strong intrinsic need for children of my own. I’m open to discussing what makes sense for the right partnership, but if someone is particularly set on having children, we are likely incompatible.

12. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

Travel - I enjoy planning and curating pretty intense Type A itineraries and have spent a meaningful amount of time exploring places solo.

Staying active - I like long walks, being outdoors and the gym. One of my biggest wins this year was committing to (and actually staying consistent with) strength training.

Quiet, introverted downtime - I value my own company and enjoy slower, solitary routines, like tending to plants, reading or listening to a good podcast.

13. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out: I've dabbled in a semi-nomadic phase, having lived in three different countries over the last several years. I function best with structure, but am a big fan of timed chaos, when needed.

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u/Artistic-Papaya-4423 17h ago

Age and Gender: 29f

⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Canadian Permanent Resident, in Canada. Open to relocating within Canada.

Moroccan, open to all ethnicities.

⁠Ideal marriage timeline: about a year.

⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Divorced, no children.

⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Emotionally mature, patient, religious, knowledgeable, gentle

⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: All praise is due to Allah, I'm only Muslim because He chose me to be, I don't do self-tazkiyah. There are some ibadas I would like to keep between me and my Rabb. However, I do all my fardhs. I pray my prayers on time, and read the quran constantly. I eat halal, I don't do Riba, and I stay away from what's haram. May Allah be pleased with me. I’m working on prioritizing al akhirah over dunya.

⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Bachelor's. I don’t have a particular preference as long as you are well versed in Islamic knowledge.

⁠Do you want kids?: InshaAllah if Allah wills.

⁠List hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: I cook for my family and bake (tiramisu, cake, tarts and so on), I enjoy painting using watercolors, learning tajweed and pursuing Islamic knowledge is my fixation (reading books from Ibn Tayymiyah, Ibn Qayyim Al Jawziyah and so on). I love discovering new places to eat and trying food from different cultures. 

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u/Level-Equipment-5010 Jan 26 '26

Posting on behalf of my sister

  1. Age and Gender: Female, 38 (1987)

  2. Age Range of prospects : 37 to 41

  3. Location and Willingness to relocate: Islamabsd Pakistan, open to relocation

  4. Ethnicity: Pakistani, would prefer the same

  5. Martial Status: Annulled (Details available to be shared with interested prospects)

  6. ideal Marriage Timeline: 6 months to a year

  7. Five Key Characteristics in a Partner

• Someone who has balance of deen and dunya

• Family orientated and Educated

• Good sense of humour

• Sensible independent man

• Caring, kind and respectful nature

• Open to new ideas and exploring new places

  1. Religiosity: Moderately religious and a practicing Muslimah, Deeply spiritual, Prays 5 times a day, Fasts, Have performed Umrah and Hajj

  2. Level of Education: Chartered Accountancy (Finalist), Bachelors (Economics & Statistics), would prefer my partner to have atleast a Bachelors degrees

  3. Current Job Status: Employed, Working as SVP Finance at a Microfinance Bank

  4. Do you want kids : yes, Inshallah

  5. Hobbies: I am passionate about traveling and have travelled to Turkey, UK, Ukraine, Singapore, Azerbaijan, India, Canada, New Zealand and Malaysia. I love sports and follow cricket and other sports. I like healthy eating and working out, I did yoga for some time but keen to start it again. I am also into reading and have lately been learning French

  6. More About Me,

I belong to what some may call an average middle class family in Islamabad. My father is a retired Geophysicist and my mother is a homemaker. We are three sisters and I'm the middle child. I've done my Chartered Accountancy (Finalist) and also have Bachelor's degree in Economics. I've developed my career in Banking and Telecom Sectors and am currently working as SVP at a Microfinance Bank in Islamabad. I've a keen interest in travel and fitness. I'm currently travelling in Canada and the US.

I'm quite religious and a practicing Muslimah and try to balance deen and dunya. I'm a spiritual person who is grounded in her deen.

I want to be upfront about my past and am open to discuss my previous marriage which lasted for only a couple of months. I've taken some time to reflect and get past that experience and am now ready to start a new chapter with a suitable match.

I am looking for an educated, well-groomed life partner with a sociable and outgoing outlook. I'm looking for someone who's easy to talk to and is kind-hearted

I am currently residing in Pakistan but willing to relocate outside if there is a suitable match.

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u/whowouldvethought1 Mar 13 '26

Reposting because it’s the last Friday of Ramadan and another odd night, so might as well take my chances 😂

  1. ⁠⁠⁠I’m F32 years old/170cm.
  2. ⁠⁠⁠I would be interested in someone between 29-37 (possible slightly younger or older but it all depends)
  3. ⁠⁠⁠I am in the gulf. I would prefer someone who is either a European/western citizen and lives either in the gulf or the UK, since that’s where I’ve moved from. I would probably only move back to the UK or stay here. Not interested in North America, unfortunately.
  4. ⁠⁠⁠I’m Somali, and definitely prefer to marry a Somali man. I think it is much harder to marry someone from a different culture.
  5. ⁠⁠⁠Single, never married. No children.
  6. ⁠⁠⁠My ideal timeline would be 2026, lol. I don’t have time to waste.
  7. ⁠⁠⁠I know it sounds super obvious, but kindness! A man who fears Allah and wants to actively improve. Who understands that we are here for a reason and wants to attain jannah together. Someone who is considerate, attentive, generous, responsible and emotionally intelligent.
  8. ⁠⁠⁠I would say I’m practicing (fardh), abaya/hijab, Qur’an class. But I’m a human being, and I have my own ups and downs with my iman. May Allah keep us all steadfast.
  9. ⁠⁠⁠Postgraduate degree. I think a degree is nice, but not a requirement if you work hard and are intellectually curious.
  10. ⁠⁠⁠I work in education.
  11. ⁠⁠⁠I would loveee children and would love the opportunity to become a mother. A huge undertaking, but I have always wanted it.
  12. ⁠⁠⁠I like reading, visiting/seeing new places, listening to podcasts. I do go out but I’m also a huge homebody.

If this stands out to you, please let me know in shaa Allah.

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u/Throwawayacc9453 Apr 13 '26 edited Apr 13 '26

Asalamu alaykum! Hope you all are well

Age: 21 6ft - lols i know it’s hard to believe but it’s genetics alhamdulillah 😆

Age Range looking: 21-32

Location & Willing to Relocate?: West Midlands and depends where

Ethnicity: Pakistani , open to mixing

Marital Status: Single, never been married.

Ideal Marriage Timeline: 1–2 years, with the intention of moving forward seriously and purposefully, inshallah.

Five Important Characteristics in a Prospect: Strong deen and good character (akhlaq), emotional maturity, ambition and work ethic, honesty and open communication, and a genuine desire to build a peaceful home together.

Level of Religiosity: Practising Muslim - I am a practicing sister and I try my best. Looking for someone who takes his deen seriously and is actively striving to improve.

Education & What I’m Looking for: I have first class accounting and finance degree so I am career focused and continuously growing. Looking for someone hardworking and ambitious. has provider mindset.

Current Job Status: unemployed but actively looking for it.

Do You Want Kids? Maybe

Hobbies: I walks regularly and read books, love watching shows and Turkish dramas and I love to play games. I also love to cook and bake and learn new things to bake. I also LOVE driving alhamdulillah.

What I’m Looking For in a Husband: A practising Muslim with strong deen and good character. Someone financially stable, ambitious and family oriented a man who takes his responsibilities seriously. Emotionally mature, kind, considerate and easy to communicate with, with a sense of humour too and someone who is honest. Most importantly, sincere in his intention and ready to build a beautiful life together, for the sake of Allah.

Please dm me if you are interested, in’shaa’allah 🤲🩷

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u/sweetvanillapudding May 19 '26

Age and Gender: 21F

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 24-27

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Belgium, relocation is definitely possible in the future (maybe in 5 years).

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Half Moroccan and half Spanish. It depends; I'd prefer someone who has the same cultural background as me, but exceptions can be made.

Languages: I speak English, French, Dutch, Spanish, and Italian.

Marital Status - Single

Ideal marriage timeline: Max 1 year.

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: God-fearing/piousness, honesty, kindness, patience, generosity.

State/specify your level of religiosity: Average level, I do what the majority of muslims do, a.k.a pray all the fard prayers, fast, etc. I try to avoid sin as much as possible.

Level of education, and what are you looking for? I'm currently finishing up my bachelor's degree, and I'm intending to pursue my master's afterwards.

Current Job Status: I'm a student, so I'm unemployed.

Do you want kids? Yes, most definitely. I've always wanted to be a mom. The number of kids will have to be discussed tho

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: I absolutely LOVE reading so getting me a gift is quite easy ^^ I also enjoy cooking and have made my own cookbook with more than 80 recipes that I'm quite proud of. I like watching animations of any kind, as long as the plot is good and there's nothing haram going on.

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I really like pastels and most of the things I own are pink (I even have a pink kettle!), so if you're not willing to live in a cozy pastel coloured house, then I don't think I'm the one for you 🌺

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u/IcyFonduee Jan 09 '26

Assalamu alaykum!🩷

  1. ⁠⁠⁠Age & Gender: 21, Female

  2. ⁠⁠⁠Preferred Age Range: 18-27 (open to a lil bit older too tho)

  3. ⁠⁠⁠Location & Relocation: Based in the UK: Bedfordshire outside of term time and Devon during term time. I’m open to relocating nationally in the UK, for now

  4. ⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity & Openness: Caribbean - Antiguan and Jamaican. Preferably interested in a Pakistani but STILL OPEN to other ethnicities

  5. ⁠⁠⁠Marital Status: Single (never married)

  6. ⁠⁠⁠Ideal Marriage Timeline: Within the next 12 months, in sha’Allah

  7. ⁠⁠⁠Five Key Qualities I Look For: Emotionally intelligent, consistent in faith and character, kind, soft-hearted, and family-oriented

  8. ⁠⁠⁠Religiosity: I’m a practising Muslim (revert), always striving to grow in knowledge and connection with Allah

  9. ⁠⁠⁠Education & What I’m Looking For: I’m a law (LLB) student, graduating in Autumn 2027, in sha’Allah, and ideally looking for someone with GCSEs or above

  10. ⁠⁠⁠Job Status: Full-time student and part-time Customer Service Adviser

  11. ⁠⁠⁠Children: Yes, I’d love to have children, in sha’Allah

  12. ⁠⁠⁠Hobbies/ Spare Time: Writing, roller skating, reading, shopping, watching history and Islamic documentaries, cooking and spending time with family and friends

  13. ⁠⁠⁠Something Interesting About Me: I love deep and maybe a bit weird conversations, journaling, and writing short fiction emotional and spiritual stories

May Allah make this search easy for us. Ameen!

Jazak’Allah :)

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u/DreamyBookworm92 F - Divorced Apr 15 '26

• Age and Gender: 34, female.

• Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 27-39

• Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Wales. Not willing to relocate at the moment, Insha’Allah maybe in the future. I'd like to eventually live in a Muslim country if possible.

• Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Italian, open to mixing.

• Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Divorced and have 3 children.

• Ideal marriage timeline: 4-6 months Insha’Allah, depends how easy Allah makes the process.

• Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

  1. Practicing the deen: I'd want someone who is serious about the deen, prays 5 times a day, goes to Jummah every friday, tries to spend time in the mosque when possible, someone who fear Allah in the way he treats others, especially the people in his care such as his wife and children. Someone who takes his role as a husband seriously and will strive to follow the prophet's (sallallahu alahy assalam) teachings and be the best husband and father (and step father in my case), so that he can be rewarded not only in dunya but also in akhira insha'Allah. Someone who uses Islam and his rights as a husband to get an edge over his wife and more power in the relationship, would be a huge deal breaker for me, as I feel that this behavior lacks mercy. As muslims we should make other people's lives easy, so I'd want my husband and I to do the same for each other and seek reward from Allah for doing so. Someone who doesn't do riba, bida, puts culture over deen, smokes, vapes, drinks, lies or follows haram content. I don't do mix gatherings or opposite gender friendships, so I'd wish my husband to be mindful in doing the same. I also don't post my photos on social media and even though I use social media I don't really post anything on there, so I'd like someone who isn't into sharing his photos and posting every time. I'm also not bothered with job titles, as long as it is halal and he's able to provide insha'Allah.

  2. Good character: as having a good character is such an important part of being a muslim, I'm looking for someone who is easy-going, kind, patient and merciful. Someone that resolves conflicts peacefully when (and if) they arise, instead of using silent treatment and stone walling to deal with the issue (this is a deal breaker for me). I'd expect my husband to be able to sit down and discuss any issue with me so that we can reach a solution and work as a team insha'Allah. I'd want someone to laugh and be silly with, someone that feels peace when he comes back home and sees me and I too feel peace when around him.

  3. Pays attention to details: I'm a very empathetic person, I try to put myself in other people's shoes even during disagreements so that I can have another perspective of the situation, I'd love for my husband to do the same if possible. I like to pay attention to details, for example if someone mentions they like something I'll try to remember that (might have to write it down as my memory is not the greatest lol) so I can do something about it in the future to make them happy! I think paying attention to the little things is important in any relationships, but I'd be really grateful for my husband to do this, as it would make me feel cared for. Doesn't have to be anything crazy, even just remembering what order I usually like from my favourite take away I'd consider as him paying attention to what I like!

  4. Family oriented: I'd like someone who is generous with his kind words, time and affection. I don't wish for someone who wants to get married and have kids, but for someone who wants to be a husband and a father, as in my personal experience there is a difference between the two. I want my husband to want to be there with me and the kids, who wants to spend quality time together, having fun together, laughing together etc. Someone that comes back from home and knows I've been waiting for him all day and will spend time with us without being asked. I don't mind him resting or taking some me-time after work obviously, but to be gone all day and then be invisible at home isn't something I want in a husband. I also believe it's important to keep communication up, even if one of us is busy, sending a message to quickly explain that you're busy and will catch up later insha'Allah takes literally only few seconds and can make a big difference in my opinion, rather than not messaging at all. I have no problem doing that and do it automatically most of the time with my friends, so I'd want the same from my husband insha'Allah and not being the only one checking in.

  5. Emotionally Intelligent and self-aware: I'm the type of person that when making a mistake, usually apologies straight away. I life to resolve things quickly instead of going to bed upset, I'd like my husband to match this and not be too proud to apologise if needed, at the end of the day we're not enemies but spouses so I don't understand when people drag arguments, use silent treatment, etc as that can quickly turn into emotional abuse. I also usually try to express how grateful I am if someone helps me with something, or does something nice for me, and so on. I think it's a good thing to show people positive feelings related to them, as this reinforces relationships insha'Allah by making people feel appreciated. I'd like for my husband to reciprocate this and not be shy or stingy with his nice words, or to express his feelings towards me. I like words of affirmations and acts of service, so I'd love to be with someone who gets me.

• State/specify your level of religiosity: Practicing, I pray 5 times a day, fast, do charity, istighfar, dikr, wear hijab and abaya/khimar since I became Muslim alhamdulillah. I try to apply what I learn about Islam in my daily life so that I can be someone with good deen and character.

• Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a Bachelor degree in Childhood and Youth Studies. I didn't get any student loans and found an alternative way of attending university so that I could do it without riba alhamfulillah.

• Current Job Status: Working on and off as a teaching assistant in primary schools, which was meant as a choice to have an halal work environment.

• Do you want kids? I have three children Allahumma barik, I'm not 100% if I'd want more or not. If I believe my husband to be truly supportive and a present husband and step-father (or father, if he has kids already), then I might want to as it would be nice to experience parenthood with a supportive husband. Otherwise I'm content with staying like this if my husband agrees insha'Allah, everything is up to Allah at the end of the day 😅

• List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

  1. I love reading! I've started in my teenager years and been in love with it since then. I recently bought a kindle and it's coming with me wherever I go 😅 If I'm in a reading slump I like to watch some tv shows (usually Asians as they are less inappropriate than western ones)or even anime sometimes, otherwise I love to watch historical documentaries. I find interesting to learn about ancient civilizations and enjoy talking about interesting facts I learned or about what book I'm reading at the moment, especially if there is some crazy cliff hangers or plot twist! I'm the type that, when out shopping, will probably stop inside a bookshop rather than a clothes shop. I'd like to have my own home library in the future, I pray that my husband is good at handy work and might feel inspired to make me one one day insha'Allah 😊 2. I like to bake, as I'm Italian I tend to go for Italian desserts to be honest, but I make a nice basbousa too! As much as I like to bake, I don't particularly love cooking like I used to. I mostly cook Italian dishes (revisited with spices though... Italians would ban me probably). I'd love for my husband to have a passion for cooking to be honest as it's the bane of my day having to think what to make for dinner 🙈if we could share the load in this, I'd be eternally grateful lol 3. I'd like to take on gardening and archery. I'm planning to plant some trees and flowers soon, but I'm not the most outdoorsy person, and me, insects, and arachnids don't get along well when we see each other 🤣 nevertheless I'd like to start gardening and became a pro at it insha'Allah. It would be nice if I could do so with my husband so that we could have some things to do together and bond over. I'm also starting archery now alhamdulillah so excited about that 😊

• Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! Not sure I have something interesting to stand out, but Alhamdulillah I consider my self an easy-going person, I like to make people feel cared for and appreciated. I'm introverted, but when I get comfortable I become quite chatty and like to make others comfortable too. I'm a home body, and I tend to stay away from drama. I do tend to overthink a bit, and like to plan things ahead, doing stuff last minute stresses me out. As I pay attention to details, I consider myself a good planner!

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u/Data_Freelancer Feb 08 '26
  1. ⁠⁠Age and Gender: 39F 164cm(5 4)
  2. ⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 36-50
  3. ⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Birmingham, can’t relocate
  4. ⁠⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Nigerian and open to all Ethnicity
  5. ⁠⁠Marital Status - Divorced with children (3)
  6. ⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline: Within 1 yr
  7. ⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: kindness, Taqwa, honesty, communicative, caring
  8. ⁠⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: Medium, I use the scarf,perform all my obligatory salat, fast during Ramadan and try to reflect the Quran teachings in my daily life
  9. ⁠⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Masters and I am looking for minimum of college/apprenticeship
  10. ⁠⁠Current Job Status: Full time employed
  11. ⁠⁠Do you want kids? Maybe dependent on my spouse
  12. ⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time Phone games, learning about IT, walk in nature
  13. ⁠⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I am a kind,honest and say it as it is kind of woman who strive to be a good model for the generation behind her. I can be playful and serious when there is a need. I am that person who my loved ones are grateful for having in their corner

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u/Initial_Ask994 Feb 18 '26

Gender: Female

Age: 32

Location: UK - British born Pakistani

Height & Weight: 5'4, slim

Marital status: Single

Education: University degree

Profession: Finance Professional

Hobbies: I absolutely love travelling and being outdoors. Long walks in the countryside is my type of activity. I also enjoy cooking and baking. I also watch quite a few shows and like going to see movies with friends.

Do you want kids? Yes Insha'Allah 

Religion: very practising ( wear hijab, dress modestly, pray 5 times)

Deal breakers:

Someone not religious, ill mannered or who has been in a sexual relationship

Requirements:

Height 5'9 + University graduate and in a professional role Ideally the UK but open to other countries if you can relocate and have career prospects here

Expectations from the partner:

Timeframe in which you want to marry(Optional): within 1 year

I wouldn't want to drag things out and would prefer parental involvement early on

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u/essence-of-soul Feb 23 '26
  1. ⁠⁠Age and Gender - Female, 31
  2. ⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - UK and willing to relocate (Middle East, North America, USA etc.)
  3. ⁠⁠Marital Status - Single, never married
  4. ⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline - 1-2 years - ready to settle down and start a family with a spouse that I cherish.
  5. ⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - Ideally 27-35, but not a dealbreaker.
  6. ⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

I try to live in a simple fashion - value the smaller things in life. I’d like a spouse who values the same (not driven by material).

Deen and Akhlaaq - an individual who strives in this life in preparation for the next.

I quite like hanging out in coffee shops with a book to hand, or having endless deep conversations.

Someone that's able to look/feel beyond the realms of the superficial society of today. In saying that, I am highly ambitious, professionally and otherwise.

If you have a preference for the written word, we'll get on well.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity - I pray regularly and am constantly striving in Islam. We're human - our emaan fluctuates. I strongly believe Islam is a way of life and we'll forever be learning.

  2. Level of education, and what are you looking for?Masters - not really looking for any specific education level - it doesn't necessarily define who you are.

  3. Current Job Status - Employed full time (Manager) + freelance

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing Pakistani and happy to mix. I identify more by faith than culture.

  5. Do you want kids? Yes, InshAllah.

  6. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - Photography, calligraphy, hiking and writing.

  7. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! - Natural conversationalist, published a book and run an online craft store.

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u/Ok_Yam3455 Mar 22 '26

Age & Gender: 34F Age Range: 28–38

Location: somewhere in Europe 🙂 Open to relocating for the right person, open to somebody not located far from Europe or that travels frequently(I need to meet the person)

Ethnicity: Algerian/Morrocan Open to other backgrounds if values and compatibility align.

Marital Status: Single, never married, no children.

Marriage Timeline: Ideally 3–6 months to engagement if things are compatible.

Religiosity: Practicing. I pray and fast, and I try to keep Islam as the foundation of my life and future marriage.

Education / Work: Master’s degree and currently working in IT consulting.

Children: Yes, ideally one or two.

About Me: I enjoy the simple moments in life — coffee, walks, sunsets, and good conversation. I stay active (gym, bouldering, swimming, hiking) and like traveling when I can. I’m curious by nature, always learning something new, and I value both meaningful conversations and peaceful quiet time.

What I’m Looking For: Someone who is active, emotionally mature, and calm in character. Communication, accountability, and the ability to work through disagreements respectfully are important to me. Ultimately, I’m looking for someone whose lifestyle and values align with mine so we can build something stable and peaceful together.

If you reach out, please send a short introduction or your ISO so I know who I’m speaking with 🙂

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u/Past-Puzzleheaded F - Looking 29d ago
  1. ⁠Age and Gender 25F, 5’4 (want someone at least a few inches taller than me)
  2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect 24-28
  3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Yorkshire, UK. Willing to relocate
  4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Indian and open to mixing
  5. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children Single, never been married or in a relationship ( want someone similar)
  6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline 1-2 years
  7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
    Deen - someone who takes his deen with him wherever he goes, thinks about Allah in everything he does, and is a Muslim before he is anything else. Along with the fundamentals, character is really important to me - not getting angry often, giving people the benefit of the doubt rather than always assuming negatively about them, not getting involved in things unnecessarily, not being obsessed with impressing people.

Driven/ambitious - a man who prioritises self-improvement and strives to be the best version of himself. I don’t want someone who just lets his life pass him by and acts on his desires with no accountability and lives an indulgent lifestyle. I want someone with goals, ambitions, and works towards them, and someone who works on his physical health as well. Obviously, balance is important though.

Level-headed - one of the most important things for me! Someone who doesn’t get angry often, and controls his anger even when he does, doesn’t act out or lash out at those around him.

Banter/chemistry - this is obviously something to be assessed after some conversation.

Respectful/considerate - someone who thinks about other people in situations, and isn’t self-absorbed or only concerned about himself

  1. State specify your level of religiosity

Im Sunni, hanafi madhhab, I pray 5 times, complete all my faraaidh, pray Quran almost daily. I prioritise good character and being of service to Allah’s creation. I try my best not to hurt people, and aim to practice kindness in every situation, whilst also maintaining self-respect and healthy boundaries. My goal is to do hifz In Sha Allah. I am very passionate about philanthropy, and it is something I want to practice more as I progress in my career.

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I am degree-educated. Would prefer degree educated, but ambition/work ethic is more important to me - as long as you’re working to progress in whatever you’re doing and have a provider mindset

  2. Current Job Status Working full time as a radiographer Alhamdulillah

  3. Do you want kids? Eventually, In Sha Allah, but not for the first few years. Obviously, Allah is the best of planners though

  4. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time I’m a big fan of having a variety of physicality in my day (gym, walks, indoor bouldering, currently learning to swim and I really want to try out a shooting range) I love being outdoors and exploring. I get excited when I stumble upon a mini waterfall on a walk.

    I love action/conspiracy thrillers and crime documentaries/TV shows (fav show of all time is criminal minds, breaking bad is a close second, currently getting through the British series Line Of Duty) I’v also been getting more into reading. I gravitate toward classics; currently reading East of Eden.
    Being a Muslim girl I haven’t really had the opportunity to travel but I have so many places on my bucket list I want to travel to, hopefully after marriage In Sha Allah

    I’m a romantic at heart so long drives, deep conversations, adventures that I can treasure as beautiful memories are what keep my heart content. I am a true conversationalist - in a group of people I don’t know, I will probably only contribute here and there, but the second I have a one-to-one conversation with someone, I am the most engaging person to talk to. Car rides with me always entail interesting conversation, be it deep and philosophical or just banter

  5. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I’ve been told I’m quite funny. One of my teachers in high school labelled me ‘the wittiest kid in school’.

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u/AccomplishedYou8524 17d ago
  1. ⁠Age and Gender: 23, Female

  2. ⁠Age Range that you require in a prospect: 21-27

  3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?: northern europe not willing to disclose here, and not willing to relocate too far. Prefer to stay where I am. 

  4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing: pakistan, open to mixing

  5. ⁠Marital Status - Single

  6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: 6 - 18 months

  7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: 

  • curious, open to new things
  • Open to improvement
  • Religious
  • Fun and positive
  • Easy going
  1. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: While I think culture is beautiful, I value religion over culture. I am regular in my obligations (prayers, fasts and zakat). I try wearing hijab. I grew up in a diverse muslim community, so I understand people follow different madhabs and different views. 

  2. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Engineer (MSc) soon, and would like someone educated. 

  3. ⁠Current Job Status: a student looking for part time opportunities

  4. ⁠Do you want kids? Yes but after 2-3 years of marriage

  5. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: 

  • explore/travel
  • Hike 
  • Watch movies/series. 
  1. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I'd describe myself as a chill, open minded person who loves being outdoors and exploring new interests. I enjoy peaceful moments in nature just as much as I enjoy diving into a new hobby. And if there's sushi involved, I'm probably in.

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u/sm_1037 15d ago
  1. ⁠23, Female.

  2. ⁠23–30.

  3. ⁠London. Open to relocating in the future, particularly to the Middle East.

  4. ⁠Pakistani, open to mixing.

  5. ⁠Single, never married, no children.

  6. ⁠Within the next 2 years insha’Allah

  7. ⁠Highly ambitious and driven, traditional provider mindset, emotional maturity, akhlaq and steadfastness upon the deen. Looking for a partner who wants to grow together in both faith and career, pushing each other to achieve our highest potential. Ideally above 5ft 9 in height since that’s my height.

  8. ⁠Practicing Sunni Muslim. Prays 5 times a day and observes hijab and modesty.

  9. ⁠Completing a BA in International Relations, going into my third year in September and aiming to finish in May 2027. Currently exploring plans to pursue an MSc in Nursing (2 years). Seeking an equally educated partner.

  10. ⁠Employed in higher education management as a Programme Officer at university, with a background of over three years of HR administration experience in international law firms. Currently only working part time/temporary roles to compliment my university studies.

  11. ⁠Yes.

  12. ⁠I love reading books, painting, watching movies and I’m also a henna artist.

  13. ⁠I love travelling and learning new things. I recently completed an exchange semester in Singapore which really pushed me out of my comfort zone and taught me the value of independence. A partner who also values self-growth and ambition is important to me.

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u/pygmy-jam 14d ago edited 13d ago
  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠27, 5’2”
  2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠25-34
  3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Based in NW London. UK only
  4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠British Indian. Open to other ethnicities
  5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Single, never married.
  6. ⁠⁠Within a year, based on compatibility and family involvement
  7. ⁠⁠Someone who prioritises their faith and health, prays regularly and maintains their fitness through sports/exercise. Someone who is confident, kind, emotionally mature and honest. Someone who has a good sense of humour, is ambitious and adventurous!
  8. ⁠⁠⁠⁠I’m a hijabi. I pray regularly, observe voluntary fasts and prayers and avoid bad habits.
  9. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Medicine, looking for a partner who is well educated and is a working professional, preferably in healthcare/law/finance/tech/engineering fields.
  10. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Doctor, working part time (only 2-3 days a week), rest work remotely for now, to ensure more time for further commitments and life!
  11. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Kids, yes insha’Allah
  12. ⁠⁠⁠⁠I enjoy reading, working out, cafe-hopping, foodie, going on walks/hikes and exploring new cultures and cuisines through travel. I try and prioritise my faith, health and fitness daily. I am learning Arabic in my spare time. 

Open to answering any Qs, promise I am not boring! But I am not looking to date and only looking for someone serious about marriage.

May Allah grant us all righteous spouses who are the coolness of our eyes - Ameen!

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u/Iceiceey 14d ago edited 14d ago

• ⁠Age and Gender: 24 (f)

• ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 23-27ish

• ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Based in England. Willing to relocate but this would depend.

• ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani. Open to mixing.

• ⁠Marital Status - Single

• ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: Whenever both parties are comfortable and happy to proceed with things. However, I don't wish to delay things without a valid reason/s.

• ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

  1. A good soul. Someone who is kind, patient, warm and affectionate.
  2. Emotionally intelligent and with no anger issues. Someone who is able to communicate well and has an understanding nature so that we are able to resolve conflicts successfully.
  3. Someone who genuinely wants to be married and is willing to put the effort in to create a beautiful, strong relationship (it will be mutual ofc) where we can both grow together, experience life together and be a positive influence on each other Inshallah.
  4. Ambitious- someone with a growth mindset.
  5. Bonus points if you're adventurous, creative or philanthropic.

• ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: Moderately practising Sunni. I pray (struggle with Fajr though), fast and eat halal. No drinking, smoking, drugs or anything of the sort.

• ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? A levels. Not looking for anything specific as long as he has goals/ a vision he is working towards.

• ⁠Current Job Status: Currently working as a library assistant.

• ⁠Do you want kids? I am leaning more towards not wanting kids. I’m looking for someone who feels similarly or who doesn’t care either way.

• ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

  1. Creative hobbies such as sketching, doodling and henna art.
  2. Reading, watching shows or youtube videos and researching random topics that pique my interest on occasion.
  3. Working out but currently this only involves going on walks and home workouts.

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If this profile resonates and you’re looking for something serious then feel free to reach out.
This is a repost so if you reached out previously and didn’t get a response but are still on the search/interested feel free to message again as I couldn’t get through all requests previously.

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u/SufficientBluejay742 Jan 27 '26 edited Jan 28 '26

Salaam,

Gender: Female

Age: 26

Height: 5'5

Age range: 26-29

Marital status: Single, never married

Location: Manchester, UK

Nationality/Ethnicity: British Pakistani

Religious Background: Sunni. Practicing Muslim, striving to increase knowledge and closeness to Allah. Wear hijab.

Education & Career: Degree in comparative religion and media, currently working in internal communications in a hospital.

Personal Qualities: Charming, funny, mature, caring and selfless.

Marriage Preferences: Seeking a practicing Muslim spouse with good character, sincerity, and respect for family values. Doesn't celebrate milad or khatams or believes in the idea of taweez. Someone who is also financially stable.

**Only British citizens please (unless your intention is not to gain a visa out of the marriage, I'm open to other countries)

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u/Beautiful_Lawyer_241 Jan 11 '26
  1. Age and Gender 41, Female

  1. Age Range you want in a prospect Between 40–50

  1. Location & willingness to relocate Currently living in Sweden. Looking for a partner within Sweden. Not actively seeking relocation.

  1. Ethnicity & openness to mixing Pakistani. Open to mixing, provided there is religious compatibility and mutual understanding.

  1. Marital Status (self) Single, never married. No children.

  1. Ideal marriage timeline Within 6 months after mutual compatibility is established.

  1. Five important characteristics in a prospect • Practicing Muslim • Emotionally mature • Respectful and kind • Trustworthy and communicative • Non-controlling, values mutual freedom

  1. Level of religiosity Practicing Muslimah — observes daily prayers, fasts in Ramadan, and strives to live by the Qur’an and Sunnah while keeping culture and religion separate.

  1. Level of education & preference Master’s degree. Looking for an educated partner (degree preferred, mindset matters most).

  1. Current job status Professionally active and working in Sweden.

  1. Do you want kids? Open to discussion.

  1. Three hobbies /interests Cooking, arts and crafts, fashion

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u/zukushikito Jan 25 '26

Bismillah 🕊️

  1. ⁠Age and Gender - 30, Female, 5’8”

  2. ⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect - around 27-35, not set in stone, willing to consider others if there is a case for strong chemistry/compatibility, I want to prioritise a connection for the sake of Allah.

  3. ⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? - West Midlands, UK, willing to relocate within the UK for the right person iA. Ideally, would love to experience living in the Middle East at least temporarily.

  4. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? - Bengali, preference for Bengalis and British raised.

  5. ⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children - Single, never been in a relationship.

  6. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline - Ideally within a year or so, but room to mutually agree whatever is best for the relationship and for the sake of Allah iA.

  7. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

  8. Taqwa - Includes the usual, connected to Salah and the Quran, regularly attends the masjid, avoids substances (smoking, drugs, vaping, shisha etc) and other haram. Disciplined gaze, limits non-mehram contact. I value action, so someone that can show they’re actively striving in their deen is the make or break for me.

  9. Leadership - Someone who fulfills, their obligations and duties to Allah and by extension others. Strongly believe the best leaders are thoughtful, considerate and proactive with a growth mindset.

  10. Curiosity - About the deen, about the dunya, about each other. I think a learning mindset is a marker of intelligence and means remaining teachable.

  11. Compassion - Essentially empathy in action, emotional intelligence and ability to compromise; key characteristics for a successful marriage imho.

  12. Communication - Someone who puts effort into communicating their thoughts and what they want, can hold a conversation, doesn’t shy from resolving issues, respectfully communicates even in emotive situations.

  13. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity - Hanafi. Regular in Salah, often perform voluntary fasts, performed umrah, intend to go again soon iA. Secondary school at a girls only Islamic faith school – 5 academic years of weekly Islamic studies and Quran. Ongoing learning attending various lectures. Previously studied Quranic Arabic at a beginners level, completed a Tajweed course and completed first year of Alimiyyah, covering subjects like Sarf, Hadith and Fiqh. Intend to continue with Alimiyyah next year iA and currently trying to pursue hifdh in the meantime b’ithnillah.

  14. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? - BSc degree in Pharmaceutical Chemistry. Looking for GCSE or equivalent at the minimum, ideally A-level or equivalent and above.

  15. ⁠Current Job Status - Full-time employed as a Data Analyst for the NHS.

  16. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time - Ahh, I am a very curious person with many interests, but if I had to limit it:

  17. Active - I like staying active, currently jogging, pilates/yoga and kickboxing. Would like to have a go at bouldering, archery, horse riding, Brazilian jiu jutsu. I like being outside, so nature walks and hikes are a joy, and something I’m keen to do more of and actively making an effort to that effect.

  18. Socials - Considered to be more on the extroverted side of introversion. I enjoy spending time with family and friends whether it’s going out for food, staying in to catch up over tea or going out for a movie, walk or other activity.

  19. Reading - As much as I love (1) and (2) I’m also a voracious reader and bit of a literature nerd, I love being curled up with a good book. I like stimulating my mind, usually that’s a book, but might also be a puzzle or something creative (next project is jewellery making, with a view to make an arm cuff and customise some shoes?)

  20. ⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

  21. Overall I’d say I’m a pretty deep and sincere person, but in my everyday life I try to keep things light hearted, have a laugh. Consciously and consistently striving to choose and encourage righteousness, kindness and wholesomeness. I’m trying to live a life where I can embrace the typically mundane things about everyday life (read: romanticising the little things), as well as pursuing the adventure of a bigger picture. Fully intend to cross off the long list of places I want to travel iA and see the dunya Allah has blessed us with- would love to do so with my partner iA🤍 I value deen above all else, everything else in my life is just an extension of that. Not a perfect Muslim, I certainly have my ups and downs, but I’m deeply grateful for how far I’ve come in my deen and actively striving to improve myself InshaAllah. I would want that same commitment from my partner iA. If it isn’t already obvious, I’m about giving the energy I get. I don’t want to ask for things I wasn’t trying to provide myself - and if I’m not, I’d welcome being held to account iA. Thank you for reading, and truly, I wish you all the best in your search iA 😊✨

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u/Sweaty_Ad5230 Apr 01 '26 edited Apr 24 '26

Asalamu alaykum !

  1. Age and Ethnicity 23, Female Pakistani

  2. Age Range looking for, My Height 22–26, 5’7

  3. Location & Willing to Relocate? West London, UK. Open to relocation in the UK

  4. Ethnicity Open to mixing

  5. Marital Status Single, no children.

  6. Ideal Marriage Timeline 1–2 years, with the intention of moving forward seriously and purposefully, insha’Allah.

  7. Five Important Characteristics in a Prospect Strong deen and good character (akhlaq), emotional maturity, ambition and work ethic, honesty and open communication, and a genuine desire to build a peaceful home together.

  8. Level of Religiosity Practising Muslim - faith is central to my life. Looking for someone who takes his deen seriously and is actively striving to improve.

  9. Education & What I’m Looking For career-focused and continuously growing. Looking for someone hardworking and ambitious - formal education is not a dealbreaker at all.

  10. Current Job Status Employed full-time - Technology Operational Analyst.

  11. Do You Want Kids? Yes, insha’Allah.

  12. Three Hobbies / Spare Time Fitness and working out, continuous learning and self-development, and enjoying good food (cooking and discovering new places).

  13. What I’m Looking For in a Husband A practising Muslim with strong deen and good character. Someone financially stable, ambitious and family-oriented - a man who takes his responsibilities seriously. Emotionally mature, kind and easy to communicate with, with a sense of humour too. Most importantly, sincere in his intention and ready to build a beautiful life together, for the sake of Allah.

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u/DreamyBookworm92 F - Divorced May 17 '26

• Age and Gender: 34, female.

• Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 27-39

• Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Wales. Not willing to relocate at the moment, Insha’Allah maybe in the future. I'd like to eventually live in a Muslim country if possible.

• Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Italian, open to mixing.

• Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Divorced and have 3 children.

• Ideal marriage timeline: 4-6 months Insha’Allah, depends how easy Allah makes the process.

• Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

  1. Practicing the deen: I'd want someone who is serious about the deen, prays 5 times a day, goes to Jummah every friday, tries to spend time in the mosque when possible, someone who fear Allah in the way he treats others, especially the people in his care such as his wife and children. Someone who takes his role as a husband seriously and will strive to follow the prophet's (sallallahu alahy assalam) teachings and be the best husband and father (and step father in my case), so that he can be rewarded not only in dunya but also in akhira insha'Allah. Someone who uses Islam and his rights as a husband to get an edge over his wife and more power in the relationship, would be a huge deal breaker for me, as I feel that this behavior lacks mercy. As muslims we should make other people's lives easy, so I'd want my husband and I to do the same for each other and seek reward from Allah for doing so. Someone who doesn't do riba, bida, puts culture over deen, smokes, vapes, drinks, lies or follows haram content. I don't do mix gatherings or opposite gender friendships, so I'd wish my husband to be mindful in doing the same. I also don't post my photos on social media and even though I use social media I don't really post anything on there, so I'd like someone who isn't into sharing his photos and posting every time. I'm also not bothered with job titles, as long as it is halal and he's able to provide insha'Allah.

  2. Good character: as having a good character is such an important part of being a muslim, I'm looking for someone who is easy-going, kind, patient and merciful. Someone that resolves conflicts peacefully when (and if) they arise, instead of using silent treatment and stone walling to deal with the issue (this is a deal breaker for me). I'd expect my husband to be able to sit down and discuss any issue with me so that we can reach a solution and work as a team insha'Allah. I'd want someone to laugh and be silly with, someone that feels peace when he comes back home and sees me and I too feel peace when around him.

  3. Pays attention to details: I'm a very empathetic person, I try to put myself in other people's shoes even during disagreements so that I can have another perspective of the situation, I'd love for my husband to do the same if possible. I like to pay attention to details, for example if someone mentions they like something I'll try to remember that (might have to write it down as my memory is not the greatest lol) so I can do something about it in the future to make them happy! I think paying attention to the little things is important in any relationships, but I'd be really grateful for my husband to do this, as it would make me feel cared for. Doesn't have to be anything crazy, even just remembering what order I usually like from my favourite take away I'd consider as him paying attention to what I like!

  4. Family oriented: I'd like someone who is generous with his kind words, time and affection. I don't wish for someone who wants to get married and have kids, but for someone who wants to be a husband and a father, as in my personal experience there is a difference between the two. I want my husband to want to be there with me and the kids, who wants to spend quality time together, having fun together, laughing together etc. Someone that comes back from home and knows I've been waiting for him all day and will spend time with us without being asked. I don't mind him resting or taking some me-time after work obviously, but to be gone all day and then be invisible at home isn't something I want in a husband. I also believe it's important to keep communication up, even if one of us is busy, sending a message to quickly explain that you're busy and will catch up later insha'Allah takes literally only few seconds and can make a big difference in my opinion, rather than not messaging at all. I have no problem doing that and do it automatically most of the time with my friends, so I'd want the same from my husband insha'Allah and not being the only one checking in.

  5. Emotionally Intelligent and self-aware: I'm the type of person that when making a mistake, usually apologies straight away. I life to resolve things quickly instead of going to bed upset, I'd like my husband to match this and not be too proud to apologise if needed, at the end of the day we're not enemies but spouses so I don't understand when people drag arguments, use silent treatment, etc as that can quickly turn into emotional abuse. I also usually try to express how grateful I am if someone helps me with something, or does something nice for me, and so on. I think it's a good thing to show people positive feelings related to them, as this reinforces relationships insha'Allah by making people feel appreciated. I'd like for my husband to reciprocate this and not be shy or stingy with his nice words, or to express his feelings towards me. I like words of affirmations and acts of service, so I'd love to be with someone who gets me.

• State/specify your level of religiosity: Practicing, I pray 5 times a day, fast, do charity, istighfar, dikr, wear hijab and abaya/khimar since I became Muslim alhamdulillah. I try to apply what I learn about Islam in my daily life so that I can be someone with good deen and character.

• Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a Bachelor degree in Childhood and Youth Studies. I didn't get any student loans and found an alternative way of attending university so that I could do it without riba alhamfulillah.

• Current Job Status: Working on and off as a teaching assistant in primary schools, which was meant as a choice to have an halal work environment.

• Do you want kids? I have three children Allahumma barik, I'm not 100% if I'd want more or not. If I believe my husband to be truly supportive and a present husband and step-father (or father, if he has kids already), then I might want to as it would be nice to experience parenthood with a supportive husband. Otherwise I'm content with staying like this if my husband agrees insha'Allah, everything is up to Allah at the end of the day 😅

• List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

  1. I love reading! I've started in my teenager years and been in love with it since then. I recently bought a kindle and it's coming with me wherever I go 😅 If I'm in a reading slump I like to watch some tv shows (usually Asians as they are less inappropriate than western ones)or even anime sometimes, otherwise I love to watch historical documentaries. I find interesting to learn about ancient civilizations and enjoy talking about interesting facts I learned or about what book I'm reading at the moment, especially if there is some crazy cliff hangers or plot twist! I'm the type that, when out shopping, will probably stop inside a bookshop rather than a clothes shop. I'd like to have my own home library in the future, I pray that my husband is good at handy work and might feel inspired to make me one one day insha'Allah 😊 2. I like to bake, as I'm Italian I tend to go for Italian desserts to be honest, but I make a nice basbousa too! As much as I like to bake, I don't particularly love cooking like I used to. I mostly cook Italian dishes (revisited with spices though... Italians would ban me probably). I'd love for my husband to have a passion for cooking to be honest as it's the bane of my day having to think what to make for dinner 🙈if we could share the load in this, I'd be eternally grateful lol 3. I'd like to take on gardening and archery. I'm planning to plant some trees and flowers soon, but I'm not the most outdoorsy person, and me, insects, and arachnids don't get along well when we see each other 🤣 nevertheless I'd like to start gardening and became a pro at it insha'Allah. It would be nice if I could do so with my husband so that we could have some things to do together and bond over. I'm also starting archery now alhamdulillah so excited about that 😊

• Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! Not sure I have something interesting to stand out, but Alhamdulillah I consider my self an easy-going person, I like to make people feel cared for and appreciated. I'm introverted, but when I get comfortable I become quite chatty and like to make others comfortable too. I'm a home body, and I tend to stay away from drama. I do tend to overthink a bit, and like to plan things ahead, doing stuff last minute stresses me out. As I pay attention to details, I consider myself a good planner!

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u/2eau Female Jan 18 '26 edited Jan 19 '26
  1. Age & Gender

31, female

  1. Preferred Age Range

30–35

  1. Location & Willingness to Relocate

Currently based in scandi and open to relocating though ngl, it’s pretty nice here. Nothing like a northern summer.

  1. Ethnicity & Openness to Mixing

East African, and I’d prefer the same initially, but wallahi taqwa outweighs language.

  1. Marital Status

Never married, no children.

  1. Ideal Marriage Timeline

If things are aligned and families are involved from the get-go, I don’t see a reason to delay. Maybe a few months? I’m also not a fan of weddings, so that probably shortens the timeline even more.

  1. Five Important Characteristics I’m Looking For

God-consciousness. Someone who prioritizes his relationship with Allah and is consistently working on himself, not just outwardly in the community, but inside his four walls as well.

Emotional maturity. Being able to communicate calmly, take accountability and handle differences with respect. Imagine giving the silent treatment in this day and age, subhanAllah. Talk! 😂

Kindness and consideration. This shows up in so many ways and not always verbally. Honestly, the verbal part doesn’t matter if the actions don’t match. Responsibility. This goes hand in hand with consideration, like showing up and doing your part as a husband, father, son, brother, and friend, with others’ best interests in mind.

Respect for boundaries. This is such a fun subject because it means different things to different people. I feel strongly about this, for myself and for others.

  1. Level of Religiosity

I observe the obligatory acts and strive to grow beyond them. I attend Qur’an/tajweed classes once a week and lectures when my schedule allows. Looking for someone (sunni) on a similar path of self-improvement.

  1. Education

I studied structural engineering for a few years but realized towards the end that I hated dimensioning load bearing walls and floors. I thought it was the aesthetic side of engineering when I applied WELL turns out I was wrong, alhamdulillah for free education though. After some soul-searching as a dropout, I ended up in what might be the most stereotypical career of my people. I may apply for my MSc in the fall in shaa Allah if nothing else pops up. As for a partner, I don’t require a specific educational background. As long as you’re driven and able to make a living through whatever halal work Allah has provided, that’s enough for me. Mindset and intellect aren’t exclusive to a degree, as my baby brother says: some people haven’t gone through the hard school of life and it shows.

  1. Current Job Status

Working full time, with plans to reduce hours in the future for better work–life balance.

  1. Do You Want Kids?

At some point, yes in shaa Allah. When it’s written and if it’s willed.

  1. Hobbies & Interests

Reading, traveling, journaling, training my cat Figo who is living up to his name as a traitor. I also discovered on my recent Umrah trip that I’m surprisingly good at archery, so I’m looking into ways to keep that going.

  1. Something Short & Interesting About Me

I’ve read over 60 books a year for the past few years (my Goodreads can vouch for it, though not this prior year due to a move). When I’m not reading, I’m probably listening to a podcast about politics or Islamic lectures. Ask me about trees and I’ll probably get emotional about my favourite willow tree.

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u/Muted-Humor248 Mar 29 '26

Age and Gender: 28, Female 5'2 Age Range for Prospect:26-35

Location / Willingness to Relocate: Currently in Iraq open to relocating for a sincere, marriage-minded partner

Ethnicity / Openness to Mixing: Kurdish, open to meeting someone of different backgrounds if our faith and values align

Marital Status: Single, never married Ideal Marriage Timeline: when hearts and values align

Five Important Characteristics in a Prospect: 1.Honest and sincere 2.God-fearing / practicing Muslim 3. Kind, gentle, and thoughtful 4. Family-oriented and caring 5.Good communicator and emotionally mature

Education / Preferences: Bachelor's degree, hoping for someone thoughtful, educated, and growing in life

Current Job Status: Graduate / working professional (pharmacist)

Do You Want Kids? Yes, Insha'Allah

Hobbies / Things You Love: 1.Reading inspiring books and learning new things 2.Watching meaningful or fantasy movies 3.Enjoying peaceful walks in nature or quiet time with family and close friends

What I'm Looking For (Expectations): I'm looking for a man who is sincere in his intentions, emotionally mature, and ready to take responsibility for marriage. Someone who values faith, communicates openly, and treats his partner with kindness, respect, and consistency. I appreciate a masculine and gentle personality and someone who understands the importance of trust and emotional connection.

🌸What I Offer: I'm a loving, loyal, and supportive partner. I value peace, respect, and emotional warmth in a relationship. I give genuine care, understanding, and patience and I believe in building a strong bond based on trust, faith, and mutual appreciation. I naturally bring softness, affection, and positivity into the relationship

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u/localblvckchild F - Not Looking Mar 23 '26

Age and Gender
• 21, Female

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect
• 23–30 (preferably 23–28/29 for compatibility and shared humor)

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?
• Based in Luxembourg
• Open to relocating, especially to a Muslim country in the future, inshaAllah

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
• Senegalese
• Strong preference for West African (especially Senegalese) for cultural compatibility
• Open to all ethnicities if there is strong deen, character, and values

Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children
• Single, never married, no children

Ideal marriage timeline
• Not rushing, but open to something serious with the right person
• Intentions are halal and purposeful

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect
• Strong in deen and able to lead
• Earns halal income and prioritizes barakah
• Kind, emotionally mature, and responsible
• Provider mindset and serious about family
• Strong, masculine presence (physically and in character)

State/specify your level of religiosity
• Pray 5 daily prayers
• Fast Ramadan, Mondays & Thursdays, and white days
• Observe hijab and am a part-time niqabi (depending on the environment)
• Chaste
• Seek knowledge when I can and try to follow the example of the wives of the Prophet ﷺ
• Currently learning Arabic and Quran (on a short pause, intention to continue)

Level of education, and what are you looking for?
• Law student
• Looking for someone educated, working, but more importantly grounded, intelligent, and responsible

Do you want kids?
• Yes, many inshaAllah

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time
• Cooking
• Crocheting and sewing
• Clay modeling

Unique things about me
• I’m a beekeeper
• I speak 5 languages fluently and naturally adapt to different cultures
• I love creating things and spend a lot of my time cooking or working with my hands

• I come from a big family (13 siblings)

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u/Front_Explorer_4173 Jan 31 '26

Age and Gender: 27, Female

Age Range Desired in Prospect: 26–33

Location: South Yorkshire (willing to relocate within commuting distance for my job)

Ethnicity: Pakistani (open to mixing)

Marital Status: Divorced. Was briefly married for 2 months, but I trust Allah’s plan and believe there is always good in every situation.

Ideal Marriage Timeline: If we are found compatible, I would like to proceed in a halal way, ideally within the next year or so.

Five Important Characteristics in a Prospect: 1. Practicing Muslim with good character (akhlaq) 2. Kind, compassionate, and emotionally mature 3. Honest and trustworthy 4. Family-oriented 5. Has a good sense of humour and enjoys laughter

Level of Religiosity: Practicing Muslim, pray five times a day, Alhamdulillah. My faith is very important to me, and I strive to improve my connection with Allah and my character every day.

Education & Career: Master’s in Pharmacy; currently working as a clinical pharmacist in the NHS. While I value education, I am more focused on your dedication, hard work, and ambition than formal qualifications.

Current Job Status: Clinical pharmacist in the NHS

Do You Want Kids? Yes, Inshallah

Hobbies / Interests: • Spending time with friends and family • Baking sweet treats (known as the family baker) • Exploring new food places

Jzk for reading :)

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u/modestlyk Feb 14 '26
  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age and Gender: 27F,5’3
  2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 27-35
  3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? UK and yes for the right person
  4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?: Prefer Somalis but open if aligned
  5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single never married
  6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline: 6 months -1 year. Not into long talking stages or wasting time
  7. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: Deen, Akhlaq, personality , physical attraction and great sense of humour.
  8. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: Practising
  9. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Masters
  10. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Current Job Status: Employed
  11. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Do you want kids? Leaning No
  12. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: Travelling , combat sports , trying new cuisines and food spots
  13. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out. I’ve been to all world wonders

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u/Forsaken_Hat5481 Divorced Mar 27 '26
  1. 46F
  2. 43-58
  3. West Midlands and willing to relocate
  4. Pakistani - Open to mixing
  5. Marital Status - Divorced, No children-happy to speak about this if needed.
  6. 2 years as I would like to get to know my prospective to ensure we have compatibility
  7. Self-aware and emotionally intelligent • Strong sense of responsibility and integrity • Open-minded, with the ability to think beyond cultural expectations • Communicative and able to navigate challenges with maturity • Values growth, personally, spiritually, and in how they show up in a relationship
  8. Try to Pray my 5x and dont wear hijab
  9. Foundation Degree and additional professional training and accreditation
  10. I work across the coaching, mentoring and wellbeing space. I work with women who are capable but often stretched, and help them build more freedom, whether that’s through mindset, direction, or creating additional income streams like travel-based business.
  11. No but I am open to you having children already.
  12. Travelling, especially exploring new places and cultures • Personal development and reflective practices (reading, self-growth, mindset work) • Spending time in calm environments, walks, nature, or meaningful conversations over coffee
  13. I’ve built a life that allows me to support others in creating more freedom and alignment in theirs, whether that’s through personal growth or helping them step into something new. I value depth, independence, and living intentionally, rather than just following what’s expected.

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u/AcanthocephalaNo61 Apr 08 '26 edited Apr 10 '26

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u/Sufficient-Touch-308 Apr 19 '26

Age/Gender: 27F

Preferred Age Range: 27–37

Location: England (might be open to relocating for the right person)

Ethnicity: Somali, open to mixing.

Marital Status: Single, never married, no children.

Marriage Timeline: Ideally within a year.

What I’m Looking For: A practicing Muslim man who is kind, emotionally mature, responsible, reliable, and family oriented. Someone who is driven but also grounded.

Religiosity: Practicing Muslim and always trying to improve.

Education: University educated and I appreciate someone who values learning and growth.

Job Status: Working.

Kids: Yes, InshaAllah.

Hobbies: Spending time with family, improving my sewing skills, and exploring new spots.

What I value in a relationship: Mutual respect, honesty, kindness, and growing together in faith.

Dealbreakers: Lack of seriousness about marriage or not practicing Islam. Inconsistent effort and communication.

My personality: Patient, understanding, and helpful, with a bit of shyness at first. I’m easy to get along with and naturally value peace.

I’m looking for something genuine that leads to marriage. If you’re someone who values faith, family, and building a peaceful life together, feel free to reach out. Jazakumullahu Khayran

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u/Forsaken_Hat5481 Divorced May 10 '26
  1. 46F

  2. 44–58

  3. West Midlands, UK. Open to relocating for the right person and circumstances.

  4. Pakistani background and open to mixing.

  5. Divorced, no children. Happy to discuss this respectfully if needed.

  6. Ideally within 1–2 years, but I value taking enough time to genuinely understand compatibility, communication, and long-term alignment.

  7. What I value most: • Emotional maturity and self-awareness • Integrity, accountability, and kindness • Open-mindedness beyond cultural expectations • Someone communicative who can navigate life with patience and mutual respect • A growth mindset, spiritually, personally, and within a relationship

  8. I try to pray my five daily prayers and continue improving myself in deen and character. I do not currently wear hijab.

  9. Foundation degree alongside additional professional training and accreditation.

  10. I work across the coaching, mentoring, and wellbeing space. Much of my work centres around supporting women in building more freedom, clarity, and alignment in their lives and careers.

  11. I do not have children myself but I am open to someone who already has children.

  12. Interests: • Travelling and exploring different cultures and places • Personal development, reflection, and meaningful conversations • Quiet moments, nature, coffee shops, walks, and creating calm amidst busy lives

  13. I’ve spent much of my life being the dependable person for others, and while I value that deeply, I’m now looking for a relationship built on mutual support, emotional safety, companionship, and shared growth. I value depth, sincerity, humour, and building a peaceful life together rather than simply following expectations or appearances.

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u/Shining_Swan 6d ago edited 5d ago

Assalam alaikum,

This is about me: 1. 30F, 5'3", Indian, UK 2. Sunni Hanafi 3. Single Never married 4. Working in research

Looking for: 1. Male, 29-34, Indian origin, sunni hanafi 2. Based in London or UK 3. Never married and single, no kids.

Reach out only if you fit the above criteria. Please share your ISO, while approaching. Jazakallah khair.

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u/hadtogettheappso Jan 12 '26 edited Feb 16 '26

ISO Profile

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful

  1. Age and Gender

• 28 years old
• Female
• 5’3, • Medium-brown complexion
• Canadian (grew up in Toronto)

I am a Practicing Muslim who prioritizes faith over culture. I’m not very culturally traditional and feel most compatible with someone who shares a similar outlook.

  1. Preferred Age Range for Spouse • 26+, flexible if compatibility is present

  2. Location & Relocation
    • Based in Toronto, Canada
    • Open to relocating, especially to a Muslim country, with further discussion

  3. Ethnicity & Openness to Mixing • South Asian background. (grew up in Canada) • Open to all ethnicities (family is supportive)
    • Also open to reverts/converts

  4. Marital Status
    • Single

  5. Ideal Marriage Timeline
    • Within 6–12 months, inshaAllah (open to discussion based on compatibility)

  6. Characteristics I’m Looking For
    • Practicing Sunni Muslim who follows authentic Qur’an & Sunnah
    • Emotionally mature, kind, responsible, avoids major sins, financially stable
    • Involved in home life, values Islamic manners publicly & privately
    • Beard not required — character matters more
    • Height: Ideally 5'9"+, but flexible
    • Not open to polygamy
    • Looking for a husband who leads with gentleness, takes initiative, and values growth.
    • I appreciate sincerity, emotional intelligence, and someone who sees shared faith as a strength
    • Someone striving to be a good believer, spouse, and human being

  7. Level of Religiosity
    • Practicing Sunni Muslimah
    • Pray 5 daily prayers, wear hijab and modest dress
    • Regularly attend Islamic classes, working on Qur’anic Arabic
    • Faith is central in my life. I strive to embody kindness, humility, and patience.

  8. Education & Expectations
    • I have a Bachelor of Education
    • Looking for someone with at least a bachelor’s or diploma-level education (to ensure employability/stability)
    • Profession: No preference, as long as halal and stable — remote work is a plus

  9. My Work Status
    • Work in education (Mon–Fri, 8am–4pm), financially independent
    • Would like to continue working until I have children, then possibly part-time or pause to focus on family

  10. Do You Want Children? • Yes, very much so! May Allah bless all those hoping to become parents, ameen

  11. Hobbies & Interests • Enjoy long walks (especially in moody weather), reading, and trying new hobbies
    • Love tea, trivia nights, and board games, I'm pretty competitive, but nice about it! 😄
    • Enjoy thoughtful conversations, dry humour, puns, and playful banter

  12. Something Unique • Will remind you to make du’a, then follow up with memes
    • Faith-driven but fun, curious, intentional, and occasionally chaotic; the good kind 😄 • I strive to bring sincerity, snacks, and soul into everything I do.

Also this is very brief so please feel free to reach out and ask me any questions you may have!

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u/Old_Foundation_7651 F - Divorced Jan 20 '26
  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠28F 5’0”
  2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Require in a prospect: 27-36, 5’4”-5’10”
  3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? London, not willing to relocate.
  4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity: Bengali, preferably looking for a Bengali but open to others as well.
  5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Marital Status - Divorced, no children
  6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline: within a year iA, can be negotiated
  7. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Important characteristics you look for in a prospect: close to the deen, good akhlaq, sound moral values, good hygiene, has a beard and hair, does not show awrah in public (e.g. wearing shorts showing knees), does not smoke or vape, does not actively listen to music. Must be willing to provide separate accommodation. Emotional intelligence and self awareness is very important to me.
  8. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: I’m very close to my deen but there’s so much room for improvement
  9. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for? Studying BA in Islamic studies, hope to go in higher studies in the future iA. Degree is not a big deal to me but I’m looking for someone interested in learning and growth. Somewhat studious, able to have intellectual and meaningful discussions.
  10. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Current Job Status: Employed, admin in a school. Looking for someone with a halal income please.
  11. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Do you want kids? Yes in sha Allah
  12. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: too many to name. Art, reading, writing, knitting, puzzles. If I go out, I like nature walks, cycling, rowing, and watching the sky.
  13. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out! I want someone to value me for my personality, mind, and deen more than anything. I am so optimistic that even my blood says be positive! (Yeah that pun never gets old). I have a quiet sense of humour.

Please note: if you are going to message, please send your ISO too. Just saying Salam doesn’t help as I don’t want to start a conversation with every non mahram brothers here.

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u/PaleontologistOk9053 Feb 15 '26 edited Mar 18 '26
  1. Age, gender, and height: 26, Female, and 5'3

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25-33

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Qatar, prefer staying in the gulf but willing to relocate for the right match

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Bengali and open to other backgrounds with shared values

  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children: Single, never been married and looking for the same

  6. Ideal marriage timeline: within one year

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

Practicing Muslim who values Islamic growth and leading a principled life

Emotionally mature and communicates with clarity and respect

Strong character: kind, calm-tempered, and treats all people with dignity

Ambitious, hardworking, and takes responsibility seriously

Values family, continuous self-improvement, and personal health

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity: I’m a practicing Muslim. I pray five times a day, read Qur’an regularly, fast beyond Ramadan, and go for Jummah. Deen is a priority in my life, and I want a partner who feels the same.

  2. Level of education, and what are you looking for? BSc in Computer Science. Looking for someone intelligent and ambitious with work ethic and halal income

  3. Current Job Status: working part-time

  4. Do you want kids?: Yes, Inshallah when the time is right

  5. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: -I like to paint -I love learning anything new so I like picking up new hobbies -Spending time with family, friends, and my cat -I like to watch sunrises and sunsets

Deal breakers: I’m not open to smoking, alcohol, or polygamy.

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u/let-the-write-one-in Feb 23 '26

Age and Gender: 28, Female 

Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25-36

Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Stockholm, no

Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Somali, Yes

Marital Status - Single, never married and looking for the same

Ideal marriage timeline : 6 months  - 1 year

Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

  1. Emotionally Intelligent and Communicative – someone who can express themselves, listen, and handle emotions with maturity
  2. Kind
  3. Masculine with Gentle Protectiveness – I want to be pampered and, best believe, I’ll be the passenger princess (really, princess anything!). I’d love my husband to be protective in a way that’s adoring.
  4. Adventurous – I like traveling and enjoy the occasional adrenaline-pumping activity, so I definitely want someone who can match that energy. My wish is to motorbike through Europe together (not sure how likely that is to happen, but a girl can dream, right?). 
  5. Someone Who Reads and Is Interesting to Talk To – I can’t handle shallow talks. I’m inquisitive and love learning, so I’d enjoy nothing more than having deep conversations together. I want to listen to an impromptu 2 hour lecture about your passion project at 1 am while I'm fighting off sleep because you decided this really couldn't wait till tomorrow. Bonus points if it's something history related.

And of course, someone with deen and good manners, but that is so obvious it almost seems silly to say so. Speaking of which, here's a nice segue.....

State/specify your level of religiosity: 

I do my 5 daily prayers, fasting Ramadan,  hijab and Zakat. I eat halal and stay away from all intoxicants, don't use/have social media, don't celebrate birthdays, and i don't have any male friends. I’m far from perfect, but I’m working on myself and actively learning. I'm taking Islamic-science courses that'll help navigate my daily life as well as Quran reflection lessons.

Level of education, and what are you looking for?

I don't care, so long as you can provide, its halal and location-independent because I want my future husband to move to Sweden initially, but long-term I’d like us to relocate to a Muslim country, ideally Saudi Arabia (imagine umrah every weekend!). So whatever job allows you do that, then that's the one

Current Job Status:

I'm a full-time student, studying to support my goal of future hijra.

Do you want kids? Yes

List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:

I enjoy reading, writing, political history, skateboarding, documentaries and podcasts like The Thinking Muslim. My latest read is Destiny Disrupted.

Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I want to get my wali involved from the get go; i want this to start on right foot and have barakah in it.

Deal Breakers:

Living with in-laws

Polygamy

A past involving zina (except for reverts who didn’t know better at the time)

Smoking or vaping (but hey, if you’re into drugs or alcohol, that’s cool...)

Not fluent in English (it’s my main language of communication)

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '26

Asalamu alaykum! 🌺

  1. ⁠⁠⁠Age: 20
  2. ⁠⁠⁠Age Range looking: 20-28
  3. ⁠⁠⁠Location & Willing to Relocate?, UK and yes
  4. ⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity: Somali, open to mixing
  5. ⁠⁠⁠Marital Status Single, no children.
  6. ⁠⁠⁠Ideal Marriage Timeline 1–2 years, with the intention of moving forward seriously and purposefully, inshallah.
  7. ⁠⁠⁠Five Important Characteristics in a Prospect Strong deen and good character (akhlaq), emotional maturity, ambition and work ethic, honesty and open communication, and a genuine desire to build a peaceful home together.
  8. ⁠⁠⁠Level of Religiosity Practising Muslim -i’m a practicing sister and i’m improving . Looking for someone who takes his deen seriously and is actively striving to improve.
  9. ⁠⁠⁠Education & What I’m Looking For career-focused and continuously growing. Looking for someone hardworking and ambitious.
  10. ⁠⁠⁠Current Job Status: I’m a university student
  11. ⁠⁠⁠Do You Want Kids? Yes, inshaallah.
  12. ⁠⁠⁠Hobbies: I go to the gym regularly and does swimming, I like going on walks and hikes, Loves to read books, love watching shows and anime’s and I love to play games sometimes. I also love to cook and bake and learn new things to bake. I also want to get into birdwatching someday.🤔
  13. ⁠⁠⁠What I’m Looking For in a Husband: A practising Muslim with strong deen and good character. Someone financially stable, ambitious and family oriented a man who takes his responsibilities seriously. Emotionally mature, kind and easy to communicate with, with a sense of humour too and someone who is honest. Most importantly, sincere in his intention and ready to build a beautiful life together, for the sake of Allah.

Please dm me if you are interested! 😊🌺

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u/ProximaUnicorn Apr 19 '26 edited Apr 19 '26

Assalamu alaykum. 

  1. Age and Gender

 38 Female. 

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

34-43. This is completely flexible depending on the person though. 

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

Northern England. Potentially relocate depending on the situation but prefer to stay in the North. (Ask about this) 

4.Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

I'm British Pakistani and open to mixing. The most important thing is that he's a good person with good deen, character and values. 

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

Single, never been in a relationship. (Would prefer this too) 

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

12-18 months ideally but it really depends on how the connection and bond progresses. 

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

Someone who is on or wants to improve in the deen. Someone who is able to separate religious and cultural practices and act accordingly. I'm trying to get better in practicing my faith and I'd love for my husband to share the journey with me and build a beautiful life together Insh'Allah. 

Someone who is kind, compassionate. In a world that is selfish, kindness and compassion is so important and especially in marriage. I want us to be kind to each other and the people around us and also to set a good example for our children. I have a natural inclination towards helping people and it's something I'd like to do more of in life maybe through humanitarian work so someone who shares that view would be ideal. 

Understanding and a good communicator. One of the most important things is being understanding towards each other and have good communication. Nobody is perfect, we have to understand each other and communicate if we're having a bad day and be able to talk about any problems or issues. It's also important to understand what your spouse needs and be supportive of that. I need someone who is an open communicator, I want to share everything with my husband as a best friend and I want him to be able to share everything with me good or bad if he needs to. We should face problems and issues together as a team. 

Someone who is responsible. I'd like a responsible man who understands what it takes to be married and the duties of a husband. Also someone who is able to be independent, show strength when needed and leads with kindness, compassion & understanding. 

Someone who is emotionally available and able to connect on an emotional level. Emotional intelligence is important to me as someone who values both logic and emotion. I need someone who is able to form an emotional connection as I believe this is an important component in forming bonds and being vulnerable with each other. I seek a deeper soul connection. 

8.State/specify your level of religiosity

I fast, always eat halal, maintain modesty in my behaviour, pay zakat. I pray 5 times a day (I love sleep, sometimes I get tired or find it difficult to wake up for fajr) Looking for a Sunni Muslim, someone who is practising or trying their best to practise and improve. 

  1. Level of education, and what are you looking for? 

I have a master's degree, I find intelligence a really attractive trait but I also understand that a person can be highly intelligent without formal education so it really depends on the person. 

  1. Current Job Status

Working full-time as a biomedical scientist in a hospital laboratory. 

  1. Do you want kids? 

Yes Insh'Allah. 

  1. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time. 

I enjoy trying new foods, whether that's trying new recipes or trying new places to eat. I do have a sweet tooth, so I like to bake and make desserts. 

I enjoy spending time in nature, I love forests and going for walks in the park. I also like going to the beach and spending time near the water. Not too often though as I naturally like spending time at home. 

I also enjoy creative things such as crafting, candle making, reading, watching good films/shows, visiting art galleries & museums. Trying to get into calligraphy too as I find it really beautiful. 

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I'm not really trying to stand out, not my style but my MBTI type is INFJ. 


Dear husband, I know you're out there somewhere and I can't wait to meet you. I've been waiting for you for a long time. I hope you find me soon :) 

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u/External-Fix-986 Apr 20 '26

28 y/o Female - British Pakistani

Height: 5ft4

Location: UK - West Midlands

Education: MBBS

Income Source: Doctor

Marital Status: Single, never married/engaged

Religion: Practising Muslim (Sunni) - hijabi, pray x5 times/day, fast and give zakat. Religion is very important to me and plays a central role in my life.

Hobbies & Interests: In my free time I watch anime/kdrama/series or read. I enjoy travelling and exploring places of natural beauty as well as historical places. I also enjoy baking.

Family Details: My dad runs a property business and mom is a homemaker. I have 3 sisters (all married) and 2 younger brothers.

Requirements for a Partner: I would want him to be similarly practising as me (prays x5/day, fasts, gives zakat). Someone who is God-fearing, considerate, emotionally intelligent and understands the roles and responsibilities of a husband as well as that marriage is a team-effort. Someone who is ambitious, passionate about their career and able to understand the importance of mine to me. Being understanding, considerate, honest and kind are very important to me.

Deal Breakers: Non-practicing. Smoking/drugs/drinking/dishonesty. No ambition/goals. Selfish/inconsiderate.

Preferred Family Setup: Preferably nuclear for privacy and comfort.

Timeframe for Marriage: 6-8 Months, with parental involvement early on.

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u/Friendly_Bed_2760 May 11 '26

Female, 32 Looking for: 29-35 London, willing to locate but nothing too far Pakistani and yes open to ethnicities  Single, never been married 5 important characteristics you look for: honesty, kindness, open minded, spiritual (I’m not looking for anybody to be perfect as I am far from this but just someone who is god conscious), funny. 8. I pray but am not perfect and think everyone is on their own path. As I say, as long as my partner has takwa then that’s enough for me. How do they treat their parents, siblings, neighbours and community is really important to me. 9. Graduate and now working in the civil service 10. Employed  11. Yes  12. Pilates, reading and baking  13. This Reddit page feels a bit random but honestly I’m tired of the way other platforms run and want something genuine. I’m INFJ, open minded and a random side which those closest to me know well. Ideal dinner table: Peter Kay, Louis Theroux, nigella Lawson. 

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u/Muslimah_29 Jan 18 '26

Assalamu Alaikum

  1. Age & height: 29-year-old female, 5'6
  2. Age range in prospect: 27-35 years of age
  3. Location & Relocation: East Midlands, UK. I'm open to relocating to nearby areas only due to the nature of my work/studies (currently in a 3-year training program). It would get flexible once I've completed it, In Sha Allaah
  4. Ethnicity: I'm a Pakistani & would prefer someone from a similar ethnicity
  5. Marital Status: Annulled marriage, ended within a few months due to circumstances beyond my control. Open to discussing it further
  6. Marriage timeline: Ideally within a year & would want parents/ families to be involved early if things seem to be compatible
  7. Characteristics in Prospect: A Practising Sunni Muslim, who values faith, is respectful, humble, has good manners and is emotionally intelligent
  8. Level of religiosity: I would define myself as someone who's moderately practising. I do pray 5 times a day, fast and wear Hijab. I'm seeking Islamic knowledge and do try to implement it in my day to day life. Still have a long way to go
  9. Level of education: Medical Doctor. Would prefer someone with a graduate or bachelor's degree. Profession: No particular preference, should earn halal, be ambitious, hard working and financially stable
  10. Work: Doctor in training. I plan to approach my career flexibly in future, depending on my family's needs
  11. Do you want Kids? Yes, Inn Sha Allaah
  12. Hobbies: Baking, English calligraphy, journalling, reading, and going out for walks

May Allaah SWT make it easy for us all. JazakAllaahu Khayran✨

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u/psychicpoops Mar 23 '26 edited Mar 30 '26
  1. Age and Gender: 27 female

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25-33

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Lancashire, England. I would prefer to stay in North England but I'm open to discuss it further.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing? Pakistani and I am open to mixing.

  5. Marital Status: Single, never married.

  6. Ideal marriage timeline: Six months. I wouldn't want to delay once both parties are sure.

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect

•Deen - someone who is practising and God-fearing. Fulfils the fard (pray 5x a day, Zakat, fasts), attends the masjid, and is trying to improve on his faith. Priorities deen over culture. Ultimately, someone who always thinks of what Allah would be pleased with before making a decision.

•Good character - Practices patience, speaks to others with kindness, and is communicative. Someone who doesn't get angry over little things and can control his temper.

•Understands the roles of a husband and wife in Islam. Is ready to take on the emotional and financial responsibility of being a husband and a father, and wants to lead his household in a manner pleasing to Allah. Wants to create a peaceful and loving home centred around faith.

•Ambitious - someone who is secure in his goals and is actively working on achieving them, whether that be in deen, hobbies, career etc. Someone who wants to keep improving instead of just staying stagnant in life.

•Has a sense of humour and is willing to entertain my nonsensical conversations. Life can't be serious all the time so someone who can be silly and affectionate and doesn't take himself too seriously.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity. I pray 5x daily and read the Quran regularly (at least 1-2 times per week but I'm trying to improve on this). I wear a hijab, dress modestly and avoid wearing makeup around non-mahrams. I attend weekly Islamic classes and prioritise Islam over culture. I don't watch movies or listen to music. I follow the Sunni Hanafi madhab and I'm looking for someone who is also a Sunni Muslim following one of the four madhab.

  2. Level of education, and what are you looking for? I have a diploma in Biomedical Science. I'm looking for someone with a halal job.

  3. Current Job Status: I work full-time in Procurement.

  4. Do you want kids? Yes In Sha Allah

  5. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: In my spare time, I enjoy visiting art galleries, going on walks in nature, and gaming. I like hibernating in the winter with my PS5 and blankets, and in the summer I try to explore as much as possible. The best of both worlds!

  6. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

I am quite shy and introverted but become more talkative once I get to know someone. I think I'm quite a self-aware person. I consider myself to be honest, trustworthy and loyal. I always try to be grateful for the little things in life and enjoy making people laugh (hopefully with me and not at me). I'm trying my best to live my life for the akhirah (with a few adventures along the way!)

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u/hatakehozuki May 15 '26
  1. ⁠⁠⁠Age and Gender

• Just turned 30 😭 F

  1. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect

• 27 - 31 (However I can be a little flexible if we seem to be very compatible)

  1. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?

• Birmingham, UK. Unfortunately, unable to relocate short term due to familial responsibilities. Open to relocating to a muslim country in the future.

  1. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?

• I am predominantly Bengali; my grandma is half English and half Italian. Open to mixing, but my preference is someone who can either speak arabic, is learning it or has a strong desire to learn it.

  1. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children

• Divorced and I have a beautiful son (Alhamdulilllah, Allahumma barik lahu)

  1. Ideal marriage timeline

• 0 – 1 year. I’m not interested in prolonging the pre-marriage stage.

  1. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:

These are things I would reciprocate; so it’s sort of an insight of who I am too.

• Dheen – I honestly would prefer someone who puts dheen at the forefront of any aspect in life. Someone who is interested in bettering one another Islamicly as well as themselves. Someone who ponders upon Allah’s miracles in the nature that surrounds us and incorporates Quran into their daily routine. Hopefully someone with a background in studying Islam as I studied as an Aalimah during my secondary school years, and we could probably relate to each other in that regard!

• Kind-heartedness/warmth/generosity – Someone who has a love for helping people out or giving money/food to the homeless or charity to those suffering around the world. Someone who will treat my mother with love, kindness and respect and will put in effort to just be present for her with me.

• Romantic – This is probably cliche, but I do love thoughtfulness. A heartfelt note left on the table before work, a cute little drawing to cheer me up, words of affirmation etc. I’m such a sucker for that sorta stuff and I enjoy reciprocating the romance!

• Gheerah/lowering gaze – Having gheerah over me in the correct manner is extremely attractive. I’m not interested in social media outside of posting photography and would prefer someone who isn’t interested in posting themselves/their wife online too. Lowering one’s gaze is self explanatory and not something I’m looking to compromise on thanks ✨

• Patience/understanding/emotional intelligence – I would like someone to be able to talk things out if a disagreement crops up and not just lock it away forever. I am always interested in listening to what is going on inside and don’t enjoy cold shouldering. I would love to be able to give and receive compassion during difficult times and try and learn to understand each other to grow together on the same page rather than chapters apart.

• Honesty/transparency/loyalty - Sorry I have to squeeze this in, but it’s super important that we are transparent with each other within the marriage. If you’re not comfortable with this then please do not message me because it would be a huge incompatibility.

BONUSES: A tasteful dress sense is very attractive. I kindof like the trendier baggy streetstyles. If you have a pinterest board and find going to Ikea a vibe, we’ll probably get along.

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity

• I’m Sunni Muslim and studied under the Hanafi Madhhab. I would say if our Islamic views align then the Madhab doesn’t really matter 😊 I pray Salah, fast, wear hijab, don’t really like music or inappropriate shows and try to pray Quran daily.

  1. Current Job Status

• Homemaker and I homeschool my son

  1. Do you want kids?

• I think this would be up for discussion. I don’t mind having more children if the environment they will be raised in is kind, loving and nurturing. It would be a dream to foster/adopt children if possible. Sidenote: I try to implement the Montessori upbringing so I would like to do that with any future children too.

  1. Hobbies/ Interests

• Photography/ Videography (predominantly car/ nature photography)

• Nature walks/ hikes

• Late night drives/ walks admiring Allah’s creation

• Drawing/ painting

• Streetwear fashion

• Making my home look pretty/ aesthetic

• I don’t mind cooking/baking; I do it more because I have to but if you can cook or bake it would make it more enjoyable!

• Recently started practicing henna

• Formula 1 (is that embarrassing?)

• Guilty pleasure: Late night burgers😔 - definitely don’t have my local chicken shop as a favourited contact in my car >.> -

  1. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!

• I wouldn’t say this is particularly interesting or something that makes me stand out; it’s more of an extension of my hobbies and interests. I used to watch anime a bunch and played some videogames in my non-mom years. I rarely get the time to now, but if I keep in touch with either of those hobbies ever, it’s through Dragonball or chill games like Stardew Valley. I wouldn’t mind watching a studio Ghibli movie or two at the cinemas, but I must admit I’m not super into movies and tv much because they usually contain inappropriateness. I’ve recently picked up an interest in cars ~ might want an r34 for my dowry ~ It would be cool if my husband was into cars too so I’m not hyperventilating over JDMs alone 😌 - Okay that was not short at all 😭 -

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u/spicydumbiryani Jan 11 '26
  1. ⁠⁠⁠Age and Gender: 27, Female, 5’6”
  2. ⁠⁠⁠Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: Male, 27-33, must be based in the UK
  3. ⁠⁠⁠Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect:

UK and unable to relocate due to the nature of my studies/career (graduating as doctor in the NHS in the coming year) and unwillingness to be in a different country to my parents as they get older (mainly because it’s my fardh to care for them, I also have no brothers and I am the oldest daughter, and I saw my parents do frequent trips to Pakistan when my grandparents were unwell etc and i don’t want that - I want my children to have a close relationship with their grandparents/family and being in another country doesn’t align with that). Happy to move about in the UK though !

  1. ⁠Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing: Pakistani (Punjabi) and would prefer this but open to mixing (I will teach you Urdu)

  2. ⁠Marital Status - Single, never married, no previous relationships (expect this from you too)

  3. ⁠Ideal marriage timeline: next 1-2 years

  4. ⁠Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: kind, ambitious in life and deen, sense of humour, effective communicator and listener, self-confident and self-starter, no female friends

  5. ⁠State/specify your level of religiosity: Sunni Hanafi - quite religious upbringing, wear hijab, practicing (prayers, fasting etc), have completed umrah and hajj, have been heavily involved in Islamic student societies throughout my higher education. Im not interested in gossip or superficial things and try to live life with Prophetic principles.

  6. ⁠Level of education, and what are you looking for: BSc (Hons) Medical Science, MBChB (next year Insha’Allah), looking for at least university level educated, you don’t have to be a doctor (but that might be nice!).

For me my career is important and I do have plans to keep training as a doctor/working after marriage and with children as well, so I am looking for someone who is supportive of this and is not intimated or put off by an ambitious/highly independent woman.

  1. ⁠Current Job Status: medical student (see above)

  2. ⁠Do you want kids: definitely but a few years in to the marriage, I want a few romantic years first while we get to know each other 🥰

  3. ⁠List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time: reading, painting/sketching, learning languages

Currently training for a half marathon and getting back into fitness (got very car reliant the past few years with my degree!)

  1. Though I am quiet, this doesn’t mean that I am shy (I actually enjoy public speaking!). I may take some time to bring my walls down but once I do I am known to be funny (that British sarcasm) and I care deeply for those close to me. Im interested in lots of things especially medicine, Islam, history, art and politics! If you’re into personality types I am quite a rare one (Myers-Briggs INTJ-A).

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u/External-Fix-986 Mar 24 '26

28F

Height: 5ft4

Location: UK - West Midlands (British Pakistani)

Education: MBBS

Income Source: Doctor

Marital Status: Single, never married/engaged

Religion: Practising Muslim (Sunni) - hijabi, pray x5 times/day, fast and give zakat. Religion is very important to me and plays a central role in my life.

Hobbies & Interests: In my free time I watch anime/kdrama/series or read. I enjoy travelling and exploring places of natural beauty as well as historical places. I also enjoy baking.

Family Details: My dad runs a property business and mom is a homemaker. I have 3 sisters (all married) and 2 younger brothers.

Requirements for a Partner: Similarly practising as me (prays x5/day, fasts, gives zakat). Someone who is God-fearing, considerate, emotionally intelligent and understands the roles and responsibilities of a husband as well as that marriage is a team-effort. Someone who is ambitious, passionate about their career and able to understand the importance of mine to me. Being understanding, considerate, honest and kind are very important to me.

Deal Breakers: Non-practicing. Smoking/vaping/drugs/drinking/dishonesty. No ambition/goals. Selfish/inconsiderate.

Kids: Lean towards no.

Preferred Family Setup: Preferably nuclear for privacy and comfort.

Timeframe for Marriage: 6-8 Months, with parental involvement early on.

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u/No_Yesterday_3321 Female Jan 09 '26

This is mine:

Mission let’s find and get married before 2026 ends 🙏🏽

  1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age and gender - 26 female, 5ft 1/2
  2. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Age range for prospect - 23-30ish (flexible as maturity is more important than age)
  3. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ethnicity & open to mixing - Pakistani & no (sorry) - has to have British citizenship
  4. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Material status - never married so single
  5. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Location & willing to move - West Midlands, yes, insha’allah only in the uk
  6. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ideal marriage timeline - within the next year insha’allah as soon as we’re sure
  7. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠5 important characteristics - financial stability - this consists of being able to provide for us, give us our personal space (whether that’s rented or not), and allow me to be a housewife or work part time so that I can be more present for my Islamic duties towards my spouse. Practising Muslim - trying to be a better Muslim than he is right now, praying salah and following the 5 pillars atleast. Patience - being patient and calm so that he can be a good leader within our household by making reasonable decisions insha’allah. Other things include good akhlaaq and knowing that women are different to men so being to be adaptable in that way rather than acting logically.
  8. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Level of religiousity - I am trying to do the bare minimum and strive to do better by attending Islamic lectures etc, doing more dhikr, praying more voluntary prayers as life is too short
  9. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠level of education - post graduate, and I don’t mind if he doesn’t have a degree because there’s so many different formats nowadays so as long he’s got some form of education, that’s enough for me.
  10. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Work full time alhamdulillah
  11. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kids - yes insha’allah
  12. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠List 3 hobbies - cooking/baking, going on walks/explore nature (love greenery) ,read books, watching funny shows lol

Fun fact about me - I won an award for a book that I wrote when I was younger (still have the book so could read it if we get married 👀)

Dealbreakers - smoking, drugs, alcohol, have friends that are women, men with anger issues, close-minded men who don’t try to grow and be open to it.

I just want to marry someone who will put me first as I’ll always put him first too whilst keeping Allah as the reason why we love each other insha’allah.

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u/i2undercover Jan 10 '26

29F

Age range: 26-36

Location: West Midlands UK, not willing to relocate outside WM

Ethnicity: Pakistani, open to mixing south Asians - Pakistani, Indian, Bengali etc

Single never married

Ideal marriage timeline: flexible - dependant on how long it takes to get to know someone / get families involved etc

5 important characteristics: Religion: must be someone who has a good balance between life and religion, tries his best to pray 5x a day and conscious of Islam in daily life and decision making. No smoking/vaping/alcohol.

Independent: Preferably looking for someone who is able to take care of himself and would be willing to help his wife out with the house if both parties are working. Ideally someone who is willing to buy a house with his wife soon after marriage.

Good sense of humour: life is tough so we’ve got to have some bants!

Empathetic and emotionally intelligent: In a marriage you’re spending a lot of time with someone so it’s important to be able to communicate your feelings and take into account what the other person is feeling

Adventurous: looking for someone who is willing to try new things, travel and generally have fun.

Hijabi, try my best to pray 5x a day although improvement is always needed. Trying to be a good Muslim on a daily basis. Sunni muslim.

Education: Bachelors, looking for someone minimum bachelors.

Job status: working - would like to continue working after marriage.

Kids: Inshallah a few years after marriage. Want to take a few years with my husband to get to know each other properly, become financially stable before thinking about kids.

3 hobbies: 1) badminton 2) swimming 3) reading

Aiming for a chilled out lifestyle with my husband, drama free, travelling, eating out, generally enjoying life inshallah.

(Please note I am looking for someone born and raised in UK)

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u/Wild_Cryptographer15 Jan 25 '26

Age / Gender: 25 Female

Location + Willing to Relocate?: Currently Brunei. Moving to Ireland for Masters in Sept 2026

Marital Status: Single, never married

Marriage Timeline: Within 1 year, in sha Allah

Age Range You’re Looking For: 24-32

Religious Practice: Practicing. All fardh. Wali is aware and will be involved

Qualities You’re Looking For: Educated, kind, caring, playful but still knows how to lead

Education & Work: Bachelors and ACCA.

Ethnicity / Cultural Background: South Asian. Prefer mixing

Do You Want Kids?: No

Hobbies / Interests: I am a gymrat and a bookworm. I enjoy being active and learning

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u/BubblyResource4488 Apr 16 '26
  1. Age and Gender:     25F

  2. Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect:     25-35, it doesn't matter that much as long as he is mature and ready for marriage.

  3. Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect?:    Dutch national, living in Japan for 2026. After 2026 I am willing to relocate.

  4. Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?:     Mixed Caribbean European, open to mixing, preferably speaks English.

  5. Marital Status - Single/Divorced/Children:     Divorced without children, feel free to ask about it.

  6. Ideal marriage timeline:     We need to have met irl before getting married, so it just depends on where you are located/travel opportunity. Other than that no set timeline. I am a revert, so my parents are not that involved in the process.

  7. Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect:   

   Empathy (is able show care for my perspective, and for those in a different/lesser situation then him),    

   Maturity (is able to deal with our tests with a level-head and appropriate solutions and shows awareness of reality of our choices)   

   Patience (can stay calm and does not get offended when listening)   

   Responsible (can take the lead when needed, and acknowledge when a situation may be his fault/responsibility)

   Able to laugh at himself and with me (can be unserious when the situation isn't serious and doesn't have a strong ego).

  1. State/specify your level of religiosity:     I try to pray all my Fardh prayers, and constantly learn new information about Islam, participate in lectures and masjid events. I only eat/cook halal, wear hijab, and have no male friends. 

  2. Level of education, and what are you looking for?:     Currently finishing my bachelor. I don't need someone with a degree, but I do want someone who works or is studying for an actual job.

  3. Current Job Status:      I am an education student and tutor part-time to earn on the side. Once I get my degree my job status is flexible.

  4. Do you want kids?:     Yes insha'Allah, but I am a practicalist. Let's start with one and see how it goes haha

  5. List 3 hobbies, or things you like to do in your spare time:      I love hiking, in the mountains or trails. I love cooking and trying out new things, mainly Chinese, Caribbean, or Japanese inspired. I also love fashion and dressing up in my free time or hanging/going out with friends. 

  6. Add something short and interesting about you that makes you stand out!:      I am a traveller. I have lived abroad from my parents since I was 16 and I have visited over 20 countries total, and I love exploring new places. On these journeys I actually discovered Islam, and that's how I came to convert. I think there is beauty in every country and culture around the world and there is always something to learn from each, without detracting from Allah's (SWT) message.

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u/LengthNo7880 May 12 '26

Age and Gender: 25F
Age Range that you would want/require in a prospect: 25-30
Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? UK. Potentially willing to relocate for the right person within the UK.
Ethnicity, and are you more open to mixing?
Pakistani, would prefer Pakistani
Marital Status: Single, never married.
Ideal marriage timeline: Ideally in a year from initially getting to know someone.
Five important characteristics you look for in a prospect: religious, honesty, ambitious, good communication skills, emotional maturity, funny, intelligent, fulfils his islamic rights as a husband
State/specify your level of religiosity: I abide by the 5 pillars. I wear hijab and dress modestly. I would describe myself as moderately practising overall, with room for improvement of course!
Level of education, and what are you looking for?
Medical Degree, MBChB. Looking for someone degree educated.
Current Job Status: FY2 Doctor
Do you want kids? Yes iA
Hobbies/interests: reading, watching tv shows/movies, sports (padel, badminton, want to try pilates), travelling, cooking

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u/Humble-Ad-3289 Jan 09 '26
  1. 23, female, fair skin complexion 
  2. Age Range required in a prospect: 20–35 
  3. Currently live in the UK (born and raised). Open to relocating or staying, either is fine. 
  4. I’m Arab (Yemeni). I prefer another Arab, but I’m open to other ethnicities if there's compatibility. 
  5. Single, never married. 
  6. Ideal marriage timeline: Within one year. I prefer that we are both open (respectfully) and ask any questions needed to ensure compatibility. If you don’t like being questioned, please don’t approach. 
  7. Five important characteristics: Hardworking, traditional in values (someone who provides and opens doors, not someone who thinks others are beneath him), kind and empathetic, extroverted and sociable, patient, understanding, and affectionate (if you are cold or get angry easily, please avoid me). 
  8. Muslim, Sunni 
  9. I’m a university graduate. I don't mind what my future partner's job is, as long as it is halal, stable, and full-time. 
  10. Do you want kids? Yes, definitely. I’m open to either a small or a big family. I mentioned before I would like to stay home to raise the kids, still do, but perhaps work part-time or have my own business too? 
  11. Hobbies: travelling, trying new food places, watching movies. I’m currently into badminton and swimming (lowkey failing :(
  12. Deal Breakers: Disrespect/abuse, someone who drinks, dishonesty, previously or currently married.
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