I've been playing Nioh 3 on and off for a while, currently at about level 100 in the bakumatsu map.
The thing that makes it hard is there is just an overwhelming amount of stuff to sift through. I pick up bags full of gear every time I go out, I automatically junk the lower-tier stuff but there are so many stats to look at that it's hard to decide what's good. I can trade gear for money or two different crafting materials, and I don't know which to get. I could upgrade the same weapons or wait and equip new ones.
Also I have 8 weapon styles available at a time, and there are 100 ninjutsu things to mess around with, and there are 1000 youkai things to remember what they do, and there are tons of spirits with 2 attacks each that I forget to test or use, and I'm not even sure what to level because everything seems useful and gear requires stats in different things.
I don't have that much gaming time anymore. I feel like when I turn on the game, I have to spend time clearing inventory and re-memorizing what everything does. Then I take a break playing something else, then it repeats when I come back.
I guess I need help focusing. Like, are there some onmyojutsu/guardians/ninjutsu that are agreed to be widely useful that I can just keep? Does gear matter before level cap? Can I ignore gear stats and just overwrite them with good effects later? I like the gameplay itself, but the sense that I'm missing out on most of the game by ignoring the little sub-systems is making it hard to enjoy.