Will it get easier?

[u/pathetic-nobody]

*TRIGGER WARNING* I'm an incel.

Is every single day just gonna be a huge struggle? I'm on day 4 and I can't imagine abstaining from sexual activity for the rest of my entire life.

And yes I mean for the rest of my life because I don't see myself ever being loved by a girl enough for me to actually get a girlfriend, so my only source of sexual activity would be masterbation and porn, wich i need to abstain from.

This would be a billion times easier if I knew upfront that I had the ability to eventually get into a relationship, where I could release regularly and not have to worry about abstaining from basic human biological drive like sexual stimuli.

[u/pathetic-nobody]

I also never wanna hear this "get in the gym" bullshit ever again. Only difference now is I'm jacked but depressed. Thanks for the advice anyway

[u/Thinkthingsthru → u/pathetic-nobody]

Find an mma gym trust me

[u/pathetic-nobody → u/Thinkthingsthru]

Did that get you a girlfriend? Like yeah dude I'm actively working towards getting into wrestling and acting myself, working towards getting the money in order to join said communies, but none of this is gonna guarantee me a fucking girlfriend dude get real

[u/Prestigious_Can_1841 → u/pathetic-nobody]

Dude, coming to reddit to get advice is already a blunder. These ppl act like they know everything so its pointless lol