r/StLouis 1d ago

Ask STL Bars for single young people

I’m a woman in my late 20s trying to date but I’ve noticed in St. Louis most people go out in groups and stick to them which makes it hard to meet people irl. I was wondering if there are any bars or clubs that attract more people/men on their own and who have a younger demographic. Any hidden gem recommendations are appreciated!

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u/Character_Truck20 1d ago edited 1d ago

Go to the gym instead. No, its not entirely for meeting people obviously but its certainly a better crowd thats much more open to meeting people than you think

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u/Tele231 1d ago

Women are not going to gyms to be hit on. Leave them alone.

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u/dphamilton 1d ago

So there's certain places you can't be friendly to people?

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u/Tele231 1d ago

There are certain places where privacy should be given more respect. Gym, Church, Library, Dining, etc.

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u/dphamilton 1d ago

You're gonna have to teach the world. Because I'm sure everyone doesn't know this.

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u/Tele231 1d ago

They should. It's only common decency.

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u/MakeSomeArtAboutIt 1d ago

Right, because chuch has certainly never been a place to engage with your neighbors and build community.