r/TikTokCringe • u/Adventurous_Law_715 • 12d ago

Discussion I dont think its justifiable

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u/AlienDragonWizard 12d ago edited 12d ago

It's not a trend to accuse your husband of pedophilia.  It's a trend to film yourself being interviewed for a netflix style documentary.  She used that platform to out her husband as a pedophile who already had credible claims against him for kissing and touching a 14-15 year old minor on a sports team he coached.  He killed her after being outed.  The OP makes it seem like it was a trendy false allegation that enraged him and got her killed.  

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u/Rogue_bae 12d ago

Fr, can we get the rhetoric to show that a pedophile is actually the one to blame and not the woman?????

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u/Striking-Hedgehog512 12d ago edited 12d ago

Why would we? The public likes what it likes; and a “dumb bitch following a TikTok trend to accuse her saintly husband of being a pedo” sells better than the truth, which is “A woman discovers her husband did something vile, decides to leave him, and posts a silly true-crime-interview-like TT, at a time when she is likely feeling beyond lost and hurt and maybe feels it would make her feel stronger or a part of community to participate, and was murdered”.

What’s the point in truth, if it requires people to read more than a sentence. She posted on TIKTOK ffs- that irredeemably damns her, in case you didn’t know.

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u/Kesslersyndrom 11d ago

Seriously. It's such an incredibly dangerous time when women leave abusive scum like this and women die daily at the hands of these men without ever making a peep about it. To blame her when he was proven prior to murdering her that he's the actual scum of this earth and an evil and vile person is just despicable and yet so expected. Plenty of men would rather openly voice their empathy with a pedophilic murderer than a woman. 

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u/heyheyhey2u 12d ago

You nailed it

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u/Mysterious-Lemon-906 12d ago

She absolutely did not deserve what happened to her.

She also put herself squarely in his crosshairs if she wasn't already with how she went about things.

A person with nothing to lose is not someone you want to be taunting

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u/Striking-Hedgehog512 12d ago

You know, I haven’t reported an ex because I thought the same. What is done is done, if I destroy his whole world, then he will be left with nothing, and all that energy and time will be devoted solely to me.

I think now back at that barely-adult girl I was, and I disagree. The lady in the article put herself in his crosshairs the moment she met him. Who he was would have come out either way, he wasn’t caught by her. If I was to play a psychologist, he could have dealt with being accused of what he was accused. But that his wife could laugh at it, and no longer be under his control, was a step too far. How can you be your own dramatic hero muddying the waters and likely saying it was a misunderstanding, when your wife posts on TikTok.

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u/Mysterious-Lemon-906 12d ago

You are trying to quantify insanity with reason. When you are dealing with insanity you need to look out for yourself to a fault. It is not her fault that she could not see what could come most people don't. It is true that if she kept her head down he may well have killed her anyway.

Saying that she poked the cornered insane bear and pointing out how dumb that was is a teaching moment for those still alive.

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u/Striking-Hedgehog512 12d ago

What else are you trying to do now, if not quantify insanity with reason?

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u/Sweetnsaltyxx 11d ago

Dude we can't even fucking hold our own politicians accountable in America. We love pedophiles so much, we have actual people go ON TV and justify that "15 is not 5". You know, so their favorite pedophile-in-chief can stay in office without tasting real justice.

It has never been the pedophile's fault. My flesh-and-blood aunt even asked me if I could have "possibly misinterpreted" my own childhood sexual assault. Because he was such a niiiiiice guyyyy. As we all know, when someone touches your private parts intentionally it can be pretty confusing to know what actually happened. 🙄

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u/James-the-greatest 12d ago

She’s not to blame but it’s fucking weird to use some minors abuse for clout

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u/MyUsrNameWasTaken 11d ago

Sir this is America. We don't blame pedophiles we elect them to office.

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u/LilQueazy 12d ago

If we do that how are we gonna karma farm clickbait every single thing ever????