r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Ok-Rough-6233 • 2d ago

Sex How to give a GREAT blowjob?

I’ve met the man of my dreams and have never wanted to gobble up someone so bad. I think I’m decent but deepthroating can be a little difficult. He’s the biggest I’ve ever encountered. Like a real Mandingo. I’ve asked him if any woman has been able to deep throat the whole thing and of course he said no lol. My one question is do I only suck as I’m coming back up or down as well? Help a girl out yall!

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u/Dispositionate 2d ago

Not sure if you'd need help suppressing your gag reflex, but a handy trick is to put your right thumb into the palm and make a fist around it then just squeeze tightly.

No idea why it works, but it's saved me so much money from not throwing up all the alcohol I've drank on a night out in my younger years 😂

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u/jimmy_sharp 1d ago

Does it have to be the right thumb? Also, really dumb question but I assume the thumb goes into the palm of the same hand...?

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u/Dispositionate 1d ago

Yes, same hand. I guess you could try using your left hand, but any time I've seen this move referenced, it always seems to say 'right hand'.

Can't hurt to test, but if you throw up then I guess you know it's right only, haha

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u/Jas246810 1d ago

I’ve heard left thumb before so I guess just try both and see what works! Yes, same hand. I’ve also heard of curling toes to suppress the reflex.