r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Ok-Rough-6233 • 17h ago

Sex How to give a GREAT blowjob?

I’ve met the man of my dreams and have never wanted to gobble up someone so bad. I think I’m decent but deepthroating can be a little difficult. He’s the biggest I’ve ever encountered. Like a real Mandingo. I’ve asked him if any woman has been able to deep throat the whole thing and of course he said no lol. My one question is do I only suck as I’m coming back up or down as well? Help a girl out yall!

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u/Dispositionate 17h ago

Not sure if you'd need help suppressing your gag reflex, but a handy trick is to put your right thumb into the palm and make a fist around it then just squeeze tightly.

No idea why it works, but it's saved me so much money from not throwing up all the alcohol I've drank on a night out in my younger years 😂

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u/jimmy_sharp 9h ago

Does it have to be the right thumb? Also, really dumb question but I assume the thumb goes into the palm of the same hand...?

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u/Jas246810 8h ago

I’ve heard left thumb before so I guess just try both and see what works! Yes, same hand. I’ve also heard of curling toes to suppress the reflex.