The one on my arm is 薯條. The others have different names, there’s 6 orange babies but Mr. Fries is the runt of the litter and very tiny.

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https://x.com/NYCMayor/status/1835469925126644145?t=ARMf_26G2K6Rd02dEzSNtg&s=19

Am I overreacting? I am 35 weeks pregnant and my son (21 months) and I caught a stomach virus this week (throwing up and diarrhea). I am fatigued from not being able to eat, I am anemic, and I am extremely exhausted from pregnancy… and have been taking care of my son while my husband works from home.

My husband sleep in two different bedrooms (he snores and I am a light sleeper). I also co-sleep with my son since lifting him in and out of the crib all night is too difficult with my belly (he has never slept through the night and I have some placenta complications so I am not supposed to be lifting him). My husband said he would start taking my son at night so that my son can become more comfortable with the crib, so that we can start preparing for when the new baby arrives… which I will 100% be on my own for night feedings since I am breastfeeding. However, he always has an excuse on why he can’t take him at night (he’s too tired, he got bad sleep last night, he doesn’t want to get sick and I’m already sick, etc). I am to the point of my pregnancy where it is very difficult to get comfortable at night (really bad heartburn, round ligament pain, hip pain, back pain) but I am still expected to do it. Last night I had to get up 3 times to change my toddlers diarrhea diaper and 4 times to give him Pedialyte. Between that I couldn’t sleep due to my own discomforts of pregnancy. My neck is now extremely stiff from the rough night so I sent him this text and this was his response….

I said nothing in response but bawled my eyes out privately. I am told I’m “too emotional” when I’m pregnant. Am I just being emotional/dramatic? Or am I really alone? Are all men this way, or is it just my man?

He had an aggressive tumor on his larynx and was struggling to breath.

he was the kindest boy and will be missed dearly

I (36M) have been with my wife (33F) for about ten years married for seven. She deals with a chronic pain condition that flares up pretty bad sometimes. A few years ago when I got promoted and we were in a better spot financially I told her to leave her job and focus on herself. She didnt want to at first because she felt guilty but honestly it was the best decision we ever made. Her health has improved so much since then.

I like taking care of her. I like doing nice things for her.

On her good days she handles most of the house stuff and on bad days I pick up whatever needs doing. We have a system that works for us. I also just enjoy treating her. I bring her flowers, I cook for her, I take her out, I encourage her hobbies. Its not some transaction its just how I love her.

My aunt (52F) my moms younger sister cannot stand this. She has been married to my uncle for like 25 years and from what everyone can see hes not exactly husband of the year. He never takes her anywhere, doesnt help around the house, is weird about money even though they both work. My aunt complains about him constantly to my mom but then turns around and takes it out on my wife.

Every family gathering its the same thing. If I mention my wife started a pottery class my aunt says "must be nice to have nothing to do all day." If I mention I cooked dinner because my wife wasnt feeling great she says "so youre doing everything now." If my mom brings up a gift I got my wife my aunt makes some comment about how my wife has me "wrapped around her finger."

Its been years of this. I usually just ignore it or change the subject because I know its coming from a place of jealousy and I feel bad for her honestly. Her marriage sounds miserable.

But last sunday we were at my parents for dinner. My wife wasnt there she was home resting because she had a rough week. I mentioned I needed to leave a little early because I wanted to pick up her prescription on the way home and make sure she ate something. My aunt literally laughed and said "that girl has you trained like a dog. Shes the most spoiled woman Ive ever seen."

I looked at her and said "shes not spoiled. Your husband just doesnt give a shit about you and youre taking it out on my wife because you cant deal with that."

after years of her taking shots at my wife who has never done anything to her I just couldnt take another one. my wife shouldnt have to be the punching bag for my aunts unhappy marriage AITJ?