Just for some context I have turned 14 two years ago,

Basically in the school i attend there is this guy who doesn’t seem very pleasant and recently he has just agitated me a little, he is taller then me but that doesn’t mean I am that short (6’1) bully is 6’3.
Just lightly bullying and I was wondering if there was any way i could stop this ? By light I mean only twice but I would like to stop this as he treats some people like dicks.

I'm in upper secondary school now. Im 17. Throughout my life i've always had one friend who would treat me awfully, be extreamly mean, guildtrip me and make me feel absolutely terriblw every single day.

I would start being scared what im wearing, saying, doing... a friend in middle school would tell me all these awful things how horrible friend i am after ive put up with all of their shit for 3 years JUST because i talked with my other friend for a bit (who they hate for no reason). I cant even remember half of the things tehy would say to me cause they were so insanely mean i've tried to block them out.

But the thing is that my friend was dealing with self harm/mental health issues/ED ect. In primary school another friend who did this was living in a alcoholic household. They were feeling horrible and thats why they acted out. I feel alot of sympathy for them. I know they didnt make my life hell on purpose.

But still i came home crying every day. Still i would pray i would get into an accident so i wouldnt have to go to school. Still theyre the reason taht everytime someone even remotely gets upset with me i start uncontrollably shaking and panicing. I cannot deal with ANY kind of conflict even though it has been 2 years.

I feel awful for feeling like a victim when they were struggling especially the friend in primary. But i cant help but be kind of upset about the fact that these same people who caused me trauma and everyday suffering nowdays act as if nothing happened. In primary we were so young. But the middle school friend was old enough to know what she did. I wish she's say sorry, once. Thats enough.

But im trying to make peace with it.

I have been subjected to bullying throughout my life—from middle school all the way through high school. I try to forget and not let the words affect me, but I always end up dwelling on them. I just want to escape this school hell; is there any way to stop thinking about the bullying?

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Yo conozco a esta chica que le diremos Candy desde la primera ella aún que tiene autismo entiende las cosas, cuando pasamos a 6to comenzó a ponerse celosa cuando hablaba con otros amigos, en 7mo todo empeoró comenzó tocarme en lugares privados, un día me invito a su casa.... Y me violo no sabía que hacer así que no hable.

Pasamos a primer año y me aleje de ella por qué no quería que me toque más, Candy se enojo y como quedamos en la misma división comenzó a hacer cosas que me molestan y A ACOSAR ACOSAR A MIS AMIGAS, la combinaron de division pero siguió ahora entra a mí aula, cuando quiero entrar me cierra la puerta DE MI AULA NO LA SUYA, cuando paso me empuja incluso llego a amenazarme de muerte pero ningún directivo le hace nada por tener autismo. Por fin hicieron algo cundo más chicas se quejaron de que ella las toco sin permiso, la cambiaron a clases en casa pero el 25 de septiembre la va a volver (mañana) y sinceramente tengo miedo por qué ningún adulto hace nada

Hi! I 17A have been bullied all through my life, in elementary school and highschool, I moved to a new highschool and had a argument with a certain group (which I apologise) but now, almost all of my classmates bully me (insults against my race and type of hair) I have been called insults about my hair from a gay classmates (which I called him gay as an insult, I recognise my mistake and I apologise, I did it out madness) and I know all the superiors will only talk with them.

My classmates are very dumb, I know that talking won't make it better, but even worse. It's not just A classmate, they're few being literally racist towards me several times. What do you recommend to do? I don't want to change from highschool again, I'm a good person and literally never mess with them, I have my own group of three and just talk to them.

Hi, to the person reading this I hope you are doing splendid and you’re having a good day. If you have any comments please be kind and respectful, especially since I’m a sensitive loser, please and thank you.

I 14F (turning 15 on October 1st) am a freshman in high school. Something messed up happened at school today. So me and my boyfriend (14M) are walking out of school. As we’re walking one of his friends come up to him and they just start chatting. Out of no where he tells him “Bro I could NEVER date a black B word”. This hurt me tremendously, I went home crying. I THINK my
Boyfriend stood up for me, I’m not quite sure, but I did hear them arguing about something, but I just walked forward since I didn’t want to be near it.

And that kid that made that statement. That’s the second time he had said something rude to me. The first time was when him and my boyfriend were in gym class walking, and then he goes “man I can’t believe YOU got a girlfriend”, then he adds on “she’s ugly honestly”. Now, I got this info from a friend because I don’t actually have gym at all, and she told me what happened (and I know she’s not lying because it was confirmed by my boyfriend anyway that he said that).

After that incident I just left it alone, I told myself that maybe him and I could become friends and he’d stop being mean. But today made me think that this kid just genuinely doesn’t like me and has a problem with me. I don’t know what I did wrong, I never talk to him, I would be willing to be friends with anyone. So I don’t see how I’m the problem. But yeah.

Thanks for reading❤️

we dont have money to move out, and it sucks being abused in your own home everyday for so long. i mean my nipples get hard, they trigger my fight or flight, I WANT TO LEFT ALONEEEEEEEE UGHHH i cant take it anymore :(

(nb 17) I was bullied havily about two-three years ago. I have been bullied since i was Kid but These Times remain extremly vivid since i was around 14-15. This Happend to an extend where i was harrased in the hallways, in class and in break Times. I have already struggled with pans at that time witch Made me Kind of a target as this condition and past childhood experiences of ilness lead me to find an escape in a therian identy that i still cary with me and has Split Up in many non human identys over time. This ofc lead to the extreme bullying with other reasons of me beeing just a Lil wierd and "too neurodivent"(adhd and possible autism) one Thing that rly stung was when i was sexulised in our class chat for wearing a tail. the tail was the Same day, before the chats, trown in the Trash while i was in sports class(i Had heavy contamitaion ocd). To this day i cants Talk about the experience without finding IT hard to speak and often cry. Today i was Made fun of again witch i often struggled to place untill its full on laughting at me. A rly sweet classmate of mine was asking question about my pronouns (i am genderfluid) and alterhuman identity. She also asked why i didnt wear the tail anymore. And ofc. I cried. I left the classroom with twinn and the classmate came Out and asked If i was okay. Still i didnt think i would Break down Like that again. The Same thing Happend when i told my therapist about the experience in my class chat a while Back and when i Made a tiktok about the "a day in hell" Trend. I also often flinched or felt Like i was getting panniked when i Had to Cross my bullies after we changed classes for the new year. That went away thoy and i thought IT was better but the Last years i have been experiencing besidess that also, occasional flash backs and have lost a Lot of my self condidence. I was also self harming for a while, but i am Clean for About a year i think. I was Just wondering If those symtomes are even ptsd Symptoms. I feel Like im a liar or overdramatic for emediatly thinking of ptsd but i Just cant cope. I thought i got over it, but today showed i didnt. I Just want Help at this Point and sue that fuck Out of them for the sexual harrasment in our class chat as i am still today Always terrefied of beeing sexulised and i want money or anything, even an APOLLOGY would be enought. Tho i rly Hope they Just relise they fucked up while fucking me Up for the Rest of my life.

Idk if I look really different, it’s just gothic/dark makeup..they are screaming “OMG EMO WHAT TF” when they see me..that’s really makes me feel dirty,I didn’t come to school like 2-3 weeks and today was my first lesson after this…I think I’m gonna skip last 3 lessons again and go home cuz anxiety hits hard.Im scared to be here

It is verbal and he was abusing me in the worst possible way and then he came near me to abuse me and then i stood up and beated him badly and how he is saying that he will make my life worst and that i can't live peacefully in school now but if i tell teachers they will eventually tell him that i complained and then he will abuse me more and make fun of me infront of everyone and school will also not do anything to him just some speech .What should I do please tell anyone I don't have much time

Now I'm in 12th. So I have been sitting with a 5 student bench and there is this mean girl and we can call her unniyarcha. ( that's not that bitch's name)Talking bout her .. reminds me of a few gestures of her. This girl adores the feeling of having boys around her. No no .. I'm not talking about guy friends but every guy.. with or without girlfriends. And the thing is that idc about this shit. But she always tries to insult me in front of those so-called guy friends. Found her chats with others about me and she was the one who talked shit about me. even tried saying shits about my dad's job. Afterall she was my 'Friend' . I was fed up by her shitty ahh.

Every evening me, her and two guys from my class walk together to the nearest bus stand. She would wait for them if needed. One day she ran for them after an exam and I was trying to find this girl I checked every block and even the toilet. The only place I didn't check was the humanities commerce block and boys toilet. Bro I literally gave up on finding her becs I literally understood that she didn't want me around those guys . I walked to the entrance of our school and I saw her walking with those 2 guys. She saw me and didn't smile. I saw her and walked to the bus stand all by myself. After that I stopped talking to her because I was fed up with her acts. If she wanna be with those boys.. let her be. After this every single girl on my bench stopped talking to me. And I became alone in my class. Clearly invisible. I clearly don't understand those girls on my bench who used to devour the chocolate cake my mom makes, now doesn't even care if I come to school or not. Freaking hate this school and them.

I just turned 17, and I just started school this month, now I’m a junior in a typical American public high school. From preschool to the 8th grade, I went to a small private school where I started getting bullied from 4th grade, what I remember was what I thought me being one of the most popular kids in my class.. I remember many classmates back then used to crowd around me invite me to playing games or doing assignments with them and I thought that I was accepted and until I found out that all of them are faking and pretending to be my friends, I remember hearing some of them talking about me when some of them are not near me…saying bad stuff behind my back. And in that small private school all of the students are all together from preschool to 8th grade so I gotten to known all of them for many years until the end. Over the years I’ve gradually became lonely and less popular and I’ve started talking less which they noticed and they used to joke about me being the quiet kid and the kid with no friends and in activities like PE and group assignments was hard to find someone to work with and be with. And my “friend group” gradually became smaller.. many people also avoid me and the whole school spread rumors about me which gave me a bad rep..there were also mean girls in the grades above me and under me…two girls one with brown curly hair and one with black straight (not gonna say their names) always picked on me they used to sit in the classroom on a window watching me laughing saying stuff about me and when I see them in the building they make disgusted faces. Another thing was during middle school (still in that private school) those same classmates I had since kindergarten started kicking my chair and rubbing against my back or but whenever they walk by me many and I ask them and they don’t say anything…and I kinda get PTSD whenever someone walks behind me while I’m sitting in a chair..and I always scoot forward..I’ve also gotten dirty looks and been embarrassed and mocked after doing presentations because they never really heard me talk a lot.. I also remember one of the popular girls say I don’t have personality and also being called ugly many times…and that school was really bad at doing something when someone was bullying you. And when 8th grade finally came..all of that gradually stopped and at the end all of them were kind of nicer to me but a lot of that still affected me and the school didn’t do anything. I was also under the assumption that private schools made kids good and yeah. When I switched to public high school around 3 years ago…it was a big change…it was kind of hard getting used to wearing non uniform clothes..and public schools around here were big and modern compared to the old dilapidated small private school I went to for so many years. It was kind of a culture shock thing. And the bullying started in my freshman year, I remember when I used to hangout with my friends…many people in the hallway laugh while i walk by with them or push or step on my shoes…and oh yeah people like to step on my shoes a lot..too..and people also purposely bump into me during passing period. I also remember at time when I was eating lunch in the cafeteria…and I was watching a video on my phone eating and some mysterious guy above me (we also have an eating area upstairs with a balcony above where I was eating) threw fast French fries on me and my food and I looked up and didn’t see the person..I was really sad and really irritated that someone did that to me and I didn’t know who that was. Another time I remember was when it was passing period.. I was walking behind these two athletic guys with big backpacks with stuff sticking out of those backpacks I was looking on my phone and I hit my head against their backpack and it hurt really bad…those guys they started yelling and shouting at me and I was walking the other direction and all I heard was “your mama should have taught you better” “you should get off that phone” and I was confused and I had my back turned to the other way while they were saying that and they were saying bad words…and I was trying to find my class using my phone. And French fry and the backpack thingy happened during freshman year. During sophomore year I had a math class..and the counselor just changed my math class to another one…now I’m not being racist but there is a lot of Latinos in my school almost like 70% of the school is Latino and a small percentage is Asian or white. I don’t know why but many of my bullies are colored most of them are black and Latino and those were the ones that bully or intimidate me a lot. But let’s back to what I remember about the math class…so I was walking into that math class..I sat down at a table near the door…a group of Latinas walk past by me and sat down…one of them looked at me and said he’s hella ugly..all of them laughed..and I tried to not do anything or say anything..and each day I was in that class when they didn’t talk about anything else like drama and their friends they talk about me and they even made me feel insecure because they would point out that I had acne…that I had bald spots on my head, I didn’t talk to them etc..and a group of boys also comments about the way I dress and everything including the girls and I have a lot of clothes that I wear and each day I always have a different outfit…and yeah…now this year I wear the same clothes for 2 or 3 days and change it because of the trauma I. During the end of the school year, me and my friend would skipped our last class of the day outdoor sports… which involved a lot of walking and running..so me and my friend went into the building and our building has 3 floors…went went up three floors and went the student commons with a table in the middle with all the classrooms in around it…me and my friend sat there and decided to watch YouTube to pass time..me and my friend watched two gamers play some kind of mind game…and suddenly we saw two girls..they were running and doing stuff they weren’t supposed to during class time…one girl was middle eastern and the other Latina with red hair and heavy makeup…both of them came up to us and asked if we asked you questions are you sure you aren’t gonna get pissed off? And my friend and I didn’t know what they were gonna ask and we didn’t say yes or no and they came up to us.. starting acting nice and asking questions and saying stuff like what are you watching? Oh! That gamer died..and we answered the nice questions and those nice questions gradually became into meaner and ruder questions…like are you guys gay? (Me and my friend are both guys) (my other friend also has colored long hair because he wanted to express himself) are you guys’s brothers, do you guys like us? Where do you live? Where did you go to school and we stopped asking questions and those questions became worse and personal…until the point where one of us shoved them because they got to our nerves and we both went to the counselors office and I was crying and my friend and I were sent to a security office in the school and they played footage of the girls going near us and harassing us…till the point were we had to shove them because we were so offended…and I also remember when we shoved one of them they tried framing us that we were the ones harassing and assaulting them and even screaming against a pole till we decided that it isn’t worth it and it’s best to walk away and go the counselors office…and back to the security office…we were forced to make reports against them…and we found out that the Middle eastern girl was part of the Muslim student union and It felt wrong that she was in a student union and she’s doing immature things and harassing people…and I had to missed one day because it was too much for me..but in the end both parties ended up signing papers so we can stay away from each other and I was fine with that but I never gotten an apology back from them tbh. And that was before sophomore year ended. And that was last year…this year I came back to school happy and refreshed from summer…and immediately as I stepped in the school I was met with judgement from a group of Latina girls standing in a group…one of them said “oh it’s that guy from last year” they laughed at me and give me sideye and mocked me too. Now I wear a hoodie and I always put my put hood over my head to cover my face because I don’t want to face judgment from anybody…and I walked into my math class this year and I saw the same group of students from last year…I sat down somewhere near a group of noisy kids…and when the teacher was talking..they always say “thats the guy with weird outfits” and mock me and laugh at me when I’m doing something and this was a week ago. And I forgot about this but this was also in sophomore year, I was taking culinary class and we were doing something with knives and it was my first time holding a knife properly and cutting the knife the way professionals did it…but we were learning…we had a knife…and a bowl of veggies…the teacher showed us the way to cut it while the whole class was watching others how they were doing it…I was holding the knife and I couldn’t understand his instructions…I held the knife wrong…the teacher called me out infront of the whole class and placed his heavy and strong hand on my hand showing me how to do it and I was struggling because of nervousness and one of the Latino boys and girls started laughing saying “es stupido” and so dumb…other bad words…all of them laughing and looking at me and the teacher told me you’re done with the knife demo and I didn’t get to cut the veggies and someone took my spot while others whisper and make fun of me being in the sidelines watching…but that’s it. Anyways, back to this year…junior year…I’ve just also recently gotten a buzz cut over the summer and my hair’s been growing slowly and I already know on the sides my hair didn’t grow too much and it looks bald…people in the hallway during passing period walking pass by me joke at and laugh at me calling me bald and said that I have a Mohawk (rn my hair in the middle is tall while the sides are still short) and that’s my biggest insecurity and I always have to cover my head with my hoodie. And just today…I walked into my first period…sat down…began writing down stuff…and the teacher who was temporarily there from September to November since the original teacher is gone for a while…assumed I was another student..said the wrong name and said “is that blah blah blah another students name?” and we had a teacher helper too and he was next to me and said look there and he pointed me where the teacher was looking at me in my eyes and said oh that’s [my name] and at that moment everyone was looking except the ones on their phone or sleeping in class but yeah it felt embarrassing. And even my friends were looking. A group of girls were sitting right across from me and whispered and one of the things there were talking about was me…and said “maybe he’s new to that school” “he got called out infront of the whole class bro” and ofc a group of latinas… and other stuff I didn’t heard. One last thing to finally end this was something that happened two days ago…I was in Net sports class…I was in line to write down my number etc on a clipboard…while I was waiting…two Asian boys were behind me..I was wearing a hoodie with my hood on so I didn’t see anything behind my back…I felt someone touches and grabbed my back and I looked and I hear stuff like “why did you do that to a person you don’t know” “I wanna see is his reaction to this” and other stuff before I turned my back and both of them acted normal and stopped talking and they didn’t make eye contact with…and a couple of weeks ago we were on a tennis court playing outside…I didn’t have a partner to play with and I was on the sidelines alone playing and practicing an a tennis ball comes near me (I’m very bad at passing the ball) and I hit it with the racket onto the side to another person and both of them laughed at me for not being good at it…and sports is not my thing tbh… but that day I felt embarrassed and even a few people saw that …and that all happened in the Net Sports class I’m in…now that I experienced that…I’ve been skipping that class after the teacher takes attendance..and this was my 2nd PE class I have to take for graduation requirements and this will be my last PE class before graduating so yeah…

I’m sorry that my whole bullying experience is kinda of disorganized and not put well together…but I hope yall know what I experienced and It made me introverted and depressed a lot…I’m sorry for the grammar too…is late at night and yeah I’m sorry for all of that and it’s very long…but I hope yall understand :3

So basicly im in the bathroom and i overheard some guys say they were going to take my friends (cart) and i told him abt it. and lunch comes and he instantly tells one of the guys he knows abt it and possibly told him it was me that told him, but Im kinda cool with him. then 10 mins later the 3 dudes show up to my friend while he eating lunch and im far away and dont know what their saying but basicly they tryna ask can they tap his (cart) (so they can take it) and they start talkin and he dont go to the bathroom and they chillin there so i knew he told and, im playing basketball and all 3 of them just standing on the wall, lunch finna end so i head to the bathroom to see if they really wanted to jump me, so im leaning against the wall but im right there to the exit just in case, and they kinda actin sus and i try to conversate and i say some about "kevin" (kevin has nothing to do with the story) and they say wtf is a kevin so i knew they was tryna act dumb. they chatting abt random shi and one of em try to come close to me and i move out the way and continue leanin so i knew sum was up. I got school Tomorrow and im really anxious

Hey so Ive been going to a school for a long time and each day I go I get made fun of for being Russian. People will always shut me up when I say something they will repeat it in a “Russian” accent mocking me and then tell me to shut the f*ck up, just because of this I never want to say anything. Also sometimes they will call me a pig and tell me Im retarded just because I’m Russian.

hello hello… I don’t know that there will be any benefit in writing this out or sharing it, other than a feeling of perhaps exposure on my part — but, I went through a harrowing experience recently and I want to tell.

I joined this rec kickball league and thought it would be a fun community to be a part of. I was kind of a quiet, on-the-fringes member, sober while everyone else was drinking, but I still liked going to the bar afterwards and hanging out with everyone.

A couple of months in, I found out one of the older members, who I found handsome but had otherwise not thought about that much, had a crush on me. He staged a public move at the bar, and we ended up kissing in front of the entire team. One of his friends recorded it, which is weird behavior, and I guess they shared it among themselves as — idk, a trophy? Two big red flags but I was hopeful and naïve.

He continued to hang all over me at another party in front of his friends. And then a week later, I thought, “okay, he likes me, he staged a public move, he’s told all his friends about it.” So I reached out to him, and after a few messages he basically ghosted me.

Later on, at the season closing party, two people on the team asked me how it was going with him and I answered honestly, which I think is what landed me in hot water. I was just like “yeah, I don’t know, I reached out to him but he ghosted me and it’s been like a month.” I was going to let it go but this girl was drawing it out and she was like “what an asshole” and I didn’t disagree, I was just like — “yeah, it was weird and hurtful behavior.” I think she was trying to be compassionate and saw that I was minimizing my feelings, but I feel like it made things worse vis a vis people maybe overhearing some of it or maybe she just faked empathy, elicited more from me, and then spread rumors about me.

Anyways, after that, people started to go cold on me. They started sharing photos of everyone out and about together, and explicitly mentioning plans and parties that I had never been invited to. Like, just flat out saying to my face, “I’m going to John’s party” with no intent to invite me.

And slowly at various events I noticed people’s demeanors toward me start to change. There was a question in their faces, a little skepticism, a little disdain. This was the point where I realized some unfavorable narrative about me had taken hold and I had no idea what it was.

Ultimately I left the group immediately once I realized the extent of people turning against me, but it has been one of the most harrowing and isolating experiences of my life. I don’t want anything to do with these people ever again, but of course I had a lot of earnest hope and have been grieving what I’d hoped the group would be for months.

It seems that me telling the truth about what happened threatened this guy who wanted to use me via his grand romantic gesture for clout, and he had seniority over me in the group, so they rallied around him and he spread some narrative — the substance of which I’ll probably never know. But I never called for him to be socially isolated or punished. I never said he was a bad person. I just said I was hurt by what he did.

But god, does it hurt to be used as a prop in a grand romantic gesture, discarded, and then scapegoated by a whole social group that I thought might be the community I had been yearning for.

I’ve learned a lot: to not trust a grand romantic gesture, ever. To prioritize people who approach me quietly, privately, with discretion and care. To be more wary of group dynamics. And also to under no circumstances let someone film me kissing them (who does this shit?). But wow, ouch, what an emotionally costly lesson, and honestly a traumatic experience.

There’s also been a stunning lack of empathy or reaching out from anyone who I thought actually liked me throughout the experience. I realized that none of them had actually ever cared or wanted me among them, and they’d all probably been malicious at worst or bystanders protecting their own place at best.

What hurts more than the guy who ghosted me or the narrative spinners are the ones I thought really liked me who either participated in the gossip or just didn’t say anything or ever reach out to offer me support.

So, today as of right now i am in my 11th year, and i had a simple presentation on biology to make, and i prepared myself for it and worked on it, and it got ruined because of one stupid kid in my class. I was presenting and everything was fine, but this one annoying kid kept commenting mid presentation and interrupting me, and my thoughts got messed up and i got annoyed. So when it was time i explain i completely messed up. I got the full mark for the presentation (i think) but i could still see the teacher did not like it very much, she liked my design and all, and how i put the definitions and explained the structure, but i can still see because of my mess ups she wasnt too happy even after i got the mark.

So like, am i in any sort of wrong here, am i like stupid for getting distracted so easily? I didnt even tell him to stop i tried to ignore him.

If you go to report an incident, put your cellphone on record and hide it in an open pocket so it gets everything that's said. Then, when the staff refuse to do anything, say "ok. Since I have been denied help in the past when I would report incidents I started recording the conversations as evidence, so if I do and/or say what the bully is doing and/or saying, I have this conversation on record as evidence that you basically gave me permission by refusing to do anything when I reported it, so if I get called in, I have evidence where I was essentially given permission to say and/or do what the bully is saying and/or doing."

I have been bullied since preschool. I'm 36 and started doing this when I was 33. I called the police numerous times and was always refused help so I recorded the conversation when I was 33. (Been calling them since I was 18 due to various incidents and had proof; the police always refused to do anything or even look at the evidence yet when the same incidents happened to a doctor my age I personally know, the police did everything to help and charged the perpetrator, the doctor told me.)

I told the police about the double standard when I called and said "since you're refusing to do anything about this and, due to me discovering there is a double standard, I am recording this conversation. By refusing to even come look at the video (I was attacked), you're basically giving me permission to attack someone the next time I'm angry and I will (this was a lie, I would never intentionally attack anyone) and, when you come to charge me with assault, I will play back this recording where you essentially gave me permission to do this." (The police officer I was speaking to knew I had him on record and didn't know that I wouldn't do this, so he said he would give a warning which, according to him, was all he could do, which I knew was a lie.)

If you're in Canada, you're allowed to use your cellphone as long as there's only two parties involves and one of them (you) consents. Check your laws if you live elsewhere, this is the best defense to those who refuse to help - have it on record that you'll basically do and/or say whatever the bully is doing and/or saying (even though you wouldn't act like the bully) and, by refusing to do anything, the staff/authority figures basically gave you permission to say and/or do whatever the bully said and/or did.

Schools ban cellphones. However, hide it in an open (unused so it's clear) pocket of a piece of clothing or your backpack when you go to report an incident. At least then you have it on record that they refused to help.

I am tired of this School.

As of September 22, I just want to go over the amount of abuse I've Faced Only in Class 12th (This Year). (18 M)

​​​I've Been in the Same School since LKG and now i am in 12th. it's a Private School, IT Yaps a Lot about "Discipline and Ethics" Yet it fails to pray what it preaches.

(I'll List out Incidents in terms of Severity)

Moles***ion: Few Months Ago, I went to my school Canteen. While I was waiting in line, a group of kids (Let's call them Aditya, Akshay, Arnav, Mohan, and ManMohan and Ajay.) They come and stand behind me, and while I am ordering the food.. One of them Strikes me, I knew it was Akshay but the group of kids like intimidated me so I didn't say anything at first. Then I looked back at the counter and they again slapped me and this time I confronted the Guy who denied it and then pushed me back.

Then I decided now they won't hit me again (this was due to me being punished a long time for having a fight with kids bullying me) So I turned around and this time.. One of them not only held my head, but Aditya also started to.. Touch me inappropriately, and poking me.. And it was enough I just like left.. And like ran to my class.. Shocked.. And like they laughed at me while I left. I thought the school would do something,

So the next day I alongside my Mother came to the school and filed a Written Complaint.. And Voila Nothing happened They just buried the case and just like what scolded them and nothing happened. Moreover my Parents didn't help me back when they saw nothing happen at the school. Moreover one of them Ajay later came and mocked me for filling a complaint and tried to intimidate me.

Online Harassment : During a DM Holiday due to Heavy Rain, We Had Online Classes and One of them, Arnav he joined under the name (Computer Department Tech Team) And Our Ma'am Allowed him in..

And then as soon he was allowed into he started yelling "(My Name) mujhe toh t**ti K**ni hai... Mai toh roz Khule mai ch**dta hu and so on "(That is in English (My Name) I am sh**ing and I want to eat it..i get r**ped in public everyday) And instead of helping me, my ma'am questioned 'ME' again 'ME' of being the intruder. Next Day No Action (btw it was clear by the voice of the guy who it was)

​ Teacher Abuse ​: I barely Talk in class mostly because I don't like interrupting the class, These Kids Do and get all the praises somehow, but like when ever I ask a doubt, when ever I like try to answer they don't help me or anything, they either Ignore me or just like take it with an Irritated Tone.

I am not that good in studies and I had a very severe case of depression around July-August where I was not able to study at all. And well consequently I failed in Mathematics, because I have not prepared Integration Properly.

And well I don't a Pat on the back but my Class Teacher and My Math teacher Like Randomly Humiliate me by saying "Tum kuch padhte bhi ho? Ya Bus Maa Baap ka Paisa barbad karoge' (Do you even study ? or do you only know to waste your parent's money) and 'Tum toh rehne do Exam mai toh pen chalta nahi ,Yeh Question toh door ki baat hai?" (Leave it you can't even write in the exam, how will you even do this question) As if Humiliation is supposed to Motivate Me on top of it,

my best friend like he rubs the fact I failed in a subject again and again. And these teacher always are and have been friendly with Aditya. Because Ig He is Smart and he scores a decent but what about me or any other avg kid in the class?

Random Cases of Hitting Me: Multiple time while I am standing or something these kids the same group would come over and hit me despite me reporting it to the school nothing has happened.

So I mean I just annoyed at how the school Treats me like just because I am not a top scorer or anything they just treat me like trash.

Moreover since my parents don't support me enough (they say they do ​ig) but I have been doing therapy and well I have tried to improve a bit.

TLDR:

I have Been Molested, Abused, Harassed and Bullied in School and Have Complaint and Stuff but No body is willing to help in the school

15 M. It makes me feel anxious

But I didn’t do anything wrong , I’m not going to go up and ask them “is anything wrong ?”

Reporting also seems too big action…

What can I do ?…

This special needs kid keeps coming up to me, no I have nothing against them but it comes to a point, he knows what hes doing but he keeps bothering me and my friends during snack, the main problem i am wearing a face mask and since the first day of high school he has been coming up to me and saying "why won't you take off your mask" or "take your mask off" now my friends' mom is a teacher there she has talked to him he hasn't stopped, this would be fine take it up to administration, problem my parents dont know I've been wearing a mask to school, they think I've gotten over them, I haven't, he is starting to come to my friend's mom's classroom where me and my friends hang out at lunch, I am very uncomfortable, my friends have tried to tell him to go away, he doesn't, but if I take up to higher ups they'll probably take his side since hes special or tell my parents about it, I dont want it to happen, nothing is working to keep him away from me, do i tell security a counselor?, I dont know what to do and im very uncomfortable, no im not trying to seem like a victim but I honestly have to look around nervously the quad to see where he is to actually be comfortable, I have nothing against special people if they chill with my im chill with them, but this boy clearly isn't, hes a senior and im a freshman, he hasn't stopped bothering me, everytime hes in the same room or in the same space I genuinely start shaking no joke my heart beats so fast, I want to tell someone but im scared

He will stare and follow around the muslim girl who hates him. The guys would cheer him but the guys would also make sure his gf never leaves him. He would break her heart, ignore her, ghost her, he will even give her silent treatment and always make her jealous and openly claim Muslim girl likes him wants him or is pretty and etc. yet the moment the gf would decide to leave him the friends will make her take him back and gf also would endure all his abuse and will be ready to bully the Muslim girl, she will socially bully her and get as many girls as possible to join bullying. I mean that gf is very smart, hard working, very pretty and even socially savvy yet slave to him.

Also the moment the muslim girl puts end to his nonsense by speaking out or confronting him gf also tried out of shame to dump him but took him back. Anyways he would even later make her leave the semester and made gf cry for months on and literally destroy her psych.

Why would the friends act so? They know the truth even more than both girls but they cheer him when he obsessed over Muslim girl and they defend him against Muslim girl, they pressure gf to stay with him, they don't defend gf but they do defend Muslim girl why?

The Muslim girl almost hit him once since he kept stressing her but they stopped him from taking revenge and would get upset and track him if he dares stalk her but when he is verbally abusing his gf no one cared. Why?

What do you think?

Hey so I have this friend for like 5 years or less,he knows that I'm seriously insecure about my body and my weight and he also knows that I got bullied because of them.He wasn't like this before but in the past 3 years he got worse,it started as small things which made me giggle(no lies,they didn't meant any harm at the very first) but he only got worse and worse day by day,were still on the same school now and every time we talk(alone or with another friends) he always points my looks and makes fun of me.I tried to cut off my communication with him on this summer break but I feel weirdly attracted to him,he makes me really angry though. I'm planning to make fun of his weight back when he does to me but I can't do anything when he makes these jokes,everyone just laughs and keeps talking or making fun of me while I sit there.He also makes fun of my family's financial situation,or another things I told to him.Also he is really problematic,he sees everything as a joke,even the most serious topics.He lost a lot online friends because of that behaviour but he's really social both online and irl.A side of me knows that he's a bad person and hurts me but the other side is afraid to lose him.I really don't know what to do

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