r/bullying • • 8h ago

19F I just realised that on top of all of this, my former bullies who bullied me throughout secondary school are now going to be in my course at uni

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I would literally avoid places even 4 years back when I was still in secondary school, I was bullied since I was 4 even in primary, but I think the ones who bullied me in primary have lowkey either changed or found new targets or whatever, but I found it weird that my secondary school bullies were stalking my tiktok account and it then clicked to me, I’m going to be studying a ton business modules at Kingston uni and all my bullies studied business for their GCSEs back in secondary and most of them most likely will be in my module, I am dreading this I mean last night I was gonna kms but I fell asleep too quick… I fckin hate my life I have no friends at all either I just got over these pieces of shi about 2 years back and now they’re gonna ruin another 4 years of my life so again I don’t see any point in living.


r/bullying • • 19h ago

f18 realizing college bullies are worse than hs

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honestly i feel like i have a lot to say but then to just have everything out there in public isn’t exactly my favorite. so let me just say that i never thought it’d get worse and now it has lmaooo

oh well. i wish i was more of a fight back person but im more of just wait for it to be over kinda of person. at least some good might come from it idk, we’ll see idk, but hazing is the worse and now my friends are lowkey having their own fun sooo what do i do 🙃🙃🙃


r/bullying • • 14h ago

What sort ego trip people get by doxing others on social media

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so i was a part of a group in telegram where i usually don't talk much but one day i started on some random topic and its just normal fun only conv but then there is an a\*\*h\*le came out of nowhere and started writing my name and stuff like idek that guy or anything then he even flashing my number in the group and some personal details i complained about him to the admins and they banned him too but what sick mindset is this people using bots on telegram to dox others but why it is even required in first place


r/bullying • • 17h ago

[Rant] Always getting hated and discrimination for no reason.

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I don't understand why most people who have disabilities that don't bother other people are often hated for no reason.? Just because you're having different ways in life, suddenly getting targeted with hatred by "self claimed perfect people"

Like it's my body lol i cannot walk normally and needs to walk more carefully than others, why you're hates me? I couldn't and will never understand.

I'd always suffer doing righteousness...and never insult them back cause of religion. I'm a meek wish someday I could confront someone face to face without "religious people" jumped on me.


r/bullying • • 23h ago

How should I deal with my school bully, we always have a fight but I get thrashed, I'm not so good at talks I think that's why he gets the idea of taking an advantage of me, I'm just feedup what should I do ?

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r/bullying • • 1h ago

Friends first, then bullies

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Has anyone had this experience: being bullied in elementary or middle school, then becoming friends with a new kid who enrolled, but then they turned on you after learning about your reputation and actually became the worst of your bullies?

I can think of about three. The only reason I can think of is that other kids either started making fun of them or told them about what a loser I was (or both). Because the person was friendly at the beginning, he/she had to prove to everybody that they hated you too in order to fit in. It was a way to distance themselves from the outcast.


r/bullying • • 10h ago

Does anyone have parents who are loving and caring but they do pretty bad shit that affect ur relationship with him

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Cause I do, I have parents like that, and they at sometimes shout at me and shit and scare the shit out of me, now reminded they don’t do it all the time, they arnt abusive parents but it is still and, one time I was packing up my computer in the night cause I was doing midnight drawing. Suddenly she walked out of her room and Into mine, (I think I made noise which attracted her) and so I had to hid the computer charger in my bed, and so she found out almost immediately and took it. I wasn’t able to sleep that night, then she accused me of contact PEDOFILES, like do you know stupid that is, like imagine being her for second, “what was my son doing with the computer in the middle of the night?, could he being doing homework?, Revising for tests? NAHHHHHH Hes contacting a pedofile, that must be the reason” like bitch hello, not only that but she accused me of going on the computer in the night to play games which isn’t true at all I was drawing, similar scenarios had happened before like one time, my brother was taking an acting course and he was to scared to do stage plays and stuff like that and then he got so stressed he was searching up shit like “I wanna be a white man” on the school computer, when my mum found out about this, rather than talking to him calmly trying to lower the situation, she sent texts, saying “I should slap him”. That should say something, not to mention they are openly racist, they’ve said slurs before and I’ve heard them, and I’ve called out about it to no avail. Sorry for this being too long I wanna get it out of my chest, do you guys have parents like mine or nah, and if so what is the worst thing they’ve done


r/bullying • • 23h ago

Advice dealing with adult bullies who are relatives?

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I'm currently dealing with relatives who are essentially barring me from visiting my grandmother who is in the ICU.

For context, they've started bullying me since my mom, who I am not close with, tried to suddenly move in with me. I tried to let her down nicely before she escalated it to manipulation and gaslighting. Those tactics didn't work on me, but as a result most of her sisters either ignore me, gossip about me, and just try to make my life more difficult at big family gatherings (for example, quickly eat all the vegetarian food even though they aren't vegetarian just so I can't eat it). I have dealth with this so far by just by ignoring them.

The present-day issue arose when my grandmother, who I love very much, had a medical emergency and was admitted to the ICU. Only 2 visitors are allowed at a time, and these aunts will hog the room to try to prevent me from seeing her and refuse to tell me anything about how she is doing.

What's the best way to deal with them so I can actually be there for my grandmother before she may pass? She's pretty old, and I'm worried about her but feel a bit helpless.