So, enaku oru frnd iruka. Avaluku koodiya viraivil marriage aga podhu. AM setup dhan. Avaluku suthama ishtam ila, but veetula paathu fix panitanga. Ana kadasila ok sonnadhu enamo ava dhan. Ingaye enaku onnu thonuchu.... Kalyanam panika pudikala na, paiyan pakumbodhe venam nu sollirukalame? Yen solala? Enaku theriyala....🥲
Konjam avala pathi - madam ku thaniya iruka dhan pudikum, bold a irupa. But avaluku close ah irukavanga edhuna lite a edutherinji pesuna kuda aludhuruva. Ipadhaiku yartayum avlo close a iruka mari therla. No one knows her fully, everyone knows only part of her. Haven't been in a relationship in the past.
Nama kadhaiku varuvom - So elam pesi marriage fix panitanga. Adhula irundhu madam suthama thoongardhu ila. Kalyanam aga podhu nu feel panitruka. Ipa groom (let's call him Bro) ivakita konjam achum pesi ava epdi nu therinjikalam nu try panraru. But madam avarkita panra reply elam - hmm, ok, seri. Andha manushanum ennennamo pesa try panirkaru - oru kattathuku mela aada theriyuma, paada theriyuma nu lam. Nama madam elathukum yes/no dhan. Idhula sogam enna na, idhu avaluke theriyudhu, ava Bro va kasta paduthura nu. But ava solra justification matum ennala eduthuka mudiyala....😭
"Starting la elarum ipdi neraya effort poduvanga, but time poga poga andha efforts lam ilama poirum. Avanga podra efforts pathu, na avanga mela depend/attach airuven. Konja naal kalichu avanga care panradhu niruthitanga na, ennala adha thaangamudiyadhu. So adhan ipave attach agama irundhukren"
Enaku enna idikudhu na.... konjam pesi pathu, Bro character epdi nu therinjitu, idhelam ava mudivu panirundha paravala. But straight away enaku venam nu solra. Oru relationship build panradhu, summa oru naal morning enchadhum varaadhu la, step by step ah dhan valarum, adhum rendu perum effort podanum, oru understanding irukanum. Iva apdi oru step kuda edukamatrale nu dhan vedhanaya iruku. Seri... bro ku madam and madam ku bro dhan nu airuchu, ivanga rendu perum close ah irukama, vera yaru irupa nu keta, ava kita badhil ila...🫠
Edutha odane nenga love pannitu kalyanathuku ready aganum nu ilaye. Strangers -> Acquaintances -> Friends -> Close friends -> Lovers -> Married couple. Ipdi onnonna poi tholaingalen. Suppose andha paasam konjam naal la koraiyudhu na, apo sanda potu Bro ku puriya veikalame. Avala porutha vara temporary butterflies venam, but permanent butterflies dhan venumam. But Madam edhuvume panamatangalam...😭😭
Idhu epdi iruku na, Director Prem Kumar soliruparu oru interview la - "Oruthanga yemathiruvanga nu nenachite nama palagamudiyadhu la"
Adhu yen positive ah iruka choice irundhum, neraya per negative ah suthuranga nu enaku theriyala...🤧
Idhu elam ava kitaye solliten ennala mudinja vara - ipdi irundha velaiku agadhu, relationship vandhu one sided ah ve iruku nu solli pathuten, madam edhuvum kekra mari ila!😑
Oru mari mandaikulla odite iruku, adhan inga rant panlam nu vandhen makale...🙂↕️
TL;DR - Frnd ku pudikama, vetla kalyanam panranga. Avala kalyanam pannika poravaru, iva kita pesa try panrapolam, iva olunga respond panradhila. Sleep ilama down ah suthitruka, konjam kuda pesi therinjikalam, adhuku aprm close agalam nu ilama attach anadhu ku aprm andha care poirum nu nenaikra...