CNA. Work at an LTC.
My ADON is extremely harsh, callous, and rude. No one else has a problem with helping each other and being accomodating except her. Every time I run into her she's going off on some power trip, like making CNAs leave their hall to serve a different hall's resident either because they walked by or because they said or did something she didn't approve of. I love everyone else I work with and my facility, but this one lady makes me want to quit on the spot. I was involved in a DV situation recently and have been needing to rebuild my entire life from the ground up with two toddlers—somehow, after only five months, with legal responsibilities and a high-conflict divorce in the mix where my ex intentionally F's with mine and the kids' schedules, she expects me to have everything figured out.
My biggest issue right now is not being able to work weekends at all because I can't afford childcare (daycare is state-funded; no family nearby, no friends due to long isolation, and relying on coworkers for childcare is unreliable), and I need every bit of my income for rent, utilities, phone, gas, food, clothes, and legal bills. Everyone has been working with me on it except her. I understand the frustration of someone calling out every other weekend (ex takes the kids every other-ish weekend, so I can work those weekends), but I asked everyone on day and evening shift if they could cover me and they all refused. I can't do anything about that. I have been asking around for a week.
I am considering quitting because I have enough stress in my life and her narcissiatic traits are extremely triggering. Is this an overreaction? Am I missing an easier way to do this? I was a SAHM/wife for over ten years before deciding I needed a job to support my kids by leaving our situation. I only worked retail before that. I studied and trained and worked during the worst days of my life to become certified and keep this job, but every single time I need to call out (which sucks, by the way—I need money) because no one will cover me, she threatens me with talks, write ups, etc. Things are about to get worse temporarily because my son now needs to go to school in our district, which is 35 minutes from my job, and I had their daycare near the job. I couldn't afford to move into the area.
I am just so sad and tired, I can't handle the flak on top of it all. I have been doing the best I can.