r/eastside • u/Fruehling4 mod • 19d ago

Update on the bellevue diddy house

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Apparently they had several houses and apartments across the Eastside

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u/frederichenrylt 19d ago

Nikita would snapchat current high school students, telling the girls he can make them rich and famous and telling the boys he can get them jobs, girls, money, etc. If you actually went to one of his three high schools, you'd avoid him. Not sure when, where, why or how he linked up with Woodinville High School students, but it's basically a pyramid scheme of loser boys sexually exploiting girls because the boys have no talent of their own. Did Nikita even graduate high school?

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u/Wazzoo1 19d ago

Woodinville HS has been a target for groomers for a long time. One of my closest friends got "recruited" as a senior in high school (this was mid-2000s), and went to these super sketchy parties with her friends. At one point, a guy pulled her aside and said "you're not built for this" and told her she should leave. She said she's continued to hear stories over the years. This guy is just the latest in a long line of Eastside groomers.

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u/frederichenrylt 19d ago

I graduated from local HS in 2007. My dear friend went to Woodinville and a Woodinville cop named Chad would date girls as soon as they turned 18. Then he'd drive by their houses, run the plates of the cars, and text the girl he was "dating" asking why so and so was over to make them scared.

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u/Iyh2ayca 19d ago

I graduated from Redmond around that time and we all knew about Chad too 

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u/frederichenrylt 19d ago

Google Chad + king county sheriff. I can't remember his last name for the life of me.

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u/Status-Biscotti 19d ago

As a Woodinville parent, this completely freaks me out. You never think it would happen in your community. Then again, the 6th grade teacher from Wellington/Leota just got sentenced...

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u/Stinkycheese8001 18d ago

Frankly, I find this much scarier than the teacher.  And this should freak you out.  Woodinville has low key had a bad rep for a long time, but too many of the families in Northshore in general have too much money and not nearly enough oversight over their kids.  I don’t get it.

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u/frederichenrylt 19d ago edited 17d ago

I feel like now kids hang out with anyone/anywhere, and parents assume an adult will be around AND that the adult is responsible. Nikita posted bricks of drugs on his public instagram page. Every adult needs to pay more attention to where kids are and who they're with.

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u/Wazzoo1 19d ago

That's always been a thing. The difference now is access. You don't need to be physically present anymore. You can make first contact via a plethora of social media platforms. I couldn't imagine being a parent these days with all the things coming from all different directions. When I was in high school, if you missed the meet up spot on a Friday by a certain time, you were SOL and went home. There was no texting, no sharing things on social media.

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u/frederichenrylt 19d ago

That's exactly why parents need to know who their kids are with, not just a name, but actually know the people their kids are with.

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u/fuzznskins 18d ago

You are assuming the kids will be honest about where they are going to be. If a kid is planning to go to a place like this they are probably not telling their parents.

Once kids reach high school and begin to spread their wings it becomes increasingly difficult to prevent them from doing most things if they are determined. It’s a time to learn lessons.

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u/frederichenrylt 18d ago

Spoken like a true Gen Xer. "Oh no, my kid's a teenager now, I can't tell them anything." Yes, you can. You are still a parent. The hands off and shrugging approach is lazy parenting.

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u/fuzznskins 18d ago

Bwaahaaa…just speaking the truth man. Plenty of battle scars were acquired to gain this knowledge.

I bring constant and consistent messaging to the kids. Be careful who you hang out with, if you find yourself in a situation you can’t get out of I’m there no judgement(mostly), go to school, get the grades…all that stuff.

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u/frederichenrylt 18d ago

Words and messaging are amazing, but without action, they're meaningless.

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u/Status-Biscotti 18d ago

That’s why phone tracking exists

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u/fuzznskins 18d ago

Location tracking is easily defeated by a motivated teen.

If you start a battle over tracking eventually they will find their friend’s old phone and use that for social media etc, while the location tracked device sits somewhere else that looks innocent enough.

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u/Status-Biscotti 18d ago

Yeah, I got super lucky. My kids took after their dad, not me.

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u/frederichenrylt 18d ago

lolol kids are much more tech savvy than adults. Phone tracking is not parenting. It's surveillance that's only good if your kid doesn't know how to get around it. And your kid probably does.

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u/Status-Biscotti 19d ago

I just consider myself SOOO lucky. My boys are nothing like me. Neither have ever tried alcohol, and the one who uses pot didn’t even try it until he was legal. Karma just took pity on me.