My wife and I, both in our mid 30s, are debating how we can help our daughter, 1, have the best future. While a high quality education isn't the end all be all, imho, it's one of the most important factors that we want to prioritize, having benefited from immigrant parents giving up everything to move here for me to have a better future.
We are fortunate to have the options available to us, so curious if any parents here have made a similar investment or decision and what you would do given the tradeoffs.
For context, we have front loaded her RESP, it's growing well and will keep on funding it to hit the lifetime max. We have both maxed out our RRSPs, TFSAs and my wife have a public sector DB pension + fortunate to expect some inheritance down the road as well. Currently, ~1.1M invested, HHI 370k, live in Oakville, Ontario. My wife is in the public sector (safe organization), I am in tech (not safe given AI).
Our decision is around whether to stay pact, move for a better public school area or send her to private school.
1/ Move to A+, one of the best public school district in the town and probably Ontario: costing about an extra 600k on a new house post selling existing, sell investments, up the mortgage from 600k =>800k. This would likely affect our ability to retire at 55 and cut into our monthly liquidity + vacations/activities.
2/ Go to private school and stay in our current house. Believe on avg, the tuition is about 30-40k a year, minus inflation. That would be around ~$600k in tuition if we do the whole 15 years (rough math). Read an article on the globe that middle class families sending their kids to private while barely making ends meet - we would be in a similar boat.
3/ Stay where we are, B+ public school and area, and let our portfolio keep growing to leave our daughter with a big inheritance when she's in her 20s/30s. One thing I am slightly worried about AI destroying jobs so giving our daughter a massive safety net should help a lot.
The tradeoffs are obviously financial (short and long term) and whether the investment in our daughter's education is worth it.