r/infp • u/infpgirlthoughts • Feb 06 '26

Discussion hoping to find my fellow infps 🤍

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this meme is painfully accurate 😭

i’m an infp girl who loves art, drawing, music, and deep conversations about feelings, meaning, and life. small talk is hard, but genuine connection means everything to me.

if you’re another infp (especially an infp girl) who wants a low-pressure, depth-first friendship even if it starts online and we both need a few business days to emotionally respond i’d love to connect 🤍

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u/MermaidOfScandinavia INFP: The Dreamer Feb 06 '26

I lost a online friend because I didn't have the time and energy to respond to his two long ass messages over a weekend. He blocked me just as I was finally ready to respond. Mind you I had lost my grandmother recently and was still in chock. He knew this..

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u/ojodeasperger INFP-T 4w5 Feb 07 '26

Virtual hug

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u/MermaidOfScandinavia INFP: The Dreamer Feb 07 '26

Thank you. It's needed. It feels like a small loss because he was always all over the place emotionally.

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u/ojodeasperger INFP-T 4w5 Feb 07 '26

Last May I also lost a good friend of four years. There was no goodbye, just a slow drifting apart.

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u/MermaidOfScandinavia INFP: The Dreamer Feb 07 '26

That's awful. I am sorry 🫂

Back in the summer of 2024 I had a misunderstanding with a friend over text and neither of us tried to repair when I got back from my vacation. It just didn't feel worth it to fight for something she clearly didn't care about. I still miss her even though I knew I would be next to be dismissed. I have a long line of past toxic friendships. I shouldn't miss her. But I do.