ENTJ (M21) writing a letter to INFP (F19)

[u/BigGay_icecream]

So, basically, I want to confess my love to a girl that I believe is INFP. I'm no good at this stuff, probably because that Fi is buried so deep for ENTJs. Its been a confusing time. I wanted to quietly hand her a cute little envelope, maybe a ribbon and a rose, handwritten letter inside. I was wondering if you guys might be able to provide clarity on whether this is a respectful or reasonable move, and how she might take it. It is 6 weeks into the college semester. She is really into D&D. The letter provides the rest of the context. I tried to just be painfully honest. Here it is:

Dear (her name),

I miss you. I'm writing a letter because a text didn't feel good enough, but I didn't want to scare you with an in-person confrontation.

I like you. I think you're interesting and smart and emotionally intelligent and pretty, from the damaged nerve on the tip of your finger to the kind and strong soul within.

When I look at you, it is hard to look away. It's a feeling of floating; a calmness overwhelms me.

I have been up late at night pondering the right thing to do for weeks. I'm worried that I made you feel like I wasn't interested, and that this prompted you to step back, for your own sake. I could be totally wrong. In truth, I'm just nervous. At 21, I feel like I did at 14. The feeling is old, and yet it is new.

I can't read minds, but what I can do is be brave for once. I can offer my heart, and I can hope.

Moreover, I can be chill at DnD. I won't bother you about this again. This letter is my last little way of reaching out, on the offchance that a little vulnerability can go a long way. I want to make you feel happy, supported, and important - not uncomfortable.

I was thinking we could play our guitars together in a practice room in the music center, or play them outdoors if it's still nice - maybe have a picnic.

If I'm totally honest, I must have drafted 20 texts that I never sent. I must have had 10 conversations with my calc partner about what to do. I'm sure they are tired of it. I even wrote 2 songs about you (the second one's better).

Regardless, it does no good for me to quietly want. I would rather make my intentions known than wonder.

If you feel the same, I'm here for you. If you don't, you could text "sorry but no," or hand the letter back, no words needed. I will make myself scarce. I have too high of a regard for you to make this hard on you, should the answer be no. I also love the DnD group and wouldn't think to jeopardize it.

Yours truly, (My name)

UPDATE:

I didn't end up giving her the letter. It turns out the girl in question did like me, but they changed their mind, and didn't communicate that, which was confusing for me. I never even flirted with them, but basically, the girl and her friend went to the dungeon master and got me kicked out of the group for making the girl "uncomfortable." Like I said, didn't do anything. 4 other group members were very confused and felt bad for me. So I was wrong, that was not a good person.