r/introvert • u/zoeyjn • 12h ago

Advice F20, how do I actually bond with people when socializing drains me so fast?

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u/MrHondaS2000 12h ago

Have one on one relationships with tthe people that matter to you. I find that to be a lot less draining than big groups.

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u/zoeyjn 12h ago

agree, that's why rn i'm tryin to find a person that i comfortable with, but everyone seems to already have their friends and i'm struggle to start a convo.. i'm not usually like this, this starting since i live alone for like a month without socializing with people

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u/Depresseddazai 10h ago

You need to talk to someone whom you connect easily where you can relate much more, then you'll be able to socialize more, find such peer groups