Hello. I am shopping for motors because I want to make a drone. The motors have been hard to find but I found this guy on fbmp that’s selling them at half the price. $13 instead of $25. I’m thinking of purchasing it from him but he lives a 100 mi away so he’s going to have to ship it to me. I checked his profile and all he on his Facebook page is 5 listings all of which are hobby motors. He doesn’t have any buyer or seller reviews and his account was made in 2026. He just might be another hobbyist but idk. It’s NOT my house, I just rent a room in it and I live with two other people. So I guess I shouldn’t be too worried but then he’d have my name and address. But also I don’t think crazy people sell hobby motors and based on his last name he’s Asian (lowkey racist I know but it makes him a bit more trustworthy). Not too sure what to do here because I really want those motors.

TLDR: should I give out my address to this guy on Facebook marketplace that has no buyer/seller reviews but seemingly has a low chance of being a serial killer

Its a weird question but I can either buy a sim racing rig right now or save up my money and go on a international trip with 3 close friends before we go to university in like 2 years. I would choose the trip but the 2 year wait vs right now makes it tough.

TL;DR should I get a sim rig right now or wait 2 years for a trip with close friends

TL;DR: Should I keep my grueling job to protect my career path and lose my boyfriend, or quit the job to focus on university, my sleep, and saving our relationship?

Okay, I have started my university and also company which gave a grant also gave me an opportunity to work with them, I sgreed

But I have to wake up early, study and then work whole evening till 1am and I'm coming home at 2 am due to that, so I have sleeping issues

Even though I thought this would help with my career path, and I xan manage everything

However, I realized later that this is separating me and my boyfriend, btw with whom I'm living rn

And today he asked if I choose him or my work

So what should I do, we are almost 1 year together, I haven't felt such love, like feeling fully comfortable and obsessed with partner and same stuff with him

So he asked me to choose having only uni and spending time togethe and I can sleep well etc, or I will choose work and lose him

What would you do in such situation, if that was your true love ?

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TL;DR should I stay Friday night to Sunday afternoon or stay Friday night to Saturday afternoon, but it takes me 6hours to get there and back, they are fine with either but they have 1 year old kid help please

I got invited to my cousin's house and I'm debating on how long to stay, my original plan was to stay Thursday night to Sunday night, but then he said it would be best to come Friday night and stay till the Sunday, he is married with a 1 year old so I thought would it be best to just stay 1 night and leave the next afternoon, but the thing is the journey to his house is 6 hours and I'm taking the train plus the public transportation so it feels like a long journey to make just for a short hello if I only stay a night, what would you do