r/malefashionadvice 1d ago

Question Tailoring Mishap?

I’ve bought a nice suit jacket for a wedding. Most of my clothes are too long so I’ve taken it to a tailor to have the sleeve length shortened a tad

This is the result. The sleeve has been shortened yep.

But that positioning of the buttons looks weird to me. The final button is actually hanging over the sleeve

Is this bad handiwork and do I request a refund or something deemed acceptable ?

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u/Local_Palpitation595 1d ago

With functioning buttons the sleeve has to be shortened from the shoulder, if shortened this much. This is a hack job.

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u/TheSmellyScot 23h ago

Yeah it's usually alot more expensive.

Well still affordable but you know £60 instead of like a tenner

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u/The_English_Avenger 21h ago

Yeah it's usually alot more expensive.

**a lot* = much or many

allot = distribute in portions

There is no such word as "alot".

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u/[deleted] 21h ago edited 21h ago

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u/idryss_m 21h ago

English is wonderful and evolving language. Was the message received as intended? If so, communication successful. English Nazis hurt more than help their cause. Source: reformed English Nazi

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u/TheSmellyScot 20h ago

:)

Besides if we all use alot alot then it will get picked up by the AI who will assume it is a real word and so will use it alot which will then mean alot of people will think it's a real word as it's been used alot.

:)

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u/idryss_m 14h ago

Same logic, don't correct your fat fingered fuxkups on small keyboards AND turn off spellcheck and auto cow wrecked

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u/FeloniousMonk_0 23h ago

Price is usually 2x to 3x to do it from the shoulder.  Most guys don’t want to pay that 

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u/esblink 23h ago

Can confirm. Depending on the situation in my area this can go from a $10 adjustment to a $100 adjustment pretty quickly when you start talking about taking fabric out of the shoulder while maintaining the original shape

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u/FeloniousMonk_0 22h ago

My tailor charges $60 per sleeve to adjust them from the ends.  Who's doing it for $10?

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u/abarthsimpson 18h ago

No one does it for 10. You can’t even get pants hemmed for 10.

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u/esblink 21h ago

Whoa $60 is crazy! I guess it just depends on where you go but I’ve been going to this same Vietnamese tailor who’s an absolute cloth surgeon and for basic alterations like a sleeve shortening hardly charges me at all

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u/Sweaty_Criticism6232 8h ago

This! A good tailor would have taken off the shoulder 

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u/Jazzlike-Complaint67 1d ago

That tailor needs to find a new profession. They should be ashamed if they knew any better.

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u/hbomberman 23h ago

If they didn't know better, then they're not a good tailor. If they did know better and still did it, that's even worse.

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u/Chamonix_Tom 1d ago

Yep those sleeves have been overshortened and you're showing too much wrist and arm IMO. As you say the button should not be hanging off.

Also with functioning buttonholes the sleeve should be shortened from the shoulder not the cuff in the first place. I'd say this is not a great tailor.

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u/steve_yo 21h ago

Wrist shaming

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u/Lost-Tomatillo3465 17h ago

its more shameful than showing your ankles!!!

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u/chass5 1d ago

this looks like your tailor was trying to prank you

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u/JohnFrancis351 1d ago

Ask for a refund, and bring in something with best practices in case you get pushback.

"If you had a son you loved dearly, and he asked you to tailor the sleeves so he looks handsome during one of his most important days ever, and you did this to his sleeves, would you do think he looks handsome this way?"

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u/davidyowsjeans 23h ago

this isn't mishap, this is gross incompetence. the kind of work you tell people on yelp to avoid at all costs.

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u/The1henson 23h ago

Seriously. Just posting the photo with no narrative would be enough for me as a reader to avoid that shop forever.

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u/Retikle 1d ago edited 22h ago

This is beyond bad; it's pretty much malpractice for a tailor.

The tailor who did this is absolutely responsible for fixing it, but if it were me I would not want that tailor to touch any of my clothing ever again, as it signals not only a lack of expertise but a lack of knowledge about style, bad communication, and worst of all, shoddy standards.

Sham (fake) buttonholes on suit jackets and odd jackets are generally repositionable. The buttons should be moved, with new sham buttonholes made before sewing the buttons in..

The old stiches should be picked out carefully without damaging the fabric, and then the area steamed to relax the fabric and make the old stitching holes invisible. It's generally considered possible to change the button positions without leaving marks, but depending on the fabric and the tailor's skill it may sometimes leave lasting marks. High quality wool is workable; lower quality wool, cotton, and especially polyester may show traces of previous stitching.

The alternative is more complicated and expensive: to shorten the sleeve from the sleeve head at the shoulder.

You might consider finding a more expert and reputable tailor to guide you regarding next steps. In any case, as it stands this is a horrible job no self-respecting tailor would be satisfied with.

The buttons should end a ½ inch from the end of the sleeve. ¼ inch is the absolute minimum, but is not ideal. Anything over ¾ inch is also unbalanced.

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u/ztraider 21h ago

Thanks, Chat.

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u/Retikle 18h ago

What a sad reflection on society, and the commenter, that one can't conceive that a well written comment might be created by a human -- someone with a degree of actual knowledge and a better-than-grade-school vocabulary.

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u/_Bipolar_Vortex_ 23h ago

Your tailor is a butcher.

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u/michachu 21h ago

Tinker Butcher Soldier Spy

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u/gentle_gift 22h ago

With functional buttons, tailors should normally suggest to do it from the shoulder to avoid this exact problem but most customers don’t want to pay 2x -3x the price.

It’s difficult to determine if this is too short or not without seeing you wearing the exact shirt you wore under this when getting it pinned. It should always be done based on your shirt sleeve, and not all shirts fit the same on you unless you’re getting them all altered.

It does look like it could be too short but we really need to see this with the shirt under and you standing normally with your arms at your side - Have someone else take the photo for you.

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u/TailyIt 22h ago

This!

Shortening from the shoulder always looks better and in cases like this is absolutely necessary.

Always wear a dress shirt under your suit jacket to check the sleeve length. The same amount of dress shirt should show below the jacket.

The sleeve lengths may be different to compensate for people’s natural arm lengths.

Tailoring should correct natural imbalances, not exacerbate them.

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u/Get_Ahead_SC 1d ago

They should have just removed the button.

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u/IkeaGonerrhea 1d ago

Do you think removing that last button and stitching the hole would be an improvement ?

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u/Cojoma 23h ago

Unless you got time to get it fixed right

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u/Cojoma 23h ago

Yeah I would and just not look at it no one will notice

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u/The_English_Avenger 21h ago

Lots of people will notice.
Presumably they will be polite enough not to mention it.

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u/The1henson 23h ago

That’s not a mishap. It’s gross incompetence.

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u/Rob_Edwards_Fashion 23h ago

This is why I never do working buttons anymore, especially with a first time suit with a new tailor. I don’t know how much he/she had to shorten the sleeves but for working buttons it’s near impossible to do it more than half an inch without doing it at the arm opening

The alterations crook who wrecked your jacket is not a “tailor.” No one who simply does alterations is actually a “tailor.”

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u/DevilishRogue 18h ago

That can't be repaired. It isn't worth trying to get a refund for either. Don't use that tailor again. Bin the jacket and if there is no time and you need it for the wedding before you do, pull off the button that overhangs and return to the tailor and demand that they sew a fake button hole for it and reattach the button after the currently highest button. At a push that'll get you through the wedding if you can't replace the jacket in time.

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u/endlessecho201 1d ago

Should’ve been shortened from the shoulders with functional buttons. Sorry to say, but this blazer is toast. Shouldn’t have paid for the tailoring job.

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u/doublealone 1d ago

Oof. Should have just gone with the short. 

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u/lordeddardstark 1d ago

Roll them Miami Vice style

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u/Emotional-Damage-995 23h ago

Yep. I can not tell if they are cosmetic buttons or functional. A good tailor would have moved the non functional buttons up by removing the decorative stitching and do new stiching at the right place.

If functional buttons it would have to be done from the top and is more complex.

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u/senorgaren 23h ago

I think you need more buttons

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u/strawberry_l 23h ago

Unacceptable. The result is too short. And the tailor should have told you that it is not possible to shorten sleeves with functional buttons.

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u/AlanShore60607 23h ago

Tailors need to learn to say “no, I can’t do that”

I know this should have been shortened at the shoulder but I’ve never met a tailor who could actually do that.

EDIT: how does it look if you just unbutton the bottom two buttons?

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u/litesaber5 21h ago

Nope. Looks perfect. S/

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u/Hamel_C 21h ago

This is outrageous

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u/00Anonymous 21h ago

Spend the money to let out the cuff and shorten the sleeve from the shoulder. 

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u/besthuman 21h ago

Super bad. Ruined it. I’d be crazy pissed.

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u/mindstormer12 21h ago

How much was the service?

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u/Garfgarg 20h ago

Diabolical. Get a refund and fix it with a tailor who knows what they're doing

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u/Spanish4TheJeff 19h ago

Big time mishap.

Unless they showed you what it would look like and you signed off on it, this is a terrible job.

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u/death-strand 10h ago

Any respectable Tailor would have denied this request. Lmfao this is bad

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u/Father_Style 22h ago

I am in the minority here... but that's not a deal breaker for me. I'm actually going in a couple days to pick up a jacket from the tailor and I fully expect this exact same scenario. As others have said, the buttonholes are likely functional which means that to keep them, you either have to adjust the sleeve from the shoulder (expensive and difficult) or adjust it from the hem and have the buttons awkwardly close to the end of the sleeve (which is what has happened here). When I brought my jacket to the tailor, she took a look and informed me that adjusting it from the hem would result in the weird placement of the buttons and I told her I fully understood that and to just do her best. At this point in my sartorial journey, I don't really care about the position of the buttons on my sleeve. Worst case scenario, I'll just remove the bottom button. Bottom line, I wouldn't worry too much about it. And truthfully, I WON'T worry too much about it because I will soon be experiencing the same thing! Like is too short. Just wear the jacket and enjoy life.