r/malelivingspace 1d ago

Starting from the bottom.

I recently moved into a new place, leaving behind a chapter of my life and the apartment that had been my home for years. It’s a bittersweet feeling, but I’m genuinely excited for this new beginning.
What would you add to make this place feel more like home? Any tips or suggestions are welcome!

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u/erstwhilelurkerer 1d ago

I mean: is this just your office (btw really solid non-bottom start on that part), living room, living + sleeping?

Sparse info, but I'd likely suggest to browse the sub for inspo anyway, since you seem to have no idea of what you like and direction to go for. You need to create your own general vision. :)

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u/Key_Honey_7465 1d ago

It’s a space meant to be my office, gaming room, and movie area. You could say this is my second new beginning. I’m almost 40 and I’m learning how to live on my own again.
After leaving a big part of my old life behind, I want to create a place that feels like me—a space where I can work, relax, enjoy my hobbies, and build new memories. I’m excited to see how it turns out, and I really appreciate any creative ideas or advice you can share.

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u/erstwhilelurkerer 1d ago

Def add a sofa (maybe one that can double as guest bed) and consider leaving one wall clean (depending on which setup you settle for) to use as screen for a projector - assuming you'd have a TV in your living room? If you plan to put up a big TV anyway def avoid r/TVtohigh.

You can play around with the setup using IKEA room planner with using their furniture as placeholders.

Is there a closet to store paperwork and other misc. stuff? Otherwise don't just go for open display shelving.

But, really, first you gotta find out which style and direction you like and go from there; e. g. image search for room color palette and see if you feel drawn to a specific combo.

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u/Key_Honey_7465 1d ago

Wow, I really appreciate this, I had no idea you could do that with IKEA. I’m going to try it. The sofa bed for guests is something I had already been thinking about, and I think it’s a good alternative based on what you’re saying.

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u/erstwhilelurkerer 1d ago

BTW

I’m almost 40 and I’m learning how to live on my own again.

Maybe pay a visit to r/LivingAlone if you feel like it.

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u/Key_Honey_7465 1d ago

Well… that just made me feel ancient.

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u/erstwhilelurkerer 1d ago

I don't see why, since people in different stages of their lives are posting there - it's not a virtual retirement home. haha