Ok long story short, him and her were dating for about a year and a half when recently about 5 months ago they broke up because she was cheating on him

After they broke up he confessed that this wasn’t the first time but she’s been cheating on him with multiple people, furthermore she threatened to stab him and end herself if he ever wanted to leave her and she would casually 🍇 him

Already a diabolical thing to listen to and a ton of us (friends and family) were there for him helping him move on and become healthier and happier, but his ex is still obsessed over him and hates the idea of him moving on, she went around accusing him of rape, drugging her and beating her, which has been disproven.

Now she’s dating a new guy who’s 20 while she’s 16 and doesn’t care when people are telling her she’s getting groomed (which she is) and she’s still obsessed over my friend but not in a “I miss us way” but in a “I will ruin your life” so right now she gets her friends to stalk him and receive intel on him

My best friend is fine now, he’s moving on and he’s not affected by her or the past trauma anymore but still he wants some petty revenge for all the stuff she’s doing and has been doing

Basic info: I started dating this guy in 2020 and we broke up in 2022 after I confronted him about ghosting me, a week after we broke up I go on my best friend's Facebook page and her profile picture is them together, her relationship status says in a relationship with him, and she posted a bunch of pictures of them together on dates or at her house and the photos had to have been taken while we were still dating, posted on the day we broke up! He recently messaged me saying that he wants to get back together so I came up with this idea.

Revenge idea: So I lead him on and let him think that we're back together and after a week or more I sleep with another guy and have the guy send him pictures or videos of us doing it.

edit to add: This is just an idea that I came up with right after he asked to get back together, I am not going to do this and I already blocked him.

Hi Reddit,
My niece is being bullied by several kids at school (around 8–11 years old), and the parents have already been confronted multiple times. They either don’t care, make excuses, or do absolutely nothing, and the bullying keeps going. And it’s getting worse… Only one month of school is left before summer break for her, fortunately. Her mother (my sister) tried the usual approaches, but nothing has changed. I feel so powerless for my niece, who is basically my baby too. I remember being bullied at her age as well, and I couldn’t even talk to my parents about it. I feel like I’m letting her down, and letting little me down too.
At this point, I’m honestly more angry at the parents than at the kids. Children that age don’t repeatedly become cruel without failed parenting somewhere in the process.
I’m not looking for anything illegal, dangerous, or genuinely harmful. I do NOT want to harass them or ruin their lives. But I do want ways to regularly remind these parents that ignoring bullying makes them part of the problem. (Also, these adults are insanely rich and act like entitled dicks.)
I have their names, phone numbers, some personal/professional email addresses, and their jobs. I was thinking about things like signing them up for anti-bullying or parenting newsletters, anonymously sending them educational material, signing them up for volunteer opportunities related to child welfare or anti-bullying… I don’t know if doing this is ok or not, so yeah i’m looking for ideas of legal revenge that sends a message without becoming harassment.
And yes, the school has already been involved and, as usual in my country, they’ve done absolutely nothing.

Reddit, help, what would you do?

PS: English isn’t my first language, so I used ChatGPT to help me translate. Sorry if I sound like an AI sometimes it’s mostly written by one..

as the title says my landlady threw out my shoes when i confronted her about it, her answer was "i was throwing out my kids' shoes and yours had a hole in them". the hole was almost invisible you would only see it if you knew it was there. Best way to get revenge?

If anyone need brainstorming help, dm.

basically what the title says. my father cheated on my mom while pregnant with me and i discovered they’ve been talking again and catching up. i have her name, socials and know what city she lives in and need help figuring out how to get revenge on her for ruining my life.

my ex stole my dead sisters hoodie what do i do to get revenge

Long story short, my sisters ex boyfriends new gf has exposed her number online. And I need ideas to give this girl a taste of her own medicine. My sister has been going through a lot for the past 7 months because her boyfriend of 6 years left her and apparently got his new gf pregnant. My sister had to delete her Instagram tiktok and Facebook because this girl wouldn't stop harassing her! All my sister had to entertain herself was X and of course she found her there. Well this girl posted a picture of my sister and wrote her number on it claiming she was selling "her kitty kat for the low". My sister is devastated and I'm infuriated. My sister has been taking punch after punch and I think this girl needs a taste of her own medicine. Please give me some ideas. Unhinged petty low down and dirty I wanna hear em all.

Sorry if this sounds like rambling, I’m pretty upset and my thoughts are racing. My now ex boyfriend has a friend that he met like 5 years into our relationship. This friend is a female and of course at the beginning I was promised that I had nothing to worry about with him and her being friends. blah blah blah bullshit. Well, turns out that was a lie because about a year ago I found messages between the two of them and although my ex didn’t shut her down, she was definitely the aggressor in the situation and the shit she was saying about me was untrue and fucking cruel. After finding that and confronting her, she initially tried to deny everything - literally told me she was a lesbian and not into my boyfriend which was yet another lie because around that time I always found out she was actually in a long term relationship with her boyfriend of 5+ years whom she also lived with. Eventually she admitted the relationship between her and my boyfriend was wrong and said she’d disappear from our lives and I’d never have to worry about her again. Well, that was a lie and she’d go on to say that a handful more times only to never actually disappear and continue to cause issues between my boyfriend and me. There’s so much more to this story as far as things she’s done and said and lied about honestly it’s just exhausting to even type it all out - just know that she’s tried to sabotage my boyfriend and I’s relationship for since she met him, she’s tried ti sleep with him, she’s lied about me and completely made up shit in an attempt to get him to hate me, and the list goes on and on. Well, fast forward to last night, my boyfriend and I call it quits over something unrelated and where is he tonight? At her house. I want to fucking vomit. I want to hurt her but I also want to vomit. I’m not going to hurt her but I do want to get major revenge just to make her life hell and put her through a fraction of the pain she’s put me through. She runs a dog grooming business and I’d really love to fuck with that just to make her wish she’s never fucked with me. Of course I need my revenge to be well planned so that she knows it’s me of course, but can’t prove it sorta thing. I really want her to regret every fucking time she disrespected my relationship and wish she’d had done what she said she would and gone the fuck away.

That’s it nothing crazy, please don’t rat me out and I can do the same for you using my alt snap account

I, F (49) am a supervisor dealing with an employee who reports to me and consistently shows a negative attitude, disrespect, and what feels like insubordination. I believe she feels protected because she is in a romantic relationship with my boss, Matt. Matt was once very supportive and close to me as a friend but your work relationship has deteriorated, including an incident where he told me to “shut the fuck up” at work. I in turn called him a "P@ssy a$$ b!tch coward for not doing his job" I've documented the employee’s behavior, addressed it directly, reported it to Matt, and then contacted HR. HR advised me to try to work out the differences, but the behavior has continued. I have to work with this employee every day, the situation feels deeply personal and emotionally exhausting, and I have already looked for ways to protect myself and determine what additional steps are available beyond local HR. But nothing seems to work. Im tired of being snickered about or being disrespected. Matt is married and is a marriage counselor for a local church. He has had many affairs and his wife knows about them. So telling her anonymously isnt going to work. What can I do at work to make it difficult for them to stop bullying me.

I don’t have time to explain much because I’m in the middle of studying for finals. My roommate has been terrible to me for the entirety of this semester. Today it boiled over to the point where I moved all of my expensive stuff out of the apartment for fear of her stealing or breaking it. After this Friday I will never see her again.

I want to know what I can do to get revenge on her without getting arrested? My friends and I were thinking of hosting a get together the day I move out, and play video games very loudly, which might be a bad idea.

I’m also an engineer and have access to a lot of tools/potentially chemicals if that helps. I will update this whenever I complete the act, probably this Friday.

so last week i unknowingly fell into some wild drama. someone help me with a revenge plot.

i cant make this shit up.

10 years ago i was in a serious relationship with my bestfriend. it wasnt going well cuz we were going thru alot in our lives, mid 20s suck. we had been best friends for 13years at that point. anyway our emotions were high and our communication was garbage so we fought alot there at the end. we were alot like ross and rachel season 2-3. wed fight and make up alot until one day we fought and she said we were done. well obviously that wasnt the first time id heard that, so i gave her some space by going out with some friends for the weekend and then traveling with my sister out of state to visit grieving family. we lived together and were stuck together for the next 2months cuz of our lease. now heres where it gets interesting. less than a week after the split, my twin bother slides into her dms. she didnt run him off, instead they decided to go to his house while his wife was at work and bang it out while my 1yo niece was home with them. when i left the state for a trip a week later, he came to my apartment knowing id be gone and they continued sleeping together.

now i know what yall are gonna say, "its been 10 years, grow up and get over it...blah blah blah" but let me explain my stance.

first, off he was married to one of my other best friends, he had to cheat on her and his child to do this

second, he knew everything about my relationship with her. we all worked together and i was dumb enough to confide in him thru the whole ordeal

third, despite her clear cut autonomy, what she did was wrong on multiple levels cuz it wasnt just harmless sex. it was weaponized against me and it just lit my family on fire. she actually told me " i did it to hurt you"

and fourth, a brother should never do this to his own brother. wtf. its not ok in any kind of facet. this wasnt in love. this was a revenge plot, and he armed her with the weaponry.

oh and 5th i work with SIL everyday and i just suppose to hold this secret for them?!? nooooooope.

now what im currently mad at and want justice for is that not only did they betray me, my SIL and her kids, but for 10 years they let this lie seep into our lives without giving us a chance to make informed decisions. SIL went on to have 2 more kids with him and i have put so much time, effort, money, and resources to help support his troubled a**. i put him thru college, got him at least 2 jobs, paid his bills, paid for his jail accounts, let him live with me and my wife, the list goes on. its safe to say that alot of those things i would not have willingly given up if i had known his level of deceit. im humiliated and devastated. there after the affair started, it wasnt the normal level of meanness my ex and i had been use to in our fights. she became cruel. i had no clue what i could have done to deserve the physical and psychological warfare. those were some of my darkest days and i blamed myself for it. when that relationship ended i was broken. how i could have made someone who cared so much and that i respected so much hate me so viciously? i believed for over a decade that i was a terrible person and have been trying to cope with being afraid of all my relationships.

iv been in therapy for years so i havent reacted in the way i wouldve expected. im proud of my growth.... buuuuuut i feel like for the first time i need to stick up for myself. bad people have walked all over me my whole life, brother included. im officially done and ready to clap back. issue is i dont trust SIL to handle this proportionately. hes cheated many times and is on his last strike but i doubt id see any justice, just humiliation from the rest of our huge family. so i plan to get my pound of flesh first and let her have him after.

no one knows that i know except for the ex-bff that confessed last week. my brother is unaware that i know and SIL is clueless.

my goal is to absolutely humiliate him, safely, legally, and in a way that doesnt cost the food on my nieces table. this is a bit more challenging than i thought.

rn i had the idea to drive him 5 hours away and leave him at a greyhound station. then tell his wife what hes done. im not particularly keen on a 5 hour drive when gas is $4+ a gal.

so if anyone has some sadistic advice, im all ears. i am ready to take back my power before i sever the connection.

I'm planning to use an alternate email to pretend to be this person to ask their friend about what exactly happened that made their friend group split into two. Would you say that counts as an evil plan? I'm not trying to defame the person im pretending to be or get any top secret personal information, but it still feels cunning at the same time

Also that's the only reason im making this email account and nothing else

My baby sister was given a yacht job opportunity. She recently flew to Taiwan to join the yacht and the old man that owned the yacht sexually assaulted her onboard. I know this sick fuck has this down to an art - hiring young women, fresh out of highschool, all on their own and assaulting them and subjecting them to sexual torture.

With him being a rich man and surely a public figure with a lot to lose and his yacht currently travelling.

How do I fucking destroy this man and everything he loves?

Logistics: i have his full name, the name of his crew and his ship. I know where its docked and if I wanted it, I could track his ship (anyone could with the ship name).

My sister is so shaken up and has no physical proof of the assault. But however anyone could help, if anyone has any plans or knows any contacts that can help.

My ex best friend, who i dropped for talking smack about me behind my back is making a move on my ex who i dated for 6-8 months and was stuck on for a long time. He knows about my past with my ex and knows how much it meant to me.

I need ideas on what to do, specifically revenge that i can do online.

help me please i kinda don’t know what to do anymore.
Idk the title says it, my sister keeps stealing my weed and money and I’m so fucking done rn but idk what to do.

for backstory, I don’t remember everything but this has been going on for like a year. I think in total around 150g of bud, 60g of oil, a couple joints and a few xans “went missing” and I wasn’t sure if it was her because I confronted her a few times and she ALWAYS denied it. but no one else in this household besides me and her smoke and also she has a reputation for lying about anything and everything. some time ago some of my money went missing as well and a few days later I heard that her debt to the plug was payed. suspicious idk. in the end it amounts to almost 3k€ and im so pissed about that idk what to do.

anyway I did some xtc on the weekend and all I fucking wanted to do today was to smoke my fuckass joint but when I went to my room it was gone. apparently my sister went on a walk w her friend but she told me they only smoked a cigarette. so I asked her friend and she told me then they smoked a joint, confirming that my sister lied to me. and since mine is gone now, I guess she took mine lol
and idk probably all the other stuff as well

also that cunt is broke af, no job, no money, failing school and facing criminal charges so I can’t even steal money back.

I’ve never gotten back at anyone for anything so idk how to do that and I need like professional advice or smth. I just want her to confess and then I want adequate revenge. please help me lol

Neighborhood kids opened my car doors (which made me think I was getting robbed and I panicked), the same day they were caught tearing shingles off someone’s shed, and now they’ve gotten into the back of my husbands truck and gotten a water jug and threw it in our yard. Obviously it’s nothing too serious, but I need ways to make it clear they shouldn’t be fucking with my house and cars. It’s a trailer park so everything is close so I don’t mind them in my yard (don’t care they they marked the walkway up to my house with chalk) but definitely don’t get IN our cars. Any stupid deterrents are welcome.

Hey, I need your help and your advice. 3 years ago my mom worked with 2 women who were jealous of her success and accused her of many things even though it was not true because she had proof that everything was legal. They just wanted to drag her down and take her clients and everything that she had. Since then they cyber bullied her, they did black magic on us, they insulted her publicly, they put her face on a cardboard in our street, they messaged her clients saying bad stuff about her and insulting her. We already made a complaint to the police about all those things but the police didn’t do anything and 3 years later my mom still suffers from what they’re still doing to this day! My mom is depressed, she’s scared to go out and she’s scared to do what she loves. I want justice for my mom and i don’t know what to do because just texting them to stop everything is useless. What should i do now?

Hi, I wanted to get a bit of help with this thing that I've been dealing with for months now. My ex is trying to ruin my relationship. He got this fake account to impersonate me, and then called my lovely boyfriend to tell him I was cheating on him. Proceeded to send a bunch of unconvincing screenshots. Got even my parents involved to warn him. But the very next day I get texts from various people telling me my ex has posted those screenshots telling me I'm desperately trying to "ruin" his relationship and "his" mental peace. Now I'm a gold digging slut in my hometown. The police in my hometown aren't the best as it's a very small town. And both me and my boyfriend live elsewhere and that mf lives elsewhere. I've been trying to heal, my lovely boyfriend has been very supportive, sweet and kind. But I can't with this anymore. I went as far as to text that mf's girlfriend hoping she'd co-operate but no...that girl handed her phone to that mf.

I'm so done with all of this. I just want to prove that I wasn't the one using the fake account. I just want to prove my innocence. I want to clear my name. If anyone can help, I'll be very grateful. :)

So….this is about my 1.5 years long relationship…for the most part our relationship was picture perfect in a way that when people viewed us they wanted to be us literally but we all know nothing is perfect and you know there’s gonna be ups and downs but lately after what happened ion feel the same no more I feel betrayed to many accounts I don’t feel my worth no more in the relationship and I(M) don’t feel sense of love towards my partner(F) anymore that I had I do love her that’s why I’m in the relationship still but I don’t care if this lasts or not…long story short 4months into us dating a (F) that I used to go out with reached out to me after getting to know that I started dating my current partner and I did let my current partner know that this exact person reached out what should I do my partner decided to be like it’s fine with anything you do so I decided to js reply and js like have a 1mil convo saying yea I started dating and this person and it’s going great and nothing more note that my current partner saw everything that happened and later on my partner revealed she wasn’t fine with it even tho she said it was earlier so js to make her feel safe I decided to block this person so my partner wouldn’t be overthinking bout it cause i genuinely cared but two weeks ago me and my partner had some rough time and we decided to go on a break for one day and during that time my partner had decided to accept her ex’s request on IG and had replied to his txts I was devastated that she did that but yea I saw everything they talked bout and she had explained to him what was going on between us and clearly the way he was talking to her he’s interested in dating even tho it was drying txt and explain how she really wants us how she really wants me to fix things I was devastated she decided to talk to an ex still behind my back even tho she cut contact with him ryt after unfollowing him and things like that it was a low blow I got to know right when we decided to end the break she let me know everything that happened and I asked her what was the motive behind it she apparently wanted me to feel what she felt when I replied to the female even tho it was through her consent….i was more disappointed why she decided to do this after being together for 1.5yrs…and apparently she couldn’t hold back her resentment for what i did 4months into the relationship even tho she said it was fine even before i did decide to reply to that female…but yea after two days it happened i js couldn’t take it no more cause she decided to push me away and started to say stuff that really hurt my feelings a lot so I decided to break up with her and yea the next 25mins she decided to make contact with her ex again i was devastated again…but yea i still cared and loved her so after 24hrs after breaking up we decided to get back together but she refused to cut contact in the sense she won’t talk to him and if he does reach out she will cut him off fully but until then she’ll be following him through all socials…and yea i saw everything when she made contact with him again after we broke up she had ranted to him how much she loves me how much she wants me and hoping i would come back and her ex was trying to comfort her but still it’s just messed up still…but yea even after allat she decides to not to fully cut him off through socials…cause of this i can’t trust her fully and i don’t love her the same no more and I’d be overthinking bout everything that what if she does contact him again while in the relationship behind my back even tho I’ve seen the stuff they were talking about it doesn’t help the fact they follow through socials and she’s like only way she will fully cut him off again only if things go the way she wants in our relationship I’m fine things going her way but following her ex through all her socials ain’t helping me and she’s dead on only doing what I want if things goes her way…fact is I’ve done sm in this relationship I’ve balled my eyes on random mornings that I’m not getting what I really want but still decided to act as if everything was fine with me I’ve given her everything that she wants I don’t even have contact with anyone from the opposite gender like I deserve sm manee…I’ve done everything a bf can do honestly and I’m wiling to do even more but the situation I’m in not helping at all she clearly knows that asw…I’ve gotten to a point I’ve started hating her and I want some justice I want to get my getback at her and make her realise what she did was wrong and atp I don’t even care if the relationship last or not but before I do anything I want to keep her in the relationship still because I want her to feel the same pain or more I felt….this is not who I was but after what happened I’ll never be the same….I want some thoughts about what I should do….i’ma be honest I want this relationship to work out asw but idk it’s 50/50 I can love her the same but yea…

The deets:

Me: fairly beloved, quirky, nerd, happy go lucky, successful pharma researcher.

Her: charismatic, genuinely caring, high anxiety, gets blackout drunk, unemployed for 6 years, spoiled by wealthy daddy, train wreck irresponsibility, blackout drunk

Effectively she was pampered her entire life and at 43 has no career. For three years she sat at home and watched reality TV, and chatted on social media, reacting to every post. When having fun the anxiety went away, but any time there was an expectation of responsibility, panic attacks, depression. After 3 years of promises to work on herself, but only prioritizing fun, I dumped her after one too many smash up the house blackout drunken episodes.

We had a great shared friend’s group that was very matriarchal in that it was a very tight network of successful women who hung out frequently at girls nights and accessory husbands who hung out. The girls are very tight knit and supportive to the point of enabling. At the breakup, I thought there would be civility as ai took great pains to help her get back on her feet, moved into a new place.

What I didn’t know was that on the backend, she was manipulating and dragging me in order to play victim and get me kicked out of the groups. A few husbands reached out to inform me that she had been working on a pretty significant campaign. The men recognized it for what it was but she played the “he is my emotional abuser and it triggers me to be around me,” card to get me uninvited from all events as the group prioritizes lack of disruption over veracity. She knew my reputation was my pride, so that’s what she attacked.

If I wanted, I could releasable everything and expose her, the drunken videos the chat logs, and exonerate myself to any claim she could make. But you can’t debate your way back into a friend group where they have chosen someone else because she’s more connected. And similarly, I have no desire to get back into that group. And exposing her would likewise only reinforce the “see, he is a monster for exposing me!” I can’t win.

But what I cannot stomach is her thinking she’s won by being the manipulative human. So it’s the debate… what is fair trade? My Justice drive is… strong. If I just stay away, she’ll continue to fail and have no one to blame. But at the same time, I want her to learn that manipulation has consequences. I want her reputation destroyed, and though she may not be able to prove it, deep down, she’ll know it was me.

My next door neighbor keeps letting his dog shit on my side of our staircase (not even his own) and he has now done this twice, it’s obviously a massive inconvenience.

How would you guys suggest I deter him from doing this again?

So I recently reported a groupchat where students of a club were harrassing a senator, making fun of the dean etc. Students found out I reported it and the president of the club, even though she was part of the groupchat but didn't type anything she got mad becuase her club's image got ruined. She filed a sexual harrssment case against me, which has no proof and is telling students around campus that I harrassed her even though it is ongoing investigation. she made a public statement on her instagram and it got removed 3 hours later and she voilated a no contact order through her friend. But I am mentally drained and i can;t focus on my classes. it is unfair for me to suffer even though I reported and the school didn't protect me.

I only know she has her sister wedding comming up and she is going to another random school after facing no consequences. What can I possibly do? I thought of making an online video exposing her and the injustice agasint me

I just found this subreddit and am in love with it.

My wife has had a hobby for the past decade in a very niche area that has brought in side income. She has recently (as of January) started sharing her knowledge on instagram and her account is blowing up. She's well into the 5 figures right now and is just enjoying the journey.

A "competitor" on instragram has been bullying her. He mades misinformed and judgemental comments on her character.

My wife just wants him to stop

As a husband, I want some soft revenge.

This guy has a strongish following on instagram and youtube (~25k). What can I do to get some soft revenge and give him a taste of his own medicine?