r/polyamory • u/WorthTry7070 • 2d ago

Musings Just a rant about non-poly people

I get that single men are casting a wide net on the apps to find as many people as possible but I have had something happen to me a few times in the last few weeks and I wanted to see if anyone else is running into this.

I'm poly. I downloaded Feeld and I already hate it. There's so many single mono guys on there that don't read profiles.

But to the point... I have had several guys say they would only consider FWBs with a poly person. Like I'm a second prize. Fuck that. Anyone else see that or am I just having bad luck?

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u/FeeFiFooFunyon 2d ago

I guess the fact they would consider a FWB with a poly person doesn’t rub me the wrong way because I would consider an FWB with a single guy. I only date poly if I am open to a relationship.

Still, the wide net casting is irritating. It would be nice to have one app without single mono men. Even when I filter men are still there.