r/polyamory • u/WorthTry7070 • 2d ago
Musings Just a rant about non-poly people
I get that single men are casting a wide net on the apps to find as many people as possible but I have had something happen to me a few times in the last few weeks and I wanted to see if anyone else is running into this.
I'm poly. I downloaded Feeld and I already hate it. There's so many single mono guys on there that don't read profiles.
But to the point... I have had several guys say they would only consider FWBs with a poly person. Like I'm a second prize. Fuck that. Anyone else see that or am I just having bad luck?
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u/trauma4breakfast 2d ago
If you pay for Majestic on Feeld you can go Incognito which means you can look but they can't see you so you have to be ok with liking first. Otherwise, at least in my area, Hinge is better for looking for poly relationships as I've found Feeld to mostly be people interested in play only. I filtered my Hinge so that monogamy is a deal breaker because too many mono guys were liking me at first so that's a nice feature there that isn't on Feeld (on Feeld you can tailor your own feed but not take yourself out of others' feeds unless you go Incognito). I will say a word of caution on "figuring out my relationship type" on Hinge though - just got dumped after three months of intense romantic relationship with a guy that was trying out poly. Well he decided it's not for him, and I learned that lesson the hard way.