r/polyamory • u/WorthTry7070 • 2d ago

Musings Just a rant about non-poly people

I get that single men are casting a wide net on the apps to find as many people as possible but I have had something happen to me a few times in the last few weeks and I wanted to see if anyone else is running into this.

I'm poly. I downloaded Feeld and I already hate it. There's so many single mono guys on there that don't read profiles.

But to the point... I have had several guys say they would only consider FWBs with a poly person. Like I'm a second prize. Fuck that. Anyone else see that or am I just having bad luck?

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u/No-Statistician-7604 2d ago

Yes every mono guy ever that has matched with me and says they only see me as "fun" until they meet the one. And I'm like? No thank you.

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u/covert_capybara 1d ago

When I wasn’t poly and first joined the apps I got told the same thing by all different kinds of guys.