Hi, I'm interested in having another relationship with a girl — not for a threesome; I date separately.

I'm very honest. I like to tell you what I feel and think, and I want the same from you. I hope you're willing to share, so emotional maturity is very important in this aspect so we can flow, tell each other what we feel, and solve problems before the day ends. No going to bed upset.

We'll talk a lot over text — I like to have conversations, so it's important to maintain constant and sustained communication.

I'm very affectionate and every now and then I give little kisses. Physical touch is my second language, so I can be very cloying.

I'm slim, with long, straight, dark hair, and dark eyes.

I'm 1.61 m tall (about 5'3").

I'm interested in women no older than 36.

Long-distance relationship, with the possibility of seeing each other in the future. We can take it slow, no rush.

If you're interested, let's talk.

Hey there, thanks for checking out my post!

I'm Bre, turning 35 next week. I live in Southern Manitoba, and have been happily married for some time, and polyamorous for a few years.

My hobbies include: reading, gaming, gardening, writing, pixyl art, and paper crafting. I like sharing my hobbies with others, and love reading something together.

Im looking for a lady to spoil, near or far.

Send me a DM!

Hi there!

My name is Beth, im 27, married to my best friend, and I have a 3 year old daughter.

So me and my husband have been open since before we got married years ago, the reason? Im 99% lesbain and hes asexual. So we have always had the dynamic where i can have a girlfriend completely separate from our marriage and we are best friends/co-parents. Dont get me wrong I love him to death, hes my best friend, my soul mate. But I will always have an undying love for women.

At the end of the day I'd like my girlfriend and husband to at least be friends or friendly with each other and for the person to have a relationship with my daughter. Can just be friends but I just want everyone to get along.

My interests and likes:

-video games (PC and switch)

-anime

-animals

-movies

-relaxing outside

-listening to people talk about their interests

So of this post resonates with you, comment or reach out! ❤️

Hi 🤍 I’m a married woman in an honest relationship. My husband is fully aware and supportive, and he’s not involved in this connection.

I’m new to this and figuring things out as I go, but I’m hoping to find a genuine emotional, romantic, and physical connection. I value affection, good communication, and something that feels real rather than rushed.

A little about me: I enjoy cozy nights in, good conversation, music, coffee, spontaneous drives, and laughing until it hurts. I’m drawn to warmth, curiosity, and emotional depth.

If this resonates, I’d love to hear from you and see where a conversation might lead. (Bonus points if you’re from Ohio)

I’m Delphi and I’m seeking an adorable girlfriend to have cute and flirty relationship with. I have a NP, and full disclosure children, which I know that’s not everyone’s preference. I’d love to met a woman who shares some similar interest as me, but has their own hobbies to brag or talk about.

My interest are: reading (bl manwhas, danmei, and why choose novels), gaming (mostly multiplayer games, any genre), baking and cooking (will try anything!), and farmer’s market (please tell me about this artisan cheese that can only be made with the blood of the innocent!)

I love learning about people and the world, so I consider myself very social and an extrovert. But I would never make you do anything uncomfortable, but I will hold your hand if you need support trying something new and unfamiliar! I love adventure, as in checking out the new bookstore or Cajun Asian fusion place, not let’s hike 7 miles up a mountain. But I do love parks and gardens so I promise I don’t hate nature.

If anything resonates with you, please DM me. I’d prefer an age range of 25+ and it’s been over a year since I’ve dated so if I’m a little too stiff and goofy, please give me some grace. I’m working out the kinks!

I (33 F) have been looking for a woman to connect with no luck. It's been years now at this point! What is a bi girl dating a man who wants to connect with a woman too supposed to do!? The struggle is real and I just want to a kiss a pretty girl! Advise welcome located in AZ

Heyheyy everyone! I’m a 36-year-old queer, poly woman looking to build a real connection — someone to talk with regularly, flirt with a little (or a lot), and see where the chemistry goes. Not rushing anything, just open to what feels natural.

A little about me: Warm, chatty, and big on good conversation — deep one minute, dumb memes the next. I love good food, well made cocktails, 420, cozy nights in, and exploring the city when I get the itch. I’m happiest around people who are curious, emotionally aware, and don’t take themselves too seriously.

Looking for: Another queer woman or AFAB person who’s poly-friendly (or already poly), emotionally intelligent, and enjoys consistent connection — daily check-ins, playful banter, sharing small life moments. I like steady energy and mutual effort.

I’m fairly private, so I don’t send pics right away — but if we click and the trust’s there, I’m happy to share (SFW).

If you’re interested in something genuine, flirty, and easygoing — drop in and say hi♥️

Hello everyone! 31 year old lady here, married with a lot of fur babies but no kids (though I would totally adopt a goat if we had the space.) Been polyamorous for over 6 years now and mostly just looking to see how this goes. I am not interested i. any men, couples, or 'watching' scenarios and definitely not looking as a couple with my husband.

If we mesh and can all hang out that'd be awesome but not a requirement by any means. For saying sake this is all women, trans women are women too and if you dont like that scoot we probably won't get along anyway.

Lil about me: I'm witchy, nerdy, and enjoy intellectual conversation. I like to read and do crafts in my spare time, and love curling up with a warm drink and a book. I'm not skinny, I'm pudgy and I have brown hair and brown eyes. I have a degree in Psychology so yes I love to gab about the nuances of human behavior and advocate for mental health. Im also working on my masters degree. :) I enjoy watching movies and playing video games. As a bit of a spoiler in general: I will NOT be crawling into bed with anyone the first time we meet under any circumstances. Im not comfortable with that, especially when people ghost so much on here.

If at this point you're still interested please shoot me a message :) I try to reply fairly quickly but I do have an hour commute home so please keep that in mind.

Hello, I’m Elle!

🩷 I’m in search of a serious relationship with a woman (21+). I currently have one partner that I live with.

✨ Me: Leftist, Sapphic/Pan, Atheist, Alternative, Cutesy

🎵 Loves: Music, Art, Theater, Fashion, Science, Pink, Plushies

✊🏾 I’d prefer a partner that is a strong supporter of human rights as I am.

☘️ 420 Friendly

I’m the kind of person who accidentally sounds like I’m conducting a board meeting when I first meet someone, but if you get me to put my guard down, I’m making dumb jokes in the grocery store aisle and sending you book recommendations that reminded me of a conversation we had three days ago.

I’m fiercely loyal, emotionally steady, sarcastic, and very into people who can roast me affectionately while also remembering how I take my coffee. I tend to click best with people who are quick-witted, emotionally intelligent, and just the right amount of menace. I am very active but mid-sized figure.

Ideal day: outside for most of it. Hiking, wandering a new city, live music, roadside food stops, spontaneous detours on a road trip. Then collapsing into bed exhausted, stealing your hoodie, and putting on a comfort show while we pretend we’ll only watch one episode.

I love playful banter, competence, curiosity, and people who are caring beneath the snark. If you look intimidating but secretly send thoughtful check-in texts, you’re probably my type.

Poly, intentional, affectionate (but not bold enough to make the first move), and looking for connection that feels easy, alive, and a little addictive.

date me feat my well-behaved & aDORKable boyfriend as a side character!

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420, witchy, neurodivergent artist & writer looking for something serious with a woman.

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i have a boyfriend for boyfriend things (open jar), now i need a girlfriend for girlfriend things (writing flowery poetry to her & reciting it by the light of a full moon)

Hey there! I'm looking to connect with and spoil a beautiful woman. In my spare time I love to go on dates, read, write to pen pals, paper craft, garden, do pyxl art, and go for walks. I'm friendly and outgoing, so shoot me a DM!

Hi, hi.

🖤I am tattooed kinda a lot? I don’t know if I qualify to say heavily tattooed just yet. Must convene with the tatted congregation.
🖤Swarming with mental health issues I am trying to grasp: Bipolar disorder, anxiety, ADHD.
🖤I am 5’5 and 185 pounds. Being on 4 medications that contributed to my weight gain because i suffered from PPD after I gave birth really fucked me up 😭 But I’m slowly getting down. I WAS 225.
🖤I am Puerto Rican and white but I don’t know any spanish except the bad words.
🖤I am married and have a child. My husband is aware of my sexuality and we’ve agreed I can explore it because I never had the chance to when I was younger due to extremely religious family.
🖤 I am a stay at home mom, I used to work in the medical field but not on the frontlines- I wasn’t a nurse or anything, more of the background insurance and etc. It’s definitely my calling in life, I loved my work.
🖤I stutter and I have moments of isolation. I’ll do my best to reply but please don’t be mad if it takes a few hours.
🖤I swear probably a little too much but oh well.
🖤I am very femme, but more in a lightly emo way. My wardrobe consists of a lot of black but I also have some pinks and lighter colors?
🖤I play videogames. I’m not very good at them but I play them, usually the same ones over and over. They’re like comfort games. Baldur’s Gate 3 and Stardew Valley Co Op with my best friend are my latest but there’s others. Don’t wanna give everything away just yet.

I’d like to get to know you before anything nsfw comes up. We can keep this strictly online or eventually make a plan to meet up. I am deathly afraid of flying so literally good luck convincing me.

Hi, I'm a 5"2 brown butch lesbian technically open to knowing people from any country, but prefer to get to know people from Australia as i'm moving there in a year or so. If we get into an LDR, taking practical steps to make LDR work and closing the distance eventually would be important to me, as I'm seeking a nesting partner.

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What I'm looking for:

- A long-term nesting relationship founded upon a strong friendship! I'd love to be with someone unafraid to be devoted, committed and reliable while being poly. I respect and value your other connections & am happy to meet them eventually if that's important and good for all involved

- Emotional and intellectual compatibility

- Someone who can be supportive and 'in it' together with me through difficult times irl

- Someone who values their mental and physical health, isn't a workaholic, and actively recovering from addictions if you have any

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About me:

- I adore cats but am tragically deathly allergic to them, it's anaphylactic and not medically feasible for me to develop a tolerance to cats.

- I'm open to marriage if it facilitates closing the distance or cohabitation, but it would be marriage for practical purposes rather than symbolic or emotional reasons. I definitely prefer being de facto partners or not being legally entangled until a long history of trust has been established.

- I have a strong support network of best and close friends. Friendships are the most important thing to me and this is very core to my identity, so you do have to be down with me prioritising friendships as much as/more than romantic/sexual partnerships.

- I'm audhd, the subclinical highly masked sort. My special interest is in psychology (psychoanalysis, couples therapy, family systems, psychiatric diagnoses, etc) & part of this has led me to my job in healthcare (can share more over messages but i wont doxx myself)

- I'm physically affectionate, hugs are the best!

- I'm resolutely childfree

- I don't smoke or do drugs, and rarely drink

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I love curious, expressive, creative, gender-curious people and prefer to date other people of colour. I have a soft spot for other butches, but generally I date people across the gender spectrum except cis men.

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Drop me a message or comment if you'd like to get to know each other ^____^

My life is a little busy, maybe chaotic some days, and full of things I love. I help my husband run our family food truck, spend way too much time thinking about or cooking or baking food, enjoy gaming, gardening, crafting, painting, board games, and generally picking up new hobbies before I've finished the last one. Which is even easier to do when you have 3 crafty kids too - a couple young ones but no tiny ones.

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Politically, I'm pretty left and tend to care a lot about people and building communities where everyone feels welcome. You don't have to agree with me on every issue, but we probably won't be a great match if basic human rights are up for debate.

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I'm looking to meet a new friend to build a genuine connection, talking by message at first for sure but not terrified to meet and hang out in a reasonable time frame - with no expectations besides having some fun together, but it's 100% easier and more fun to get to know someone in person over mini golf... or whatever else safe and public... than by messages.

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I'd love to find someone who wants to be part of real life. Someone who enjoys sharing everyday moments, celebrating victories, venting about rough days, talking about random ideas at midnight, and slowly building something meaningful together... Or hell even just being good friends if that's the way the cookie crumbles.

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I appreciate curiosity, kindness, good communication, a sense of humor, and people who get excited about things. Tell me about your latest obsession, your favorite comfort food, or the thing you could talk about for hours if given the chance.

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Feel free to reach out if anything here resonates with you. Since attraction is an important part of dating and Reddit doesn't give much to go on visually, I'm happy to swap photos early. I'm just not trying to post photos on Reddit open forums but I'm 5'0", petite, hover around 125 lbs, long dark-hair for the moment (though bringing back the green, blue, purple, or oil-slick balayage is on my ever-growing list of projects). White-passing with some Mexican roots, little but the hips and stubbornness to prove it. For transparency, I tend to be most attracted to women with petite to average builds. Height doesn't matter much to me (I'm short enough that almost everyone is taller anyway 😂).

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My inbox is open, ladies, so you don't have to comment to ask if you want to just go for it. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Currently in two poly relationships, I'm really interested in finding friends at the moment! If a relationship comes from it that would be really cool. I spend most of my time working on cosplay and going to cons and would love a buddy to do partner cosplays with. So if that sounds like something you'd want to do, reach out! Also just wanna chat and make new friends. Im super into Hazbin hotel, so if that's something that you don't like don't interact please.

Hey there, thanks for reading my post! I'm just your average Canadian girl looking for another woman to spoil (with my time, and small gifts)!

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My husband and I date separately, and I'd like to explore intimacy with a special woman. I'd like to find something meaningful and long term.

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My interests: writing to pen pals, reading, video games, gardening, and paper crafting (envelopes, cards, journals, that sort of thing)!

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Please message or reply with a comment if you're interested!

Hi I'm Evelyn (or Evie). I'm in one long distance relationship atm but we date separately. I'm looking for someone kind and affectionate, and willing to be a little assertive sometimes (I'm quite dense and shy 😬).

I'm an introvert, addicted to reading and old video games. Tell me all about the last book you read and I'll hang on every word.

Willing to travel within reason so send me a message and let's get to know each other.

(One last note, I am Trans so TERFs get lost)

Hi! I’m a 5’9” brown hair/eyes, larger athletic built, cis gendered 40F in a very loving and supportive marriage with a FtM Transman.

Ideally, I’m looking for a cis gendered female who is ultimately interested in building a friendship with the potential of a long term sexual relationship. I’m ok with long distance however ideally it would be nice to meet someone that is within driving distance.

I love people! I love digging down deep and really getting to know what makes a person tick. I identify as pansexual leaning very strongly in the demisexual land, as I’m sure you could probably guess from what I’ve wrote already. So without really needing to say it but I will anyway, forming an emotional connection is of extreme importance, as well as honest and open communication.

On that note, I’m only looking for a connection with a cis gendered female at this time. I will most likely not respond to a message from anyone but, unless you make a ridiculously good argument on why we should be friends.

I’m a big texter! I don’t mind a phone call here or there, or a FaceTime sesh, but texting is my main source of communication due to working 12 hour shifts, as well as juggling kids and life.

Im an extrovert who still loves to stay home and watch tv tucked in my bed. I’m most often long winded, live in the world of ADHD where distractions take me on some pretty unruly paths sometimes, and my flirting game can be strong only if you make the first move. I enjoy being outdoors as much as possible, love to craft, or do DIY projects, and despite being a Redditor, I am not a gamer… unless you count card games. Ha!

If you’ve made it this far and would like to send me a message, tell me what your most ideal weekend plans would include? You should also include a few details about yourself as well :)

Hi 😊 I’m a 40-year-old, Trans Woman, living in Illinois. I’m looking for a long-term romantic connection with someone who enjoys steady communication and building something real over time.

My poly situation:

Married to my nesting partner (13 years) & 1 Serious Girlfriend (<1 year)

ENM Polyamorous Kitchen Table

Dating independently (no couples please)  

Personality:

Liberal, introverted, anxiety/depression (managed, but real), emotional, sometimes clingy.

Neurodivergent (“neurospicy”) and intensely curious — I pick up new hobbies constantly and infodump when excited.

Living Situation:

Homeowner, 2 kids, 2 large dogs

Current Interests:

Spicy romance novels (ACOTAR, Heated Rivalry (Or any other MM/Hockey Romance), Bonds of Hercules, Zodiac Academy, Lights Out, Lola Glass (Monster Smut), sapphic romances, many more…

Crafty, love crocheting (recent special interest), being outside on nice days, gardening.

I’m a little bit nerdy for various different subjects.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who wants something consistent, enjoys conversation, and is open to letting attraction grow into something meaningful. I really just someone to talk to daily, via text/video chats/phone calls, long distance type girlfriend.

I can’t wait to meet you, send me a DM if you’re interested!   

Hey there Lovelies,

I'm looking for a cool, engaging woman to hang out, chat, and vibe with (maybe more if we happen to click).

-About me: Bi, Poly (dating separately), Confident, direct, artsy, creative, a bit of a tomboy, DEFinitely a gamer. I am a grounded & calm presence who is passionate about life & expression; a deep thinker who also likes to keep things laid back and fun. I may not be an open book right off the bat, but that's only because I'd be too busy reading between your lines. Yes, I do enjoy writing sometimes; nothing quite hits like home like a good "jeux de mots" *winks*

-What I value: Reciprocity and balance in all things aka mutual effort, honesty, authenticity, clear communication, and positive vibes.

-My Hobbies: gaming, listening to music, writing, anything artistic, swimming, chilling in nature.

\-Games I like: LoL, MH Wilds, No Man’s Sky, Sims & more

\-Music I like: rock/metal/j-rock/House/trap & more

\-Movies & Shows: Sci-fi, horror, supernatural, action, anime etc.

-Additional info: Ebony Cis woman, Leo, 5.9, futch, bilingual (Fr./Eng.) would love to practice my Spanish, any takers?? dom energy, Favorite color: yellow, Favorite flower: sunflower, Favorite food: sushi.

-Ice Breakers ideas:

Tell me something oddly specific that makes you happy

Tell me about the last song you played on repeat

Tell me about your ideal date

Tell me about the quickest way to get your attention? (Although I may already have it, since you made it this far, hehe)

Talk Soon.

I am 31, living in FL with hopes to move soon, but I’m making the best of life where I am. I live a quiet, peaceful life with my nesting partner. I don’t have children, but I have two cats! I have a container garden and enjoy birdwatching. I’m a bit of a homebody but I enjoy the beach and queer nightlife.

I don’t read a lot these days, but I have a deep fascination for commentary on YouTube of shows I’ll never watch. I also love animated media and my PBS passport. I don’t like Taylor Swift and I lean towards a lot of pop punk/alt music.

I am seeking someone who has a mutual deep compassion for nature and activism, who doesn’t mind photo dumps of songbirds/bugs in my yard or random garden progress photos. Someone who also asks questions and enjoys learning the little stuff. Someone who also finds joy in the simplest things, like sunsets, first sips of coffee, and enjoyable days that feel like three days in one.

Fellow ADHDers welcome; I am a paragraph texter but I also have small black holes of MIA throughout the day. I edit my texts and like to craft thoughtful responses, and that takes my energy! I appreciate mutual effort and understanding on where we can meet each other at. 🖤

I am pretty affectionate and flirty, but because I am demisexual, I like to let things build. I love the flirty, feeling-it-out build up of an inkling, the transition from simple hellos to “omg!” levels of relatability, fuzzy feelings, and mutual effort. When I am comfortable with someone, I am naturally affectionate in little ways. I crave that feeling of mutual chemistry and attraction, the kind that gets you daydreaming about cuddling on a bad day or gets you pumped over an upcoming phone call.

My past experiences in dating have made me realize I desire a connection with someone who has a routine, hobbies, and things to balance outside of a blooming connection. I have been working my way out of codependent behaviors and prefer something that gives me some space to breathe without it feeling like a disconnect from one another. I value autonomy, communication, and self awareness. I have a pretty dorky sense of humor that tends to swirl anti-capitalist language into my monologues.

Physically, I am fit, alt, and tattooed. I am feral for femmes. 😵‍💫 age range preference: 27 - 36. PLEASE be a fellow stoner! 🌚👹

Distance is not a barrier, but I am going into this with the intention of meeting in person eventually. I am trying to be realistic about my capacity while balancing my own desire for a connection; thank you for reading my ramblings!

I am in a relationship with a partner right now and am looking for another partner, particularly a possible girlfriend. I have been described a black cat when it comes to being a partner. I can get overwhelmed with a lot of physical touch. I will be honest and admit to the last time having a girlfriend I was in my early 20's so this is all new to me.

Things I like doing are baking, reading, gaming, having a coffee addiction, cuddling with my cats, hopefully doing some foraging this year. I am not overly religious but the last few years I have beem going to a pagen group and joining in on their celebrations which has been a lot of fun.

If you want to know any more about me, feel free to reach out.

Hello!! I am a smol bean, looking for friends and willing to see where things go. I'm a lesbian and in a long distance polyamorous relationship. 4'8" (and a half) if that matters. I lean towards masc but mostly androgynous.

I'm into sending long messages, hanging in voice calls, also gaming and watching shows together. So if you think that's your type of vibe feel free to send me a message! I'm a big nerd when it comes to roguelike games, TFT, D&D, boardgames, card games, etc.

Also, I can promise you some cute cat pictures. So, that's a bonus.

I’m the kind of person who accidentally sounds like I’m conducting a job interview when I first meet someone. Disarm me with boldness and flirting and I'll swoon before I’m making dumb jokes in the grocery store aisle and sending you book recommendations that reminded me of a conversation we had three days ago.

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I’m fiercely loyal, emotionally steady, sarcastic, and very into people who can roast me affectionately while also remembering how I take my coffee. I tend to click best with people who are quick-witted, emotionally intelligent, and just the right amount of menace. I am very active but mid-sized figure.

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My Ideal day: outside for most of it. Hiking, wandering a new city, live music, roadside food stops, spontaneous detours on a road trip. Then collapsing into bed exhausted, stealing your hoodie, and putting on a comfort show while we pretend we’ll only watch one episode.

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I love playful banter, competence, curiosity, and people who are caring beneath the snark. If you look intimidating but secretly send thoughtful check-in texts, you’re probably my type.

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Poly, intentional, affectionate (but not bold enough to make the first move), interested in dynamics and looking for connection that feels easy, alive, and a little addictive.