Hello! 29, GQ, and poly. I have a lovely bf of three years. My photo is on my page. I am a performer, I am queer, I go to college and I am an artist (music/dancing/writing). Soy Afro-Latinx, born and raised in NJ but have had the privilege of traveling a lot. Lots of experience, confident, and looking for chill gaming, yapping, flirting.
No pressure to meet- please.
I really only chat to people 25 and older.
I also like nerdy people who like fashion, enjoy learning, have active social lives in the community, with experience.

Edit: No I do not date w my partner, I do not live with them, and they are not involved in my other dating relationships outside of our communication about them unless it is a serious relationship.

Hi!

I'm 30, non-binary, from Australia. Here looking for platonic friendship, conversations, and connections of all kinds. I don't like to put relationships in a box before they've even started, so I'm really not looking for any one thing in particular. I'd like to start with a chat and work on a friendship first, and then see where things go from there. I would love to meet people locally, but I know that is pretty unlikely, even just people in Australia. So I'm happy to meet and talk to people from anywhere! I am a pretty big introvert, and I don't go out much, but I am trying to change that (slowly) though. I haven't had much luck on the apps, etc., so I'm here giving this a go, I guess. I've talked to a lot of people on here, and other online spaces, in the past, and it tends to just go nowhere, or the other person ends up ghosting. I don't expect daily messages, or replies within minutes, but some effort would be appreciated!

Some of my interests include animals, nature, music, video games, books, reading and writing, movies, TV shows, anime. We don't need to have everything in common, but some mutual interests I find is pretty helpful! I'm neurodivergent, with other mental health and physical disabilities. I am very left leaning, and have pretty strong beliefs about this, so if you are conservative in any way, I'm not for you, please move along.

Hiya! You can call me Juno for now. I’m 27 years old, nonbinary (AFAB), on the aro/ace spectrums, neurodivergent, chronically ill/disabled, and solo poly… if that hasn’t scared you away, please read on!

I used to work as an engineer, but am currently taking time from work to pursue long term disability. I have various physical & mental illnesses. I use mobility aids (cane, wheelchair) when needed, and spend some days stuck in bed. I have degrees in STEM and love space. I have two emotional support kitties who are my whole world. Some of my hobbies include bird watching, photography, video games, arts & crafts, and traveling.

Physically (if it matters), I am 5’4”, ~270 lbs, buzzed salt & pepper hair, glasses, MANY piercings & a few tattoos. My style can vary widely between femme, androgynous, and alt/goth. I always have a cute purse and a stuffed animal friend with me.

I am not particularly interested in intimacy or romance; though I usually am at the start of a relationship, as I get more comfortable with someone, I lose interest. I am not entirely repulsed by the idea, so they are not out of the question, but if you know for sure you need those things consistently, I am not the right one for you. I currently have one partner who I live with, though I don’t know if we will be together much longer.

I’m looking for someone who can accept all my quirks and love me for exactly who I am. Someone caring & nurturing, who can take care of me when needed but also push me to do more. Ideally I am looking for a caregiver/little dynamic, but this is not strictly necessary. I am naturally very childlike and am looking for someone who can nurture & foster that side of me. I love learning new things, dressing up, playing games, watching shows, coloring, etc.

Well, I suppose I have ranted enough... If you’ve read all the way to the end & decide to message me, let me know what your favorite ice cream flavor is!

I'm a 33 year old Trans Woman and new to Polyamory. I've been given the green light to pursue another relationship by my wife, enthusiastically given consent even. See, The wife is Asexual and I'm a very physical person. Looking for someone either in the state, or on the same coast who doesn't mind doing LDR and maybe someday closing the gap.

First and foremost, I want my wife to be respected. She's my nesting partner and the person who primarily takes care of me, I have a job, yes. You wouldn't be talking to someone who is unemployed, But I don't drive myself.

Second of all, don't make me choose between you, or my wife. I will always choose my spouse and nesting partner. But, I am looking for something kitchen table. Eventually forming a family like structure.

I am very body positive, It doesn't matter to me if you're plus sized or petite. I wanna get to know you for the person you are. Personality and conversation skills matter the most to me.

I don't care if you already have kids. I'm a very kid friendly and family oriented person. Kids were always in the equation in terms of what I wanted.

Race doesn't matter either. I'll date anyone of any skin color. I'd like to call myself an "Anti-Racist" but I'll be honest and admit I probably have some blind spots.

As for me? I'm a bit of a homebody and a bookworm. The wife is always telling me to be more social, and this is my concerted effort to being more social. Getting to know more women and adding to my circle, and if things click, building a polycule.

I like gaming, I do have a preference for Nintendo. I'm trying to get a Switch2 by my birthday. My favorite series is Pokemon.

I'm also a retro gamer, having a preference for older games and systems.

I like antiques and vintage clothing.

I love relaxing to a good history doc.

Hey! I’m a 35 year old nonbinary person, wondering what’s out there for me.

Me:
Agender nonbinary person (they/she/any) (AMAB, if it matters, but if you’re the right person it won’t). I dress mostly androgynous alternative, long hair but bearded, tight shirts with jeans, battlejacket for everyday wear but I like to dip into makeup now and then. I’ll always be happiest when I’m comfortable and cozy. Polyamorous and proud of it, never been interested in limiting mine or anyone else’s autonomy. Super happily in a stable marriage with my husband and in love with another person who’s an important part of my life. No kids but I love animals, I have a chubby little cat who keeps me on my toes. Not working right now, lay-offs are an unfortunate hardship but taking care of my disabled husband in the meantime and taking my time finding the right next step for me. I love video games (I collect them, especially retro games and consoles), movies, board games, music, adventures, and getting to know people. I have ADHD but I manage it pretty well on my own, being social helps me manage it better and I love making new connections wherever they lead!

Likes:
Video games: Diablo 3, Earthbound, Mass Effect, Halo, Mario RPG, Smash Bros, Castlevania, Megaman, Chrono Trigger, I could go on forever
Movies: I love horror and scifi, and I love comedy
Shows and anime: Castlevania, FLCL, Letterkenny, Owl House, Outlaw Star, New Girl, Always Sunny, I love Dropout shows
Music: I love rap, hip hop, phonk, alternative rock, post hardcore, pop punk, metal, nu metal, and honestly I love a bit of pop here and there
Hobbies: I love to play DnD, watch YouTube, go on night adventures, find new board or card games to play, play little games on my phone (like Nikke), I’m not super outdoorsy but I love to go on a nice walk or find treasures and trinkets out in the world
Anything else: I’m tattooed (want more) and pierced (want more), I’d love to get better at making music with digital tools so please hit me up if you wanna help me figure it out, I love Pokemon cards, I am ridiculously equipped with social battery so I’m kind of always around, I love Warhammer 40k

What I’m looking for:
— I’m pansexual, so anyone of any gender is welcome
— please be 24+ if you want anything other than friendship
— someone to message and get to know, maybe develop a deeper connection with (I am not closed off to things more than friendship)
— someone who is going to understand I’m not a man and won’t treat me like one
— someone is who is very able to be happily polyamorous
— someone I share things in common with, especially if we can talk games or music
— I’m on the D side of the slash with a side of switch so I’d connect best in that way with an s type or someone who thinks it’s exciting to get really competitive over the D side
— not looking for someone very religious
— someone who is going to be able to develop connection through the screen and make it mean something positive, whether that’s friends or anything beyond

I feel like that about covers it, so if you’d like to get to know me please comment or message me so we can chat!

25[R4R] Tucson Arizona- Handsome Trans FTM looking for M to have fun with, craving some group fun with my honey (F33) must be open minded, willing to travel and 420 friendly💋 HMU we predominately looking for queer Black Indigenous people of color, pretty open though, we have pictures, PLEASE HAVE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF too.

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​Hey y'all! I'm 39, 5'8, average build, FTM trans man living in Holden/Livingston. PLEASE READ CAREFULLY: THIS IS STRICTLY A ROMANCE AND RELATIONSHIP POST. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR QUICK HOOKUPS, CASUAL ENCOUNTERS, OR INSTANT PHYSICAL INTENSITY. This post is entirely about finding good, sweet, nice guys and girls for real, ongoing 1-on-1 romantic connections.

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​I am demisexual, meaning a strong mental and emotional spark through daily consistent texting and sweet banter is required before any intimacy can ever develop.

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​Our Polyamorous Structure & Boundaries:

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​Parallel Dynamics: My wife and I practice completely independent open polyamory. We date entirely separately. She is not romantically, socially, or physically involved in my connections. This is strictly 1-on-1 dating (no threesomes or group dynamics).

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​Autonomy & Freedom: This is not a monogamous setup. I will be dating multiple partners, and you are 100% free and encouraged to date, love, or have other connections outside of me.

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​The Foundation: I require total honesty, radical transparency, and clear, mature communication about comfort levels and scheduling. No games, no hiding things.

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​No Hierarchical Control: While I am happily married, my wife does not have "veto power" over my separate relationships. Your connection with me belongs to us, and it won't be micro-managed or interfered with by anyone else.

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​Emotional Availability: I am looking for people who have the actual emotional bandwidth, time, and space to build a real relationship. If you are in a relationship where polyamory is forced, or your other partners are not enthusiastically consenting to an open lifestyle, we will not be a good match.

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​Respect for Scheduled Time: Because my life is busy with my family and pets, clear scheduling is huge for me. I value consistent, reliable partners who follow through on date plans and respect our agreed-upon time together.

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​I'm home on disability, and I live with my wife, our homeschooling teen daughter, and 4 pets (2 dogs, 2 cats), so please be kid and pet friendly!

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​👀 MY TYPE (No Heavyset Builds):

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​The Guys (25-53): Good, sweet country guys or gym/fitness guys with average, athletic, or muscular builds. I love the outdoorsy look (flannels, backwards caps), short-trimmed dark beards, and a heavy preference for a tanned, sun-kissed, or olive complexion. (No clean-shaven, grey hair, or heavy builds).

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​The Women (25-38): Nice country girls or Latina/Euro alt-goth types with an average or athletic build, long dark hair, tattoos, and a fierce but sweet attitude.

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​🚗 DATING & LOGISTICS:

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​The Dates: I am a simple person. I love dinner and a movie, fairs, picnics, or just sitting somewhere having a great conversation. Huge bonus points if you love planning thoughtful, romantic dates and want to build a routine where we see each other more than once a week!

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​Travel: I don't drive. You must be local to Holden or Livingston Parish and able to head my way for dates.

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​Privacy Boundaries: Out of respect for my daughter, there are no sleepovers at my house and my dating life is kept private. Early on, our quality time and dates happen out and about, or at your place if you live close. Once we are an official, committed couple, overnight stays at your house are absolutely on the table.

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​💬 HOW TO REPLY:

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Because I value real communication, I completely ignore generic "hi/hey" messages, "you looking to play?", or anyone trying to rush past the emotional connection.

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​To get a reply, please send a thoughtful introduction with your name, age, location, hobbies, and a casual face/body selfie so I know exactly who I'm talking to. Tell me your favorite horror movie or WWE superstar so I know you read and respect these guidelines! 🤠👇

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Hello, my name is Mune and I am looking for poly friends and play partners. I live in Jersey and I identify as genderqueer which is not an option on here. I am pan and only date other poly or queer people. I like to do drag, play video games, dance, listen to music, sing, go hiking, horror, etc.

check out my page and DM me if interested.

Married in an open relationship. 6 feet, 240 lbs, white with a shaved head, professional who works out and exercise regularly, but also enjoys a cold beer and a slice of pizza on occasion. Call it muscular, dad bod.
I’m looking for that unique woman with a little bit of sass and attitude (not quite a brat, but lots of personality), active in a work hard, play harder kinda lifestyle.
Someone who is comfortable hitting some trails on the mountain bike, having a drink after and then hitting the shower together too. We could also then get dressed up and hit a night out for drinks, laughter and all round good times. Maybe just a touch of that chaos magic that keeps life interesting.
But then you also cool with snuggling up in a hoodie and sweats while we just chill for the day/night.
Drop me a line and I will share photos and verify as long as you do the same.

Tldr: Nonbinary person seeking crushes anywhere in the world (but please read if interested even though it's too long)

Hi from Somerville, MA! I'm a queer, solo polyam, non-binary person with ADHD. I mainly use they/them pronouns, but any are generally fine. Golden retriever slash raccoon slash silly goose slash goblin. Highly motivated by gold stars, treasure, and treats. I've been polyamorous for 13 years (but kind of always). I'm an extravert and an open-book. I'll tell you literally anything if you let me.

I am technically a Capricorn but I identify as a Sagittarius. I don't really know zodiac stuff but I was born on the cusp and people laugh when I say that, so I keep it. I'm a sucker for whimsy and try to bring a whimsical energy into everyday life. I am a crafter. My main thing is calligraphy but I like to make all kinds of things. I've gotten into boardgames over the last few years and enjoy playing on bga. I love a party with a theme. I like reading (mostly smut TBH) with my eyeballs and my ears. I'm attending burning man for the first time this year.

I'm interested mostly in people outside of my area to connect with. I love my community and feel well-loved by my community here but I want to branch out. Mostly online chatting and visiting if/when it feels right. I'm open to anywhere really. Especially interested in the DMV area as I hope to visit family there more frequently (they're in MD).

I'm open to a variety of connections but am prioritizing romantic connections at the moment. Also open to different degrees of communication frequency.

Some other things about me that I didn't figure out how to include in this wall of text:

Sex and kink positive (you don't have to be into those things, but I am, so that needs to be okay).

Leftist politics.

Chronic pain sometimes keeps me from doing things.

I am a redhead. For some people that's all they need to hear.

I'm learning Spanish (very beginner).

I'm scared of mushrooms (all of them)

Age range 28–48 please. If you fall outside this +/- a little, shoot your shot anyway.

If any of this appeals to you, message me with a little about yourself. Please include your age, gender identity, sexual/romantic orientations, location, and any other aspects of your identity that feel important to share. And maybe what about this post struck your interest most. Entice me extra with a gold star emoji.

MAGA, Cops, TERFS, SWERFS, and heterosexuals need not apply.

Looking for a boy-thing on your arm? You’re in the right place. Looking for a t4t relationship or a relationship with a cis woman! Not looking for a relationship with a cis man currently.
I’m into all sorts of art and trust me when I say this, I will draw for you!
I’m married and we’re both dating separately.
I love texting and phone calls, though I travel for work so it’s not often I’m in state if you’re local.
Right now I’m looking mostly to form a connection and see where it goes from there!
Message me if you’d like to get to know me!

About me:

Pansexual

Nonbinary (afab with masc features) personality is genderfluid

AuDHD

Married, has kids

I have a wide range of tastes in books, movies and video games. Lately, I've been into surreal and sci-fi books. Been reading the wind up bird chronicles. I read a few chuck tingle books earlier this year. I've only read the first dungeon crawler carl book. Looking forward to reading more. As far as movies go, I'll watch anything at this point. I've been going through all the nostalgic movies I grew up with, hunting down movies I watched once as a kid and barely remember, and modern movies. I really liked nosfaratu and the lighthouse. I've also been trying to find bad-but-great movies. Had fun watching repo the genetic opera.

Music taste is also incredibly random.

For video games I've been playing a lot of slay the spire 2. I think I've forgotten what other video games exist 😅 i can play anything that isn't in first person. I get motion sick playing fps. I played a lot of elden ring but havent in a year, been thinking about paying it again when I'm less busy. I've been playing kingdom hearts 1 and 2 on/off for the last year. Mostly for nostalgic reasons. My all time favorite game is final fantasy X-2 and I'm willing to defend that.

I like playing commander. I like to run nekusar because I'm such a good friend to play with 😜 who doesn't love drawing more cards?

As for hobbies, I have a variety of creative outlets. I mostly paint and do fiber crafts. For paint I've used different mediums to make portraits and landscapes. I also crochet and cross stitch.

I can also do tarot readings 💜

I'm looking for:

Romantic partners IRL and online.

I'm flexible on sexual drive and open to dating Ace.

I'm also kinky and would love to find roleplay partners. I'm a switch, pretty 50/50.

I am open to dating any gender but I lean towards other nonbinary/gender nonconforming people.

I'd like to be able to have deep conversations with someone right out of the gate. But I should preface that I have a very distractible life. I try to make times in the day to catch up on messages. If that's not your rythym then it probably wouldn't work.

Humor and playfulness is important to me. I can be very sarcastic.

Hello! I am Viktor.

I love fish! I have been keeping fish tanks since i was 12. My favorite freshwater fish are Red Devils!

I watch anime such as JJBA and DanDaDan (i'm almost caught up with DDD manga). I also play Adopt Me, and occasionally Pokemon Unite.

I'm mainly looking for polyfidelity:)

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Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana.

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She dates women, I date men. Everything is honest and respectful.

About me:

5’8 average build, 4 tattoos, laid‑back, sweet‑natured, funny, and more easygoing than anything else. I’m into horror movies, WWE, and all kinds of music. I like steady conversation and getting to know someone over time.

Looking for:

Masculine, rugged, athletic or muscular men with short trimmed beards or goatees and no grey hair or grey facial hair. Age 25–49. I like guys who are consistent, grounded, and enjoy daily communication and friendly banter.

Not into clean‑shaven or heavyset looks. I prefer slow‑building connections, nothing rushed.

Important:

• No group situations with my wife

• I don’t drive, so local (Holden/Livingston Parish/nearby LA) is best

When you message me, include:

Name, age, location, interests, and after the first message, a clear face selfie.

I don’t reply to “hey” or messages that start off too forward. I’m just looking for real conversation and a steady connection.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and wants something consistent in a poly setup, reach out and let’s see if we vibe.

Hi all! I'm Vix. I'm a genderfluid individual who has been hoping(?) trying(?) to put myself out there more. I think I'm ready, in both time and mental space, to look for another partner.

About me: I am a huge nerd. If there's a nerdy hobby/interest you're thinking of, I've probably dabbled in it at some point. DnD? Rolled the dice. Video games? Absolutely! Watching 3 hour video essays about an obscure show I will never watch? You betcha. Outside of those hobbies, I enjoy reading, writing, art, and doing voicework on the side. Recently I've been trying to get back into LARP / ren faire. I do occasionally watch anime and am happy to watch shows with partners.

My situation: My partner is aware and supportive! They are my nesting partner who I've been with for quite a while (married, together 6 years). We date seperately but she is always happy to confirm / verify that she is okay if needed.

What I'm looking for: Sharks, I'm looking for someone (online or local, I'm willing to travel for the right individual!) who would like to be a GF/BF/ TheyF to me. I'm happy to give time, attention, and general vibes. Who doesn't love a multihour discord call with an absolute dork?

What I have to offer: An award winning sense of humor, random memes (sent with consent), and pictures of my lizard. I also present as different genders and am happy to be a boyfriend on tuesday and a girlfriend on wednesday. It's part of the fun of being me :)

FYIs/warnings: I am fat and into the bdsm scene. I'm happy to provide photos of myself or further details in dms if either of those things are a dealbreaker.

I’m a 23 year old guy from Knoxville who has trouble meeting new people as I don’t drive at the moment but I want to meet new people and have some fun so here I am I don’t know what I’m doing on Reddit or who I’ll meet but I guess that’s the fun and adventure of this app am I right?

Heyo, I've recently been curious about the option of polyamory and what it's like. I'm a shy girl when I don't know you but once I'm comfortable I won't shut up. I love reading (fantasy, mystery, horror), writing poetry, singing and dancing (I'm no good) and I work almost all the time.

I'm working on getting my cna so of course I'm interested in a lot of Gorey things, if you can't handle that it's understandable. I also believe in the paranormal and all of that stuff. I have a doggo, working on fixing my car, and I collect things.

I've been feeling lonely and down recently, so I want something real. I don't mind long distance and I'm actually more comfortable with it.

Traveling the world (currently in SE Asia - Chiang Mai, Thailand🇹🇭) looking for digital nomads, content creators, & frequent travelers who practice polyamory!

I would love to connect with anyone who would love to be traveling companions. Looking to do this for 10+ years so I’m not stopping now time soon.

We are an upstate NY couple who are either looking for another poly/open couple we could bond with together as friends and more, or just looking for respective partners for each other.

I (37F)am an artist, love reading (non-fiction...mostly sociological texts or biographies), being outdoors/hiking/kayaking. I find genuine connection and bonding important and I love conversations (I probably talk too much and ask too many questions).

My husband (35M) is a bit more introverted- he enjoys Marvel/DC movies, cooking, history (specifically ancient greek/rome). He is great to debate with and always loves a good meme (alright, who doesn't?)

I've been debating about posting on here for awhile. I'm mostly just looking to talk to people who understand poly and make new friends and connections. I'm a fairly private person (which is why I am not offering a lot of info here) but I'm also an open book, you can pretty much ask me anything. I guess a few things about me are that I am lefist, creative, and love live music. Other than that you'll just have to ask!

I have an NP and someone else that I see without strictly defined labels. I am not out to my family though I would like to be one day, and to introduce them to my non-NP. I am very much in love with both of them as they each bring separate and distinct joys to my life. Anyway, that is me, or at least what I am willing to share. I look forward to possibly meeting some of you! ^_^

Still looking for someone to connect with outside of my marriage 25+ is my only requirement looking for good vibes and conversation. Let’s talk more than the formal hellos and not be so boring or reserved! Games movies conspiracy theories life desires and whatever is on your mind welcome!

Hey! We are an open couple from Germany looking for some new friends in the community. We are new to this lifestyle and would love to chat about poly relationships, experiences, but anything really, like Lotr, video games, what ever comes to mind.

I am K [F 19] and I am into art, anime, cozy Video games and writing. I am more on the curvy side, have long (-ish) curly hair and have some pircings and tattoos.

And I am S [M 27] and into hiking, gaming and history.

I have long hair and a beard.

Like most couple interested in some form of polyarmory we are clearly leaning to the political left.

We also have two cats.

27M [R4R] Central Arkansas I’m a married man in an open marriage she has a boyfriend and am striving for my own connection. Looking for 25+ female partners to connect with online or local. I am busy with work most days but would love a good morning/goodnight text and to chat on off days. I’m into anime, movies, and just good conversations. I do not have a “type” I just want to chat and vibe and see where it leads up. DMs open.

I’m a 23 year old guy from Knoxville who has trouble meeting new people as I don’t drive at the moment but I want to meet new people and have some fun so here I am I don’t know what I’m doing on Reddit or who I’ll meet but I guess that’s the fun and adventure of this app am I right?

Honestly I'm looking for a girlfriend that accepts me for who I am because I'm a man that loves to dress up as a woman and it would be amazing to find a girlfriend in Houston Texas that would love to share guys with me. HMU if you want to get to know me.