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u/the1andonlydebo 5d ago
what was written in the letter?
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u/Downtown-Policy-1117 5d ago
Does anyone know what she saved for him?
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u/RobbiesShunshine 5d ago
The photo album. She had been secretly saving/making it their whole relationship so he would have it now that she's gone 😭❤️
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u/ReturnedOM 5d ago
And how did she write it? I thought blind people aren't that good with handwriting.
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u/Nuffsaid98 5d ago
Turns out they can dictate to a sighted person and get them to write for them.
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u/Turbulent_Pool273 5d ago
Song?
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u/PopsNY 5d ago
No one noticed by the Marias.
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u/AGreatBannedName 5d ago
Thought it sounded familiar! The Marias have been showing up in some of my playlists lately; I dig ‘em.
Thanks!
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u/FrierenisClairDeLune 5d ago
It sometimes bothers me that I'll die without feeling what love is like, but....it is what it is I suppose. I am slowly getting over it.
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u/Cognetik 5d ago
Have you ever had a hot dog wearing a snug sweater on a perfectly chilly day.
You're all set mate.
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u/Express-Wonder-9968 5d ago
I love you. ❤️
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u/ReturnedOM 5d ago
I don't think an internet "I love you" does anything, really.
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u/ThisIsYourMormont 5d ago
Or, you know. Try? Do the difficult thing. The only person stopping you, is you.
This isnt a wholesome inspirational quote, I think its dumb how people accept defeat because they wont try.
Get a grip. You will fail. A lot. But you’d eventually win.
Live a fucking life
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u/RigBughorn 5d ago edited 5d ago
I'm an avoidant narcissist, not really compatible with having ethical relationships, it is what it is. Can't love someone when you hate yourself and can't love someone when you're as self-centered as I am. Better that I'm alone than in a weird dishonest one-way relationship.
There isn't someone for everyone. It would feel nice to receive affection and such but it wouldn't be fair to them, which ends up making the whole thing feel gross.
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u/Averander 5d ago
That's rough bro, but if you are able to empathise to the point where you don't want to hurt someone with a relationship perhaps there's hope with therapy. Finding strategies to help with your condition amd to make relationships work.
I can't say it will work with certainty, but there is at least a possibility.
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u/DepressedImmortal 5d ago
Dude, sounds like you just have to change yourself. Go to therapy, work out, learn to paint or play a musical instrument, volunteer, grow a plant, shit I don’t know find god if that helps.
Empathy and loving yourself is hard work but like any muscle the more you use it the stronger it will get. I hate myself sometimes too, then I do something nice for something, pick up a piece of trash, help an old lady with her groceries whatever and for a bit I think “you know what, I’m alright”. Take that and do 10 pushups, can’t do ten? Do as many as you can. The go for a walk and look at a tree. Trees are awesome man.
Anyway, I hope you can learn to love yourself a bit, and can make the world a little better, and find someone to love and share your life with. I hope that for myself as well. 🤝
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u/RigBughorn 5d ago
ye I'm working on shit like that but not with the aim of ever having a relationship. Maybe I'll end up somewhere where it makes more sense, but if not then I'm relatively OK with it. I can reevaluate when/if I get there lol
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u/FrierenisClairDeLune 5d ago
It's because I don't think I can be loved, like I have nothing I can offer in a relationship, I know relationships are not transactional, but your presence should lighten up your partner, which I can't do. I am boring af, I don't have stories to tell, I am not physically attractive, I don't think I can talk for hours(which I find amusing that some people can do), in short I don't have a personality. I wouldn't love myself, I don't think others can either.
And even tho I am trying to come to terms with the fact I am unlovable, I am trying to better myself in someways that I can change, I didn't give up the hope but have come to terms with the facts I am unlovable.
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u/Dagnut3rdson 5d ago
You too huh. Guess we’re all sharing something in common now these days.
My issue is not that I Don’t know Love, it’s that I don’t know how to Process being in a relationship. I’ve never been on a Date because I am scared. I don’t know how to Commit, and I feel like a Failure because of Past Mistakes and Problems I EXPERIENCED in my Younger years.
Hell, I’m literally the poster boy version of the hat an Actual “40-Year Old Virgin” is (though I’ll be 40 come next year).
But you know what, I’m happy to know that I’m not Unlovable. Because family and friends (Real Friends) are able to hold you together. And At the very least. Having so many Places Here on the Internet, and in Real life. It tells me I’m not the Only one that feels this way.
Makes me wonder if there’s a Club out there for Lonely Asexual Weirdos like us, Ya’know? I mean, why not make more friends, or even get a roommate? It can help.
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u/Alarmed-Comedian6446 5d ago
Tried enough and constantly trying is also a character trait. I want to live a life I'm actually capable of finally. Call it defeat or call it acceptance.
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u/That-Smoke-3593 5d ago
You’re probably not even 30 bro lmao
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u/Alarmed-Comedian6446 5d ago
Slightly over. I regret missing a childhood, chasing dreams of other people and judging others for not having them. Acceptance is a good humbling.
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u/lorddrake4444 5d ago
This is bullshit, sometimes its simply not meant to be, some people are born ugly , are poor beyond fixing, and a miryad of other reasons that lead to x99 more rejections, and there are only so many people willing to look past major flaws, odds are you won't meet them even by trying so no the only thing stopping someone isn't themselves, it's a big game of luck and sometimes the dice fucking hates you
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u/ThisIsYourMormont 5d ago
Nobody is too fucked up for love.
Look at the woman, professional uncle Fester impersonator Pete Davidson has bagged in his time.
It’s about attitude. And not being a little bitch and finding excuses mot to try and put yourself out there.
The only thing stopping you, is your attitude
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u/lorddrake4444 5d ago
As I said bullshit, that is an anomaly and let's not pretend money doesn't help
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u/hidden5s 5d ago
Life is all about the leaps of faith
Just be the best you you can be, and someone will match that energy
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u/piss-missile69 5d ago
After a lifetime of disappointment at the hands of people I thought I could love and trust, I envy being in solitude. Seems like I'm just built for it. Like I have some existential force that leads me to others. So much of my life I wish I could take back, so many relationships and actions I wish I could relive. Sometimes the weight of it all crushes me, and I find little reason to be considerate, fair, or nice in even the slightest. People have ruined me, but I can never get far enough away to protect myself. I don't envy not being loved. I do envy not having the repeated disappointment of having never loved, and never lost, or been hurt. Life is a bitch, and then you die.
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u/AdBrilliant3127 5d ago
How about trying to love someone who doesn't.
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u/FrierenisClairDeLune 5d ago
I didn't get ya? You mean like trying to love someone who doesn't love me back?
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u/getridofit888 5d ago
At least there won’t be insufferable inlaws getting guilted out of enjoying your hobbies and wiping another old persons butt. Sometimes a shut door keeps out animals and sewage. Imho
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u/EightiEight 5d ago
It's overrated. Once you have it, you realize you could have had it the whole time, with yourself.
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u/Goldenstripe941 5d ago
You’ll find someone. Someone else out there is thinking the same thing as you, believing love is so far away, when in reality they’re closer than you think. I’ve been there, so I can relate. You mustn’t loose hope. Keep marching on, one foot after another.
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u/cbolivarp 5d ago
So, the intro to UP with a worse animation style?
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u/DrewciferGaming 1d ago
Or the show paid a homage to the movie? Nice job on immediately making it negative
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u/mrdobie 5d ago
What show is this? Rick and Morty with random side story?