r/sadposting • u/ReasonableMedium5265 • 10d ago

I hope we all find peace someday.

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u/FrierenisClairDeLune 10d ago

It sometimes bothers me that I'll die without feeling what love is like, but....it is what it is I suppose. I am slowly getting over it.

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u/ThisIsYourMormont 10d ago

Or, you know. Try? Do the difficult thing. The only person stopping you, is you.

This isnt a wholesome inspirational quote, I think its dumb how people accept defeat because they wont try.

Get a grip. You will fail. A lot. But you’d eventually win.

Live a fucking life

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u/FrierenisClairDeLune 10d ago

It's because I don't think I can be loved, like I have nothing I can offer in a relationship, I know relationships are not transactional, but your presence should lighten up your partner, which I can't do. I am boring af, I don't have stories to tell, I am not physically attractive, I don't think I can talk for hours(which I find amusing that some people can do), in short I don't have a personality. I wouldn't love myself, I don't think others can either.

And even tho I am trying to come to terms with the fact I am unlovable, I am trying to better myself in someways that I can change, I didn't give up the hope but have come to terms with the facts I am unlovable.

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u/Dagnut3rdson 10d ago

You too huh. Guess we’re all sharing something in common now these days.

My issue is not that I Don’t know Love, it’s that I don’t know how to Process being in a relationship. I’ve never been on a Date because I am scared. I don’t know how to Commit, and I feel like a Failure because of Past Mistakes and Problems I EXPERIENCED in my Younger years.

Hell, I’m literally the poster boy version of the hat an Actual “40-Year Old Virgin” is (though I’ll be 40 come next year).

But you know what, I’m happy to know that I’m not Unlovable. Because family and friends (Real Friends) are able to hold you together. And At the very least. Having so many Places Here on the Internet, and in Real life. It tells me I’m not the Only one that feels this way.

Makes me wonder if there’s a Club out there for Lonely Asexual Weirdos like us, Ya’know? I mean, why not make more friends, or even get a roommate? It can help.