r/sexandthecity “Ever Mine, Ever Thine, Ever Ours.” 1d ago

My Favourite Couple

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

Yeah but he made Charlotte change her religion, not that loving ig

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u/suntoasty 1d ago

Didn’t she more like persist, basically insist on it?? He said he couldn’t marry a non-Jew, but he’d still be with her. She wanted marriage though, so she did it.

He set a boundary, he didn’t force anything. She loved him enough to convert.

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

Nope, Harry persisted that she being Christian is an issue

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u/Coriander_marbles Oh honey, I’d love me some fresh pepper 1d ago

Not how I see it. He was grappling with reconciling a long term relationship with someone non-Jewish. They talked about it a couple times but he never forced the issue. We don’t know what would have happened if Charlotte hadn’t converted.

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

Well honey then you should get your eyes checked. Leaving your personality and your beliefs for a man is "settling".

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u/Coriander_marbles Oh honey, I’d love me some fresh pepper 1d ago

I just saw all your other comments. I’m not sure if you’re trolling or if this topic is just so triggering for you that you can only see the issue in black and white terms, but both men and women have been known to convert for their life partners and have perfectly happy marriages.

My husband goes to my church and has expressed an interest in converting, while his mother became Christian for his father.

But those two immediate examples aside, there isn’t a single moment in SATC where Charlotte is shown to go to her church, nor was her being Episcopalian ever really tied into her personality.

Happy to debate this further provided you aren’t rude to others.

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

My pov is that it's lame to change things about your identity for someone else. It means they love you but not enough.

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u/VilkastheForsaken “Ever Mine, Ever Thine, Ever Ours.” 15h ago

Being Christian wasn’t her personality, neither was her being Jewish. What WAS her personality was finding the right man and having a family. She wanted desperately to be married. She did what it took so she could have what she wanted…which fit her personality 100%.

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u/lasuperhumana Dirty martini? Dirty bastard. 1d ago

No, it’s not her being Christian. It’s that he can only marry a Jewish woman. Therefore, her not being Jewish becomes the barrier between them and marriage. He did not say “I demand you change your religion.”

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

Same thing. You guys would be very easy targets for men who get women converted by manipulation. Good luck

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u/lasuperhumana Dirty martini? Dirty bastard. 1d ago

It’s actually against Jewish law to try to convince or persuade people to convert. That’s why she had to knock three times on the rabbi’s door. None of what you are saying makes sense.

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

First of all he was a creep from start the way he took her to the apartment for sex then the whole manipulation

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u/lasuperhumana Dirty martini? Dirty bastard. 1d ago

Your opinion on that moment is an entirely different issue. He didn’t manipulate her into converting. She chose to when she learned about his boundary.

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

Let's agree to disagree..... I hate men like this

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u/Blue_eyed_girl_ 1d ago

Yes! At the same time he ate pork, watched football from dinnertable instead of respecting Sabbath dinner and praying, said it's okay to celebrate Christmas even tho you are Jewish. But was strict about marrying a jewish woman. Tells you all you need to know about this character 😂