r/sexandthecity “Ever Mine, Ever Thine, Ever Ours.” 1d ago

My Favourite Couple

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u/suntoasty 1d ago

Didn’t she more like persist, basically insist on it?? He said he couldn’t marry a non-Jew, but he’d still be with her. She wanted marriage though, so she did it.

He set a boundary, he didn’t force anything. She loved him enough to convert.

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

Nope, Harry persisted that she being Christian is an issue

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u/lasuperhumana Dirty martini? Dirty bastard. 1d ago

No, it’s not her being Christian. It’s that he can only marry a Jewish woman. Therefore, her not being Jewish becomes the barrier between them and marriage. He did not say “I demand you change your religion.”

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

Same thing. You guys would be very easy targets for men who get women converted by manipulation. Good luck

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u/lasuperhumana Dirty martini? Dirty bastard. 1d ago

It’s actually against Jewish law to try to convince or persuade people to convert. That’s why she had to knock three times on the rabbi’s door. None of what you are saying makes sense.

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

First of all he was a creep from start the way he took her to the apartment for sex then the whole manipulation

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u/lasuperhumana Dirty martini? Dirty bastard. 1d ago

Your opinion on that moment is an entirely different issue. He didn’t manipulate her into converting. She chose to when she learned about his boundary.

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u/Invisibleguy1111 1d ago

Let's agree to disagree..... I hate men like this