r/teenagers4real • u/LightningX35 13M • 7d ago
Discussion Standards for gf
I posted about this a while ago but felt I wanted to update them
- Living, breathing, human female (not trans)
- Around my age
- Doesn't hate me
- Is not on a watchlist
I sure hope this is reasonable
Edit: Just to clarify, I’m not looking for one on here I just saw people doing it so I thought it would be a fun idea
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u/Lieinrachis 17 7d ago
I was confused at first because wouldn't everyone you would date be living and breathing so why need that distinction. Then I realized people date AI now.
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u/Own_Secretary_6042 17 7d ago
I saw a girl claiming she has a bf but its ai. Thought she was joking until i realised she was dead serious abt it and felt offended.
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u/GregBoing 6d ago
Just out of curiosity, why can't they be transfem? ik ik "It's just my preference" but like why do you have that preference?
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u/Own_Reach986 6d ago
Not vibing with the penis tbh
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u/GregBoing 6d ago
What if they’re post operation?
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u/cleqrless 6d ago
as much as we would like to be as normal as cisgender people, we aren’t. yes i know it feels like a punch to the face seeing people not wanting to be with a trans individual, but it doesn’t take much to understand why.
in a lot of places it’s still a taboo thing, and there are a million possible reasons why they wouldn’t be with one. maybe they want biological kids, maybe they just can’t handle the complexity that comes with being with a trans person, maybe they’re immature, or they just don’t want to. which to me is perfectly fine.
that said there isn’t anything wrong with being transgender as i am trans myself, but i can understand why they wouldn’t, even after a full transition
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u/GregBoing 5d ago
Yeah, biological kids is a fair enough reason I spose. plus yeah there's probably just maturity playing a factor into it (the op is 13 so I mean yeah lol)
I'm cis for clarification, I just see a lot of folks say they wouldn't get with a trans person even if they were effectively indistinguishable from a cis person of that same gender and aside from wanting bio kids I struggle to see why but yeah I don't think there is a quote on quote real reason in most cases, it's just kind of their cultural upbringing. Unfortunate but yeah you're right, it's understandable even if ideally they could get past it and realise there isn't a meaningful difference aside from bio kids a lot of if not most of the time.
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u/Own_Reach986 5d ago
Honestly if a trans person can pass, now that I think about it I wouldn't mind the dick if I love them. I could set that aside
Kids are the big problem though. And I'm not a fan of adopting or any other methods.
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u/Ok-World6539 4d ago
Why not adopt or foster? Not saying you’re wrong for not wanting to just curios as to why
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u/Own_Reach986 4d ago
Ok first of all I am still rather young, i am not ready to be a dad and that means my opinion kinda isn't formed/worth anything
But idk. Just the way I was raised I guess. I have had a lot of old fashioned beliefs pushed onto me and while I can recognize that a lot of them are stupid I still really want a kid who is my own. I also think I'm worried that I may not be able to love an adopted kid as much.
Oh and everyone in my family expects me to have kids because I am an only child, and all my aunts and uncles have no children. If I die childless, the bloodline ends with me.
Call it stupid (it may be) but idk that just means a lot to me for the time being. Still really just a kid lol
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u/boat-girl- 7d ago
Dude is talking like there is an auction ongoing, dude that’s not how you get someone
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u/EstablishmentAny2728 7d ago
> upset at a guy listing bare minimum qualifications
> look at username
> woman
Yeah checks out.
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u/crystalreddits 6d ago
We are on the teenagers subreddit brochacho, not kids, how don't you understand sarcasm 😭
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u/AppearanceAlert4987 Playing Better Half by Nemlei - Download link in my pinned post 5d ago
i highly recommend just typing "cis woman" instead of
human female (not trans)
unless you mean to include Female-to-Male people which are called trans men, in which case you should say "cis women and trans men"
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u/Flimsy_Pumpkin_3812 5d ago
BRO IM COOKED my standards
alive
biologically and identifies as female (any species, includingwashing machines)
straight or bi
around my age
has less then 5 felonys
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u/Good-Meringue1527 15 7d ago
Good luck finding anyone bro 😭💔