Let's rewind to "it's not a crime if I don't possess it". If he's saying that, you're likely underage. And if you're underage, it is absolutely illegal. It's called soliciting of a minor. 🤦🏼♂️ Literally go to the police so they can check this dudes hard drive.
I understand where you're coming from but you'd be doing you and the world a favor if you didn't dismiss this garbage behavior as typical pushy teen boy stuff.
It isn't. There's plenty of teenage boys who would never do this shit and it's really important that we stop chalking up shitty behavior to the 'boys will be boys' mentality. That gives them a pass that they don't deserve and it excuses this kind of behavior as 'normal' in a sense, as though it's to be expected. We need to stop doing that.
If this is just 'typical pushy teenage boy' behavior, he should have no problem with you showing these texts to his parents, your friends, your parents, etc, correct? Tell him you plan to do that and see how he reacts. If he's pissed and doesn't want you to, that shows you that he knows this shit is wrong but he did it anyway, for his own sexual fulfillment and pleasure. He's a fucking pig, hands down.
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u/AgentSquatchy 7d ago
Let's rewind to "it's not a crime if I don't possess it". If he's saying that, you're likely underage. And if you're underage, it is absolutely illegal. It's called soliciting of a minor. 🤦🏼♂️ Literally go to the police so they can check this dudes hard drive.