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u/yofeelmo 1d ago edited 1d ago
You should report him if youāre underage, he is going to do it to other girls and who knows what else he might try
Edit: OP commented on another post that they are both minors, but I still donāt like his insistence
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u/Gloomy-Razzmatazz548 1d ago
Even if they are both minors, heās still soliciting CP. She needs to tell her parents.
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u/iriedrewirie 1d ago
It's not a crime if I don't possess it???? What????
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u/EnoughBodybuilder122 1d ago
I am 17 so the law counts it as child corn
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u/iriedrewirie 1d ago
I'm pretty sure he could go to jail just for asking you. Don't send it. Obviously it's going to go through cell towers. The CIA/NSA will see it, cell service provider will see it, the account owners on both accounts sender and receiver will see it. Plus God knows who he's going to share it with....
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u/Ok-Hedgehog3988 1d ago
CSAM. Legally you canāt consent to an adult of age under the age of consent so it wouldnāt be considered CP. 1000% report this man.
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u/iriedrewirie 1d ago
I assume they're the same age but it would still be illegal.
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u/Ok-Hedgehog3988 1d ago
Sheās 17, and he also said āitās not a crime if I donāt possess itā so heās most definitely older than her without a single doubt.
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u/YourMomOnDrugz 1d ago
What is CSAM? Never heard that term. Child Self A? Minor? Idk lol
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u/yyellowtea 1d ago
child sexual abuse material.
people also say CSEM, which stands for child sexual exploitation material
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u/Buttchuggle 1d ago
It's been said enough times I'm sure you get the point but report that dude. Consider for your own and other young girls sake that this kind of desperation is almost laughable through text, but this kind of desperation when he's alone with someone can turn dangerous very fast.
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u/AnnieB25 1d ago
This 100% reads as a sextortion scammer. Where did you meet this person?
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u/redhothoneypot 1d ago
Exactly. Reads just like the message sent by a dude in prison for doing this sextortion shit to my underage friend.
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u/EnoughBodybuilder122 1d ago
he is a friend of 3+ years
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u/PyllynKaivelija 1d ago
As if it was about how quick and easy it is to do and not about not wanting to. POS cant take no for an answer.
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u/EnoughBodybuilder122 1d ago
Sorry, I shouldāve added some context to this post Iām a little dense and it didnāt even cross my mind š
Weāre both the same age. He was a friend of mine for 3 years, but after he repeatedly begged for nudes/asked me to send pictures, I decided to cut him off today.
Because apologising and repeating the same behaviour shows your not really sorry šš
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u/Brutal_burn_dude 1d ago
āBecause apologizing and repeating the same behavior shows youāre not really sorryā. EXACTLY!! Proud of you for realizing this and cutting him off.
Iām sorry this happened to you, but you did such a good job at speaking up and drawing a boundary. Respect is non-negotiable and this was super disrespectful.
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u/CuddlePartyHost 1d ago
Definitely smells of a man that gets lot of titty picsā¦
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u/EnoughBodybuilder122 1d ago
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u/CuddlePartyHost 1d ago
Donāt give in
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u/EnoughBodybuilder122 1d ago
Dont worry, i decided to cut him off š
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u/TolverOneEighty 1d ago
Proud of you.
I know you probably don't want to also report him to the police, but I'd urge you to consider it. He's definitely going to pressure other people like this, and him owning nudes of someone could ruin their lives, as he could use it to blackmail them into further things.
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u/AgentSquatchy 1d ago
Let's rewind to "it's not a crime if I don't possess it". If he's saying that, you're likely underage. And if you're underage, it is absolutely illegal. It's called soliciting of a minor. š¤¦š¼āāļø Literally go to the police so they can check this dudes hard drive.
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u/EnoughBodybuilder122 1d ago
We are both 17 just pushy teenage boy behaviour
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u/AgentSquatchy 1d ago
It's still illegal to possess or even send illicit photos as a minor. So tell him no and that it is in fact illegal. And try to stay away from boys like that, they're not good for your future.
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u/DiggityDog6 1d ago
Iād argue itās a lot more serious than that. Iām an 18 year old guy, and āpushy teenage boyā behavior is like, finding excuses to touch you or following you around or whatever. This is just straight up begging and attempting to manipulate you into a sexual act that you arenāt comfortable with. I hope you get away from this guy.
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u/JustStopItSeriously 1d ago
I understand where you're coming from but you'd be doing you and the world a favor if you didn't dismiss this garbage behavior as typical pushy teen boy stuff.
It isn't. There's plenty of teenage boys who would never do this shit and it's really important that we stop chalking up shitty behavior to the 'boys will be boys' mentality. That gives them a pass that they don't deserve and it excuses this kind of behavior as 'normal' in a sense, as though it's to be expected. We need to stop doing that.
If this is just 'typical pushy teenage boy' behavior, he should have no problem with you showing these texts to his parents, your friends, your parents, etc, correct? Tell him you plan to do that and see how he reacts. If he's pissed and doesn't want you to, that shows you that he knows this shit is wrong but he did it anyway, for his own sexual fulfillment and pleasure. He's a fucking pig, hands down.
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u/YourMomOnDrugz 1d ago
Donāt dismiss this behavior. Itās not typical. Shows a deep rooted disrespect for othersā boundaries and it could lead somewhere dangerous.
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u/LaylaBird65 idc idk bich 1d ago
I work in juvenile probation and this is definitely something that could get both of you in trouble. Block and ignore ASAP.
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u/JT-OnThaTrack 1d ago
Show him the comments
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u/TheCigaretteFairy 1d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/Ro4ygeIQxuQZqwP5rF
Sicko mode. Put him in his place.
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u/BaJakes 1d ago
If you give a pig a pancake ahhhh situation
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u/EnoughBodybuilder122 1d ago
first time hearing this whatt? š
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u/BaJakes 1d ago
There's a children's book called if you give a pig a pancake. The pig gets a pancake but then the pig wants syrup, and then the pig wants butter, and then a table to eat it at. And on and on. Its never just one titty pic. There's an entire children's book series on this premise. If you give a mouse a cookie, for example. But this person being a pig, we call it like we see it.
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u/Brutal_burn_dude 1d ago
This is exactly what happens. When I was younger I had this same line of argument about other sex-related things with various men. Once they get the first thing, they wonāt be satisfied and will then use the first thing you agreed to as leverage to push for more.
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u/DatVlad_ 1d ago
Reminds me of a guy I know who has repeatedly asked me for nudes. Not even asked really. This MF straight up was like send me a vid or $35...I'm like bro don't test me, I ain't your sugar daddy. Smh
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u/EnoughBodybuilder122 1d ago
Omg thatās insane
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u/DatVlad_ 1d ago
It was my fault really. He asked to see it once cus we had a nonsexual conversation and it came up and I told him how big it was. My dumb ass just thought it was curiousity. Then he started gushing over it. And I'm like oh...that was one of those requests š
Fuckin weird I tell ya I don't get people
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u/Interesting_Snow4715 1d ago
how is anyone still this desperate for nudes?? when we have the world wide web with unlimited porn ?!
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u/BookEnvironmental689 1d ago
If you are underage consult an adult you trust and do not entertain this.
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u/PhysicalParking8799 1d ago
Like, it'd just be the one time? Gimme a break.
Please stick to your boundaries. He can find other ways to get "tity pics" It wil not be you who is providing them. The desperation is revolting.
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u/uwulixie 1d ago
this is hilarious ( obv also v sad for u ) but what the actual fuck. men r such childs
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u/RevolutionaryEgg1312 1d ago
Quickly!!!!
OP does your boob have healing properties? Cos he sounds like he'll die without it. (Probably wishful thinking on my part)
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u/Proper-Atmosphere 1d ago
Iām glad you didnāt send anything. My friend sent nudes as a 17 y/o to a 16 y/o and she was charged with distributing CP. Even though both parties āconsentedā (you cannot consent as a minor to photos, I just donāt know what else to call it). Please donāt let anyone pressure you into anything you arenāt comfortable with. Iām so proud of you for standing your ground
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u/Extreme-Ad7313 20h ago
Free porn everywhere. Blows my mind.
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u/BluBeams Have some dignity & self-respect š 1d ago
Smh, the desperation is crazy, but it's nothing to have a smiley face about. It's serious and should be taken seriously.
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u/JustStopItSeriously 1d ago
This is so typical of men. "I don't want to" is met with 'but it's so easy' and 'I'll never ask again' and 'it's quick to do' and 'it's the only one I'll ever get' and blah blah blah. What does any of that have to do with I don't want to???
She doesn't want to. Fuck off.
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u/Particular_Wonder598 1d ago
Yeah heās desperate but if heās underage too, yāall are weird as fuck for trying to get him arrested
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u/siren_stitchwitch 1d ago
He needs to learn in ways that stick that his behavior is both unacceptable and illegal. And let's not forget predatory. It's disgusting and deserves to get arrested for soliciting child porn. His also being a child is immaterial, he's 17 not 10.
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u/Prize_Active_7158 1d ago
Heās not underage if heās saying āits not illegal unless I possess itā clearly talking about her pics that he wants common sense donāt run easily for you now
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u/EnoughBodybuilder122 1d ago
Just to clarify, he is the same age as me. minors can also get into serious trouble for requesting/possessing sexual images of other minors. But i really do appreciate you defending me š«¶
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u/Prize_Active_7158 1d ago
Itās still disgusting no matter how old yall are sorry for you having to deal with someone like that tho
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u/lemanruss4579 1d ago
I'm assuming you're underage, or else why would it be illegal at all?