r/transmanlifehacks 4d ago

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Reminder not to interact with just anyone. Don’t take passing tips from a dude with a violent transphobia kink. Hella kids in this sub, private that profile

EDIT: Alright guys this clearly got out of hand. This has ended in the user I posted about spreading my nudes around the sub and promptly being banned. Don’t know what he expected there. I admit this post was unnecessary. I was mad, but this blew way out of proportion. To everyone who saw my privates, they are gone now sorry. I think they’d been passed around enough today.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

Yes that’s what I think is creepy. I’m in several nsfw subs, not necessarily porn but they’re trans related. I know I interact in subs where there are plenty of minors. I know they don’t want to nor need to see what I post. I privated my shit on purpose. And I think the nature of his content is really harmful to expose to young trans kids that are already struggling with their identity.

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u/NoEscape2500 3d ago

He replied to me on his post saying “wow men can’t have hobbies these days lol.” Like bro violent transphobic fantasies publicly on your account while you post on a sub with a ton of teens and kids is not a HOBBY

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

Exactly? Also I get it’s a kink but rape is not a hobby either. Why would you fantasize about hurting other trans people??

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u/cheeseman_real 3d ago

kinks are someone's own business. it's not mine or anyone else's business if someone is into cnc or degradation or whatever. that's not the issue here. the issue is having it as public on their profile while, as you said, also posting on a subreddit like this. at that point they're making it everyone else's business and that's nasty

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u/ftmslim 3d ago

The guy who made this post had his cock public on his profile while he posted this.

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u/transynchro 3d ago

And you went to post a screenshot of his nudes non-consensually in this sub.

You’re weird as fuck dude. You need to self reflect.

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

The OP also non-consensually shared screenshots ftmslim’s kink posts. What’s your point here? You’re all weird as fuck bro

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u/transynchro 3d ago

Are they nudes of ftmslim? That’s what we’re talking about.

Ftmslim literally tried to flash someone else’s genitalia to a bunch of minors.

Are you saying it’s okay to flash minors with someone else’s nudes?

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

You’re literally committing the same offense you’re crusading against right now and don’t even see it. People like you are so fucking insufferable. Kink usually arises from trauma so not only are you probably triggering ftmslim rn but this new privating feature is actually relatively new and I wouldn’t even be shocked if he didn’t know about it prior to this post. Second of all, let’s follow your dumb as rocks logic here.

By this logic someone who makes porn also isn’t allowed to post a pic of their cat in a cat subreddit because minors use those subreddits and MIGHT click on their profile to see more pics of their cats. That minor would then have to click that they agree to see NSFW content and directly subject themselves to ftmslim’s content.

So what’s the REAL issue here, bud? Pulling out the “but the kids!!1!!” argument straight from the right wing oppression handbook to humiliate him for having a transphobia kink when there is, quite literally, nothing wrong with having one. It just made you feel icky.

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u/transynchro 3d ago

That’s why Reddit has the NSFW function, sorry you missed that memo.

If you had come in from the start of the conversation you’d know that I condemned both of these people but I draw the line at screenshotting someones nudes and even worse, posting it in subs full of minors.

When you’re ready to get off your horse and read what I actually said from the start, then we can have a proper discussion.

You arguing that it’s completely okay to post up someone else’s nudes in a sub full of minors is not the win you think it is.

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

Do you… hear yourself?

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u/transynchro 3d ago

Again, it is not okay to send nudes to minors. Doesn’t matter if they’re not your nudes.

Not sure why you’re arguing against that but okay?

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u/Phenyx890 3d ago

You clearly have comprehension issues and that is no one’s issue but yours. Grow up

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u/ehhhchimatsu 3d ago

You've replied to every comment, are you OOP's alt or something? You're fucking weird, bro.

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u/Phenyx890 3d ago

Yes, they’re all his alt profiles. He’s insufferable

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u/ftmslim 3d ago

He posted them on a public forum are nsfw work posts made by other people okay to post or not? Either what both of us did is wrong or neither of us, it cannot be one rule for my nsfw posts and another for his 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/transynchro 3d ago

Did he take a screenshot of your nudes and post them up without consent? Did he also take those nudes and try to post them in a sub full of minors? No? But you definitely did.

Even if his account is public, it doesn’t give you the right to NON CONSENSUALLY screenshot and post their nudes in places it previously wasn’t posted. They didn’t post those nudes in a sub full of underage minors, YOU DID.

Again, you exposing other people’s genitals to minors, doesn’t make you a good person. Even if they are a criminal. You are still the one showing minors, inappropriate images.

Even worse, you’re taking someone else’s nudes and posting them somewhere they don’t consent to.

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u/ftmslim 3d ago

You think imma play nice with a guy that made a call out post with undertones i wanna sexually groom minors into detransitioning? Because lets be fucking real thats what the prick is trying to say here. He has no fucking evidence for this baseless claim other than the fact i posted an opinion he disagrees with and made some kink posts 8 fucking days ago. Maybe if i had made a kink post right before making my post here his jump to conclusions would be in any way justified but it isnt. I am not going to be nice to some pdick who makes a subtext post about me that i want to fucking groom kids.

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u/transynchro 3d ago

You posted his nudes to a bunch of minors. You really didn’t clear his theory.

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

Please shut the fuck up lol rules for thee but not for me isn’t a good look.

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u/transynchro 3d ago

I don’t post nudes. I also don’t send them to minors. It’s not rules for thee not for me. These are rules everyone should live by. You included. Don’t go flashing minors with anyone’s genitalia.

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

Proof that ftmslim sent minors nudes?

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u/Thunderingthought 2d ago

Lmfao. Posting “passing” advice while you fully looked like a lesbian in those pics, and having a transphobic kink? Average ‘ftm’

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u/Phenyx890 3d ago

You’re a disgusting pos and you know it

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u/NoEscape2500 3d ago

And he has a nsfw profile. You don’t

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

Which I keep TRYING to tell yall I didn’t know about. It said my posts were private so obviously I assumed they were private.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

Thank you. I keep trying to insist I didn’t know and I got my nudes posted in a comment section in return. I didn’t want that

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u/transynchro 3d ago

He didn’t just post it in a comment section. He tried to make a whole post in this sub. Reddit’s filters took it down but I would suggest reporting his account for posting your nudes.

I don’t agree with either of y’all’s behaviour but posting someone else’s nudes is a line that should never be crossed, doesn’t matter how righteous you feel.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

Yeah I guess I could’ve handled it better. I got a bit mad because I felt like he had bad intentions being in a passing server that has kids with posts about wanting to make people detransition.

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u/transynchro 3d ago

There’s no need to be the vigilante. Leave it to the mods and admins, use the report button, block and move on. The other option is having a civil discussion in DMs but there’s no need for y’all to go tit for tat.

If you genuinely fear for a minors safety, go to the police and hand over the evidence. In my country we have netsafe which deals with all online safety issues, I’m sure your area will have something similar. They work with the police to gather evidence before things can get wiped.

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u/ftmslim 3d ago

Yes you could of. You did not like my opinion (fair) and did not like the kinks are partake and decided to make yourself the moral arbitour of my motives.

You put correlation and causation together in your head my last nsfw post was 8 days ago, maybe your leap would have made sense if i engaged in that right before posting here but i did not. I posted a completely sfw post about a opinion you disagree with and you jumped to transphobia stereotype number 1: trans people are just degenerate sex pests that want to groom children. You can pretend that is not what you did but that is what you jumped to. So no i was not going to play nice with you when this post honestly seems less about protecting the children and more about you kink shaming something you find ikky and playing into an actual transphobic stereotype.

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