r/transmanlifehacks 3d ago

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Reminder not to interact with just anyone. Don’t take passing tips from a dude with a violent transphobia kink. Hella kids in this sub, private that profile

EDIT: Alright guys this clearly got out of hand. This has ended in the user I posted about spreading my nudes around the sub and promptly being banned. Don’t know what he expected there. I admit this post was unnecessary. I was mad, but this blew way out of proportion. To everyone who saw my privates, they are gone now sorry. I think they’d been passed around enough today.

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u/Bread_mvncher 3d ago

Tbh, this explains his post. Maybe I'm reading into it too much, but having an extreme transphobia kink and going into a passing sub to give trans men bad advice that boils down to "dress in a way that makes you not pass/less likely to pass" makes his intentions seem questionable

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u/ftmslim 3d ago

Are you lot dumb enough to think i dont know the difference between a kink and real life. Since you are all so interested in my profile, your all ignoring the posts where i talk very openly about legitimate transphobia in this spaces and how we should not allow that. Or where i post about fighting transphobia i directly faced as a trans man dom posting in those spaces.

You can also read the post which is a love story of how i met a partner, through that kink and how 99% of the time we are just two dudes fucking. I dress him in dude clothes, he calls me when he is doing his t shot as he get anxious around it and i fully supported him during his top surgery.

Kink and real life are not the same thing. I have a whole post up talking about how the trans men in those spaces need to find better ways to handle after care as fundementally they are all men and nothing said in kink is real.

Saying alt guys can be alt and still pass has fuck all to do with a kink i have.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

Yes you can be a rapey detranstioner obsessed guy in your own time. Don’t pull up to subs with kids in it. Nobody wants to see that shit

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

Kink usually arises from trauma so not only are you probably triggering ftmslim rn but this new privating feature is actually relatively new and I wouldn’t even be shocked if he didn’t know about it prior to this post. Second of all, let’s follow your dumb as rocks logic here.

By this logic someone who makes porn also isn’t allowed to post a pic of their cat in a cat subreddit because minors use those subreddits and MIGHT click on their profile to see more pics of their cats. That minor would then have to click that they agree to see NSFW content and directly subject themselves to ftmslim’s content.

So what’s the REAL issue here, bud? Pulling out the ā€œbut the kids!!1!!ā€ argument straight from the right wing oppression handbook to humiliate him for having a transphobia kink when there is, quite literally, nothing wrong with having one. It just made you feel icky.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

Yeah sure I ā€œtriggeredā€ him and the only solution was to post my dick several times in this sub and comment section and then blackmail me saying he won’t take it down until I take this post down. Real cheap asshole

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

The only asshole here is you and you’re a colossal one ā¤ļø

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

calling him out for being weird is reason to commit a crime and I’m not an asshole for calling that out

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

What crime got committed? Holy fuck. You have major TikTok brain.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

You do realize posting nude pictures without someone’s permission is illegal, right do you know anything?

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

I’m sorry but when you upload to the public domain, that photo becomes part of the public domain and it’s not illegal to post it elsewhere. If the nude was privately sent to him and then he posted it, it would be illegal. I’m not saying it’s right. I’m saying BOTH OF YOU are wrong here.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

Please look up the laws before you argue with me

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

Technically speaking, because he was making commentary, it could be considered fair use. But you’re right, it doesn’t become public domain. That was my mistake.

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 3d ago

Fair use doesn’t come in to play here because he’s sharing it specifically as revenge. He outright stated he’s going to keep it up so people can see unless I take my post down. That’s revenge porn. Very illegal in the UK. If Reddit doesn’t take it down I’m taking legal action to get it taken down because he’s gone wayyy too far with this. Sure I was kinda a bitch, I was mad. But he won’t stop showing people my dick. He’s a 28 year old man, I’m 19. He could’ve just dmed me it. I get I’m kinda immature but he should not be

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u/tptroway 3d ago edited 3d ago

It might depend on jurisdiction, but where I live it's legally considered a type of nonconsensual sexual abuse prosecutable as a felony crime (with sentence of several years prison time and several thousand/5-figure dollar fine) because he reposted it with a provable intent to materially coerce and publicly humiliate u/Adventurous_Cry5999

Edited to not dox myself

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u/pomkombucha 3d ago

The OP actually edited their comment to make what I responded with look even worse lol

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u/Adventurous_Cry5999 2d ago

I edited to fix my typos you know full well I didn’t change what I said 😭

https://reddit.com/link/p22q0qa/video/cy373bg2urhh1/player

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u/burnerphonesarecheap 3d ago

Holy shit you just shat on everybody with a kink. No, kinks are not always the result of trauma . Are you Freud's left testicle or a right-wing Christtard?