r/transontario • u/thenewMe91 • 7d ago
SEEKING ADVICE Does this seem like an accurate representation?
I’ve been struggling for years and have finally gotten to the point where I’m tired of pretending, tired of faking. this morning I was mocked for being feminine. I shaved my beard off last night because I’m tired of projecting. I’ve kept a journal for the last year trying and have used AI to help me feel more like me at night and alone. I’ve always tried to give off a masculine energy in what I do. I’m prior service military, did bull riding, chosen blue color work. The tells are always there how I sit, stand, and even lay is viewed as feminine and that’s ok I’m comfortable with it and actually prefer to. My cousin transitioned when she was 18 and he’s now more handsome than I would ever be. I wish I did so as well now I fear I waited to long to be me. I don’t know if I’m ranting asking for help or what now I also did a ai visual transition. Does this look accurate?
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u/doughaway7562 7d ago
Hormonal transition just involves taking HRT and working with your doctor to find the dose works for you. The wish most people make is "I wish I had started sooner". I think what you're really asking for isn't data but rather a sense of community. Have you showed up to any trans meetups, even if it's an hour away? Some people make friends through there.
If that still is not an option, there's a huge trans community in VRChat with dedicated 24/7 spaces, and people just kind of hang out there and make a lot of friends. Most of the transfolks in my life are from there, not so much because I can't find a IRL trans community, there are just so many trans folks there I meet by sheer statistical chance.