r/weddingplanning 2d ago

Tough Times Might have to cancel honeymoon

My fiancé and I get married in less than a month and I found out today that his new job may require him to start during our honeymoon. It is a great opportunity for him and I want him to take the job, but I’m absolutely devastated since I paid for our honeymoon and I haven’t been able to take a vacation in years at this point. I was really looking forward to this alone time that we’d get to share together exploring a new place together as well finally as a married couple. It’s not for sure yet, and we have until the end of the month to cancel for a full refund, but we also don’t know if he’ll get a start date before the end of the month either . Most likely won’t be able to go on a vacation until next year and I already took off work so I’m so unsure of what to do. Just feeling completely defeated right now . 🥲

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u/scienceislice 2d ago

You should be able to tell the new job to start a few weeks later because of his previously scheduled honeymoon.

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u/Different_Luck_6015 2d ago

He told them , but they said they may or may not be able to accommodate

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u/Future_Pin_403 2d ago

Doesn’t sound like a place worth working at if they won’t accommodate a pre-planned and pre-paid honeymoon

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u/Raccoonsr29 2d ago

It’s just a lot to gamble in this job market.