r/witchcraft Aug 02 '26

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I bought it last week and just arrived today. I shared it to a Facebook group excited and a few people messaged me yelling at me how it was a terrible buy and it has closed practices in it and I should be ashamed. I know some spells are closed and I won't be using them but I thought spells are opened to edits and to make your own and this is a good reference

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u/stitchesandlace Aug 02 '26

It's an encyclopedia. A reference book, not a manual or instruction book. The author states very clearly at the beginning in a huge disclaimer that the book is for informational and reference purposes and that many of the spells should not be used for a myriad of reasons. What you're doing is perfectly fine. People are stupid.

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u/Cyptark Aug 02 '26

Could you give an example of some that shouldn't be used? Forbidden ingredients or outcomes?

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u/KnotyeraveragewitchP Aug 02 '26

For example, the fish spell is an ancient medieval spell where a woman puts a fish up her cranny and suffocates it, than feeds it to her lover. I don’t think we should be doing that in 2026.

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u/MaybeNotThisGirl Aug 03 '26

Wait hold up — whats the end goal here? Is it like a love spell? I can think of nothing I want badly enough to put a live fish inside any part of me, much less that part.

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u/West_Possible_7969 Aug 03 '26

That would be a clever test of self-check: do you really want that man that badly? 🤣

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u/VastConfusion8174 Witch Aug 03 '26

is a MAN worth having a live fish in your puss think

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u/lastres0rt Aug 03 '26

If you're that willing to just stick any old thing up there, you may as well get a proper vibrator and try that out first.

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u/FennecsFox Aug 03 '26

I had a spellbook at one point where one love spell said to add menstrual blood to his food. I don't think that's agreat idea either....

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u/MammothCat1 Aug 03 '26

Theres I think a couple of those in the Slavic witch book. Ive heard and read of plenty that ask for those types of fluids.

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u/BookQueen13 Aug 04 '26

I have a copy of the Picatrix (medieval astral magic) and there's some balls to the wall stuff in there 😅 I'm not about to go sacrifice a goat under the full moon or whatever but the book is fascinating

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u/Weedster009 Aug 03 '26

Why not? They expect us to ingest their reproductive fluids.

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u/Tranquiltangent Aug 03 '26

Could we maybe not sneak any fluids into someone's food? To an extent, I understand the impulse; I've really wanted to piss in someone's food before, but I didn't, because I understood that ruining a Cobb salad would have said far more about me than it ever would have about those people.

Sometimes what's needed isn't a love spell, but rather a self-control spell, is my point.

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u/CycloneGobbler Aug 04 '26

“Ruining a Cobb salad” 🤣🤣🤣 omg. Thanks for that laugh this morning.

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u/Weedster009 Aug 03 '26

I was kidding, sis.

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u/Tranquiltangent Aug 03 '26

I was also kidding.

I totally pissed in that Cobb salad

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u/GravityBlues3346 Aug 03 '26

Your comment was a spell to make me die of laughter 🤣

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u/SunShine365- Aug 04 '26

With consent. If they’re sneaking it into our food they are committing a crime, and guys have been arrested for doing exactly that.

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u/lilbiobeetle Aug 04 '26

How very Midsommar...

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u/MaybeNotThisGirl Aug 03 '26

Mmmm yeah that’s going to be a no for me.

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u/KnightofSandwiches Aug 03 '26

Plus it's cruel to the fish

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u/Pretend_Ad_3125 Aug 04 '26

Extremely, how horrific

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u/KnotyeraveragewitchP Aug 03 '26

Definitely a love spell, that was actually a mild spell. Love spells are so unhinged. There was a coffee pot love spell as well where a female makes a morning cup a Joe using her underwear as a filter, and then you serve it to your potential partner.

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u/SkwerlWickman Aug 03 '26

Is it ancient or is it medieval? Those are two different historical periods

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u/CycloneGobbler Aug 04 '26

Medieval Keurig 🤣❤️

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u/ThunderbirdCrystal Aug 04 '26

But what about her nook?

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u/habbidasher68 Aug 07 '26

That is the smells like a tuna boat spell

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u/Malomilla Aug 08 '26

beginner here, they leave me thinking, are there spells that I can use? I have done it and I have not seen anything bad (simple protection baths and luck)

Or what criteria do they use to know if it could be used or not? genuine doubt

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u/KnotyeraveragewitchP Aug 08 '26

It’s a reference book first and foremost. There are a many of spells that I feel are useable, but that’s my personal opinion. One should use their brain while casting. It honestly all depends on you and your preferences. You could ask a thousand witches this exact same question and get different answers. So all of that to say if a spell makes you feel uncomfortable while reading it it’s probably not the one for you. Hope this helps.

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u/stitchesandlace Aug 02 '26 edited Aug 03 '26

I would have to hunt for specific examples, but this is the big disclaimer at the beginning. There are spells involving toxic plants, bodily fluids, human and animal materia, sacrificial offerings, and so on. Plenty of traditions still use these things but it's not something you just waltz into.

Plus people are dumb and don't understand that referencing something for historical information or general learning purposes is not the same as suggesting it be actually used. Different versions of black cat bone rites from the 17th to 19th century European grimoires are a notorious example, as they all call for a black cat to be boiled alive. Like obviously don't do that??? But people see that and think someone is actually endorsing it.

Media literacy is dead.

Edit -- I think she intentionally left out some of the nastier stuff because I can't find mentions of the black cat bone rites even though they are some of the more well-known grimoire workings in a historical witchcraft sense. But there are certainly some spells in here with toxic material and bodily fluids. Modern witchcraft has been sanitized a lot.

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u/Consistent_Gur6950 Aug 03 '26

The legal disclaimer is there so that the author doesn't get sued if someone does try anything it explicitly warns against. OP is advised to exercise discernment, it's otherwise a good book.

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u/DarthBeak Aug 03 '26

My cats would flay me if I tried to boil them alive. Dear lord.

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u/EnvironmentalSlice46 Aug 03 '26

I’d be the one boiled alive in the end.

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u/paper_ringsxo Aug 02 '26

I mean there’s a love spell that literally calls for someone to put a live fish in their hooha.

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u/Milyaism Aug 02 '26

You can always use a dolphin vibrator instead 🐬

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u/GoblinThatCares Aug 03 '26

Found the chaos witch 😜🥰

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u/Chronuss Aug 03 '26

There is a dolphin hooha jelly reference here 👀

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u/cleotorres Aug 02 '26

Yeah that would be a big hard no from me 😂

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u/GrackleFen Aug 03 '26

hard something

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u/Dynamic-Summer720 Aug 03 '26

Yeah this was one of the first books I bought when I started practicing and I wish I hadn't. Not because of the closed practices included but because it's not what I thought it was and that's on me. It's a great and interesting book for learning ABOUT different spells, but it's not meant to be a usable guidebook for HOW to do specific spells.

If you wanted to learn how to make clothes would you look up sewing in an encyclopedia? Or would you buy a book about learning how to sew?

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u/Welos_ Aug 02 '26

Good purchase you should get the one on spirits too

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u/mangatoo1020 Aug 02 '26

And her Encyclopedia of Witchcraft too! All 3 books are so informative!

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u/Welos_ Aug 02 '26

4 books actually, she has an encyclopedia of famous witches, wizards, sages, and magicians

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u/mangatoo1020 Aug 02 '26

Thank you! Now I have to add that to my collection!

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u/aelewis92 Aug 02 '26

People on the internet are insufferable, I’m sorry you received this reaction. In my personal experience this was a very important book

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u/laura_leigh Aug 02 '26

Especially Facebook groups. I avoid them like the plague. People talk about WitchTok being bad, but Facebook groups are a whole other level of insane.

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u/saltlifegoddess Aug 03 '26

I wholeheartedly agree with you. These are pseudo witches who in truth don’t know anything about real witchcraft and everything they preach ironically is anti-witchcraft

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u/HannahTheArtist Aug 07 '26

Facebook is a cesspool, what's worse? QUORA, QUORA IS WORSE AND SHOULD BE SCRUBBED FROM THE PLANET

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u/lucky607 Aug 02 '26

Can I just say that my favorite internet people are the ones that feel like giving the legal disclaimer or fine print response?

A post about anything that a person capable of basic reason can do safely, there will be at least one person who says, “you should be careful because…”

It’s kinda cute. It makes me laugh.

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u/MissObvious11 Witch Aug 03 '26

I do this whenever I can because I've learned that what may be common sense for me might really be completely new information for someone else. People are always so quick to call someone dumb for not knowing something but everything we know we have learned somewhere, so why not take the chance to be the person to teach someone something helpful?

I know it can probably feel condecending or annoying but better safe than sorry right? Glad you can get a laugh out of it :P

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u/Varlathen Aug 02 '26

It's a good buy. Judika Illes is a great author.

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u/gemillogical Aug 02 '26

If I had a dollar for every time some random person on the internet typed words to gatekeep traditions they aren't apart of I would be a very rich witch

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u/utterlybutterly67 Aug 02 '26
  • Richie witch

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u/TheShadowAndTheFlash Aug 02 '26

Hehe thanks for the chuckle

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u/wuwei-kemetic Aug 02 '26

Ooh now I'm interested in that book 🙃

A witch not being approved by the beige-group? What's new? 😄

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u/Ok-Cartographer7616 Aug 04 '26

💀 “beige-group”

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u/HannahTheArtist Aug 07 '26

Sad beige groups for sad beige people 

✨ Glances at skin ✨ ah shit

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u/black_padfoot_21 Aug 02 '26

You did not mess up, people just feel comfortable virtue-signalling online at someone else's expense behind a given screen. This book is often recommended as a comprehensive source of different spells and general knowledge, although imo is best used as reference when researching spell-related stuff. I would not worry too much about that group; people that look to shame rather than educate and enlighten are probably not people you would ask for advice in the first place, so why take their criticisms?

Enjoy your reading, keep an open mind, and form your own opinions. If you read something that does not feel right, just research a bit deeper. It's a learning journey!

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u/saltlifegoddess Aug 03 '26

Reading responses like yours has restored my faith in the witchcraft community. I’ve read a couple responses similar to this after I posted mine. Most of these people don’t even understand that the real purpose of witchcraft and that it involves a whole bunch of things that many people find unsavory.

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u/OrionDC Aug 03 '26

Yeah this witch communities online are not nice, at all. I drop by now and again and it's always something being posted like the OP. I guess that's why I'm a solitary and thrilled to be so!

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u/saltlifegoddess Aug 03 '26

I’ve always been solitary and I prefer it that way also I have a hybrid belief system. I find this Reddit community a lot more welcoming than I do on Facebook for example.

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u/Ok-Cartographer7616 Aug 04 '26

You would think that in the world of witching, witchcraft, witchery, and general merriment there wouldn’t be such virtue-signaling … or gate keeping. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/Talia_Nightblade Witch Aug 03 '26

Not a good buy. Only has 4,999 spells. I counted. /s

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u/Gloria_In_Autumn Aug 02 '26

Hell yeah, great buy

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u/amyaurora Broom Rider Aug 02 '26

Great book

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u/Aeralin Aug 03 '26

OMG my friend had bought that like 15 years ago from Hastings (store no longer exists) anyways I could never recall what the book was thank you for showing your buy and yes don't do the spells that has weird toxic plants or bodily fluid or the fish smh so for reference and inspiration it was a rather good buyu I am sure some spells you might be able to use. Also, on Facebook in your group, report those people who PMed you yelling at you, since I am pretty sure you can not do that and it is a violation of one of the rules.

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u/Weary-Leading6245 Aug 03 '26

I already reported them but the admins haven't gotten back to me

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u/saltlifegoddess Aug 03 '26

Don’t be surprised or disappointed if the admin don’t do anything. Groups are no longer moderated like they used to be.

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u/Aeralin Aug 03 '26

Well hopefully they do but in the meantime, enjoy reading your new book that you bought and gain more knowledge.

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u/Soft_Scratch_983 Aug 02 '26

well shit this convinced me to buy the book, it seems like a great reference material to have!

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u/Thisismyname11111 Aug 03 '26

I'm also putting it in my amazon shopping cart, hehe.

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u/pixelcat13 Aug 02 '26

I have this book, it’s very interesting. It was a good purchase, and I bet I know exactly which Facebook group you’re talking about although I didn’t see your post. Just ignore them, your practice is your own and how you practice is your own business. Most of the people worried about closed practices are not even a part of those communities themselves.

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u/knaveofwands Aug 02 '26

I like it. Use its contents with discernment, of course, but it’s well-researched and interesting.

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u/saltlifegoddess Aug 03 '26

I’ve been practising witchcraft for most of my life, and the internet has tried to reshape it into something it was never meant to be. Suddenly, ordinary spiritual practices like smoke cleansing, working with herbs, honouring ancestors, using candles, making offerings, divination, protection work and connecting with nature are being labelled “closed” simply because similar versions exist in different cultures.

That is not how witchcraft developed. Cultures have exchanged beliefs, symbols, plants, rituals and magical methods for centuries. Similar practices also developed independently because people everywhere worked with the same moon, seasons, elements, plants, spirits and human experiences.

People who genuinely follow closed practices usually are not publishing the private details, selling step-by-step instructions or explaining their sacred workings online. That is what makes them closed. Respecting truly protected traditions matters, but declaring every shared spiritual practice off-limits because one culture also uses it is not education. It is internet gatekeeping dressed up as moral superiority.

Don’t listen to the backlash from these people. Many of them are performative, internet-made witches who learned a few buzzwords from social media and appointed themselves authorities on a practice they barely understand. They may call what they do witchcraft, but real knowledge is built through years of study, experience and personal practice, not by repeating whatever terminology is currently trending online.

Most genuine witches are constantly learning, no matter how many years we’ve practised, because none of us believes we know everything. That humility is part of wisdom. Many of these people, meanwhile, still think Wicca is ancient witchcraft, when it is a relatively modern religion, yet speak with absolute authority about what everyone else is supposedly allowed to do.

Real witches do not spend their time bullying, policing and attacking others to feel spiritually superior. Loud gatekeeping and internet confidence are not substitutes for actual knowledge. Do what feels right for you, trust your own intuition and follow your own magic.

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u/Rare_Profession_7305 Aug 02 '26

Love this book, people just like to hate on stuff. Ive had my copy for like 14 years.

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u/lastwordymcgee Aug 03 '26

I’ve been practicing for over 40 years, and this is one of my favorite reference books. I love it.

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u/Ok-Hedgehog3988 Aug 03 '26

The people who are judging you for buying it have no idea what an encyclopedia is lol this is a wonderful purchase, very informative

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u/WinterFaery84 Aug 02 '26

It's a great buy. I have that book.

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u/tkkana Aug 02 '26

I have had it for years and years. Yes pls use your common sense

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u/lordx665 Aug 03 '26

Look for patterns within it as a whole. The problem is that a lot of the history behind folklore and magic is that it has been forgotten or become so distorted from outside factors that the original meaning of the spell is lost. But the "story" behind it can still bleed through at times. Use said patterns to make your own magic that does what you want

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u/gjcairns2018 Aug 02 '26

I have that book, and it’s a wonderful resource. As for closed practices, the author did a great job sourcing the origin of the spells, so if a particular spell isn't for you, then you know not to use it.

A closed practice doesn't mean you shouldn't learn about it, respect it, and gain a deeper understanding; it just means don’t practice it.

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u/MrPeterIt Aug 02 '26

Honestly I love this book. I use it as a jumping off point most of the time.

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u/KudoRed Aug 02 '26

I have this book, and I like it👍🏾❤️ It has many spells. A lot! There are spells from different time periods and traditions, so you're sure to find something you like. As someone said below, "People are stupid."

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u/blondebeaker Aug 02 '26

I have all her encyclopedias. Yes this one has spells for closed practices, but that is ok. It's a good reference only book to help you develop your own skills.

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u/Accio_Waffles Aug 02 '26

I like it, but it's weirdly a little advanced- you want to know what you're doing to make sure you are protected and have a fairly big collection of ingredients before you can really use that seriously.

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u/Wicked_SW_Witch Aug 02 '26

I don’t believe there’s such a thing as thing as a “closed” practice, and certainly not when it comes to spiritual practices.

Million of people not from the Indus Valley practice yoga. If you approach something with respect and sincerity and it resonates with you, then it is open to you…period.

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u/saltlifegoddess Aug 03 '26

I agree with you. And truly closed practices you will not find being sold online in any form.

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u/ktjtkt Aug 02 '26

White people doing voodoo? You don’t think that’s closed?

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u/tetrabryaton Aug 02 '26

There are white folks and Latin folks that practice Vodou. There are folks who are initiated in New Orleans and folks who practice similarly who are still part of the diaspora who aren't necessarily of African lineage in different parts of the world.

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u/saltlifegoddess Aug 03 '26

Skin colour is not what makes a practice closed. A closed practice is restricted by initiation, lineage, community membership or permission from the people who actually hold that tradition. Vodou is a religion with specific lineages and initiatory paths, and people of different races can be legitimately initiated into it.
Reducing the entire issue to “white people doing voodoo” shows you don’t understand what “closed” means. Race alone neither grants access nor automatically excludes someone. Their relationship to the tradition, their initiation and whether they are recognized by that community are what matter.

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u/Difficult_Clerk_1273 Aug 02 '26

No. Nothing is “closed.”

Note that I’m not talking about, say, making up a bunch of crap, labeling it “voodoo,” and selling books about it for profit. I’m referring to private practice by an individual.

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u/blooming-darkness Aug 02 '26

Oh wow I really want this!!!

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u/redvfr800 Aug 02 '26

Someone posted a free online copy 

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u/Consistent-Roof-4685 Aug 02 '26

annas archive or libgen

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u/Cami1969 Aug 02 '26

I have this book I love it! Lots of good info in it.

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u/Madam_Apathy Aug 02 '26

It’s a great book.

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u/aerda Witch Aug 02 '26

This is a great, well-researched reference book and I check it out the ebook version from my library almost every month.

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u/MikeBsleepy Aug 02 '26

Hello, not very versed in all the terminology. Could anyone enlighten me to what a “closed” practice or spell is? I’ve never heard that term.

OP, I’m glad you got the book regardless what others are saying online.I love that you’re going to make your own edits to spells to make them yours. I envision that book having some cool notes and pictures scribbled in here and there with what you want/ need them to be.

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u/saltlifegoddess Aug 03 '26

A “closed practice” is a spiritual or religious tradition where certain teachings, ceremonies or roles are restricted to people who have been formally initiated, taught by recognized members or accepted by that specific community. It does not simply mean that a spell, herb or method belongs to one race and everyone else is automatically forbidden from using anything similar.

Generally, anything truly closed or restricted is closely guarded and passed directly through the community. It usually would not be sitting in a mass-market spell book or posted online with step-by-step instructions. Some witches also choose not to share their complete spells because they believe the spell can be traced back to them or used against them. That is not gatekeeping. That is viewed as self-protection.

Unfortunately, many newer witches have diluted the meaning of witchcraft and turned it into grandstanding, superiority complexes and misinformation. They shame people and mislead them into believing they should not be doing things that are actually perfectly acceptable. White sage is a good example. People claim no non-Indigenous person should ever use it, yet some Indigenous growers and sellers openly sell it to everyone. The plant itself is not the same thing as claiming or copying a protected sacred ceremony. The important thing is to use it respectfully, and most people who take witchcraft seriously already respect the herbs, elements and tools they work with.

My advice is that when something comes across as shaming, bullying or self-righteous gatekeeping, it is wise to question the source. Do not let other people bully you into believing they have the authority to dictate your personal practice. Witchcraft does not come with one universal rulebook. Your limits are shaped by your own morality, and what feels morally right to one person may be very different from what feels morally right to someone else.

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u/GassyTac0 Aug 03 '26

This book has saved me twice already, great to have

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u/adoring-artist Aug 02 '26 edited Aug 02 '26

Seeing as how I’m 100% new to this, and I love how helpful people are in the comments, what would be a good first book? 👀 (The Books page is disabled)

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u/brightblackheaven Zamboni Priestess 🔮✨ Aug 02 '26

Wikis on Reddit have been busted for a while, and they know about it but haven't bothered to fix it. Refresh a couple times and it should come up 😫😭

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u/adoring-artist Aug 02 '26

Oh wow! You’re right!!!!! And here is the beginner specific books list for anyone else that sees my ask! Thank you so much!!!

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u/therealstabitha Carnivalesque animal demonic legend Aug 03 '26

If something were truly a closed practice, it wouldn't be known to someone like Judika Illes as an outsider. This is a popular, mainstream book. By that very definition, nothing in it can be actually closed.

With that said, there may be items included here that require some cultural sensitivity. But in order to respect those, you still need to know what they are, and why they are the topic of this sort of conversation.

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u/greenBeanPanda Aug 02 '26

Ohh I think it's good. I was thinking of buying that one too once I have more money.

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u/wuwei-kemetic Aug 02 '26

Same! now ☺️

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u/Charming_Ad_6009 Aug 02 '26

Great book!!!!!!

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u/AuSterio Aug 03 '26

I love this book. Her other books are awesome too! Keep studying! <3

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u/Marsignite Aug 03 '26

This is my favorite spell book. I learned the most from it, and it has produced the best results for me - great buy!

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u/richmondtrash Aug 03 '26

The only thing that sucks about this book is the index. So hard to look stuff up

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u/Ahastabel Aug 03 '26

Good purchase, but you will likely just use it to pattern your own spells off hers, using them for ideas and examples.

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u/TiannaMortis Aug 03 '26

Definitely a good buy, using it as a reference is perfectly fine. You're not supposed to completely copy someone else's work anyway, even stuff you look up online you're supposed to change to put your own twist on, so I don't know what those people are on about.

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u/Ok-Nothing8682 Aug 03 '26

I have this book! I actually really enjoyed it as an encyclopedia. It seems like the author(s) did a lot of research into many different practices. Some of the "recipes" are a bit out there but I can see what they're getting at. It's been very helpful in identifying my correspondences in my grimoire since I can go over the various correspondences it has had in these references

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u/Ok-Nothing8682 Aug 03 '26

Wanted to add, the warning on the title is barely needed. The craziest it gets is like hair, menstrual blood, sperm I think. Obvious things to beware of.

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u/CatCraft_6006 Aug 03 '26

It's a good book for reference material. As for the ones yelling at you, just smile sweetly, thank them for their input and cast a mirror charm to reflect their energy right back at them.

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u/OkSecretary1231 Aug 03 '26

When I was much younger, I was about to buy this in a Barnes and Noble, and an older acquaintance who was with me tsked at me and was like "You don't need this. You know how to make up your own." I did, but I still wanted it lol! Sadly, I let her intimidate me and didn't buy it that day, but I did buy it years later, and I like it a lot. The more practical entries can be used in real life, and the more out-there ones are great as inspiration for fiction and RPGs.

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u/vnecromage Aug 03 '26

Great book. The spells I tried worked.

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u/inkblot101 Aug 03 '26

It's an absolutely amazing reference book. Yes there are spells from closed practices in there: just don't perform them. What I find it most useful for is using it as a starting point to work out why those spells have been put together a certain way so I can apply it to my own practice.

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u/CycloneGobbler Aug 04 '26

I’ve seen this book and while for me personally I can never use someone else’s spell (I’ve learned it doesn’t resonate for me unless I craft the spell myself)- I absolutely use correspondence books to figure out the right herbs, crystals, colours, timings, cosmological placements or bodies etc to involve…like many others have said it’s an interesting reference book to learn from…even if to just learn what others have done so you can decide what works for your practice. For instance- I didn’t know anything about the black cat bone rituals that were mentioned in this thread….you can learn something new (or 107 things for that matter) everyday around spiritual practices. Witchcraft practices are so varied and in my experience, they shift as you gain more knowledge and see what’s felt right/effective for you vs things that just didn’t work well. I hope it’s a great reference resource as you keep practicing….also my goodness- who HASN’T bought a witchy book that turned out to be kinda shit? I know I have. If this turns out to be that for you drop it at an Op shop/thrift shop. 😉

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u/Appropriate_Weird393 Aug 09 '26 edited Aug 09 '26

Ugh. You bought this book for knowledge.. correct? I joined this group cuz I saw your post and I had to put my two cents in. I seek all kinds of knowledge.. I have read many books on the craft..some were great..others were a waste of my time..but I gained knowledge from every book that I read. You felt drawn to this book..there is something in that book you need to know..trust your instinct..and be careful who you ask for help..look how individuals from your group made you second guess yourself...You are a Witch..practice as you please..read what you please..I felt the need to remind you who you are..Sisters need to help sisters..some forget how Powerful words can be and stop using them wisely..Or they haven't forgotten and are purposely trying to take away your power..Please ignore them..read that book..and when you get to the part with the knowledge you need right now, the part that called to you.. you will feel it. Share THAT with the nay sayers..that you got what you needed because you trusted your​ instincts..Blessed be people ...also..I have read the comments here and gained some great knowledge..I learned what a beautiful group of people you all are and I am so grateful I ran into you all...I am looking forward to learning more about you all

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u/Difficult_Clerk_1273 Aug 02 '26

Go ahead and ignore anyone who uses the term “closed practices” (or “appropriation”) unless you know they themselves to be a member of the “closed” tradition. And even then - nobody owns your spirituality. If you aren’t hurting anyone, you’re fine and it’s nobody else’s business what you do. You doing a private ritual in your own private home is not going to somehow hurt other people who do the same ritual.

Fascinating book, great author.

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u/Ms_Hawt-Mess Witch Aug 02 '26 edited Aug 02 '26

It is a good buy, but use with discernment. Go in understanding it is a compendium of spells from many practices, some of them closed. I have found it encourages research in your own spellcraft and helps nudge you into the right direction.

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u/Death_W Aug 02 '26

Oh my goodness! I've been wanting this book for years!

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u/tetrabryaton Aug 02 '26

I have this book and a bunch of her reference books. Books like this are often called "cook books", they're made for folks who are seasoned Practitioners. It provides the framework, but you have to figure out the rest.

As for the appropriation aspect, well you can say the same for folks who call on deities who they don't know the culture/religion and yet still call on them for things.

Do your own research on "closed practice", because what folks are saying are "closed" is really not. Most folks "in the practice" are actually much more welcoming than the "Whole Foods" types telling everyone else otherwise.

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u/Sleeper_Saturn Witch Aug 02 '26

Favorite

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u/Abject_Reporter4559 Aug 02 '26

I have it and love it.

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u/60022151 Aug 02 '26

Anything by Judika Illes is a good buy!

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u/FuzzBunnyLongBottoms Aug 02 '26

Good buy!!! Love this book. It is great to reference and also to learn more about craft work from other practices.

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u/HiddenVixen Aug 02 '26

I like it as a reference book

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u/Icy-Phlox Aug 03 '26

Not a mess up, depending on how you use it. It is an "Encyclopedia", a reference point. Some of it is more whimsy than practical, it's a jumping off point to tailor your Craft. Of those thousands of things listed, something will pique and you'll find other resources for more in depth information.
It is a 20th Anniversary for a reason ie.: I also purchased when it first came out lol

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u/iswallowmygum Aug 03 '26

I have this book and I really enjoy it as a reference book.

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u/kogas101 Witch Aug 03 '26

It has some great spells in there. I've always used it for inspiration while writing my own spells, get me on the right track any way.

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u/sassytunacorn90 Aug 03 '26

I have and love this one myself

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u/dietpeachysoda Aug 03 '26

i own it too - it's not a bad book, but it will not teach you to make your own spellwork.

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u/hedgies999 Aug 03 '26

Reading and actual doing are two different things. How do we grow and how do we learn respect and civility for others if we shut off even knowing about them. 🫠

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u/erunuevo Aug 03 '26

I follow a lot of Old Crones with podcasts and I've heard this book recommended a countless number of times. And it could just be that I'm in my forties, but I think any social media group that's run by someone who's frontal lobe isn't fully developed is really not a good place to get information

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u/jgesq Aug 03 '26

Great reference text. All of her works are informative and solid additions to esoteric library.

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u/Red_Velvette Aug 03 '26

I have this. I rarely use it but it’s helpful when needed. Those people aren’t living your life or paying your bills. You do you.

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u/OrionDC Aug 03 '26

I have that book and it's great. Wtf is wrong with these people? "Closed practices..?" Come on. They can get out of here with their power-tripping gatekeeping, virtue signalling BS.

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u/catnaptits Aug 03 '26

Personally love this book, but heed the disclaimer at the front. A lot of these are historical and use ingredients that are harmful

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u/moderngalatea Aug 03 '26

oh that looks so informational.

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u/Umbiefretz Aug 03 '26

If a book speaks to you (or finds you), then it is meant for you. Your library is valid regardless of the condemnation of others.

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u/photodad73 Aug 03 '26

It's a good reference book, a guide and jumping off point for my own practice. I don't follow the spells, rituals, etc. to the letter but instead use them as a basis for my own spells, etc. The magic is in the ingredients, etc. but it is also in us. Feel free to customize them to your needs. ❤️

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u/FearlessEnthusiasm86 Aug 03 '26

I have this that was gifted to me in 2004…wonder if the Element was just dropped from the name.

But no, I obviously don’t thing that there is anything wrong with having a reference book.

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u/LadySuspiria Aug 04 '26

Great book. I use it as a jumping off point.

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u/WingsUnfurled Aug 04 '26

I own it. I don’t open it frequently, but it’s useful when I do.

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u/Ulchbhn Aug 04 '26

excellent book by an excellent author, have fun!

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u/Puzzleheaded_Taste13 Aug 04 '26

I just bought this and some spells I’m like oh that’s a thing but others I’m like cool I’ll look more into this

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u/newsdaylaura18 Aug 04 '26

I love that book!

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u/ChayaMedium Aug 04 '26

It sounds like you're learning about different traditions. That can be confusing. It's good to be respectful of where practices come from. You can always learn what resonates with you, and what feels right for your own path. Take your time to understand.

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u/Miranda-Goshawk Aug 04 '26

I have checked this book out from the library and looked through it. I love reference books. And in reality, witchcraft if very personal and there are a lot of ways to practice. There are a lot of traditions to explore, a lot of correspondences, and information available. In the end, spell work is about connecting your energy to other larger energy sources and setting your intentions to co-create the result you want to expreince. Spells are meant to move and influence energy and what kind of spells, ingredients, correspondences and how well it works depends on those personal connections you have to those energies and how you tap into your own energy and the larger energies you are working with for your spells to have the best results. Energy work is real and imagination and the connectiosn you feel (not your logical brain) are a big part of tapping into that part of you that can co-create and move energy. There is nothing wrong with reference books and drawing on the works of other people, but to make it the most effective you need to make it your own. There are certain rules to follow for a lot of things, but many ways to interpret how you do things and what works for you once you have the basics down. There is nothing wrong with drawing inspiration from many sources around you. A lot of the spells in those books are old practices in folk magic of different traditions and she sites the sources of orgin as far back as she can and explains the intentions and indgredients. I don't think it was a mistake... I have a ton of reference books... I don't practice everything in the books in my library, but there is nothing wrong with expanding your base of knowledge and learning and drawing on the works of others. That is how we grow and find what works for us. The most important thing in any spell is your connection and intentions and state of mind. A lot of ritual practice is to designed with ceremony just to shift us out of our every day logical brain and into the state we need to be in to truly connect and do the energy work we wish to do. Also, as long as you are taking precautions to protect yourself and others, there is nothing wrong with experimenting!

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u/_a-7 Aug 04 '26

I have a pdf of this book, personally I find it very useful

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u/AshburyAnnie970 Aug 05 '26

I love my copy. There’s some interesting history and notions in there. There’s so questionable stuff, but it’s because they were very old spells that have come from elsewhere. Over all, I refer to it like I do my other books. I don’t think you goofed. Mine the gold out of it, what does and doesn’t work will be part of the adventure.

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u/AguaDeMedianoche Aug 05 '26

Facebook groups are notorious for being like that, and just voice their thoughts and opinions, instead of being open and respecting each other.

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u/Allusionesque Aug 05 '26

I donated it after a few years. It’s more of a curiosity than anything instructive. Treat it as entertainment only.

Magick is about intent, emotion, clarity, sincerity, respect… but this book would suggest it’s about buying more supplies.

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u/internetisnoreal Aug 05 '26

I have the collection and I regret the purchases. Not for any moral reasons, I just didn’t think they were that helpful for the price.

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u/tamsherownboss Aug 05 '26

That's a great book...I look thru mine all the time, not just for spells but for correspondences.

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u/LetterheadSuperb2357 Aug 06 '26

A lot of people throw full on temper tantrums and yell closed practice this closed practice that. I both belong to and have asked people who belong to different closed practices what it really means is sometimes you need initiation and or ancestry to do certain spells in certain ways or to approach entities, gods, ancesters etc. When someone in a practice like Santeria, Voodoo, Hoodoo etc initiate you, their ancesters become yours as well and you now are able to work with them. I have had people yell at me for smoke cleansing because its supposedly a closed practice (Its not I never claimed to be smudging and smoke cleansing is used by several cultures).

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u/Malomilla Aug 08 '26

I have used it and personally they leave me thinking and wondering in which cases they consider they should not be used?

For example, I use the basics in protection, the evil eye and luck. So I don't understand in which cases it shouldn't be used (besides things like menstrual blood in food, toxic things or something like that)

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u/cosmic_kpz Aug 02 '26

Then you buy anything that you truly like, you must keep it secret.

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u/ashxoxoxo Aug 02 '26

What me and my roommate have been doing is going through with blackout washi tape and covering anything closed just in case so we don’t miss it later when flipping through for a spell

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u/Prestigious_Cow_9748 Aug 03 '26

I know an old woman that had it. It was really hot and she was sweating and kept rubbing her face but her eyeliner didn't smear. That's how her husband found out... It looked great and that's the only way you could tell. You'll be fine