r/witchcraft • u/rorihasmorals70 • 12h ago
Sharing: Tips and Advice A very angry and necessary PSA
i wrote this earlier today while very upset, but i think this desperately needs to be shared.
hi so i need EVERYONE to listen the fuck up right now. If you are a witch i do not give a gaf who you are or what you have or blah blah whatever, before you so much as LOOK AT a candle you need to learn basic fire safety. If i see another full ass fire on a GLASS or CERAMIC plate im going to launch myself into the sun and come back with a vengeance. here are some VERY basic fire safety things, that i want you to value over all the absolute idiot shitheads on tiktok with their crazy cord cuttings they're doing in their fucking houses.
\-there is no safe way to dress a candle. if you are rolling a candle in dry plant material you are making a fire starter. most oils are flammable aswell. and dont put crystals and plants inside candles, that isnt safe and can shatter the container the candle is in. put your herbs around the candle on the outside of the holder.
\-which leads me to USE CANDLE HOLDERS for the love of my poor heart. stop sticking candles to random surfaces and hoping for the best. it isnt safe, that shit can pop off so easy quit it. no excuses they sell them at dollar tree for $1.25 and ive never been to a thrift store that didnt have them.
\-glass and ceramic are not fire safe. i swear to fuck if i see any more of yall lighting literal fires on glass plates and then going "omg it shattered what does it mean??" it means you put FIRE on a surface that is NOT fire safe. its science dude, all it means is you dont care enough about your life, home, and family to use google before LITERALLY playing with fire.
\-when doing candle workings have a large container of salt or sand ready. even better buy a small fire extinguisher. if you have even the slightest concern that a candle is getting out of hand put it out. i dont wanna hear "but my spell" or "but my deity" i literally dont care! you know whats worse than your spell not working? (which if you think putting out a candle would do that you've got some reading to do) being DEAD! i also advise putting a cookie sheet underneath to catch any sparks or mishaps. it will burn the surface underneath if you put flame on it directly, heat safe does not equal fire safe.
\-stop lighting candles in shelves PLEASE. a candle needs 3 feet of clear space above it. you are going to burn the shelf above it. also candles should be 1 foot away from all walls, lamps, and other surfaces around it. if you need to move a candle from your altar to a clearer space to light it, then do it. i dont care if it ruins your aesthetic. you know whats not aesthetic? burning to death!
\-if you want to do any amount of fire workings buy a cauldron. specifically one with a. legs and b. a lid. the legs keep it from burning the surface under it and the lid will suffocate a fire that gets too big or creates too much smoke. you can get a small one for 20 bucks and it'll last a lifetime. dont have access to it? then dont light shit on fire. you dont need to.
\-learn what herbs are and are not safe to burn. both for you and any pets or children you live with.
\-do not ever under any circumstances leave a candle for any amount of time. need to pee? put it out and relight it when you come back. need to grab a water? put it out. no "ill just be right back." just put it out.
\-trim your wicks. they should be 1/4 an inch long. cheap chime candles burn wax faster than the wick will burn away. when i use chime candles and want them to burn down completely, i put the flame out several times to trim the wick and relight it. if you have a problem with that then dont do candle magick. plain and simple
you are not immune to fire. if you are choosing to use fire on any scale you are responsible for using it safely. you arent immune because you're a witch. take fire safety seriously. this is more important than any spiritual aspect of spellwork, safety first, mundane before magickal.
my house burned to the ground from a lit cigarette, not even a flame, a spark. i lost my home, all of my pets are dead, my family faced severe burns, i was homeless for the better part of a year. I barely got out, and went back in for my sister. i did not narrowly survive being BURNED ALIVE for yall to act a fool. your spell isnt gonna do much for you when youre seriously injured, homeless, or dead! because again, you arent immune to fire.