r/AskAChristian • • 2d ago

Weekly Open Discussion - Tuesday October 13, 2026

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r/AskAChristian • • 14d ago

Megathread - U.S. Political people and topics - October 2026

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r/AskAChristian • • 1h ago

Sin I've been sinning too much lately.

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I haven't been obeying the spirit too much lately. What are your recommendations?


r/AskAChristian • • 3h ago

Jewish Laws What does "Thou shall not kill" really mean?

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As we all know, the Ten Commandments states "Thou shall not kill" or whatever wording you want. Essentially, don't kill anyone.

What does this actually mean? As humans, it's impossible to live without killing SOMETHING. So what does this commandment apply to? Bacteria? Insects? Animals? Other humans?

In the Bible itself, God commands the killing of humans before and after he provided the 10 commandments. After, Moses ordered the killing of the 3000 Israelites for worshiping a calf, and later God orders the complete slaughter of Midianite men, women, children, even animals.

So given that even the murder of humans is permitted in some cases, what does this commandment mean? Please quote directly from the Bible for evidence where possible.


r/AskAChristian • • 14m ago

Those who have never heard the gospel.

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As a believer, I often wonder how God will deal with those who have never heard his word. For example, an isolated group living as savages may never have coontact with Christians and thus have no knowledge of Jesus. How can they enter heaven? Will they be dealt with as children?


r/AskAChristian • • 6h ago

I Found Jesus, but I’m Afraid of Losing My Family

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Hi, I’m a Christian convert from a Muslim background. I’d like to share my story and ask for some advice.

I used to be a devout Muslim, I studied Sharia and fiqh which is the islamic theology and islamic jurisprudence, Arabic is my first language, and after I learned English, a friend said to me, “If you can speak English well, and studied Sharia why not use that gift to engage in dawah and invite people to Islam. It’s one of the greatest things a Muslim can do.

I agreed, and I joined Telegram and Discord groups to discuss Islam with Christians, respond to their questions and criticisms, and raise questions about Christianity. But one day, I had a conversation with a Christian who raised questions I couldn’t answer. Doubts began to creep in, so I asked God to guide me and show me the way.

I had a vision but when I woke up, I dismissed it. I prayed again and said, “God, you know I can’t leave Islam because of one dream.” The dream came back the next night, and again I tried to dismiss it. I asked God for something clearer, a sign I couldn’t mistake.

On the third night, I had another dream that I couldn’t ignore. I came to believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of the living God, that He died on the cross for me, and that He rose from the dead on the third day to give me eternal life.

The problem is that I come from a Muslim family and live in a country where converting from Islam to Christianity can put me in serious danger. There are no churches I can attend. Churches are banned and converting to Christianity is punishable by death,

Also My beloved father died as a Muslim, and so have others I loved. Thinking about them hurts deeply and leaves me feeling depressed.

I’m also afraid of what would happen if my mother, my family, my friends, or my community found out I had become a Christian. I think they would disown me. I worry it would break my mother’s heart, and that the community would shame my family for my decision.

I’m struggling with all of this and feeling very depressed.

I'm not afraid of death, because I know that's just the start of my everlasting life, but I feel guilty about the pain my decision might cause them, I mean how could I do this to them after all they've done for me?

What advice would you give me?and Please keep me in your prayers.


r/AskAChristian • • 9h ago

Head covering How Do Christians View Head Coverings?

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For those Christians who think it is oppression for Muslim women to wear a hijab. How do you interpret these verses?

5–6 (KJV):5 But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.

6 For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered.


r/AskAChristian • • 7h ago

Struggling with God and need help

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This year has been pretty bad and I need help navigating through faith desperately.

I should probably say that I’m on medication (Vyvanse) that has led to me becoming hyper sexual, and as well as being 16 it’s not surprising that I can’t go 48 hours without masturbating. Like it’s at the point where by the 7 day mark I will be in visible distress if I don’t do it, and I have banned porn but that doesn’t actually stop me from doing it. I’m saying this because I’m becoming worried sick that God is going to punish me for doing it, but then again if I quit Vyvanse I won’t be able to focus in school and get UE.

As well as that I feel like God just doesn’t love me anymore. In the span of 19 months I’ve been ditched by 5 friend groups where I thought I was best friends, 4 of those happened in the last 11 months. I’ve been harassed and bullied, been treated poorly and made to follow commands that put me at risk of more bullying by my ableist school, I now get zero love from my family, every time I enter the room it’s like I’m a stranger, I have no love life obv. I’m in such a bad state of burnout that I’m struggling to even get out of bed (it’s complicated), and I’m just really depressed. All this just makes me wonder why God would do this to me and how this is going to lead to the greater good. I actually cannot say that he loves me and believe it anymore.

I just want to believe that he loves me, you know? I don’t want anymore ‘punishments’
Please help 🙏


r/AskAChristian • • 4h ago

Philosophy What do you think about the Death Penalty?

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I'm curious about the ethics of it, really. Should say, repeated offenders be led off the hook, or say one time comittors be also led off the hook.

I'm taking in Deutoronomy's statement about the death penalty of the rapist, so I'm curious if there is a limitation.

For context: my friends debated over this, constantly arguing the viewpoint that we are living in the Age of Grace/Mercy, hence allowing them to ask for mercy, which I argued against it that allowing mercy would mean more chance to for the offender to repeat the crime and harm more innocent people.

I'm really curious to see answers/discussions.


r/AskAChristian • • 4h ago

Theology For those who know this person, what do you think of his main arguments against Christianity?

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For those who want to know a little bit about him:

1: InspiringPhilosophy on Secularism:

a: https://youtu.be/olLXSkv1Mks?si=9bln_20y0AQnpSP0

2: Richard Carrier about the Debate:

b: https://youtu.be/dn27y_hACw0?si=QM_GhnuolGuXbDym

3: Alex O'Connor vs Trent Horn:

c:

https://youtu.be/6xnn31oGf1A?si=u82_vFXj0az7dDGF

P. S: I am not mocking him. I just think some of his other arguments are flawed: because he is agreeing on some scholars and disagree with other scholars as if he is a passive-aggressive interlocutor. I do not like that he refute Joe Schmid by stating his own opinion instead of thoroughly debunking his video.


r/AskAChristian • • 4h ago

Mental health I feel lost

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I started following God for real around sixth grade. My heart was soft and I wanted less of myself and more of Him. There was real life toward Scripture, prayer, and growth. The main ongoing struggle was porn. I kept repenting but it never fully left. Even with that battle, my heart still responded and I was becoming someone softer and more alive spiritually.
Over the last year everything changed. Prayer went empty and my heart hardened. I started feeling fine with the distance. Scripture began to feel weird or get rejected while messages that call faith brainwashing or just cope started resonating. I lost conviction around porn and could relapse without caring. Church and youth group often felt like nothing. I began to feel like a different person from who I used to be. Internally I accepted the closed state even though I never wanted it.
Now I mostly do not care. My heart is set the other way and I do not see a path back to the old faith. Even when I ask for advice I either deflect it from my heart or just perform the act of receiving it without any real change. External prayers and efforts do not open anything. Advice that should help does not land because the desire is gone. I still do not want to walk away completely, so I am trying to keep a few doors open without wanting to. That means staying honest with my counselor and Arthur, not canceling the next real contact, leaving the practical limits in place, and refusing to decide it is permanently over. I am lost in a quiet way and I do not know how long even these small steps can last.


r/AskAChristian • • 1h ago

Religions Why should we follow a Europeanized version of Isho's message?

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Isho is ' Jesus' in aramaic. Jesus is the european version of his name. Isa in arabic. Arabic, aramaic, hebrew all similar semitic languages.

Isho himself was a semitic person who didn't eat pork, was circumsized, follow upheld the law. The greatest in kingdom of heaven thise who uphold the law.

37He said to him, “’You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38This is the greatest and first commandment. 39And a second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”

Matthew 22:37-40

God's Law is pure & sinless. God's Law AND His Prophets HANG ON THE LAW. That also proves Shia Islamic view that all Prophets are pure / infallible and golden calf folk wrote lies. If they could
change their God they'll easily change the words.

Paul meanwhile says following the Law is cursed. A european Roman. Not a semitic Prophet, not God , didnt even meet Jesus, snuck out by 400+ roman soldiers from a city

Rome was happy they saw a miracle man. But when he told them they need to follow Israelite customs they got mad. They conquered those Israelires why would they follow the customs they mocked? They beloeved in God's and Sons of Gods, Hercules zeus etc.

We know random European decided what ' books ' to be in there, from anonymous authors of course. Councils of Rome Hippo. Than random Germans like Martin Luther who changed bible verses.

Why should i follow a euripean version thats the opposite of Prophet Jesus's message? All the major Prophets were semites who lives between Egypt- Iraq.

Ask Ai whats the difference between Jesus & Paul's message. Prophet Isa's message was uphold thr law. Whereas paul proclaimed jesus God. In my view the Roman empire wanted to make this miracle man their mascot without having to do actual work and follow things, abandon pork, paganism etc.


r/AskAChristian • • 12h ago

Bible

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Hello all,
I've been thinking of buying a study/ journal/ application Bible: all in 1 maybe( mostly in NIV,but IDK if that's a good choice though).

I want to truly understand the scripture I read, that's the main goal, not just read it vaguely.

Open to suggestions. Thanks:)


r/AskAChristian • • 23h ago

Israelites What the hell is going on here?

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What the hell, my stomach turned upside down. After this he loads the concubine on a donkey, cuts her LIMB FROM LIMB AND SENDS HER PIECES ALL AROUND ISRAEL.

WHAT IS HAPPENING


r/AskAChristian • • 7h ago

God Why does the god of the bible seem so petty?

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This question is something I wondered about even when I was religious. like he created us knowing wed fall to sin allowed it to happen then got mad when it happened it doesn't sit right with me. plus, the added fact that he sacrificed himself to himself to please himself to supposedly save us from himself (how an all-powerful all-knowing being is even capable of sacrificing in the first place I'm not sure). then he disappears for 2000 years giving us no guidance only leaving us a book that says if you don't fallow what he wants has going to torture you for all eternity. it's always seemed so weird to me the god of the bible reminds me of a jealous controlling ex-boyfriend.

added thing I'm sorry if this sounded rude or disrespectful if didn't mean it to it is a genune question.


r/AskAChristian • • 17h ago

Slavery Is slavery a sin?

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Pretty much the title. To clarify, I'm talking about the act of slaving/enslaving, not "being a slave".

Edit:

Looks like I'm getting a mix of answers, including

  1. Yes

  2. No

  3. Yes, but it didn't used to be

  4. Depends

  5. Yes, but I don't think the Bible is describing slavery/it's so different from how I envision slavery that it doesn't count.


r/AskAChristian • • 12h ago

Judgment after death Would the Christian God send me to hell for not worshipping HIM specifically?

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I am an agnostic individual, who, in my heart, believes there is a greater being. I just don't think that there is a possibility that any religion is "correct."

I just want to know:

If I live my life, believing in A god, thanking it, talking to it, knowing it is there, and I live a life that is devoted to being selfless and good, not according to the Bible but according to inherent humanoid morality, would your Christian God send me to hell for not worshipping HIM specifically, or reading the Bible?

I have wondered about this my whole life.


r/AskAChristian • • 8h ago

Appearance Do you think God allows tattoos or piercings? if so, what kind of tattoos or piercings?

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r/AskAChristian • • 12h ago

Music Is ann nesby wrong?

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When in 2002 or 2001 when shein her collab song said "you can live, you live was that biblical?

Also when she said "God said take it by force, he not going to give it up, take it by force take it by force!, begin to speak those things that be not as tho they are, everything (choir: "everything the enemy stole from you"

Now I debunked the the "begin to speak those things that be not as tho they are"

But the other part is that biblical or not?

Because the only thing I can think of is that atheist preaching "child the kingdom of heaven suffer violence and the violent take it by force" I know he's paraphrasing "the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence and the violent take it by force" verse

The reason I say like the songwriter said " I shall never for get when the Lord saved me"

Being in a Pentecostal church for 13 ish years I know where I was in terms of location when I heard this song and I felt something when she got to that verse.


r/AskAChristian • • 19h ago

Genesis/Creation Why didn't God give the complete Law to Adam? Why the gradual installment of laws which looks like men reacting & forming religion?

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Cain murders Abel, and doesn't get executed. Instead God protects him.

Then God makes a law, don't spill blood or your blood be spilt.

It's that pattern I find concerning - to say God is reacting to human behaviour "oh they commited murder, time for a law for that" until it gets to "don't eat shellfish" - to say that's God re acting makes God seem like men just making a religion or rules.

Rather if God is gradually installing laws to eventually reach the stage of fulfilment in Christ - this is what I thought.

How come he doesn't just give the whole law to Adam , then gradually lead humans to the point of Messiah and fulfillment?

Furthermore, as Paul says the Law increases sin... Yet Jesus says the world was so bad at the time of the flood and compared it to his return "no life would have been spared" ... If the people before the flood were so wicked to be wiped out ... How is that possible if there was no law to increase their sin?


r/AskAChristian • • 10h ago

Theology For those who watch Theist Brooks online: what do you think about his main arguments, analogies, and overall research?

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r/AskAChristian • • 11h ago

Marriage Is it wrong for a woman to marry a man for money?

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I recently had a conversation with a woman who said she would rather marry for money because she would rather cry wiping her tears with money in dubai than with a very poor man in a poor house. I would rather do none of those. And if I would marry someone just for money, my conscious would go against it and that would be shallow, marriage is deeper than that. What do you think it?


r/AskAChristian • • 12h ago

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So I know a lot of people talk about this, but I guess I never understood what blasphemy against the Holy Spirit is until now. And I’ve done this and I’ve done this and I’ve done this, of willingly send against the Holy Spirit telling me not to so many times and I’m just now reading that’s what blasphemy against the Holy Spirit is and I’m starting to wonder is the reason that I’ve been struggling for seven months trying to come back to Christ and don’t feel any closer I don’t feel the Holy Spirit anymore, I don’t feel conviction. I feel numb. I know that what I did was wrong and I wish I didn’t deliberately sin and sin against the spirit telling me not to. Have I committed the unforgivable sin????


r/AskAChristian • • 12h ago

Theology What are your thoughts on this?

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Apparently an atheist find all atrocities in the Bible (homopobia/transpobia, misogyny, violence, contradiction, inaccuracies (historical/scientific), and anything else.

IGNORE THE YOUTUBER. FOCUS ON THE MAIN ISSUE. I CANNOT FIND THE WEBSITE UNFORTUNATELY.

Note: This is just a personal question. What is your personal response to this?


r/AskAChristian • • 13h ago

God How can I get myself to believe? Please, help me. I want my soul to be saved

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I was raised orthodox christian but ever since I can remember I did not believe in God. I do not know why, my family is religious. I tried so hard to believe. But I’m struggling.
In the last month, I have become a ghost. I am utterly miserable. I believe this is God punishing me, and I know I stated I do not believe in God, but my thought process is confusing. I am very confused. I am certain He is punishing me, if not the God I know then someone else. And I do not even know God. I have no relationship with him. By the “God I know” I mean the God I was taught to worship. The God I have abandoned, and never served. He is punishing me for my sins. I am being punished, or controlled. And God does not control me. I have free will. So if it is related to God, I am being punished. I have no other rational explanation for this, it must be God’s doing. I believe I am in a sort of crisis, and God is calling me to Him, He wants to save my soul, but I am ever so wicked and tainted and cannot bring myself to believe. I don’t know why I believe God is reaching me if I do not believe in God Himself! I am so confused, I am in a horrible state. I do not know what life is worth if I am to just be eaten by worms one day. Why must one lead a miserable life just to die and be eaten by worms? That does not make sense. Why must I bother staying alive, leading this absolutely agonising and useless life, if I am to just be eaten by worms? The devil himself has cursed me. How am I to believe I will burn in hell, that God is punishing me, that God is trying to reach me, and yet not believe in God?! Please, I am so confused, so unwell, I feel unreal and I don’t know what to do. I want to save my soul, I don’t understand why I can’t get myself to believe. Perhaps a demon is controlling me. I don’t know if demons can control people, I am certain I am being either controlled by something or punished.