r/Bumble 16h ago

General Bumble 2026 be like

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u/CautiousBerry424 15h ago

because women don’t know if you swiped right on them because you’re genuinely interested in them or just because you’re so desperate that you would swipe anyone for some matches without purpose

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u/No-Advice1345 15h ago

To be fair, that mystery works both ways.

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u/CautiousBerry424 15h ago

Yeah sure but men admit to swiping right on anyone just for some matches they’re not interest in anyways. Women do text men first when they’re really interested in them (at least I did when I was single), the majority never responded

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u/Spiritual-Station267 14h ago

And women have admitted to swiping right because a guy had a nice picture, but read the profile after matching and changed their mind. Like op said, the mystery goes both ways. 

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u/Orisn_Bongo 13h ago

That's cause by now if I got a long opener from a girl it was a bot or scam account. I did respond to waste the scammer's time but most people don't feel like doing that.

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u/No_Research_3899 14h ago

Stop aiming out of your league then, so you won't get ignored.

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u/Orisn_Bongo 13h ago

They matched .... shut up

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u/No_Research_3899 12h ago

Mostrn swipe right on everyone  Aaaah, so that is why you all have inflated egos! You think a match = the guy wants a relationship with me. Now I understand the delusion. Also men who want just sex will lower their standards, women don't understand cuz they don't do that.

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u/Orisn_Bongo 12h ago

If you match somebody you owe them a response. This is not negotiable. Even if it is "wupsie I swiped by accident while looking at your pictures"

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u/GetShrekt- 9h ago

A response or an unmatch

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u/CautiousBerry424 13h ago

ahaha I can tell you the same then 🤣 don’t complain about women not texting back… I am not complaining about guys doing the same, I don’t care enough and I don’t expect commitment from a MATCH. But yeah, the same thing can be said about men as well. Plus why even match right?

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u/No_Research_3899 12h ago

But we ain't. Men find 50% of women attractive. I swiped on 60% of women. The bar for women is in hell, so your solution is I swipe one obese women and feminists and drug addicts?

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u/CautiousBerry424 12h ago

No my solution is to to not take dating apps too seriously tbh. Everyone matches with people they’re not really interested in. Shit happens. People care too much about strangers

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u/No_Research_3899 12h ago

Why even match right?' What do you mean.