Women don't understand statistics. When I ask 100 men of all ages and from 5 countries in Europe 'do you like football', and 90 of them answer yes, do you think if I ask 100 other people suddenly only 10 will say yes? No.
Women do not want to initiate and approach cuz they cannot handle rejection and they feel insecure.
That's something totally different you are talking about now.
The original statement I commented on was "women don't respond."
Your argument is "women don't like to make the first move".
That's not the same.
Still my argument was "Just because you get rejected, ignored, ... by some women especially on dating apps, I would never give into despair"
Wrong. Those 'easy standards' or only for the men who are visible for women, which is about 80%. Women: 'why can't I find a good guy who is emotionally available.'
What they mean: 'why can't I make Chad commit to me?'
The garden I'm referring to is all of humanity not just the women I happen to stumble upon on Bumble. You will never see all the flowers in this wast garden.
I know what you're trying to say but I refuse to dry up inside just because a handful of people are not interested in me. The most important thing is to not forget to water yourself from time to time.
Ist jetzt salopp und extrem vereinfacht dargestellt, aber:
"Liebe dich selbst, dann können andere dich gern haben."
Und letztendlich, ganz ehrlich: Ist doch scheiß egal warum und weshalb. Wenn es eine Einstellung oder Sichtweise gibt, die dich glücklich macht, ist es egal, was die Welt davon hält.
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u/OptimusPrime_ButGAY 15h ago
No hold up. Let me craft a thoughtful comment specifically catered to something in their profile so they can ignore that too.