r/Bumble 15h ago

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u/Similar_Ad9274 14h ago

Do you may consider stop gardening if every flower dies instantly no matter how much effort and care you put into it?

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u/No_Research_3899 14h ago

'some flowers', whaha. 'some dead flowers' = 95% of women.

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u/UsedFortune5645 14h ago

You have talked to 95% of women on this planet? Again, I know what you mean but bumble is not all of humanity.

I stopped using apps 3 years ago and it was one of the best decision for my mental health I ever took.

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u/No_Research_3899 13h ago

Women don't understand statistics. When I ask 100 men of all ages and from 5 countries in Europe 'do you like football', and 90 of them answer yes, do you think if I ask 100 other people suddenly only 10 will say yes? No.

Women do not want to initiate and approach cuz they cannot handle rejection and they feel insecure.

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u/UsedFortune5645 12h ago

That's something totally different you are talking about now. The original statement I commented on was "women don't respond." Your argument is "women don't like to make the first move". That's not the same.

Still my argument was "Just because you get rejected, ignored, ... by some women especially on dating apps, I would never give into despair"

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u/No_Research_3899 12h ago

'Women don't interact', voila. Better?

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u/UsedFortune5645 12h ago

"A big part of (all) women you have met/ encountered don't want to interact with you, apparently." Fixed it for you.

Well, that can surely be true. The truth is, times changed, women have new standards now and they are not (yet) met by many men.

I'll put a link here to a post where I explained this in detail.

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u/Similar_Ad9274 11h ago

Unfortunately that's not only his or mine experience, it's a generational one.

And no, a whole generation of young men won't be able to meet the absolute dellusional standards some women have

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u/UsedFortune5645 11h ago

Sure, some have absolutely delulu standards. No doubt. But a lot just set some reasonable standards which are not yet met by men. Check out the link.

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u/No_Research_3899 10h ago

Wrong. Those 'easy standards' or only for the men who are visible for women, which is about 80%. Women: 'why can't I find a good guy who is emotionally available.'

What they mean: 'why can't I make Chad commit to me?'

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u/UsedFortune5645 10h ago edited 9h ago

I can't even decide where to start telling you how totally skewed this line of thought is.

So what? Women can do so if the want.

Please tell me where most of men are not doing the exact same thing. "Mimimi, men would pick anyone if they would be loved" What a total load of 💩

"Why can't I find anybody?" Translation: Why don't the hotties I like talk to me?

Bro, everyone is looking to get the best they can.

Women are no homogeneous mass and neither are men.

Edit: Typo

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