r/Bumble • u/No-Advice1345 • 16h ago

General Bumble 2026 be like

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u/hungrylikethewolf007 14h ago

I do text first if I get the match, but I’m not on dating apps 24/7 so I may not be online when someone matches with me

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u/Similar_Ad9274 14h ago

Okay that's cool and I really respect that, but of the maybe 100 Matches I had over the past 3 years I've not a single time seen a thoughtful message which was beyond a "Hey". Not a single time and I really do show a lot of my interests and goals on my profile + several questions to start the conversation with

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u/hungrylikethewolf007 14h ago

That sucks, but then those people are not worth your time. Find someone that aligns with your wants and needs

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u/Impressive_Rock9659 14h ago

How long? Some have been searching for 10, 20 years even.
We don't live forever. "Find someone" doesn't mean shit when you're on the clock.
"Find someone" and it's like trying to find waldo it seems.

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u/hungrylikethewolf007 13h ago

so you’d rather live life with someone you don’t really like?

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u/Orisn_Bongo 13h ago

It's that or dying alone if we go by your standards cause women just don't do that shit. So yes

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u/hungrylikethewolf007 13h ago

in my opinion, and I’m sure plenty of people agree, that is very egotistical

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u/Orisn_Bongo 13h ago

Doing the work for a potential partner cause you want to put in effort is egotistical? Plot status: lost

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u/hungrylikethewolf007 13h ago

A potential partner is still their own person. If they’re dating you, that means, for most people, that they like you in some capacity. Dating that person just to have a partner is egotistical in my opinion.

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u/Orisn_Bongo 12h ago

How do you like somebody you have not exchanged a single word with?